Rachael R. Grudem

Rachael R. Grudem

Rachael Grudem Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jul. 13, 2005.
Rachael R. Grudem, nee Freeman, age 23 of St. Paul, died instantly in a
tragic auto accident 7/9/05. She loved life & constantly radiated joy & faith in her Lord Jesus Christ, & deep love for her husband of 3 months. Survived by husband: Alexander; parents: Ernest R. & Lois D. Freeman, of Wilmont, NH; grandparents: Lawrence B. & Wilma Larsen; brother: Luke Freeman; parents-in-law: Dr. Wayne A. & Margaret E. Grudem, of Scottsdale, AZ; brothers-in-law: Elliot (Kacey) & Oliver (Fiance' Sarah Worrall) Grudem; niece: Hannah; grandparents-in-law: Arden & Jean Grudem; other family & friends. Raised in Karlstad, MN. '04 Graduate of Bethel Univ. Spanish & ESL teacher at NACEL Int'l High School, St. Paul, MN. Visitation Wed., 5 - 8 PM, Albin Chapel, 6855 Rowland Rd, Eden Prairie, MN & 1 Hr. prior to the Service Thurs., 11:00 AM, Bethlehem Baptist Church, 720 - 13th Av. S., Mpls, MN. Park in Lot 13 – Corner of 6th St. & 12th Ave. Interment, Sunset Memorial Park. Memorials preferred to Streams Ministries Int'l, Wycliffe Bible Translators or the Family. Obit at albinchapel.com Albin Chapel – Eden Prairie, MN, (952) 914-9410

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July 27, 2005

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April 27, 2006

we still miss you. and love you.

Tony & Dwee Cooke

July 27, 2005

Ernie, we both remember how excited you were in February at the prospect of your beautiful daughter's wedding. You all must be crushed and heart broken and not a little confused. Our hearts go out to you all, and our prayers are with you. Reading the Guest Book it is obvious that the radiant goodness and loveliness of your daughter will continue to brighten lives she touched during her all-too-short life. On behalf of us both and the members of the Cheltenham Vineyard here in England who remember you with great affection, our deepest sympathies are with all your family and the Grudems.

Ruth and Keith Christensen

July 27, 2005

Dear Family of Rachael,

We would like to express our deep sorrow at your loss. We enjoyed having Rachael and Luke in our home on numerous occasions. Rachael exuded a zest for life! She was funny, warm, intelligent, creative, and full of joy. A genuine love for Jesus filled her heart. She was a blessing to our family in many ways. We will never forget her brilliant smile, zany humor, and radiant personality. We look forward to seeing her again in heaven. What a hope is ours in Christ; Rachael has gone from life to life!

You are in our prayers.

Much love to all of you,

Keith and Ruth Christensen

Katie Christensen

July 26, 2005

To Rachael's family and spouse,



I was just informed last night of your great loss and have not been able to stop thinking about Rachael or all of you since.



I did not know Rachael all that well, but my brother David Christensen did. I was in college when she spent time with our family, but there were a few times I would come home on the weekend and Rachael, her brother Luke and friend Ruthie would be over. Rachael was a woman who lit up a room. She was beautiful! Flawless skin, perfect smile, twinkling eyes, great laugh, and a unique style all her own. She was warm, friendly, caring, and had a relationship with God that made her shine. I think that's why Rachael stood out, because she was truly, genuinely in love with God. Her personal relationship with Jesus Christ was evident. She was a blessing to my brother and family.



My thoughts and prayers are with you each day. It gives me peace to know that Rachael is with the Lord. That she's in heaven laughing and celebrating each day.



I know God has his arms wrapped around your family. I'll continue to pray that you feel his grace, peace, love, hope, and even his joy when you feel like there is none.



With love,

Katie

Morgan Rabatine

July 26, 2005

Alex,



I am at a loss for words. The loss of a loved one is heart breaking. My brother recently died and I have found much strength through my family and friends. I want you to know that you are and always have been surrounded by many whom love you deeply. Even though I never met Rachael...I could tell that she made you incredibly happy. We are all here for you. My thoughts are with you and my heart goes out to you and Rachael's family.

Marie and (Bill) Alberti-Thomson

July 22, 2005

Dear Lois: May God's presence and your family's wonderful gift of music, carry you and your husband and your Mom and Dad and Alex's family thru this terrible tragedy.



All our love and continued prayers,

Marie Alberti-Thomson and my new husband of one year, Bill Thomson

Anna Haase

July 19, 2005

Dear Alex and everyone,

I'm so sorry for this loss. I have so many fun memories of Rachael from our freshman year at college and beyond. Please know that although I couldn't be in the Cities for you, I was and am praying daily.

Mary Gallegos

July 19, 2005

To the Freeman and Grudem families,

The loving ways, the vibrance and joy of Rachael's time on Earth is so evident in the shared words of so many. I feel the blessing of her life by the expressions of all who have written to you. I wish that I would have been able to meet her. On behalf of the Worrall family, we offer our loving thoughts and prayers to all of you.

Kathy Englund

July 18, 2005

There are no words to express our profound grief and sympathy at your great loss. I have wonderful memories of Rachael sharing her musical talent and her bubbly personality in choir and at many other informal occasions. I know your great faith and your wonderful memories will sustain you in the difficult days ahead.



Kathy

Michelle Arendt

July 18, 2005

To the family of Rachael,

We are so sorry for the tragic loss of this beautiful young lady. Although I never met her, she was the granddaughter to my Uncle Bud and Aunt Wilma whom I dearly love. My grandmother, Naomi Larsen and others have kept us updated on this tragedy. Although Rachael is gone, she walks in Heaven with the Lord and is at peace. She sounds to be such a great lady, and I can't wait to meet her when it is my time to be with the Lord as well. I continue to pray for all of the family that will truly miss this beautiful lady, Rachael. God bless you all.

Brooke Skora

July 18, 2005

Alex, sympathies to you and your family. You are in my thoughts and prayers. We're all thinking of you back in Chicago and are keeping you in our hearts.

Michael Jaffe

July 18, 2005

Ernie and Lois,



I was sad to hear of the loss of your daughter Rachael. I don't know if you remember me, but I had lunch with you on a couple of occasions when I served in the Central Section. I work with Roger Thomason on the faculty at Central Bible College. Please know that you are in our prayers. I trust that the Lord will sustain you through your loss.



In His love,



Dr. Michael & Barbara Jaffe

Doug and Bonnie Jenkins

July 18, 2005

Dear Lois and Ernie,



We just want you to know that at this time in your life you have many friends that are holding you and your family up in prayer.



Only in His strength can we face another day. Our prayer for you is that His peace that passes our understanding will be with you every moment.



Doug and Bonnie Jenkins

Wes & Miriam Reynolds

July 17, 2005

Please accept our sincere sympathies at the death of Rachael. We are friends of the Larsens here in Springfield...just cannot imagine your sorrow, but God does, & you have been in our prayers these past days.May God's peace surround you, especially at this time.

Rick A Moore

July 17, 2005

Lois, Bud & Wilma and family,



Deb and I are so sorry to read of your recent loss. Our prayers are with you during this time.



God bless you

Brian & Jessy Longly

July 17, 2005

Alex,

Our hearts are with you for your loss. We hope that you can find strength in your friends, family and faith to get you through this difficult time.

Donald West

July 16, 2005

Dear Lois and family,



I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. If there is anything I can do for you when you are back around Kearsarge, please let me know.



Don West

Clinton Myers

July 16, 2005

Dear Alex, Racheal's Family and Friends:

My heart breaks for all of you at this devistating time. I want to tell you how truly, truly sorry I am for your unimaginable loss. Rachael was such an unique, beautiful person that left a mark on all those that she encountered. Even if you only knew her a short while, as I had, your life was better for it. GOD bless all of you and may he heal your pain. I know Rachael's positive energy and eternal spirit will guide you each day. GOD BLESS and stay strong.

Thank you Rachael for being you.

Jenny Wiley

July 15, 2005

Alex, I pray for you and the Freedman family. I pray that God's peace would fill your hearts. That you would be comforted in a time that may seem very lonely. And I pray that your questions of why? may be answered by God's soverignty. My heart cries with you.

Julie Moore

July 15, 2005

To all of the families of Rachael Grudem we share in your loss. 2 Corin. 1:3-5 "Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction so that we will be able to comfort those who are in any affliction with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God. For just as the sufferings of Christ are ours in abundance, so also our comfort is abundant through Christ." We pray that her life will continue to impact many for Christ. Love, Darren and Julie Moore

Krista Smith

July 15, 2005

Ernie, Lois, Luke and Alex,



You are in our thoughts and prayers. It is amazing to look at the incredible legacy our family proudly shares and of which Rachel exemplified. To know that even though many situations on this earth do not make sense, we are guaranteed the PEACE of Christ that passes all understanding. No amount of words can ease the pain you are feeling, but do know that we love you.



Lance & Krista Smith (Thomassen)

Gabe Hillebrand

July 15, 2005

There are so many thoughts giong through my mind. Rachael lived a life of intence persuit of God. She is a model for me. In situations like this, the only thing that makes sense is the Lord's words, "I am making all things new."



Gabe Hillebrand

Kim Salewski

July 15, 2005

Luke and extended family-



I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I know it's probably pretty hard to pray for joy at this time, so I'll suggest you pray for courage. Mary Anne Radmacher once penned "Courage does not always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying 'I will begin again tomorrow'".



May you have a fierce courage that overcomes fear, lonliness, and fatigue, knowing that you can begin again tomorrow. I pray that God would renew in you a peace that allows you to walk confidently through this time. He's there for you to lean on...



Praying for you...

Georgine Lutz

July 15, 2005

My husband and I were very shocked and saddened by the news of Rachael's tragic death. I was her high school Spanish teacher and it does not surprise me to learn that she had become an excellent Spanish teacher. What a loss for the current and future students of the NACEL International High School in St. Paul, and what a loss for us all.



Georgine and Earl Lutz, Karlstad, MN.

Brian, Evie & Isaac Lorenson

July 15, 2005

In my mind, I can see Rachael. She is riding a beautiful stallion, one of God's own...barefoot...bareback...in a flowing gown, the princess bride...hair loose and flying behind her. Her head is back, her eyes are closed. As she gallops through Heaven's flower-filled meadows, she sings...at the top of her lungs, praising and worshiping her Creator, her Jesus, her Lord. And she sings, "I'll fly away, O Glory, I'll fly away..."



To Ernest, Lois, Luke, Alexander,

My prayer for you is that one day you will find peace.



"I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world."

John 16:33



Evie

Jean M

July 15, 2005

Dear Rachel,



As a regular customer of Dunn Brothers in Roseville, I was completely stunned to hear of your family's tragedy just this morning.



Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with them, and that I am so grateful to have crossed paths with you.



You have a beautiful energy and spirit - you are one of several people here last summer who made what was a difficult time a little brighter.



With Much Love & Peace to your family and friends,



Jean M. at Dunn Brothers

Frank James

July 15, 2005

Dear Grudem family:



Our hearts are broken for you, especially Alex. Please know that we are praying for the entire family. This is when your theology really counts.



Frank and Carolyn James

Michael and Elisa French

July 14, 2005

Dear Family,

We are friends with Ernie & Lois and We are truly grieved over the tragedy that has recently touched your lives. While we didn't know Rachael personally, we feel a heavy loss for all of you. Our prayers are with you all.

Marie Anderson,Dirks

July 14, 2005

to rachels parents i went to school with rachel and lois was my music teacher and i am so sorry for her untimly death im so sorry for the heartache that has been taken away from u.may the lord bless u in ur time of need.

Darryl and Kim Gregg

July 14, 2005

To Rachael's Family,

Our hearts are heavy with grief over the loss of your beautiful Rachael. May the God of all creation comfort you as only He can. We will continue to lift you all in prayer.

Love,

Darryl and Kim Gregg

Dawn Dube

July 14, 2005

Ernie, Lois, Luke & Alexander,

My sincere & heartfelt sympathy to you and your families; words cannot begin to express how sorry we are for this loss. Rachael was a beautiful woman, a jewel of God. May you find peace and comfort in the strength of God at this time, the God of all comfort, and may His love & compassion sustain you & give you strength during this difficult time and in the days to come. You are in our thoughts & prayers.

Paula,Howard, Clifton& Casey Goss

July 14, 2005

Uncle Ernest, Aunt Lois,& Family

We are very sadened by the loss to your family and ours. God has a purpose for everything in this life. Just think Rachael is now in Heaven with your mother whom she had never met. We couldn't be there for you in body, but we have certainly been there in mind, spirit and prayers. We will continue to pray for God's will in everything. May He continue to comfort you and your family. Also may He continue to comfort Rachaels husband. We love you.

Joyce and Billy Storey

July 14, 2005

To My Brother Ernest and Family and Alex I really cant say the words i feel in my heart for your loss. Rachel was so pretty and loving. My prayers are with all. love to all.

Nicole Fenton

July 14, 2005

Dear Lois and Family,

My sincerest appologies at the loss of Rachel. My thoughts are with you.

Love,

Nicole and Natalie

L. Sievers

July 14, 2005

I am deeply sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you, and you will be in my prayers.

Julie Parafinik

July 14, 2005

I am the girlfriend of one of Rachael's college friends. Although I met her only once, I've always heard so much about her. Her amiable personality really resonated with me, and I understand how so many people will be affected by her loss.

Herold & Aimee Arline Deardorff

July 14, 2005

Words can't express our sorrow to hear of Rachael's untimely death.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this very sad time. May our Lord comfort your hearts and give you strength during this very difficult time.

Randy Hope Ashley and Allen Honeycutt

July 14, 2005

Ernest, Lois, Luke and Alexander

Our prayers and thoughts are with you all. Rachael was such a beautiful person inside and out. We didn't get to see her much but she will always be in our hearts and memories. We looked at some old photos of a visit to Theodore at Christmas, just remembering the fun and joy we all had together. Rachael is now with GOD and with her grandparents on the Freeman side. I'm sure they are all having a great reunion now. May GOD keep you all safely and comfort you during this time. We love you all very much as does your whole southern family.

David & Janet Neukomm

July 14, 2005

Dear Ernie & Lois, Alex and Family,

We did not have the privilege of knowing Rachael, but, do know Ernie from ministering with him at Streams. Jan and I want to extend our heartfelt sympathy to the family and ask the Lord to comfort and sustain them during this time of loss. God Bless and Strengthen each of you.

Sandy and Garth Wilson

July 14, 2005

To Alexander and the entire family-

Although we did not know Rachael, we feel as if we did because Margaret and Wayne Grudem speak of her with such love. We grieve the loss of this beautiful, young life, and we will hold you in our thoughts and prayers in the days ahead.

Susan Lynch

July 14, 2005

With my sincere sympathy to you and yours at this sad time, from a friend and coworker of Catherine E. Brown. And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love. 1 Corinthians 13:13.

Jack and Nanci Kee

July 14, 2005

Alexander, you would not remember the few times I came to your house fifteen years ago, when I was at Trinity with your Dad as an advisee. I remember I helped your family move from one house to another and I remember meeting you.



I am so incredibly sorry about what happened and know that it certainly is beyond understanding. I hope you have your parents' love for the Lord Jesus, which was also in Rachael (the article said). He will help you and sustain you despite the fact that it may not always feel like it. I am familiar with personal tragedy just recently and can vouch for the fact that you can trust fully in Him, and He will enable you to go through this deep valley. Our family will certainly lift you in prayer for some time to come.

-Jack and Nanci Kee, and family

Kim, Matt, Bentley, and Jaxxon (Kujava) Sjoberg

July 13, 2005

Our sincere sympathy to all of you. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. I remember Rachael from High School. She was so outgoing and friendly. You just always wanted to be around her. She was always smiling.

Ellen Palmer

July 13, 2005

Dear Lois and family,

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Lois always spoke so highly of her daughter Rachael. Her intense love and pride were beautiful to see. I want you to know that our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Much love,

Ellen, Greg, Derek and Dylan Palmer

Nicholas Lefrooth

July 13, 2005

To Rachel's family



Rachel was always a happy warm caring person from the first time I met her. It was such a shock for all who knew and loved her to hear of the news.



May her smile never fade and her memory remain.

She will be greatly missed.



My thoughts and prayers are with you all.



Sincerely,

Nick Lefrooth Class of '00

Mitchell Knight

July 13, 2005

To Alex, I don't know if you remember me or not but I talked you into playing softball at crossroads when you were 17 years old. I was saddened to hear of your loss and am praying for you to receive His peace during this time.

Steve/Pat Glenz

July 13, 2005

Ernest, Lois and Luke,

Although it has been awhile since we have seen each other, Steve and I remember the great times when you were pastoring in Crosby, Minnesota. We remember Rachael being up on the platform playing her violin and how we just knew that she would grow up to love and serve the Lord with her bubbly personality and her joyful spirit. Our thoughts and prayers go out to all of you; someday we will all be united with our loved ones who are now with our Heavenly Father. Love and Blessings and fond memories!

Neil Berget

July 13, 2005

It was a privilege knowing Rachael. I will always treasure the memories I have of her and the lessons I learned through her. You are in my prayers.

Missy Owen

July 13, 2005

Dear Lois and Family, I can't start to tell you how deeply sorry I am for you. Lois, I could feel your love for Rachael every time you spoke of her and showed me pictures of her. It is wonderful to know how many people across the United States Rachael has touched, even people that have never met her. She sounds like an amazing, smart, beautiful woman that made an impression the minute she walked into a room. Please know that there are many people praying for you to give you strength and thousands of arms reaching out to give you a big hug. Love Missy, Jeff, Ashley, Connor, and Taylor Owen

Ardis Andert

July 13, 2005

Dear Sarah, Oliver, and all of Rachael's loving family,

Rachael was a beautiful young woman with a powerful spirit that drew people to her. I feel blessed to have shared Saturday afternoon with her,and I am filled with saddness that her life on this earth has ended. I have been deeply reminded that each day is a gift. May God tenderly comfort you and bring you peace. Love, Ardie

Faith, Derick & Devin Nichols

July 13, 2005

Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Remember that God always has a reason...

We love y'all!

Diana Woods

July 13, 2005

To Ernie, Lois, Alex and Family:



Rachael seemed my idea of a young woman with gifts, wisdom and a royal demeanor befitting a child of the King. She carried such a strong, wonderful presence; it was always a pleasure to be in her company. She was much-loved and will be much-missed.



May God comfort you in your sadness.

Gina Robertson

July 13, 2005

Dear Luke and Alex and your families:



When I interviewed Rachael for a position as Spanish teacher with Nacel International School, the decision to hire her was easy and immediate. She was an incredibly vivacious young lady who exuded confidence. I had no idea then that she would become a good friend as well. I loved and respected Rachael deeply for her confident manner and her strong beliefs. She was a wonderful person and I feel her loss deeply; I will continue to mourn with you. I am so sorry you have experienced this loss and will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.



Since this tragedy, Nacel has received a number of calls and emails from Rachael’s students. They desired to share their love for her. They asked that we convey their thoughts of Rachael to her family. Rachael was an incredible teacher. Her students loved her and will miss her greatly.



Sincerely,

Kim, Charlie, Chaz & Molly Giles

July 13, 2005

We are so sorry to hear of your tragic loss. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.

Sue Eifler

July 13, 2005

We take your loss to heart as our own, that we are one body with one hope of our calling, Ephesians 4:4. Thank God he sent us his son, as well as the Holy Spirit to be our comforter.



We are praying for you all at this time, you are in our hearts and thoughts, forever, deeply.



From the Eifler family with love.

Carol Hooven

July 13, 2005

To Rachael's Family



How very sad that such a beautiful life was taken so soon. It seems to me that God must have a grand plan for Rachael in Heaven.



My thoughts and prayers go out to all of you.



Carol Hooven

Friend of Aimee Deardorff

Sun City, Arizona

Charlie and Bo Whittenton

July 13, 2005

We were members of Wayne Grudem's Christian Ethics class at Scottsdale Bible Church in Scottsdale, AZ prior to our recent move to Las Vegas. Wayne and Margaret spoke with great love for Rachel. Our hearts are so heavy for you during this time. We are praying that you will climb into the lap of Jesus and let Him wrap His big, loving arms around you and comfort you. You will remain in our prayers and thoughts.

In His Love,

Bo & Charlie Whittenton

Shawna Nielson

July 13, 2005

Although I knew Rachael a short time, I always appreciated her wit, warmth, intelligence. She certainly had a presence, and will be missed.

Sue Coburn

July 13, 2005

Dear Lois, Ernest, Alexander and Luke:

I am so sorry to hear of your terrible loss. I could see in the wedding photos Lois shared that you are a close and loving family. May that love and your faith wrap you in their arms at this time.

With love and sympathy,

Dale Busse

July 12, 2005

May the Lord comfort you and give you strength in this time of terrible, tragic loss. Every memory I have of Rachel and all our PK retreat adventures bring nothing but smiles to my face and there is peace in knowing we will see her again. We may not always understand the way God works, but through everything, he has a plan.

Your family is in my prayers,

Anonymous

July 12, 2005

The whole neighborhood on East St.Paul grieves with you. May God give you strength and hope through this difficult time.

Love

Cindy & Jim Waters

July 12, 2005

To Rachael's Families,

We are deeply saddened by the loss of Rachael. She was a very close friend of our daughter, Katie. We are praying for everyone who knew her. We also remember that whenever we met her, she was very bubbly and sweet.



Cindy & Jim Waters

Rob Salisbury

July 12, 2005

Rachel,

Your incomparable smile and vivacious spirit will never be forgotten. Our time togther was short, yet I am consoled by the memories I have of you--which live on. Love to you and your familiy.

Dale & Elizabeth Busse

July 12, 2005

Dear Ernie, Lois & Luke,



We were so shocked to hear the sad news. Rachel was such an awesome girl. She just lit up the room when she walked in (I can still see her beautiful smile). She was such a bubbly person and within a few minutes made you feel like you knew her all your life. Our hearts ache and we will be in prayer for all of you. The only comfort at a time like this is to know that someday you will see her again in heaven.

Vernon & Joanne Torres

July 12, 2005

To all of the family. We have never met your beautiful Rachel but are well acquainted with her grandparents, LB and Wilma Larsen. With the heritage Rachel had, she had to be special to all of you. We know the Lord will give you strength at this time. When we are basking in the love of our wonderful Lord, we don't have to understand the (Why's). We do know at times like these we have to lean harder on His love. May you all be comforted by our precious Lord at this time. God Bless

Todd and Kristen Maas

July 12, 2005

Although our lives only crossed paths with Rachael briefly, we were blessed to know her. She was a delightful vibrant young woman who reflected the love of our Lord. Our prayers are with you as you grieve.

Lisa Amb

July 12, 2005

To all of Rachael's Family:

Nick and I are so sorry to hear of the loss of Rachael. In the few years we knew her we came to realize that she was an amazing young lady.

Whenever I hear Rachael's name the word joy always come to mind. She was a beautiful young woman who exuded the joy of the Lord every time I saw her. I remember that Rachael recognized a fellow horse lover in our daughter Kelli. Occasionally Kelli will still mention the time Rachael took her to see the horses.

Our family is praying for you. We are calling out to our Lord and Savior to help ease your burden.

Nick, Lisa, Scott, Kelli and Bennett Amb

Corinne Mustafa

July 12, 2005

To Alex and the rest of your family...I am Aleisha Kruck's mother...I have felt very touched by what happened and feeling awed at the faith of Alex at this time as told to me by Alwisha. I have put Rachael's family on two prayer chains, and you are in my prayers as well.



God bless you and give you strength in the days to come...



Corinne and MG Mustafa

Scott Munger

July 12, 2005

Dear Wayne and Family,



I am very sorry for your loss. John 11:25,35

Jenni Busse

July 12, 2005

Lois, Ernest and Luke,

It has been a while since I have seen you all and I deeply regret that this is the reason I am writing to you. On behalf of my family, especially Dale and I, I want to send my deepest condolences and most heartfelt prayers to you, her family and her friends. I have so many fun memories of Rachael and I at PK Retreat, she had a one-of-a-kind spirit, and I had so hoped we could all spend time together again one day. I have thought of her often through the years. Please know that I will be continuing to pray for you through this difficult time. God Bless you all.

Bre & Nate Berberich

July 12, 2005

Rachael's Family,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this tragic time. Rachael did indeed love life & constantly radiated joy & faith in her Lord Jesus Christ. Since my brothers passing, I remember everyday this quote, "Life it seems goes way to fast, Simple pleasures make it last. Slow down and watch a child at play, Cherish simplicity along the way. Reflect upon each day as it's passed - simple pleasures will make it last." I think this also speaks of the way Rachael lived, she was a simple woman, that lived and loved life to the fullest. May God Bless you and hold you tight at this tragic time. God will help you through.

Elaine & Wayne Ruud

July 12, 2005

Dear Lois, Ernest, Luke and Family,



We are deeply saddened and shocked at the news of Rachael's death. She was a beautiful young woman and touched the lives of everyone she came in contact with. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless you all.

Pastor Gary & Ruth Halverson

July 12, 2005

We want you to know that you are in the prayers of our family and of our congregation at this time of tremendous loss. We know of your faith through the time Rachael and her family spent in Karlstad, and we are confident that the Spirit of the Living Lord will sustain you now.

David Schlenk

July 12, 2005

I'll never forget the first time I met Rachael. I was in the lounge in Nelson Hall and she sat down and started talking to me like she'd known me forever. Then she helped me find a date for a formal dinner I had to attend by asking every girl that walked by if they wanted to go on a date with me. Whenever I came into contact with her it seemed like she made a point to help me out in some way, accompanied with that contagious smile of hers. May the legacy of her helpfulness live on in the lives of those she touched with her love and helpfulness.

Liz McGee

July 12, 2005

Rachael is a treasure, much valued and loved by her family, friends, and even those, like me, who knew her only briefly. The godly upbringing Rachael had, together with her brother Luke, bore fruit in a strong and clear faith. Rachael’s sweet and pure spirit was apparent, and she always seemed to have a spring in her step. I say Rachael IS a treasure, because even though the ‘vessel’ of her mortal life has been broken, her spirit lives on and shines on, secure in Jesus Christ. Through Him who loved us, we will overcome, and look forward to spending eternity in the same place as Rachael, basking in the love of God. Alex, Ernie, Lois and Luke: may you be strengthened every moment until then.

Graham Neve

July 12, 2005

Rachael was fun, loving, caring and a wonderful person. In the short time I got to know her at Bethel, she always knew how to make anyone smile. I am praying for all the family and friends. Seek God for comfort and healing.

James Hallberg

July 12, 2005

Rachael was an outgoing girl who would wasn't afraid of what other people thought of her. Her happy attitude will be missed.

Karen Zimmerman

July 12, 2005

Rachael, As I sit here in shock and denial, I think of the many things we did. One will always stand out to me. Driving to a Youth Convention, we stopped at a gas station. In the gas station you suddenly yelled out " Your JOY does not depend upon your circumstances, your JOY is in the Lord Jesus Christ". Then the mini sermon(one of so many) that followed has stayed with me and profoundly changed my life. That one line does say it all though. In such a time as this, you, your sweet spirit, consoles me.

I want to thank you, dearheart, for all you taught me. Oh the Joy of learning from the young! Your love and Walk touched me in ways I will carry with me all the days of my life. I look forward to seeing you again, what a time that will be.

Yours Forevermore In Christ,

Karen

Mandi Ruud

July 12, 2005

Dear Lois, Ernest, Luke and the rest of Rachael's family,

I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with your family at this time of such great sorrow. Rachael had the brightest personality of anyone I have ever known. It shone no matter where she was or what she was doing. The world has suffered a great loss of such an endearing and intelligent person.

I have such fond memories with her that will be treasured forever. I am so thankful I was able to know her for so many years.

Rachael and your family will forever be in my prayers... God bless you all.

Sincerely,

Mandi

Amanda Kazmierczak

July 12, 2005

Rachael was such a great person and friend. I will never forget the happiness she brought with her when she entered a room. I will always remember the great times in the plays, the classroom, and the time she taught me to ride horse. She always knew how to make me smile. I will miss her deeply.

Lee Zimmerman

July 12, 2005

Family & Friends of Rachael.



I pray The Lords peace for you all, and hope that we all remember her for the person she is, Full of Joy, and was always there for her friends. Even now she has tought me things: To accept what cannot be changed, and rejoice because she is looking at his face this very moment.

Exelby Ron and Cherry

July 12, 2005

Rachael,



Sweet girl, Loving daughter, Beautiful bride, Dearest sister,

We treasure the memory of your love and laughter,

Kristin Archibald

July 12, 2005

Lois and Ernie,

My deepest sympathy in the loss of your beloved daughter, Rachael. Her life was such a blessing to all that she met. The light of Jesus shined so brightly in her. She loved the Lord so much and all of you. May the Lord comfort both of you as well, as her brother Luke, her husband Alexander, and all of her family and friends.

LeeAnn Newell (Koval)

July 12, 2005

The world is missing a very happy person.

Richard Peterson

July 12, 2005

My heart goes out to Alexander and to the rest of Rachael's family during this very difficult time. May God's peace comfort you. Know that he is holding her in his arms and rejoicing together.

Dick Peterson

Dawna Thomas

July 12, 2005

Lois and Ernie I love you guys so much. Your daughter was an amazing woman. I am praying Our Father's healing love for both of you and your son, Luke. Not forgetting Alexander and the rest of your family. Love always, Dawna Thomas

Karen & Ken Nelson

July 12, 2005

Dear Grudems and Freemans,

Our hearts are with you all. We're so very sorry for your loss.



Much love and prayer,

Ken & Karen

Rozi Penny

July 12, 2005

I didn't know Rachel well, but her smile impacted my life the first time I saw it. Ernie, Lois.. we love you.

Heather krubeck

July 12, 2005

I had never met Rachael but I knew her parents and they spoke highly of her and you could see the love they had for her. Knowing how amazing her parents are, I know she was nothing short of an amazing woman of God. I know that it is hard to understand God's ways, I do not understand them myself, but they are perfect no matter what. I am so very sorry for the loss of Rachael and the lives it has affected, may GOd heal quickly and deeply for those that loved her. She is safe now... Much Love

Leslie Herrier

July 12, 2005

My whole heart is with you.

Romina Picariello

July 12, 2005

Lois, Ernie and the Freeman family, you are in my prayers and please know my heart is with you during this sorrowful time.

Kari Penny

July 12, 2005

I didn't get to know Rachael very good but I know that she had to be a wonderful person because of who her parents are. I know that she was very loved and will be deeply missed. God bless you guys and I pray for you all. I love you Lois!!

John & Lorrie Callaghan

July 12, 2005

Our family's prayers are with you at this time of mourning.

Karen Wikstrom

July 12, 2005

Dear Lois and Freeman family,



It is hard to imagine what you are going through. We are so sorry for your loss. We saw Rachael at graduation at Heritage--she looked so different than the horseback riding girl we new her as. What a beautiful woman she had become. Our hearts and prayers are with you. We are praying that many people will come to know the Lord Jesus Christ through Rachael's testimony and homegoing! God bless you all and dear Jesus come quickly!

Matt & Barb Berg

July 12, 2005

Our sincere sympathy to all of you. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Don & Donna Archibald

July 12, 2005

Dear Ones,



If heaven could be sweeter it is sweeter today because of the entrance of Rachael through the heavenly gates. Our hearts go out to you at this most perplexing time and we know this, that God is faithful in His unfailing love toward you. As I sat down to write this I opened to Is. 61:1-3.



"The Spirit of the Lord God is upon Me, because the Lord has anointed Me to preach good tidings to the poor; He has sent Me to heal the brokenhearted, to proclaim liberty to the captives, and the opening of the prison to those who are bound; to proclaim the acceptable year of the Lord, and the day of vengeance of our God; to comfort all who mourn, to console those who mourn in Zion, to give them beauty for ashes, the oil of joy for mourning, the garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness; that they may be called trees of righteousness, the planting of the Lord, that He may be glorified."



May His peace and love rest in your hearts.



Love,



Don & Donna

Shannon Ruud

July 12, 2005

I have so many great memories of time spent with Rachael throughout high school. She loved to laugh and always wanted to make others happy. There was never a dull moment when she was around. We were in several plays together in high school. She was a terrific actress...Never afraid to express herself in ways that no one else dared. I loved that about her. I can't remember many times when I saw Rachael without a smile on her face. And you couldn't help but be happy when she was around. If you were sad or upset about anything, she would find a way to bring you back up. She made life interesting and definately a lot of fun. She will be deeply missed by all who knew her. I have many memories that I will carry with me always...

Jesse Mollner

July 12, 2005

I'd like to offer my deepest sympathy for your loss. I am one of the Saint Paul Police Officers that responded to Rachael's accident. Even though our paths never crossed in this world it was somehow apparent to me that Rachael had a good life and was surrounded by great people.



With over 20 years combined experience, my partner, Ed Dion, and I have responded to hundreds, maybe thousands, of accidents. I can speak for both of us when I say that we were deeply saddened by the loss of Rachael. We could tell that the world had lost a wonderful young woman with the brightest of futures.



I believe Ed visited with your family on Sunday, and I wanted you to know that I echo his sentiments. He came to my house after leaving yours and expressed to me the warmth he felt when he entered your home.



Rachael's tragedy made me take a personal inventory of my own life, my son and my fiance, and all my blessings. She's reminded me to appreciate the value of each new day and the simple things in life.



Thank you for raising such a wonderful woman that in her final time showed a perfect stranger how precious life really is.



God Bless your family,



Respectfully,

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