Paul Alfred Yllana

1976 - 2013

Paul Alfred Yllana obituary, 1976-2013, San Jose, CA

Paul Alfred Yllana

1976 - 2013

Paul Yllana Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Mar. 31, 2013.
In lieu of flowers, please feel free to make a contribution to Paul's son, Isaac's education fund.
One of Paul's greatest concerns was for Isaac's college education. Thank you for helping us fulfill this important wish.
Please send checks payable to "Isaac Yllana" and note in the memo "Custodial Account".

Address the envelope as follows:

Isaac Yllana
c/o Freddie Yllana
P.O. Box 3022
Santa Clara, Ca 95055



In the presence of loved ones, Paul's final words were, "I love you." On Tuesday, March 26, 2013, Paul was welcomed into the arms of God on a beautiful spring morning during Holy Week with his loved ones by his side. Paul was a wonderful man and will be greatly missed.
His family and close friends affectionately know Paul as "Paulie," his students know him as, "Mr. Yllana," and many in his professional circle simply call him, "Yllana."
Paul was born in the Philippines. He had a strong personality, even at a young age. As a child, his family nicknamed him "Buboy." His sister Freeda was born when he was almost four years old. Paul moved to the United States when he was five years old, and moved to San Jose, California. Paul was an obedient, responsible, and well-loved son, who cared for his Mom and Dad deeply his whole life. He was a caring, guiding, protective, and fun-loving brother to his little sister, whom he continued to remain close with as an adult. He was always at heart, a loving spirit who loved to have fun. As a boy, he loved Transformers, Star Wars, WWF Wrestling, airplanes, and video games.
Paul graduated from Leland High School in 1994. He played tennis and football; his position in football was offensive guard, among others. His football career culminated in a climactic win, crowning his team as the winner of the Central Coast Section ("CCS") championship game, along with an athletic dream team that included the late great Pat Tillman and one of his lifelong best friends, Rudy Perez. After high school, Paul attended San Jose State University. At SJSU, Paul earned his Bachelor's Degree in Humanities in 1999, his teaching credential, and his Master's Degree in Education in 2006.
Paul began his career as an educator at his alma mater, Leland High School, first as a student teacher, and then as an English Teacher in 2000. He also began his career as an Administrator at Leland in 2004, when he became a Vice Principal. He moved on to Gunderson High School in 2007, where he remained the rest of his career. He was well known on both campuses for his big smile, pranks, and ability to encourage students by identifying their positive traits, strengths, and potential. He maintained close relationships with many of his students long after graduation. Countless youth he guided have gone on to make positive daily impacts on the lives of others.
Paul loved football, and Paul especially loved his 49ers. Paul was everyone's "go to guy" for advice and assistance with electronics. He loved technology and Apple products. He loved cars and driving them. He loved digital cameras and photography. He loved food, and he loved taking photographs of food. He loved the humanities as well – a lover of fine art and literature. He loved music of all kinds: Pop, Country, The Beatles, Guns N Roses, Metallica, to Musicals, Opera, and Glee. He loved to travel with family and friends. He loved road trips to Los Angeles, Las Vegas, and Lake Tahoe. He travelled to many places during his life in the United States, the Philippines, Canada, Europe, and Mexico.
After graduating from high school, Paul began training at West Coast Fong Martial Arts. He earned the rank of Second Degree Black Belt, and the title of Bu Sah Bu Nim Paul (meaning Assistant Head Instructor). The lessons he learned and the friendships he developed through the martial arts lasted throughout his lifetime. His brothers in the martial arts, including Anatole Roussere and Dorian "D.C." Lugo, were his best friends throughout the years and later became members of his family. Anatole became a Godfather to Isaac, and Paul became a Godfather to Anatole's daughter Victoria. D.C. married Paul's sister Freeda and officially became his brother. After many years of training in the martial arts, Paul raced in triathlons and became an avid cycler.
Paul was a dependable friend to so many. He was comforting to talk to and the type of friend who provided you with either insightful guidance or his sense of humor (or most likely, both) to get you through anything. He had a caring spirit, loved jokes and silliness, and was truly like no other.
In 2007, he met a wonderful woman named Joy Miguel, and they were a match made in heaven. In Joy, he had an energetic, vivacious, fun, strong, and even-tempered partner, who, true to her name, brought out the best in him and gave him the happiest years of his life. Surrounded by family and friends from all over the world, they were married on December 19, 2009. Together, they created a perfect pair, and together, they created a family, and brought us Paul's greatest gift to us left here on Earth, Isaac.
On August 16, 2011, Isaac Raymond Yllana was born. Paul's greatest joy was being a husband to Joy and father to Isaac, who he nicknamed "Zac." Paul was a loving, doting, and firm father. Just like Paul called his own father, Isaac calls Paul "Dada."
Paul was diagnosed with Stage IV stomach cancer in December 2011 – the cancer had already spread to other parts of his body. He immediately began grueling rounds of chemotherapy. He fought each day with the strength, positive attitude and radiant smile he is so well known for. What should be remembered about Paul's battle is how he remained a courageous warrior the entire time. His unwavering faith in love, family, and God will inspire many for generations. He prayed, he spent time with loved ones, he celebrated birthdays, most importantly, his son Isaac's first birthday, and he built PCs. He travelled to Lego Land, Disneyland, and Chicago with his beautiful family.
He also taught his students what truly mattered in life. Last June, he spoke at graduation to the Class of 2012 at Gunderson. He told the students to be good people in their schools, professions and communities – to make a difference in the lives of others just by sharing their spirit.
He was a fighter and a warrior in every way. To his family and everyone he met, he continued to be a hero who defied odds, amazing all with his smile, brawn, tenacity, and unbreakable bond with his family.
Paul Alfred Dominic Yllana was born in Manila, Philippines on January 16, 1976. Paul is survived by his beautiful wife Joy Miguel Yllana, his nineteen-month old son Isaac, his Father, Freddie Yllana, his mother Nanette Imperial Wood, and his sister, Freeda Yllana Lugo. Paul valued love and family above all else and in turn is loved and remembered by many who received his guidance, experienced his sense of humor, smile, and laugh, and felt his strength.

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January 23, 2014

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July 24, 2013

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June 13, 2013

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Tom Norton

January 23, 2014

Paul, almost one year after your passing you are still missed dearly. I remember the good times working with you and the Parent Club at Leland High School. Ever present was your smile, great attitude and positive and can-do attitude. Your energy and desire to give back to the current student population was a great inspiration to all. Bless you and your family.

Raman Mahardja

July 24, 2013

" Paul's Simply A Great Person." He Was My Best Friends @ Leland High School Football Team. I Still Remember The CCS Championship @ San Jose Spartan Stadium, We Won Division 1 North Califonia Title, We're Jumping Around So Happy.. Paul's Also Helped Me Alot Inside The Locker Rooms, Learning How To Speak English .. Thank's Brother Paul For All The Good Times! I Will Always Remember U Such A Awesome Person Indeed! From: Raman Mahardja & Family (Jakarta, Indonesia)

June 13, 2013

I am saddended to hear of Paul's passing. I met him at West Coast when I did my first ITC at 40 years of age. Paul literally pulled me by my belt up a hill in Vasona park. He made me feel so welcomed at the studio. Paul always seemed to know the value of family and friends. He is a wonderful spirit.
Maryanne Avila Jones, Aptos CA

Bernadette Gerace

April 30, 2013

I still remember my first time meeting Paul. At least it was the first time that I met him as an adult, here in the States. It was my wedding (umm...) in Dallas in June of 1998. I had heard about my crazy fun family in California, and I was so excited to meet all of my cousins. Paul shows up in a brightly colored suit...purple, I think. With a matching hat. And a smile that dazzled everyone around. His love for life was something that was unmistakeable. In later years, I loved going to family weddings just to enjoy spending time with my cousins. Paul was always the life of the party! Jenn's wedding, Jaja's wedding, Chino's...each one was more fun than the last. Paul's smiles and laughter will never be forgotten. But his smile has never been as bright as when he married his love, Joy, and they had their sweet baby boy, Isaac.
Thank you, Paul, for the spirit with which you lived your life, the grace you displayed in your fight, and the light that will always be a part of all of our lives because you were in it. We love you!
Bernie, Raff and Troy

The Mamuad and Monzon Family

April 30, 2013

May you Rest in Paradise Paul. We will always remember you as a man who lived his life with integrity, honor and above all love. We miss and love you and your family very much!

Aileen Breslow

April 30, 2013

I remember the first time I met Paul. Joy looked so happy and proud to be introducing him to everyone. And Paul had a bright happy smile. I'll remember him as being so very positive and optimistic. Another fond memory of Paul I have is at my baby shower he proudly showed off pictures on his phone of his newborn nephew Phoenix. I immediately knew that if he was as proud and happy to be an uncle as he was he would be an even better father. And I was proven right when I visited him and Joy in the hospital the day Isaac was born.

Rest in Peace Paul.

-Aileen, Jamie, Caleb & Lucas Breslow

Paul circa Sept 2011

Ken & Spice Krozel

April 29, 2013

You would be proud Paul...this is my 3rd attempt at leaving an entry that will pass the censors. :-)

I will always remember you as such a kidder, always smiling as if you had just made a "funny"...that lighthearted spirit is what I keep in my heart.

Ken and I love you, Joy and Isaac very much. We will always have our special "twin/triplet" bond.

Love, Spikers and Keng

Good Times! Sea World, July 5, 2012

Karen Neuendorff

April 29, 2013

I remember being so happy when my dear friend Joy first mentioned that she was dating Paul and very excited when they got engaged. He was Joy's soul mate, and I could see the love and commitment he had for her as they exchanged marriage vows. He absolutely adored his son, Isaac, his pride and joy.

Paul, I'm grateful for the privilege of getting to know you through Joy. You were a man of integrity who influenced many in your personal and professional life. We will miss you!

Joy and Isaac, our family continues to pray for your peace and comfort. Our hearts are broken for your loss.

We celebrate your life, Paul!

Love,

The Neuendorff Family (Karen, Mike, Stephanie, and Adam)

Isaac's Baptism, February 2012

April 25, 2013

Dear Paul,
Your radiant, warm smile is what I will always remember about you. It's the first thing I noticed when I met you and you were always smiling whenever I saw you. It's like second nature for you because no matter the ups and downs in the world, you always saw the good. Your smile and your love is what brightened my cousin Joy's life every day since the day you two met and it definitely transpired into Isaac. We know you're smiling in heaven now because you are at peace. And we know your angelic spirit and love will watch over Joy and Isaac every day. We miss you and love you very much!
~ The Wan Family ~
Tony, Annabel, Allyson, Amelia

Hunter Elkins

April 24, 2013

Paul Yllana was bigger than life...
I could tell the day we met at Grandmaster Fong's Tae Kwon Do school for his first class. Paul was an intimidating figure with a winning smile. His years as a standout football player were obvious in his personality and drive.

As the training intensified, so did Paul. He was a great example to everyone and a lot of fun to train with (unless we were sparring).

After several years of dedication, the time came for Paul to test for his black belt.He was my first student to reach this coveted rank and there has never been a better example set.

In those days, we tested all day and then slept on the training floor where we had sweat all day. Exhaustion made the smell less noticeable as we collapsed in to sleep.The instructors would wake the students around 4:30 AM like drill sergeants and lead them out to the hills for a pre-dawn workout and run.

I remember one cycle we ran through Vasona park to the dam trail in Los Gatos. It was pitch black out and I had a small key ring with a little red light that I held over my head for the candidates to follow. Paul literally went night blind and could not see at all. He kept pace and would occasionally reach out to touch one of the other runners to make sure he was on the path. There was no stopping Paul.

In every cycle, as the run concluded, we would reach a point high on a hill overlooking the valley in the darkness. Grandmaster Fong would have us stand side by side, with our lungs heaving , thighs burning and muscles sore, to watch the sun rise. It was heaven; we could finally rest our weary bodies next to the ones we loved and see the glory that God had provided laid out before us in the warmth of the new sun. Here we could celebrate the accomplishments of the day before.

Paul went on to earn an instructor title and lead his own students to the heights of martial arts excellence as a coach, mentor and friend. He loved teaching and working with kids, so I knew he would be a fine school teacher and an excellent dad to Isaac.

I feel blessed to have been among the several dozen friends and family members to be at Paul's side on his last day. We shared stories of Paulie's exploits and inspirations, held his hand, prayed with him and let him know how very special he was to all of us.

I left the hospital at 11:00 that night and asked Master Roussere to call me if there was any change. I woke up early Tuesday morning and had a bad feeling in my heart as I lay in bed praying for Paul. When I checked my phone, I saw the text from Anatole relaying the sad news that Paul had passed just after 7 AM.

I had to check the internet to be sure, and found that sunrise that day was at 7:01 AM. As always, Paul had made it through the darkness,overcoming all
obstacles and had reached the mountaintop with those he loved most to see the sunrise one more time. Now he could rest.

christian yllana

April 20, 2013

May you rest in peace kuya paul. Wish we spent more time when you were here in the philippines. I miss you cousin!

The Buada Family~

April 20, 2013

May you rest in peace Paul. You will be forever in our hearts. We miss you and we love you....

luke liss

April 19, 2013

My lasting impression of Paul is that he is one of those rare people that has a truly positive attitude, a very genuine and soulful person. Always upbeat, always had a smile and ready to engage in friendly banter. A great contributor to a great family. Very grateful I had a chance to know him, even if just a bit.

Jenn Schachner

April 19, 2013

My dear friend Paulie.
Man, you hated me to call you that and I would tease you with it to no end. You were such a great friend, training partner and confidant. You helped me through so many hard times physically, emotionally and mentally.i will miss your smile, but not those side kicks. Heaven has a new face and we will see you again someday. Your sons smile radiates your spirit, love and energy. He is a joy to see and you will live on in that young man. May peace be with the ones you left here on earth. You will be missed and I am blessed to have been able to spend time with you throughout the years.

April 18, 2013

April 18, 2013
Dearest Nonoy,
Thank you for all the beautiful years with you taking care of me.
Thank you for all your love and patience.
Rest well, my son.
I will never stop loving you.
Meet me at the gate when my time comes.
I will be wearing the same white dress I wore for you today.
Love, Mama

Almira (Sugar) Yllana Gondek

April 18, 2013

On Tuesday, March 26, 2013 - Paul Alfred Yllana - my cousin, my friend, my confidant, my teacher in so many ways, passed away of Stage 4 Stomach cancer. He taught me to be strong in the face of adversity with grace and kindness, among many other things. His strength, character, morals and beliefs made him a “magnet for quality”. He molded many young minds as a teacher and a vice principal in a way that disciplined, yet made them love him even more – such was this man's amazing qualities. He was a wonderful husband and father and taught by example, not just words. He fought the good fight and now he continues to fight/protect us, but in a different way.

Florencio Yllana

April 18, 2013

On several drives back from S.J. to SF , Paul and I would often talk about martial arts training and the nature of battle. In one episode we spoke of his friend that was lost in war. I told him why should we even have hope if all the evil in the world is free to commit havoc without warning. With a shrug of his shoulders he said, "Good will always defeat evil, always." At this moment I remembered him in a He-Man costume when we were small, the first time I arrived in the US. He will always be a towering hero,a cousin I felt proud to stand next to and proud to call family. Paul, it has been some days since your passing, and I miss you dearly. I would like to thank you again. Thank you for the childhood hours, thank you for the first snowball to the face, for our moments of training, celebration, feasting, laughter, and your courage and your example to many. I'm so happy we got to see each other again before your voyage. I'm so happy to have been there on your Happiest day of marriage, where you literally found Joy. and happy that your lineage continues with your son. I love you so much cousin, meet me in dreams where we can still train in the realms of light. -Florencio IV. (Adi)

Trevor Woo

April 18, 2013

R.I.P. Paul Yllana, from the times when I was little and my fear of sparring you in TKD class to times when I was taller than you and still seriously feared sparring you in class, especially when they put on Van Halen in the background. For the times we would be coming back from late from ITC or movie nights and you forced me to sit in the back seat of your Porsche with the windows down in the middle of the winter because your heater was broken and always on. I still remember that day in class when you made me sit on your back as you did push ups, always have and still look up to you. You are loved and will be missed so very much, miss you bro.

Yvette Quintanar

April 18, 2013

One of my favorite memories of Paul is simple and super random. My husband and I took a trip west specifically to meet our nephew Phoenix and Paul's wife Joy for the first time. Phoenix was very young, probably Isaac's age now, and he was playing with a toy laser gun that was really loud and startling. We were about to get in the car to head to San Fransisco for the afternoon and Paul yelled at Phoenix, "Oh no you are not bringing that in the car!" in booming principal voice. Phoenix froze for a few seconds, face collapsed then burst into tears. I laughed. Paul was a lovable yet authoritative figure.

Sandy Lam

April 10, 2013

Isaac,

Here's a picture of your beautiful and loving family on your first birthday.

Marcus Flemming

April 8, 2013

Paul, I admired you for the smile you always seemed to have on your face regardless of the situation. You were one of my favorite guys to hang out with during our years together playing football. I was often amazed by your tenacity to achieve your goals, for instance, when I witnessed you constantly busting your butt running sprints back and forth out front of your home down the street from mine like EVERY DAY. I'll never forget that.

Paul your smile and kind spirit will carry on forever in our hearts. From Gina

Gina Youssefpour

April 6, 2013

Paul we are deeply saddened by your passing, ever since I first met you our Freshman year at Leland you were always smiling and very kind to others. You never lost those wonderful qualities. As we grew older I learned of your fight with Cancer and felt I needed to do something. As small as it was I knew how much your enjoyed sports and wrestling that maybe for a moment you could enjoy a special treat! I wish though I could have helped more, I promise you my friend I will continue to Fight for a cure in your honor! I also promise to check on Joy and your Son to make sure they know we are always here to help support in anyway we can! Our prayers are with you and your family! Your memory will always be dear to us all. May you rest in peace. With plenty of faith and many prayers love Gina.

Lynn Berti

April 5, 2013

Paul you had such a wonderful smile. I will never forget that smile. I loved when you would come in my office and want to gossip. You made working here at Leland such a joy. May God protect and keep you now and always. "May you enjoy heaven as much as we enjoyed having you here on earth."

Peace and many blessings to your family

Zach Karabatsos

April 5, 2013

Yllana was one of 2 teachers that ever made English Class enjoyable and was an amazing football coach. My deepest sympathy to his family and loved ones. Yllana, you will be missed greatly.

Nathan and Frances Leon

April 4, 2013

Paul, you were an inspiration and help to our daughter, Bridgett. We are praying for your family and know your son will grow up to be a wonderful man like you.

Mercy Perez

April 4, 2013

Mercy Perez

April 4, 2013

Mercy Perez

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Linda Brown

April 4, 2013

I am a friend of Paul's sister, Freeda. Although his journey here is at an end, he will continue on in the many lives and hearts he has touched. My deepest sympathies to all who loved Paul.

Maribel Florentes

April 4, 2013

I will always remember your great big smile and that belly laugh of yours. Our families have always been close and I only wish we saw each other as often in adulthood as we did as children. You left a wonderful legacy that will be cared for. I will always picture you fit, strong and laughing out loud. You will be missed dearly and have taught us all to live and love each and everyday. Rest in peace Paul...with no more pain...you fought such a brave battle and are an inspiration to all.

Malu "aka" Aje Biscocho on FB Yllana

April 4, 2013

I will miss him. We met on FB and told me we are cousins... He's a very strong person and always happy. May you rest in peace... You will be missed.

Murillo Family

April 4, 2013

May you rest in peace…<3

Murillo Family

April 4, 2013

Paul.... May you rest in peace my friend.

Alex Elkins

April 4, 2013

Paul excelled at many things, but to me, he always excelled as a mentor and inspiration. Whether he was coaching, teaching, or training, he inspired countless individuals to push harder than they thought possible. He helped many achieve their goals, and continues to inspire even in passing. He will be remembered and forever missed. Thank you for everything Paul.

John Cheung

April 3, 2013

Rest in Peace Paul !

Me and my best friend!

Patti Young

April 2, 2013

He was my friend, my adviser, my protector and my playmate. My heart is sad for what I am missing, my spirit is full of his love and memories. I will continue to make you proud of me. I will always love your wife and son as if they were my own family. Forever you will be missed!

Grace Yllana

April 2, 2013

Paul died as he lived, gracefully. It is said that we are remembered not for our litany of accomplishments but for how we made people feel. Paul made everyone around him feel loved and accepted. This multitude who felt loved by him now gather to celebrate his life and return his love.
Love,
Tito Ching and Tita Grace Yllana

Ann Santos

April 2, 2013

Although their time together was brief, God could not have picked a better husband for my dear friend Joy or a better father for little Isaac than Paul Yllana. I don't think I ever saw him without that huge smile on his face. Paul was such a sweet, good, caring and giving person. His warm spirit will be sorely missed by all.

April 2, 2013

I had the honor of having Mr.Yllana as a high school admin and grade level adviser for the class of 2012. Mr.Yllana was always a guy full of joy. There was never a time I saw him without a huge smile on his face. He was passionate about his students at Gunderson High School and he wasn't afraid to show it. Whenever he was hard on someone it was because he knew we were capable of so much more than what we would show. He encouraged and supported many students in their dreams and goals. He will forever be a grizzly! He will be greatly missed and forever in our hearts. Rest in Paradise Mr.Paul Yllana<3

April 1, 2013

Paul was an outstanding young man who I had the priviledge to coach at Leland HS. He was a giver who loss will be felt. My best goes to his family for their time of grief. God Bless.
Terry Hardtke

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