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Steve Lee
August 25, 2024
I found my old diary in the attic and read a passage about attending a computer camp as a youth in the 80´s. I believe it was a week or two long at Marist College. My roommate was a wonderful kid named Paul Metzerhazy. I wrote, "I consider Paul to be my best friend." This after two weeks as roommates. I remember incredible drawings he did of fantasy characters from Dungeons & Dragons. I believe he drew one for me. We had a joyful friendship for that short time at camp. He was a light. So now in 2024, I searched his name and unfortunately found this page. But from all the comments here, I know I found the right person. Rest in peace Paul.
Steve Lee
Mark Thompson
September 1, 2015
I would like to express my sincere condolences. I knew Paul briefly at the University of Virginia, as I was a year ahead of him in the Foreign Affairs major. We had a few classes together as undergrads. And then a few years later, our paths crossed again in Washington DC, around the time he was in law school at Catholic U. around 1998-1999, when I had returned to the DC area after graduating from Duke Law. Paul was a good guy. He was someone memorable. I am in shock that he has passed. I am sorry he is gone. I just wanted to send my sincere condolences. Mark Thompson, UVA - 1992.
kathy murphy ( KA )
December 1, 2014
I was was so saddened to read of Paul's passing. What a man ! How can he not be missed. How can your hearts not be indescribely heavy now. Please know that I am thinking of you all with much sympathy.
C H
November 28, 2014
Recent pictures of Paul from the High School Reunion can be seen here:
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Joy Toburen
November 27, 2014
I will always have fond memories. You will be missed, my dear friend. Rest in peace.
Jeny Nicholson
November 27, 2014
To the Mesterhazy family, my sincere condolences. I have many fond memories of Paul from my days in Springfield, and Lee HS (musicals, choir). My heart goes out to his loved ones.
Marilyn Roberson
November 27, 2014
I remember Paul fondly as we performed in theatre together at Robert E Lee High School. We were so proud to win the Virginia State championship for a one-act play we were in. Paul was a sweetheart and he could make me laugh so hard, he was so clever. My heart goes out to his husband, family and friends during this difficult time.
Carol
November 27, 2014
My sincerest condolences on the loss of Paul. I will always remember Paul with an amazing smile that could light up a room. He was kind, generous, witty, and full of life. We were graced with his attendance at our 25th high school reunion this year, where it was apparent that his will positive look on life and his strength and resilience continued. May Gods peace surround you all now and in the days to come.
Moya Doss
November 22, 2014
Pat, Andy and family, I am so sorry at such a huge loss, Paul was such a great guy. You are all in our thoughts and prayers at this sad time. Heaven has gained another angel.
Allan Swider
November 22, 2014
I had the pleasure to work with Paul at DHS. My condolences to his family.
Allan Swider
Fran Kohlmeier
November 22, 2014
Marty and I continue to pray for you and your entire family...,we have such fond memories of our life on Golden Aspen....our three sons looked up to your two. Paul was the happiest paper boy we ever had! We knew he would do great things, and be loved by many people! He has a special place now,....
We love you both!
Chris Essid
November 22, 2014
Paul was a great guy and good friend to many. I worked with him for 6 years at DHS and can honestly say he was one of the nicest people I have met. He was very dedicated to our programs but also to the people that make those programs happen every day.
November 21, 2014
We feel honored to have recently met Paul. Our hearts are with you, Pat and Andy, as you celebrate Paul's remarkable life. With love, Barry and Judy Thompson
Myrna-Sue Shimberg
November 21, 2014
Dear Pat and Andy,
I am so sorry to hear about Paul. I do hope you and the family find some measure of peace in shared wonderful and happy memories. You are all in my prayers.
Chris Moreno
November 21, 2014
Dear Pat and Andy,
So difficult to learn of your loss, thinking of you, Pat, and the years we spent flying together and sharing about our children. May you find peace in all these beautiful words spoken about your son.
Chris Moreno
Chris Moeno
November 21, 2014
Dear Pat and Andy,
So difficult to learn of your loss, thinking of you, Pat, and the years we spent flying together and sharing about our children. May you find peace in all these beautiful words spoken about your son.
Chris Moreno
Brit. Stephanie, William, Brinton, Matthew and Miichelle Harrison
November 21, 2014
To Jeff, the Mesterhazy family and many, many friends of Paul, Our family was blessed to live across the street as Paul and Mark grew up. When mom and dad were out of town and they had parties they would always be up early to make sure no evidence was left! Just a truly amazing family. Next we were blessed as the incredible young man bought the home he grew up in! Paul and his friends brought joy and laughter to our family. When he and Jeff moved downtown the joy left the house across the street. Paul's inner light will shine forever.
John Forbush
November 21, 2014
I worked with Paul when he first assumed the Chief of Staff position at CS&C. Paul led by example, always working hard and keeping things in perspective. On a personal level, Paul was more than a boss, he was a mentor and a friend. His advice and counsel had an enormous impact on me, as well as many others working at DHS. I am truly grateful to have known him.
I offer my deepest condolences to his family.
Michael Nichols
November 21, 2014
Dear Mesterhazy family,
You are all in my prayers during this difficult time.
Barbette Timperlake
November 21, 2014
I am so sorry to hear about Paul. I was his high school English teacher at Lee, and I remember his intelligence, his smile and his artistic ability. In fact, I have kept one of his drawings all of these years. He became friends with my daughter at UVA and she thought the world of him. He enriched my classroom and all of our lives.
Ann Kaplan
November 21, 2014
Dear Pat, Andy, Mark, Kim & children, and Jeff,
I am so sorry for your loss. We had such a pleasant lunch last year enjoying the sunshine and sound views and Paul's great smile. He fought so very hard and I know how difficult it is to say good bye. But now he is at peace and pain free.
God bless you all.
November 21, 2014
Those of us having had the privilege of teaching Paul at R.E. Lee High School will remember his light shining brightly. How tragic that it has been snuffed out so soon.
Sue Callahan, English teacher
Jim O'Donnell
November 21, 2014
"Fair Winds and Following Seas", Paul. May you rest in God's Holy Peace...Semper Fidelis
Wendy Campbell
November 20, 2014
We are so sorry for your loss. We will be thinking of you and your dear family and keeping you in our prayers . Wendy Campbell , DeDe Balut and family
John & Sharon Walsh
November 20, 2014
Dear Andy & Pat, we can't begin to tell you how sorry we are for your loss. It's just heartbreaking. You & the whole family, have our deepest sympathy. We will continue to keep you all in prayer - that God will give you the strength to get thru this trying time.
Lucy Santiago
November 20, 2014
My deepest sympathy for your loss.
Dick & Jane Pasnak
November 20, 2014
To Pat, Andy, Mark, Kimberly, Jeff,
We remember how much fun Kristen & Erik had with Mark and Paul in Spain and the dance Paul & Kristen did in the Christmas show. Although we haven't seen Paul since the time we took the boys with us to tour Washington we know he was a great kid and a great man. He was greatly loved by his family and friends and will be sorely missed by all who knew him. We are so sorry about the loss of such a wonderful son, brother, uncle and partner. Losses are always painful but reminiscing about the good times helps.Our prayers and thoughts are with you all.
Jim & Candy O'Donnell
November 20, 2014
Jim and I want to send our deepest sympathies for your loss. We continue to pray for Pat and Andy and for all of your family. May God's peace be with all of you.
Dowds
November 20, 2014
Sending our love and hugs to all of you! We are thinking of you! We love you!
Bob, Judy, Kevin, Tim, Krista and all the Kirk boys
November 20, 2014
Our hearts go out to Andy, Pat, Mark, Kim and family. For the loss of a wonderful son, Paul, we send our deepest sympathies. He will be greatly missed, and always be in our prayers. We feel sure that God needed him more than we do.
With our heartfelt love,
The Kirks
Sharon Howe
November 20, 2014
I did not know Paul but through his tributes from family and friends, it is my loss. What an outstanding individual and now he is one of God's angels. May my cousin Pat and her husband Andy know that they were the parents that they were meant to be, to raise this beloved, son, brother and husband. God has chosen one of the best before we would have chosen for him to leave. Bless all of you. Cousin Sharon
Shannon Niemeyer
November 20, 2014
Love and prayers to all of the Mesterhazys. We thought the world of Paul, as we do of all of you!
Robert Clark
November 20, 2014
To Jeff and Paul's Family,
I was lucky and fortunate to call Paul not only a colleague but a true friend. When I think of the phrase "a scholar and a gentleman" I think of Paul. We would meet for "cyber beers" and he let me (try to) be his "comic relief" during these trying times. There are no words that let me convey to you how exceptional, selfless, and genuinely caring Paul was, all I can say is I am sorry for your loss, the World is a colder place today without his smile in it.
B Powers
November 20, 2014
The man of whom I write transcended self and edified others. The man of whom I write edified others and lit up the room. The man of whom I write was extraordinarily intelligent, a gifted communicator, and above all a stalwart friend to all who knew him. The man of whom I write will be missed my many. We loved Paul as much as he loved us. The man of whom I write leaves a great legacy and the “League of Chiefs” will forever remember the great smile. I will miss the man of whom I write. We will forever remember your smile and legacy, Paul. May you now rest, dear friend.
David Willey
November 19, 2014
Through the DHS mentoring program, Paul and I were assigned as mentor/mentee. Even though it was a formal program, it was apparent that Paul took a genuine interest in my development. He was a very warm and engaging person. Paul is the kind of person who makes the workplace a worthwhile experience.
Timothy Price
November 19, 2014
To Jeff and Paul's family and friends-
Paul was a truly remarkable man. I had the pleasure of knowing him as both a patient and friend for over ten years. He was always a gentleman with a kind word for everyone. It is an honor that he trusted me with his medical care. He was truly a "fighter" and always had an attitude about his illness that was remarkable in every way. He will be missed. My condolences to all.
Timothy Price
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