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Janelle Neil
August 19, 2022
Seventeen years ago, on Friday, the 19th of August, about 4:00 pm, I was sitting in an Education Week class about how the universe was not created ex nihilo (from nothing). Today I sit in an Education Week class about how the same principles that help us understand scientific truths help us understand spiritual truths. Just like I don't yet know everything about science, neither do I know everything about God; but I do know enough about science to have faith that the sun will rise in the morning, and I do know enough about God to have faith that Rachael and all of us will rise in the resurrection. Though I can't see the sun at night, I know it still exists. Though I can't see Rachael right now, I know she still is. We didn't get here ex nihilo, nor do we return to nothing when we leave here. Both science and religion teach me this. I am grateful for both.
Steve Neil
January 10, 2018
I received this in 2018 from a friend of a young man who took Rachael on a date once in May 2005, 3 months before her death. He closed with this truth about Rachael.
"one of those quality friends that are hard to find." --Steve
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I meant to tell you thank you for the things that you said about Rachael. I didn't know her that long, but through your words I felt I got to know her a lot better. I didn't get to know Rachael as well as you and others did, but I did write down a couple of impressions that I had of her and of our date a couple days after we went out. I hope that you might be able to send it and the picture to her family because we talked a lot about our families and our friends that night and it was so refreshing to hear someone have so many good things to say about everyone.
Thanks.
May 2005
I met this awesome girl named Rachael Neil on the job site, while she was spraying down the newly stuccoed houses that hadn't cured yet; she was a friend of Lee's and they talked for a little while; I also got out of the car and Lee introduced me but I didn't say much until a day or two later I got her phone number from her cousin who is best friends with Lee. That was the Wednesday before J's wedding, May 18, and so I couldn't take her out that weekend, but I told her I would call her when I got back from Texas, so I did and I asked her out for Friday night (May 27). We went to W's house, and we barbequed steaks and carved ice cream sculptures after wards. We also played this ghetto boys versus girls game called "Chauvinist Pigs" that was pretty fun. We then went out to Tempe Town Lake to play on the paddle boats, but by 10 they were already closed. So we just walked around and played in the sand box and walked on the bridge and talked for almost two and a half hours. We talked a lot about dating and her relationships; we talked about dating and the stuff we do and don't like about it and experiences we had. We talked about high school and experiences with roommates, growing up, sports, our family situations and how extremely blessed we have been (we spent a good deal of time on that subject and she really seemed so very grateful for the way she had grown up and the blessings of family and friends that she had been given). It was really interesting to see how similar we are. She is really down to earth, which I have found is hard to find in most girls, and it seemed as though she had the same view on a lot of things as I do. I could also feel her testimony through a lot of the ways in which she described her actions and the actions of others. She is not a girly girl, but likes to hang out with the boys, go shooting, quad riding, and driving fast. It seemed to me that she had somewhat of a wild side to her. I really enjoyed talking to her; we both had a lot to say but we weren't interrupting each other; that was a very nice change from past dates that I've had. She was so very cute and easy to talk to. I would love to take her out again but she is leaving on vacation for a couple of weeks, and then is going straight up to BYU. So hopefully I'll be able to take her out again once I get up there. It was just so nice to go out with a girl so full of love and excitement. It seemed to me immediately that she could be one of those quality friends that are hard to find.
Sommar Roundtree
August 20, 2008
Dear Rachael,
Three years seems like a lifetime. I miss you more than words can say, I think of you every day. I look foward to the day we see each other again.
Love Always,
Sommar
Janelle Neil
September 1, 2006
My Dearest Rachael,
I have pondered for over a year what I could record in this book that would even begin to express the depth of my feelings. I keep coming back to three words with all their meanings in both heart and mind. You were in life and you are still in death, My Angel Daughter. Rachael, I love you so much. See you soon. Forever, Mother
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AnnMarie Neil
August 22, 2006
One year and still thinking about you. Hope you are well Rachael. I love you and I miss you.
AnnMarie
Sommar Roundtree
August 22, 2006
As one year has gone past I find myself visiting my child hood with Rachael every day. I find myself thinking of all of the many sleepovers that we had and the many games of Uno that we played. I laugh when I think of all of the different rules we made up, and how long one game would last. I don't have many memories from Arizona that don't have Rachael in them, the days and days we spent in my pool and the year we put up the Christmas tree at my house the day after Thanksgiving (without asking) to suprise my mom. There are so many stories that I have to tell about her that I could write for days but I won't. I will tell you how much Rachael ment to me, growing up she was the only person that I knew no matter how bad I messed up or what I did she never judged me, never stoped loving me, and never held any of it against me. She is the true description of a True Friend. I know that every day for the rest of my life some memory of her will pass thru my mind and make me smile or laugh. I love you Rachael.
Rochelle Hilton
August 21, 2006
One year has passed and the feelings of joy that we were blessed by Rachael's life are still strong and poignant. We love the moments when her happy face reappears in our mind's eye. It is good to know, a grateful gift of the restoration, how near she truly is. Although we can't see her we can still feel of her spirit and sense her happiness. Out goal is stronger to prepare ourselves to be with her forever because of our great love for this precious grandaughter. We will never be content till we can hug her once again. And, we hope she is enjoying her two uncles who are with her now. It will one day be quite a family reunion. Thank you to those who made the video for us all as a reminder of a good girl who loved life. We love you forever, Rachael. Grandma
Ian Hill
August 21, 2006
Rachael, Just thinking about you here at work. Love you, miss you. Have fun with all the activities and missionary work. Love ya
Steve Neil
August 21, 2006
Dear Friends and Family,
This past Saturday marked one year from Rachael's passing, and we find ourselves happily reminded that Rachael is an eternal blessing, even during our temporary separation.
It has been wonderful to hear from many of you over the past year, telling of how Rachael affected your lives for good. Reflection on how she endeavored to follow Christ has only strengthened our devotion to her God and our God.
We have tried not to get downtrodden as we contemplate her absence. Following Rachael's example of never wanting to be a bother -- only a blessing -- we have tried to avoid any pity and have sought to rejoice in our love and faith.
My family has wondered out loud how Rachael is doing in heaven. I have been able to respond enthusiastically that I know of a surety that she is doing very well. It is easy to imagine how she has adjusted to life in Paradise. She had very few earthly encumbrances to shed and had developed many heavenly virtues to make her feel right at home. Just a few weeks before she died, we were visiting Provo and were invited to a BBQ she was hosting at her home. I watched her that evening, being reminded of how much she loved making people happy and how good she was at it. I commented to her Bishop that Rachael was destined to be an activities director in heaven. Little did I realize that her heavenly calling would begin just 6 weeks later.
Rachael's brothers and sisters are doing well. Michelle is very happily married since June 17th and lives in Provo. Matthew is really enjoying teaching the gospel of Jesus Christ to the Latin people of Long Island, New York. Emily, who misses Rachael a great deal, embarks on the wonderful adventure that is college in just two weeks when BYU starts, and Nathanael has just started 10th grade. Jared, David and Adam are enjoying the joy of childhood.
Janelle is a great mother and has been and continues to be very devoted to our children. Perhaps I can help you appreciate how much she loves them with an observation of mine. All mothers love their children, but few love them so much as to never mind their companionship. The thought of children being a bother of any degree is as foreign a notion to Janelle as can be imagined. She has nurtured our eight children every waking hour of every day of every year of the past twenty-three and one-half years. As you know, she has schooled them in the things of this world and, more importantly, the things of God. As they become of age and go out into the world on their own, she continues to serve with a great degree of interest in their happiness and success.
So, I hope you can appreciate how much such a dedicated mother misses her beloved firstborn. Janelle is strong in her understanding of things eternal, and you need not worry -- just be inspired as I am by her pure love.
Chris Florence and Matthew made a beautiful DVD about Rachael, and if you would like to have a copy please let us know.
May the Lord's choicest blessing be upon you. Until we meet again we send all our love.
--Steve, Janelle and children
Emily Neil
August 19, 2006
One year and still missing you. I love you forever, Rachael.
AnnMarie Neil
May 2, 2006
I wrote this poem for English class today... and thought I would post it here. I'm not the best poet/writer... but Enjoy!
I WILL NEVER FORGET
A poem by AnnMarie Neil
I will never forget
The bounce in her hair, the ease of her stride.
Her infectious laugh, and freckles.
I will never forget
That smile.
That beautiful smile that would light up the room.
I will never forget
How high she would push me on the tire swing.
Or swing me around by my arms on Papa’s lawn.
How could I forget?
Those hugs she would give me, to want to never let go.
To hold on forever, never loose grasp.
But maybe… grasp is lost once in a while.
Maybe the laughs fall to silence.
Maybe the smiles fall to tears.
I will never forget
How she would sing to me.
Dance around her living room.
And skydive through the blue, that seems to never end.
But I suppose some things do.
Maybe everything, even the sky.
Maybe, just maybe… the laughs fall to silence.
The smiles fall to tears.
Though some things aren’t, eternity is everlasting…
And heaven never fails… it gives me hope.
So, I will never forget.
That I will see that smile, feel that hug, and know
My angel again.
I will never forget.
How could I forget?
My Rachael.
AnnMarie Neil
January 27, 2006
January 22nd was a beautiful day, beautiful like Rachael. It was a day for rejoicing and sharing memories. Family means everything to me. Something like this always makes you realize those things. Happy Birthday my sweet Rachael. I love you.
AnnMarie Neil
January 7, 2006
I will never forget how Rachael would make any situation all better for me when I was little and how I would always look up to her. From a scratch to just a horrible day, seeing Rachael would make everything happy again. How I always joked with her how I wanted to turn her soft beautiful curly hair into a pillow, or just how I would cry when it was time to go home from those fun family parties and say goodbye, saying "bye" to Rachael was the saddest those nights. She has always been one of my favorite cousins. The way she lights up any room or face, the way she smiles and hugs you like no one else ever could, how it seems impossible to let go, though we have had to... the way she is the only person that would ever laugh at my corny jokes, push me the highest on the tree swing from the picnic table to the top of the branches, the way... she changed everybody's life for the better and left us to never forget who she was in this world. Thank you Rachael for all those memories and I love you. Every time I hear the song "I Hope You Dance" I think of Rachael, how she never gave up, never stopped trying, and most important, never stopped smiling, dancing, and loving.
I love you Rachael. I will never forget you. Thank you for making me who I am today.
Carlee Hill
December 30, 2005
I haven't forgotten the way your beautiful smile could light up a room, and the way your hair smelled whenever I hugged you. I love you and I will never forget, no one can!
Emily Neil
December 23, 2005
Always in my heart. Others are moving on... I still remember that day more than four months ago. Yosemite is beautiful and I love Rachael. "If it's fair then it's not a true trial." (Neal A. Maxwell)
Elizabeth Good
October 25, 2005
Dear Janelle, Steve and family, I have no idea why I was browsing the obituaries in the Tribune today. It's the first time I've done that since we've been on our mission in San Diego for six months. I ran across the burial notice for Rachael which appeared on our Susanne's birthday. We are so sorry for your loss. We mourn with you and hope you have found a measure of peace and comfort as you mourn. The old saying that time heals we know by experience to be mostly true. God bless you. Love, Elder and Sister (Jim & Liz) Good
Ed Crowe
October 8, 2005
Vince Gill sang it best ...
Go rest high on that mountain
(Girl), your work on earth is done
Go to heaven a shoutin’
Love for the father and son
Oh, how we cried the day you left us
We gathered round your grave to grieve
I wish I could see the angels faces
When they hear your sweet voice sing
John Jensen
October 6, 2005
Steve and Janelle,
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your beautiful daughter. May the Lord bless and comfort your family in this time of sorrow. I pray that you will receive the comfort and blessing of the Holy Ghost at this time. Bless you and your family always.
John J. Jensen
Former Bishop Lookout Mtn Ward
Robyn Bills
October 1, 2005
I would like to express my sincere sympathy to Rachael's family and friends. She was one of the most remarkable young ladies I have ever had the opportunity of knowing. She knew who she was and where she was going. She had a testimony of the gospel that carried her through no matter what the occasion or decision that had to be made. It was my honor as well as my privilege to know her and have her as a part of my life. I grieve not for her becasue I know that she is with a loving Father that loves her and is pleased with her service, but for me and her family because I miss her so. I know that her life has made me a better person and will be a shot in the arm whenever I lose sight of my ultimate goal of service to my fellow man and eternal life with my family in his kingdom on high.
Be Not Afraid
Matthew Neil
October 1, 2005
"You never know who is going to be at your back looking, pondering, contemplating what will become of them, what will become of you, don't look back, but they are there for support, on days that you stumble, on days that they stumble. If it was important for them to guide you, they would, but for now you take the lead, you take the punishment from the spider webs of life that gather to distract your mind or slow your progress. But push through, and when the wind howls too strong step aside and your constant companion will beat the unbeaten path. Struggles come and go, life lessons you will never know, but through the sad and fun, you’re the one in control."
I love you Rachael.
Nathan Hilton
September 19, 2005
I am very impressed with Rachael’s love for others. I have noticed especially her love for her brothers, sisters, and cousins. She demonstrated very recently her great love and concern for to my two little girls (her cousins—Amber and Courtney), but an account would be too lengthy for this guest book. Rachael seems to mingle the best parts being a big sister, playmate, and role model to both the little and not-so-little. She cares for infants and toddlers with a responsible devotion. She interacts with kids at their level as if she was one herself, and is likewise a buddy to teens while demonstrating what happiness is offered to adults willing to seek and accept it. Rachael has a diversity of interests and excels in them—a difficult-to-acquire combination of two worthy qualities. As a parent of some of Rachael’s cousins, I continue to be grateful for her fine example as she blazes a trail for all these young people to ponder and admire. Thank you, Rachael; my children (and all of us) are blessed by your example. We love you.
Uncle Nathan
LeeAnn Freeman
September 19, 2005
Dear Neil Family,
We, too, want to send our love, along with the many others, to your family, and express our sincerest thoughts and prayers in your behalf. We loved Rachael from the moment we met her. Since we moved into your ward, she has always been a part of our lives, from her crush on Heath when she was a Beehive, to watching her grow and blossom as a beautiful young lady, and having her come over and visit with us, "just because." How we cherished those visits. She taught us so much in her short time on earth; how to love unconditionally, how to spread sunshine wherever you go, and the importance of friends and families. She will always have a very special place in our hearts. We miss you Rachael!
Love,
Mark and LeeAnn Freeman
Tiffany Jennings
September 18, 2005
Oh how I’ll miss your dear sweet Rachael. She could make anyone in the world feel like her best friend. She never wanted to miss out on any of the fun things that were going on. She was so full of life, and sweet as can be. I remember going to EFY with Rachael and Michelle. We stayed with family up in Utah, and I felt so at home. Rachael and Michelle were always a blast to hang out with. I found a note the other day from Rachael that I had saved. It was from when we served in the Miamaid class presidency together. Her kind words always lifted me and made me want to be better. I feel so happy for Rachael and know that she is in a better place. I only feel sad for those of us that won’t be blessed by her presence through the rest of our mortal life. But what a fun, happy day it will be when we get to see her again!! Rachael was so special! I love and will miss her.
David Neil
September 15, 2005
I know your body is dead, but I know your spirit still runs free like it did before with your body, and I know you could be standing next to me watching me write this to your guest book. Well, I just found out that your body got taken out of the Merced River. Well, I need to be doing my school right now so bye Rachael. I'll miss you so deeply. Love, your little brother.
Courtney Hilton
September 14, 2005
I love Rachael so so so so so so so so much because she was kind, gentle, and whenever I saw her she was smiling. I am positive that she still is. All I can really say is that we all know where she is and know she's happy there.
Amber Hilton
September 14, 2005
Rachael was very kind, energetic, and funny. She cared for others and was always fair. She has lots of friends and loved ones that will miss her, but she is very happy where she is. Even though we can't see her any more, she is still with us. We love Rachael.
Kirstan Hilton
September 14, 2005
My fondest memory of Rachael is from our family reunion in Parksville this summer where I last saw her. I have often thought since that as a 22-year-old young woman Rachael could have found many other things to do with her time that week. But there was no doubt about her being there because she loved to be with family. We put on a family musical and Rachael, of course, choreographed a dance for us. She couldn't fully display her talents as she didn't have much talent to work with (in us!), but she sure made it fun. The best part was watching her experiment with all of the ideas that didn't make it to the floor! When I was around Rachael she was always cheerful, positive, and welcoming to all. She set a wonderful example for her younger cousins and I am grateful for myself and my children to have had her in our lives. I will miss her!
Julie Adams
September 14, 2005
Dear Steve & Janelle,
You have a beautiful family and we love every one of them. When we describe Rachel to anyone who didn't know her we tell them that she was so full of life that it just spilled all over anyone who got near her. She truly is a beautiful girl and always will be.
We love you all. We are so sorry for your loss however temporary it may be.
Love,
The Scott Adams Family
Pat & Jim Neel
September 14, 2005
Words fail to express our love and sympathy at the passing of your precious daughter, granddaughter, and sister. The pain and grief that accompanies this separation is of such an individual and intimate nature. Though Rachel's presence will continue to be missed here in mortality, comfort, healing, and strength to endure will come through the Lord's tender mercies until the resurrection's joyous reunion. Rachel is not far, just in the next room beyond death's door through which each of us must pass into eternity and to our home with God from whence we came. Our prayers are with you. May you continue in faith and hope, and be blessed with an abundance of God's love and peace.
Darton and Sherri Stradling
September 13, 2005
Dear Neil Family, We want you to know your family has been in our thoughts and prayers. We found Rachels memorial service to be so uplifting. I left there truly wanting to be a better person.
David Grate
September 13, 2005
What a privilege it is to be included with your family. Janelle, you have always been like a big sister to me. I only knew Rachael from your short stay with us here, but just because of that time Debbie I realized that it was possible to have kids that are respectful and well mannered.
I am amazed that Rachael could bring together so many people from such distances. This is a wonderful reflection of you and Steve. She is something special. I will forever cherish the memories of seeing the whole family together again, witnessing the joy and happiness of Heavenly Father's Plan and reflecting how much Rachael's life and your testimony have affected my life.
Vanda Eversole
September 12, 2005
Dear Janelle and Family-My heart goes out to you at this time-( I don't know if you remember our son ,Gary, but we lost him to liver cancer a year ago last May) I thiink this is one of the most difficult things a parent can face, but thanks to our belief in an eternal family,we know that this is just a temporary separation from our loved ones! Please know that you are in my and Kathy's thoughts and prayers and please accept my condolences for your loss and please convey the same to your parents--Love, from a member of your old ward family--Vanda Eversole and Family
Rochelle Hilton
September 12, 2005
What a blessing love and caring shared is to each of us as we mourn the loss of our beloved granddaughter Rachael. Every reminder of her happy life reminds us of how happy she made each of us. May the Lord's peace be with us now and as we remember her in years to come.
Donna Pahus
September 12, 2005
I am Grandmother to Harmoni(Josh Osborn) and read this w/o never knowing Rachael..But she is in her Spirit form now..remember her always in your heart and know that at this time she is with loving Spirits and surroundings..be Happy here on Earth..for her sake..until you meet again....
Duane and Tammie Burt
September 12, 2005
Steve, Janelle and family,
Rachael is a shinning star that will continue to shine brighter and brighter. Her smile was beautiful and she will be remembered as one who loved life. It was easy to see that she was special. May our Heavenly Fathers choicest blessings be yours and we hope and pray that you will feel his love and comfort forever.
Your friends always,
Duane, Tammie and Family
Vikki Wiessner
September 12, 2005
I am the mother of Harmoni Osborn and she informed me of this happening. I do not know her-- but am a mother and want to share with you--her mother and father--any words that will help heal and mend the hearts. I know you taught her lessons that strengthened her and found their way into her teachings of and to others in her life. I am grateful for the wise and careful guardianship and training of noble parents. That training and love kept her from turning to paths that would have opened to an entirely different kind of life. You taught her all through her mortal life to be able to enter into rest with the good people in paradise. She has a good start to begin her life across the veil, thanks to you. It increases my appreciation and love for an ever watchful, precious and noble mother and father who rear children to the best of their abilitiy and then stretch even further to ensure happiness to our children. Thank you for being a good example and never regret your intense love, guidelines and rules as she was under your wings...you strengthened her flight forever...
Vikki Marie Wiessner, formerly of Arizona
Joan Henderson
September 12, 2005
Dear Janelle, My thoughts are with you and your family. I wish you well. Sincerely, Joan Henderson
Noah, Hilari, Whitni & Sherri Stradling
September 12, 2005
To the Neil family,
We didn't know this guest book was here until the recent email about the recovery of Rachael's body. We feel many prayers have been answered by this and hope you will find peaceful closure.
Noah says to David and Adam, I love being in Scouts with you guys and feel sad that your sister is gone, I have a brother gone and it makes me sad sometimes, but Heavenly Father always helps me when I feel that way.
Hilari says to Nathaniel, I am so sorry that you've had to go through such a difficult tragedy, you are a good friend, I pray for you and your family all the time.
Whitni says to Emily, I'm so sad for you Emily, I love you.
Our family will remember Rachael's beautiful smile and vibrant personality. You have all been a strength to our family. We love you.
Josh & Harmoni Osborn
September 11, 2005
We are truly and deeply sorry for your loss. You are in our prayers every day. May Heavenly Father grant you the peace and comfort that you are seeking during this difficult time.
Love~ Josh and Harmoni
Dallin Lemich
September 10, 2005
I'm a little late, but I couldn't miss the opportunity to do this. Rachael was such a good friend and cousin. She was always smiling and made sure that you were too if she saw that you weren't. She was a great example of happiness, love, kindness, and service to all those around her. She will be sorely missed by all, but I know she is in a better place because of the way she acted and treated others. We love you Rachael and thank you for all that you did for your friends and family.
Joanna Snyder
September 1, 2005
I remember sitting next to Rachael before she got up to teach a Relief Society lesson one time. She told me how nervous she was. She then got up and taught a wonderful lesson. Had she not expressed her nervousness to me beforehand I would never have known.
I don't think that fear ever stopped Rachael; love motivated her to be a good friend and teacher to all those around her.
I am so grateful for her bright example. Even in her death she has taught me. I hope I will be a better person for having known her.
She will be missed. I feel deep gratitude to our loving Heavenly Father and our brother Jesus Christ who have made it possible for her to live again.
Brother & Sister Neil, my prayers are with your family. Although you will be with her soon, it must be hard not to see her now. I pray that you will be comforted and sustained until you can see her again.
Tate Feller
August 31, 2005
I was on the BYU Ballroom Dance Team with Rachael and in multiple dance classes with her. I loved the way that she never seemed to let anything worry or bother her. She was always so kind to me and others around her. What a wonderful and uplifting experience to have attended her memorial service on Monday and to have heard so many ways in which Rachael has touched peoples lives. I am grateful for the opportunity to have known Rachael Neil.
Corey Baer
August 30, 2005
I didn't really know her but she seemed like a really caring and loving person.
Don Bricker
August 30, 2005
Dear Steve Neil Family,
We want to send to you our deepest sympathy. It was with sincere sorrow and immense impact to hear of Rachael's passing. We hope that, this note as with the others offered, gives some small amount of support to you and your children during this difficult time.
Our love and prayers are with you.
Don Bricker
August 30, 2005
Dear Steve Neil Family,
We want to send to you our deepest sympathy. It was with sincere sorrow and immense impact to hear of Rachelle's passing. We hope that, this note as with the others offered, gives some small amount of support to you and your children during this difficult time.
Our love and prayers are with you.
Laura Workman
August 30, 2005
Although I only knew Rachael for a short time, her example of good has made an eternal impression on my life. As my visiting teacher in the ward, she always made me feel special and important. She supported me in all I did and was a great cheerleader to those around her. She had such vitality about her from the moment I met her with that contagious smile. Her testimony was always very apparent by the way she treated people, especially me. She was one of the most Christ-like people I have ever met. I consider myself extremely lucky to have been blessed by such a tremendous spirit and friend.
Susan Curtis Strayer
August 29, 2005
I could not believe it when I heard the news about this awful accident. Rachel was in my ward in "the Mesa House" at BYU. It was my opportunity to visit teach her briefly and enjoy her fun personality. It feels so surreal to know that she is no longer here. She was always so kind and really impressed me with her ability to include everyone. I loved her.
Curt Holman
August 29, 2005
I am the director of the ballroom dance program here at Brigham Young University. Rachael will be missed by both the students and faculty. Not only was Rachael a beautiful dancer but more importantly her beautiful spirit shined brightly and touched those that had the fortune of knowing her. the BYU Ballroom Dance Division extends our deepest sympathies to the family.
Brooke Massey Pickeral
August 29, 2005
I just want to add my prayers and thoughts to all of those that have already been so graciously written. Rachael and I met almost eleven years ago when we both moved to Lehi. I remember her as one of my closest friends all through Beehives, Miamaids, and Laurels and all of the girls camp experiences that go along with those six years. My favorite memory is from our sophomore year when Rachael had decided to attend Mountain View High School where we took CP chemistry together. She is the only reason I made it through that difficult class. I know it has been said but Rachael is probably one of the most selfless people I have ever met and I am grateful for knowing her here on Earth. I love Rachael so much for who she is and for what she stands for. She has made me a better person because of her Christlike example. I look forward to the day when we will meet again. My love and prayers are with you Neil Family and all of those who love Rachael.
Jonathan Chipman
August 29, 2005
Rachael has been a wonderful friend and uplift since my freshman year. She was amongst my first friends and memories while at school, and I believe this to be because of her fun, outgoing, and geniune personality. She was easy to talk with, laugh with, and relate to. She is missed.
I pray that family and close friends will be comforted just as she would be by our sides comforting us.
Nicole Madsen
August 29, 2005
Rachael is a bright light in my BYU memories. She made me want to be a better person lifted my spirits. I know she went home and will be that light to those there. I can't wait to see her again. My love to Michelle and the rest of the family.
-Nicole Smith Madsen
Megan Gould
August 29, 2005
I was privileged to spend two weeks last summer with Rachael working a dance camp. Rachael--I'll never forget the hours we stayed up talking at nights, playing Rook and Scum for two weeks straight, or the times you tried to teach me how to dive. My heart goes out to your family--I know your smiling face is still watching over them.
Burke & Brookie Peterson
August 29, 2005
Dear Neil Family,
We want to send to you our deep sympathy at this time. We have learned of your loss with much sorrow. When I heard about Rachael, although I didn't know her, I knew at once that she was a girl who was valiant. This is because I knew you, Janelle. I remember how you were so committed and willing whenever I asked you to help with the Cardon reunions. You brought your little children with you and just went to work. So, the expressions of love and admiration for Rachael which I have read in this Guest Book have confirmed what I guessed about her. I was not surprised to see how they even exceeded what I had imagined. We know that you will find peace and comfort because of your deep understanding, but we are very sorry for your great loss.
With love,
Burke and Brookie Peterson
Desiree' Fox
August 29, 2005
To Rachael's family,
I had the pleasure of being in dance classes and on the ballroom dance team with Rachael. We have shared many good times. But most of all I was always impressed with her determination and love for dance. She was so good at dance. So many times I would discuss with people how unfair it was that she was not excelarated through the program faster. But none of this ever mattered to Rachael, she just loved to dance and was always greatful for the oppurtunity to do so. We were on the same team this last semester and in the same technique classes. My fiance', who was also in the class, would always comment to me how fun it was to dance with Rachael. "She's never tense and always having a good time" are the things he would say. I just want you, her family to know what an example Rachael set for me in my own dancing. Rachael danced because she loved it, she never let politics currupt her view. I've always respected her and enjoyed her smile and sweet personality. News of her death was devastating and although I know that she has a work to do beyond this earth and that the Lord called her to this work, I want you to know that she will be missed and remembered everytime we(the ballroom dance team) dance. I will never forget those awesome purple dance pants, her contagious smile, and positive outlook. I hope you find comfort in this most difficult time.
with love, Desiree' N. Fox
Paul Hilton
August 29, 2005
Dear Neil family,
As Rachael's dentist I can say, Rachael truly had beautiful teeth. Good thing because she loved to show them with her big beautiful smile and cheerful disposition. I am better for having known her. I will miss her. It was my good fortune to have said good by to Rachael at her Provo house just as she left on the fateful summer trip. I can picture her in my mind, standing in the doorway...smiling...then gone. Even her passing has been a life lesson for me. Live well, live now, don't wait to be happy, to do good, to be good. Thank you Rachael, I love you.
Uncle Paul
Joshua Underdown
August 29, 2005
I went to junior high school with Rachael in Mesa. I don't think that she ever knew it, but, just by talking with me, she helped me through some difficult times in my life. She is a very good person and I've always admired her for that. I'm sure that I'm only one of countless and untold others whose lives she touched. I'll miss her.
Mary Fisher
August 29, 2005
Dear Steve, Janelle, and family,
Dennis and I were so shocked to see Rachael's name on the BYU website this morning and had no idea that we knew her until we read more. Our hearts go out to you and your family. We remember Rachael as a dear, sweet, inquisitive little girl when we were in the same ward with you in the early 80s. Our daughter, Megan, is a senior at BYU this year. We can hardly imagine your heartbreak. Our prayers are with you.
Mary Fisher
August 29, 2005
Dear Steve, Janelle, and family,
Dennis and I were so shocked to see Rachael's name on the BYU website this morning. We had no idea that we knew her until we read more. Our hearts go out to you and your family. We remember Rachael as a dear, sweet, inquisitive little girl when we were in the same ward with you in the early 80s. Our daughter, Megan, is a senior at BYU this year. We can hardly imagine your heartbreak. Our prayers are with you.
Zach Anderson
August 29, 2005
My sincere and heartfelt love goes to all those who were affected. I have such a great love for Rachael, we were the very best of friends. Back in the days of high school, going to prom together, all the way to becoming brother and sister in college at BYU. Rachael, I will deeply miss you. Neil family, you raised a wonderful daughter, and you have my heartfelt love. Expect a letter this week from me, Elder Anderson this week. How grateful I am for the knowledge of the plan of salvation we have. God bless and know that I love you. -Elder Zachary Wallace Anderson
Jacob Floyd
August 29, 2005
I had the great opportunity to be in the same student ward as Rachel my freshman year at BYU. I was always happy to be around her and will remember her because of her great kindness, bright countenance, and positive outlook on life. I count it a blessing to have known her.
Michele Baer
August 29, 2005
What an incredible memorial for Rachael on Saturday-A testament to her wonderful spirit and life! To have both parents speak on that day was an evidence of their complete faith in God's plan and the way they have raised this wonderful daughter. Rachael had such determination to develop all that God gave her and experience the world around her. When she took voice lessons from me, I know it was somewhat outside her comfort zone to do solos; but she so loved to sing that she pushed through the anxiety.
I know she was taken when God exactly needed her there; not in the car accident with my son Tyler 18 months ago. She was given more time. What a bright light she still is.
All our love to the Neils and Hiltons.
Love, Cousin Michele
LaRae Lemich
August 29, 2005
Rachael was born my senior year of high school. She was the first niece that I could keep. I remember how bright she was. Janelle, my biggest sister, would send lists of all the new words she could say and we would hang them on the fridge. Once, when they were visiting us in Vegas I caught a quick snapshot of Rachael twirling and dancing on the front lawn. It looked like the move on "Karate Kid" and so I titled it "My Karate Kid" and put it over my bed when I went back to BYU. It's been my pleasure and joy to watch Rachael grow and become the humble, selfless, yet incredibly talented woman she has.
Memorial weekend of '04 Rachael drove up to visit us way up here in Wyoming for her cousin, Denae's, HS graduation. We went 4-wheelin' and shooting in the country and she had plans to come back this winter because she had never been snowmobiling. Always the adventurer!
Rachael will be missed as the matriarch of the cousins. We all looked to her as the social director. I loved how Rachael always had time for me. She was a perpetual student at BYU, yet she would meet us girls on campus for Women's Conference or always be available when we would drop in at the Provo house. She never made me feel in-the-way or unimportant. I will miss your Ramen noodle hair and your sweet way, Rachael, and I am going to try to be more like you, more like your Savior. I look forward to your gentle, poised-but-warm hugs again.
I love you, Aunt LaRae
Holly Richardson
August 29, 2005
Rachael was such a positive example in my life and i am so grateful for the chance i had to enteract with her at school and play. I am so grateful for the knowlegde of eternal families and I know that we can be with our family for all of eternity because of our Savior Jesus Christ. i will really miss Rachael... and i cant wait to see her again and thank her for her well displayed values and kindness. she is a great friend who will be missed by all.
love,
Marianne DeNovellis
August 29, 2005
What a terrible event to come into the lives of family and friends. Know that the students at BYU will remember Rachael today and will be praying for those who are hurting.
Jody Wood
August 29, 2005
I had the chance to work with Rachael a year ago during the summer. She was a wonderful girl. Since then I had seen her often at school. She always had a smile on her face and a friendly greeting. I will miss passing that smile and friendliness in the halls this semester. I know she will be missed by many. My condolences go out to her close friends and family.
Kayla Hilton
August 28, 2005
Rachael Neil is one the best role models that I have ever known. She lead her friends, family, and cousins by friendship and love. Her energy and zest for life made everyone she came in contact with feel uplifted and important. Her presence will be missed from our family but she will never leave our memories or hearts.
Allison Daun
August 28, 2005
Dear Steve, Janelle, and all the Neil family,
Mike and I and our girls are all so sorry and sad to hear of Rachael's passing, and our hearts are full of sorrow for you. I'm sad for the world, because it has lost one of its best, purest, loveliest spirits. Rachael to me was as the scripture says, "no respecter of persons;" she was "rich unto all." She had a great smile and a gaze that was so unassuming, completely without judgement or ranking of others. When she was little, she was the most charming child who captivated everyone with her bubbliness, jumping around and non-stop talking, all of which was very interesting even at that age. She was so sweet, and refreshing, and she never lost that, although she didn't talk as much or as fast in later years. Our hearts go out to you, and we will miss her very much.
Carolyn Neil
August 28, 2005
Being Rachael's aunt has always given me a sense of pride and happiness. She lived a life of integrity and charity. She always thought of others first rather than herself. Rachael was a wonderful big sister to her immediate family and to all the cousins that followed her. She was interested in cooking and baking as a way to show love. I will never forget the apple pies she made--or the special dinner we had with her only weeks before she died. I will miss her phone calls and her cheery voice and bright eyes. I hope I can be more like her each day of my life. I love you, Rachael. Love, Aunt Carolyn
Jai and Siri Nair
August 28, 2005
To Steve, Janelle, Rachael's brothers and sisters and cousins and aunts and uncles and grandparents,
Our hearts go out to you, and we wish so much we could have come to be with you. I'm grateful for the happy memories I have of Rachael, and thank you for sharing your memories of her too with the rest of us. She was always a great big sister and big cousin to you, and a fun little cousin to me. At this sad time, it is comforting to think of how many people she loved, and how many loved her, and the wonderful influence she has made on our lives.
We pray for your comfort and peace, and are grateful for the peace that comes from the gospel.
With much love,
your cousin Jai
Jerry Lewis
August 28, 2005
Michelle, Matt, Emily and the Rest of the Family:
You are all such wonderful examples of the gospel in action. Heavenly Father lives. His Plan lives in each of us. Jesus Christ lives even though His mortal life ended abruptly. The Holy Ghost lives and will comfort you through this and all other trials. Your wonderful sister and daughter Rachael lives and you will see her again.
Brother Lewis
Stacy Woods
August 27, 2005
Dear Neil family- My heart goes out to your sweet family. I am so sorry to have not been able to attend the funeral, but am so glad my mom, Gail, was able to be there. I just wanted you to know that even though I never knew Rachael as a "grown-up", I have one sweet memory of visiting Uncle Kent's house in Las vegas and being about 12 years old. I was bored on the family trip, but was pleasantly surprised to meet little two year old rachael. She was so bubbly and cute with her pixie doll face and curly hair. I played with her for hours and had a blast twirling her around and throwing her up in the air. I wish I had gotten a chance to see her as a grown women. I am sure I will see her again some day. Hopefully she is meeting with my Dad Vince and having a reunion with all our hilton and wood relatives. ALL my love Stacy Woods
Chelsey Hilton
August 27, 2005
Rachael Neil was one of my wonderful cousins. Her unique personality always drew me to her. She had so much enthusiasum and spunk in her that you couldn't help smiling around her. Even though I know that she's in a better place, I will miss her beautiful spirit in my life.
Kris Gardner
August 27, 2005
"Our birth is but a sleep and a forgetting:
The soul that rises with us, our life's star,
Hath had elsewhere its setting,
And cometh from afar:
Not in entire forgetfulness,
And not in utter nakedness,
But trailing clouds of glory do we come
From God, who is our home:
Heaven lies about us in our infancy!
--William Wordsworth
Death is an awakening and a remembering. A time when with our clouds of glory we return to God, our first home.
Rachael has returned home filled with the glory of a righteous and exciting life; filled with stories of adventure, caring and sharing to tell loved ones in Heaven. She was an example to all of us to give fully of self, to live richly, to take advantage of time and talent, and to love greatly.
Our hearts are filled with sorrow for your family at this tragic time. Yet, at the same time we rejoice for Rachael as she begins her new adventure into eternal life and exaltation.
Bruce McGregor
August 27, 2005
Dear Steve and Janelle, After reading this guestbook It's wonderful to see the love and pure human spirit Rachael showed to all around her, I am so lucky to be among so many who knew her, even though she was just a child, teaching her acrobatics for five or six years was a two way street, she also taught me that there are some acrobatic manuvers that I thought not possible, and I know you know what I'm talking about. I appoligies for not holding it together at your house last Monday night, you and your family were so composed for me, your faith is so strong, and you know she is in heaven, perhaps she is perfoming dance and some awsome acrobatics up their? but as Rachaels former coach I want to truthfully state that out of 20 years of teaching acrobatics, I have not come across a student with as much pure tallent as Rachael, in my opinion, she was one of the best acrobatic performers in the world, I can say that because I know, sorry if this sounds a bit braggy but it was true, and I believe Rachael gave the same degree of excellence to other aspects of her life, and it seems not many people new about her incredible tallent as an acrobat, and as icredible as she was, Rachael held a higher Torch that shone the light of love, life and after life. I will miss Rachael dearly even though I saw her maybe once a year at the Nutcracker, seeing her was like a breath of fresh air, mabey that round white pool at Yosemite was portal to heaven, all I know is, did I believe in god before?....I don't know, do I believe in him now?...I think so. all my love to you and the entire Neil family, Bruce
Krysten Adams
August 27, 2005
I looked up to and admired Rachael as one of the Laurels in our ward. I remember one year at girls' camp when she stood up to bear her testimony. I remember thinking "One day I will have a testimony as strong as Rachael's." I am so grateful for the gospel and the blessings it brings into my life. I thankful for the chance that I've had to know Rachael and to learn from her great example. She lived life to the fullest and always made sure that others did too. My thoughts and prayers are with your family at this time.
Edward and Geraldine Smith
August 26, 2005
Rachael was a very special person. We had very little opportunity to really get to know her. We saw her in April at General Conference, but the best was the end of June, 2005, when she came with her family to visit us in Penticton. That was a wonderful visit. We felt we had never known such a functional, happy, well adjusted family. Rachael's time on earth was short, but she affected those she came in contact with in a beautiful way.
Anita Beaty
August 26, 2005
Our hearts are broken as we think of what you have gone through and are going through. We enjoyed Rachael so much! My favorite memory of her is seeing her beautiful curly hair at church. No one had hair like Rachael. We will miss the sweetness that she showed to everyone. We love you Neil family and our thoughts and prayers are with you.
AnnMarie Neil
August 26, 2005
Racheal...wow. I never knew and will probably never know another person like her. Whenever I used to see her my face would light up and I would run to her and hug her thinking I could just about hold on forever. Racheal was always what I ever wanted to be when I grew up. Beautiful, successful, smart, talented, and full of smiles. Heaven feels closer and closer to me each time I pray for her and her family. Someday I will join her in heaven, but until that day comes, I will, just like her, live each day to it's fullest and never forget who she was in this world. Racheal, I love you and miss you. Remember we love you so much, and that you will live on and on in the hearts of the people who love you forever. ******
Mark Terry
August 26, 2005
I will never forget the kindness and generosity Rachael showed me. Her bright smile and warm personality will truly be missed.
Don & Jeanne Judd
August 26, 2005
Dear Steve, Janelle and Family,
Our hearts are saddened by your great loss.
Altho we didn't know Rachael, we could feel her sweet Spirit as we read all the messages in her Guest Book.
May Heavenly Father comfort you and your whole family during this separation period from Rachael.
The sting of death is swallowed up in Christ, therefore the grave hath no victory. There will be a glorius reunion on the Morning of the First Resurrection, with Rachael waiting for all of you.
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
May God comfort and bless you.
Love, Don & Jeanne Judd
All of us at Superior Equipment
August 26, 2005
To all Neil family members
Our hearts go out to you at this time, we are all saddened by your loss. Earth is a poorer place without Rachel. You are all in our prayers.
Joe, Zada, Peggy
Brent C. Gardner
August 26, 2005
To the Neil Family:
It was my lot to teach the last Sunday School lesson that Rachael heard in mortality, just four days before she died. The subject was eternal love and the sealing power that binds families together forever through the Holy Spirit of Promise. Rachael will always be at the heart of your large and close family. Although you feel Rachael's loss most keenly, it is significant that the rest of us look to you for strength and comfort. Why is that? I believe it is because we see in your home a glimpse of heaven on earth. We see in your lives a love that will never die. We see in your family a chain, forged through covenants, that will never be broken!
Tasanee Sowards
August 26, 2005
Neil Family,
It has been a shock to all of us that this has happened. Rachael was a wonderful girl; always had a smile and always making the most trialsome of tasks seem more workable. I knew her at Westwood as a friend of my brother, and she was was my organic chemisty class this past year at BYU. My love goes out to your family. Love, Tasanee Sowards
Jodi Pierce
August 26, 2005
Steve, Janelle and family:
Rachel was such a wonderful person and such a dedicated friend, sister and daughter. She was so fun and energetic. She was so pleasant to be around and everyone that came in contact with her loved her for who she was. She was always uplifting and such a good example to me. I will remember the nights of playing clue, rummikub and cards. And the diving lessons and the swimming all day long. She will truly be missed but will never be forgotten. God bless you..you did a wonderful job raising such a fabulous girl. My thoughts and prayers are with you through this time.
john p. mattei
August 26, 2005
Dear Neals,
I am genuinely grieved to hear of your loss. Though I did not know rachael, I knew Steve. Looking at the character of the man I know sheds a heartwarming light on the rest of the family.It is with this seen confidence I share my heart and my knowledge of knowing your comfort in Racheals being alive with a risen Saviour on this very day. My prayers are with you while remaining behind. My love is with you all.
John P. Mattei
Bob, Marcy Daggett & Family
August 26, 2005
To All The Neil Family
We have been friends for so many years. Our homes and yards being back to back and watching each other's children grow up and marry. We didn't know Rachel one on one but through her Grandparents (Scotty & Bette) we got to know and love her and all the rest of their sweet grand children. What a joy it is to sit in our back yard and hear the children swimming and playing. Enjoying being at their grandparents home. Scotty & Bette love their grandkids all so much and love to tell of their accomplishments and activities. Once in awhile Scotty & Bette would get to bring one of them to church to show them off. What a special day that was, you could feel the great love that grandparents have for their grand children. That is why it is so hard to lose one of them. We want to tell the Neil Family that we care very deeply about you and your dear sweet family and all that you're going through. We hope it helps to know that loving friends are near in thoughts and prayers to help in any way we can. We hope that you will always know that we love you all so very much. You're like family to us. May God be with you to comfort you and help you get though this trying time. Thank goodness for the Gospel in our lives to help us understand that we will all be together again.
Much, Much Love and Hugs to you all.
Melissa Cook
August 26, 2005
Dear Neil Family- We only knew Rachael as a kind neighbor to my parents in Provo Utah, and good friend to my brother Matt Mildenstein, through their student ward at BYU. My husband and I came in contact with Rachael only a handful of times while traveling through Utah and here in California, but even in our limited contact we were always amazed at her sweet disposition and warm spirit. It just emanated from her. We were so taken by her sweetness each time we met her that every time we would both mention to eachother how great she seemed. Rachael stayed at our home in California before traveling on to Yosemite, and her sweet spirit touched my life again as I watched her and her roomates have scripture study (even though it was late at night)demonstrating the importance of the gospel in her life. She truly has made me want to live the gospel in a more exemplary way. We wanted you to know that even in our very limited contact with her, our lives were touched.
Emily Neil
August 26, 2005
Rachael... an amazing sister and best friend. Always happy and willing to take someone to Sonic. I will miss her hair on the shower wall and her burping, her singing songs even when she didn't know the words and had to make them up herself and how she could help you make fun of yourself, how she signed her name and was never afraid to tell me she loved me, how she called me just to tell me it was her half-birthday and then I got her a half-present, and when she told me about her first kiss and we laughed together. I am looking forward to when we can be together again and forever. She always had something to laugh about and would even laugh at my jokes. She always read her scriptures and was an inspiration. She could wear the highest heels even though I would have broken my ankle. She went to the Nutcracker with me and then took me to Bahama Bucks and we sung country the entire drive. She is my example. I can see Rachael in myself and I am trying to be more like her. Maybe my hair will one day be as bouncy as hers always seemed to be.
John, Jean, Justin,Jason and Jerod DeStories
August 26, 2005
Steve & Janelle, What a huge loss, There are no words to express our sorrow to you. Just a few weeks ago Rachael came down to our house to "Pay up" on a bet that she won with Jean, even though Jean "Owed her" she gave us some peaches. She was a very special young gal, we regret greatly to have heard of the news. Rachael will forever be in our thoughts...
Dave Hill
August 26, 2005
Rachael:
You are truly one person that I'll never forget, and I feel blessed that I was able to know you. You always had a place in your heart for others. Your cheery disposition left a special spot in our hearts. You will be sadly missed, but I'm sure you were needed in heaven. We love you very much and will always be in our hearts.
Alex and Bette Neil
August 25, 2005
Dearest Rachael,
You are our first grandchild and hold a special place in our hearts. One evening Grandma and I and you were shopping in the mall. I think it was at Penney's. I was holding you and carrying you all over the store (more like parading you), and a lady shopper came up to me and said, "First one, eh?" She knew just by looking how much I loved you, and your Grandma too.
Then we took you to Scotland to visit your Great-Grandma and Great-Grandpa. You were only months old and they fell in love with you right away. And as it happens it was your great-Grandma whom you took after in life, with your exuberance and joy of living, singing all the time, giving of your love and kindness to everyone, enjoying life to the fullest and blessing people along the way. You and Great-Grandma must be having a great time right now. Isn't life wonderful?
You helped many people by just being Rachael. You are with us constantly; that will never change. We've grown accustomed to your face, your smile, your look, your place in our hearts, our beloved Rachael.
Love,
Papa and Grandma Neil
Jeanette Asay
August 25, 2005
Steve and Janelle,
May God bless you in your time of need. Our children are our greatest treasures and Rachael was a beautiful daughter and child of God. He is now holding her in the palm of His hand. My prayers are with you and your family.
Your cousin,
Jeanette
Delsa Anderson
August 25, 2005
Our Christmas Eves with the Neil family are among our choicest memories. We especially remember Rachael for being "on" whenever the children put on their part of the evening--the Nativity, the special carols, and the spoken word. Rachael's smile would light up the room--and she was dramatic! Our hearts go out to all in the family. We grieve for you, but her friends' comments let you know she will never be forgotten. Delsa & Darrell
Camille Beaty
August 25, 2005
Oh Rachael. One of the sweetest girls i've ever known. I've lived down the street from the family for 11 years and played with her younger sister frequently during the summers. She was my favorite laurel to look up to while I was in Young Women's. A year ago, some friends and I took a trip to Utah and she was kind enough to lend us a place to stay for 2 of the nights we were up there for General Conference. It was extremely generous of her to do that for us. I'm so happy to know that I will see her again some day! I'm grateful for her awesome example to me all these years. I love you Rachael!
Carlee Hill
August 25, 2005
Oh... my dearest Rachael. There are no words to describe the love and worth you showed to me in this life. I envie you so much because you were such a wonderful singer, beautiful dancer and a gorgeous person inside and out. You were one of those people that would drop anything and come running if you needed help. Our family needed a wonderful cousin to look up to and that is exactly what we were blessed with. I would of hung out with you every second if I could. I wanted to be just like you when I grew up. I love you my dear, and I will miss you so much. But there is also a side of me that when I think of you I get this peaceful feeling and I am so happy for you. Iam so glad you got to drive me to the airport and that very exciting talk that we had on the way. MFEO! Ill never forget that. I loved that you and Michelle would come over and we would wax our eyebrows and watch movies and you would teach us how to barrel roll turn. I sometimes wish I was older and that I was one of your really good college friends, but i loved being your younger cousin, I loved that i had someone as great as you to call family. Ill see you soon my darling! I love you!
Your Cuz,
Car
Steve and Michelle Hill
August 25, 2005
Elder Bruce R. McConkie said "In order to be saved in the Kingdom of God and to pass the test of mortality what you have to do is get on the straight and narrow path and pass out of this life in full fellowship...If you are on that path when death comes--because this is the time and day appointed;you'll never fall off from it, and , for all practical purposes, your calling and election is made sure" Steve and Janelle, this brings us much comfort and I know that Rachael was on this path. We have memories of her as a little girl that was smiley and bouncing with a head full of curls. We will always remember Christmas of 84' when Rachel, Ian and Jordan were all dressed in red for a picture at Gramma Neils. We are sorry for this great, yet temporary loss. We love you. The Hill Family
Leon Button
August 25, 2005
Rachael's cheerful disposition and energetic personality will be missed by all of us who remain - but is being joyously celebrated by all her loved ones on the other side of the veil.
Our prayers and love are with all of you who miss Rachael, especially her wonderful family.
Makenzie Hill
August 25, 2005
Rachael, your life has meant so much to us and my heart aches for your beautiful smile and loving laughter. You truly were the sunshine in all of our lives. But I know that you are needed in heaven at this time and I promise we will see each other again. I love you with all of my heart and soul. And I promise to remember you forever, ever and always, always. I love you, Kenzie
Cheryl Trotter
August 25, 2005
Steve & Janelle, My Thoughts have been with you and your family. Racheal was such a bright beautiful girl. Racheal will be missed by all who love her.
Nanette Hilton
August 25, 2005
Rachael is my first niece and therefore made me an aunt. She was a flower girl at my wedding 21 years ago. I love Rachael for her bouncy hair and sunshine smile that will forever be a blessing in my life. She shared her Boston Creme Pie with me just days before she died. Boston Creme Pie and other sweet things will always remind me of Rachael. I'm so grateful to have hugged her good-bye before she began her trip to Yosemite. It is comforting for me to know we are part of an eternal family and that I can enjoy my memories of Rachael until the time I get to be with her again. My heart felt sympathies are extended to her family and all who love and knew her. Love, Aunt Nanette
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