Peter Joseph Abbadessa

1972 - 2022

Peter Joseph Abbadessa obituary, 1972-2022, Scarborough, ME

Peter Joseph Abbadessa

1972 - 2022

BORN

1972

DIED

2022

Peter Abbadessa Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Oct. 31, 2022.
Peter was born in Portland, Maine on November 11, 1972 to Joseph H. and Katherine F. Abbadessa. He grew up and attended  schools in Cape Elizabeth, where he graduated in 1991.  He also attended Riverview School in East Sandwich, Mass.
 
For many of his adult years Peter was an involved member of the Amistad Community, participating in their many events and activities. Peter also loved spending time with his immediate and extended families, whether it was at gatherings, celebrations, the annual family Seadogs game or interacting with his many online dee jay colleagues. A great lover of music, especially the 80's genre, he so enjoyed his time on air. An avid cribbage player, Peter loved any opportunity to play a game and was all the more enthralled if he could roust up participants to have a game of Monopoly. Also, a passionate Red Sox fan, Pete loved the game of baseball watching it live or playing online.
 
Although Peter struggled with many health challenges, he always had an upbeat, positive outlook and was a caring, invested friend to all. Peter's family would like to express their sincere thanks and gratitude to all of his medical care givers over these many years. Your dedication will be forever appreciated.
 
Peter is survived by his mother Katherine, sister Christina Schlehuber (husband Harlan), nephew Christopher Waterhouse, niece Kayla Waterhouse, many beloved aunts, uncles, cousins and friends.
 
A celebration of life will be held on Friday, November 4th at 11 am at Hobbs Funeral Home, 671 US Rt 1, Scarborough, Maine. Burial will immediately follow  at Riverside Memorial Cemetery in Cape Elizabeth.
 
In lieu of flowers, please consider donating to the charity or organization of your choice in Peter's memory.

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sonja brannen

December 12, 2022

Peter I just found out that you passed away a couple months ago I'm so sorry that I could not I have did not find out soon enough God I miss you smile you jokes I know you and hang out with you at your mom's

patty moore

November 8, 2022

pete you was an amazing person you always made me smile you had a warm heart and a heart of gold

Edward Wolfe

November 5, 2022

I went to school with Peter and I thought he was a nice guy. I will miss him very much..

Judith Doughty

November 5, 2022

Wonderful caring helpful Beautiful soul, friend I will miss our chats on messenger. I wish we had gotten that coffee together,

Kathleen Holland

November 5, 2022

Peter you were an amazing friend. You were always supportive of me and was always there when I needed someone to talk to. I’m glad you got to meet my son the Friday before you passed. You will forever be in my heart. I love and miss you dearly my friend

Eric Lacombe

November 4, 2022

So sorry to hear this news! Pete was such a great young man! I had the pleasure of knowing him throughout high school. He was very knowledgeable about a lot of things and spent many many hours in the gym playing basketball with many of us. I liked to call him 3 point Pete as he made 3 pointers and countless half court shots. Your smile and positivity will never be forgotten.

Jessica Queally

November 3, 2022

Sending love to Peter’s family
He was always so kind to everyone in high school I have not seen him in years but was grateful for the small and big kindnesses he shared

Carrie Hector

November 2, 2022

U will b missed your laugh smile ...glad I got to c u @1 of the regions....prayer for family riverview cape cod fargo northdakota...

David Townsend

November 1, 2022

I will always remember Peter, or “Abba” as we called him, for his enthusiasm and good nature as a manager for the Cape High basketball team in the early ‘90’s. Always in a good mood and always willing to lend a hand. There is a large group of players from that era saddened to hear of his passing, thinking about him, and remembering his spirit and his smile. From all of us - thank you Abba!

Cindy Dewitt

November 1, 2022

You will be miss all

Tatyana Neimanis

November 1, 2022

Peter was a great friend throughout my years at Riverview and he is going to be missed ! RIP my friend and I love you!

heather and wes smith

October 31, 2022

u will be dearly missed can't believe its true we love u
love Bugster and Chaos

Michael Norris

October 31, 2022

I knew him as DJ Mickey Mouse for many years always admired his upbeat personality him and I talked many times about his health and what was going on with me even though we never met in person he was like a brother I will miss him very much Rock out with the stars my friend Rest in Power til we meet again.

Kim Stubbs

October 31, 2022

You will be missed

patty moore

October 30, 2022

pete we will always going to miss you forever and always you are now with the beautiful angels and which you are an angel

Dana Wallen

October 30, 2022

So sorry to w about his passing may his memory be a blessing

Emma Harrison

October 30, 2022

So srry for your loss pj..was a great friend to alot of us at amstad. He always made u. Laugh. And very kind and loving ..

Maryellen Curtis

October 30, 2022

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. Peter was and is an awesome friend 1. Maryel

Misty Jaralba

October 30, 2022

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always. PJ I will always cherish the memories we had as friends I will carry you with me. Rest In Peace and love my friend. It’s not goodbye it’s until we meet again. My condolences to your family.

Lisa Ward

October 30, 2022

You will be so missed . May you rest easy Peter

Robert Mehlhorn

October 30, 2022

Sorry to see go so young

Lisa Rodriquez

October 30, 2022

Pete was extra special to me. I will never forget his smile his hugs and his laughter rest in peace my sweet friend

Mark Hodgdon

October 30, 2022

You will be missed my friend. I’m shocked, we chatted on Instagram 2 weeks ago

David & Terri Fitzpatrick

October 30, 2022

We are so sorry to hear about PJ, May God bless you and your family.

Bette-Lou Scott

October 30, 2022

I was so sorry to hear about Peter. I knew Peter as a little guy - it seems like yesterday that I was looking at a book with him. Thoughts and prayers are with Peter's mom, sister and family.

Cristen Maxwell

October 30, 2022

I’m so sorry for your loss. I knew Peter from Riverview School in East Sandwich, MA. He will be missed! My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time

Virginia Lovett

October 30, 2022

I send my deepest condolences.

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