Rae Stiles Ormsby

Rae Stiles Ormsby obituary, Pine Island, MN

Rae Stiles Ormsby

Rae Ormsby Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Feb. 17, 2014.
Rae Stiles Ormsby, 68, of Pine Island, died of pancreatic cancer Friday, Feb. 14, 2014, at Seasons Hospice in Rochester.

Rae was born in Minneapolis, on Oct. 13, 1945, to Phillip and Martha (Aarnes) Stiles. She grew up in Cleveland, but spent summers and holidays in Sebeka, with her mother's family. After graduating from high school, she moved with her parents to Palos Verdes Peninsula, Calif. She attended California Western University in San Diego, and married Richard "Rick" Ormsby on Aug. 29, 1964. After their wedding, they moved to New England and attended Boston University, where Rae received her nursing degree. Rae worked at several hospitals in New England while Rick served as a United Methodist minister in that area. They had a son, Gabriel, and a daughter, Rebekah, while living in New Hampshire.

In 1979, the family moved to Minnesota. Rae worked at Saint Olaf Hospital in Austin, Mayo Clinic Hospital-Saint Marys in Rochester and District One Hospital in Faribault, while Rick served churches in Dexter, Brownsdale, Grand Meadow, Pine Island and Faribault and acted as the Southeast District superintendent. Her diverse nursing career included work in intensive care, emergency nursing and infection control. She was a supervisor and nursing educator, and received an advanced degree in transcultural nursing from Augsburg College in Minneapolis. She retired in 2010 and moved to Daybreak, her home in rural Pine Island. She regarded her grandchildren, Isaac, 10, and Alma, 5, as a special blessing.

Rae was a member of Pine Island United Methodist Church, where she was active on the Worship Committee and Church Council, and loved teaching the high school Sunday school class. After retirement, she volunteered at the Salvation Army Health Clinic in Rochester and the Pine Island History Center, where she was known as the loom expert. She had a special love for Pine Island's Van Horn Public Library, where she served on the board and did a variety of volunteered tasks, such as shelving and creating displays. In her spare time, Rae was an avid reader, enjoyed worldwide travel and loved to sew anything from church banners to prom dresses.

Rae was preceded in death by her parents.

She is survived by her husband, Rick of Pine Island; son, Gabe (Heidi Eschenbacher); daughter, Rebekah Ormsby (David Lofquist); and grandchildren, Isaac and Alma, all living in Minneapolis.

Diagnosed with advanced cancer over a year ago, Rae came to regard the past year as one of best of her life. She spent extra time with her immediate family, including week-long excursions to Disney World and Itasca State Park. She was in touch with many lifelong friends and was encouraged by cards, flowers and notes of appreciation. She loved life, felt blessed beyond words, and only lamented that it was coming to an end. To her many friends, pastors and other loved ones, we offer our heartfelt thanks. She died a truly grateful and happy woman, trusting a gracious God for her future.

In lieu of flowers, memorials are suggested for Pine Island United Methodist Church, Season's Hospice in Rochester or the Pine Island Van Horn Public Library.

A memorial service and remembrance will be held at Pine Island United Methodist Church, 200 N. Main St., at noon Saturday, Feb. 22. The family will host a calling hour beginning at 11 a.m. at the church. A luncheon will follow at the American Legion Hall, 108 First Ave. S.E.

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March 18, 2014

Gabe Ormsby posted to the memorial.

March 16, 2014

Laurie Meyer posted to the memorial.

February 24, 2014

Gabe Ormsby posted to the memorial.

Gabe Ormsby

March 18, 2014

Laurie,

Thank you for being part of it. The song is "Clouds" by Zach Sobiech.

Laurie Meyer

March 16, 2014

The memorial service was beautiful, the songs,"so Rae". I am thankful to have known her, been a friend, and co worker. I would like to know the name of the song that played during the time that Rae, Rick, and Grandson were flying the kite, it was so beautiful!!
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Gabe Ormsby

February 24, 2014

Memorial Service update: The memorial service for Rae Ormsby will take place on Saturday, March 15th, at Pine Island United Methodist Church in Pine Island, MN. Visiting hour starts at 11:00 a.m.; service at Noon; and a lunch following at the Pine Island American Legion. Thank you everyone for your patience as we dealt with the last winter storm's impact on our plans.

Mark Collins

February 24, 2014

With a very heavy heart we learned of Rae's passing from Arlene Collins (mom) today. Ray and family, our prayers and thoughts go out to you today. You were always such a sweet and blessed friend of the family and your kind words and presence at DJ's passing in January spoke volumes of the family you have and the commitment to your friends on earth. Rae was truly a bright light of sunshine and while Mark and I only got to meet her during the "sky diving" adventure,,,she truly left such a great feeling of happiness behind with us. Bless you Rick and Family, Mark & Lynn Collins, Charleston, SC

Sandi Johnson

February 21, 2014

What a lovely lady. Great nurse to work with, professional, loving, caring, empathetic and down to earth. A woman of many talents. We will miss you Rae.

Gabe Ormsby

February 21, 2014

The memorial service originally scheduled for Saturday, February 22nd has been postponed. Mom, having been an ER nurse, would be the first to encourage us not to be out on these treacherous roads. I will try to post updated dates for the service once they are arranged.

Joseph Medallis

February 21, 2014

We are so sorry to hear about your loss. She is now in gods hands and is no longer suffering. Rae will always be remembered. God bless all of you.

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March 18, 2014

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