Ralph K Calitri

Ralph K Calitri obituary, Fort Myers, FL

Ralph K Calitri

Ralph Calitri Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Nov. 10, 2024.
With heavy hearts, we announce the passing of Ralph K. Calitri on July 30, 2024, at the age of 77 formerly from Dorchester and Canton Massachusetts. He was preceded in death by his father and mother, Leone "Leo" and Eleanora "Nora" (nee Maffeo) Calitri.

He is survived by his wife, Susan (nee Noonan); daughter Sara Jane Mancuso (Eric), and their two children; son Michael Hennessey Calitri (Ciara) and their three children. He is also survived by his sister Virginia Perkins; and brother Leon Calitri (Sharon); former wife, Jane (nee Hennessey); and Susan's daughters, Danielle McGovern (Cory) and their three children; Aileen Marini (Kevin) and their two children; and many extended family and friends.

Born in Boston on May 23rd, 1947, Ralph had a lifelong passion for science, baseball and softball. He graduated from Christopher Columbus High School and went on to Boston State College to play baseball. He graduated in 1969 with a Bachelor of Science in teaching. He received his Master's in Critical Thinking from UMass Boston in 1984. He taught in the Boston Public school system from 1969-2002, when he retired. His love of teaching and mentoring young minds led him to coach high school baseball, football and softball, winning the city baseball championship at Jamaica Plain High School in 1989. He played professional softball for the Columbus All-Americans and the New England Pilgrims where he was a member of 1981 All-Pro team.

After his retirement, Ralph moved to Fort Myers, Florida. He continued to enjoy playing softball and watching baseball.

A Funeral Mass will be held at Saint Brendan's Catholic Church in Dorchester Massachusetts at 10:00 AM on Monday, November 25, 2024. All family and friends are welcome.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Ralph's memory to Major League Baseball RBI program. https://www.mlb.com/forms/rbi-donations

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June 4, 2025

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Kirk Ventiquattro

June 4, 2025

I met Cal through FM softball and had an immediate connection as a fellow, teacher, coach and sports enthusiast. I´ll never forget the days shagging fly balls along side him and exchanging stories about the old pro softball days and coaching experiences. We did and share an occasional text once I flew back North and inflate not a liner g the last triggered my suspicions. We visited the Phillies game in Miami a few years back and Cal introduced my sons and me to Micheal, then an analytics guy with the Phillies. My adult son and I enjoyed the trip, especially meeting Micheal of who which Cal was so proud. Good bye to my "larger than life" friend Cal. May you rest in eternity at the right had of the father and I look forward to us meeting again.

Hank Gambardella

May 26, 2025

Cal will be missed at the Verandah fitness center. Rest in peace my friend.

Chris Romero

December 20, 2024

He was for sure one of my best coaches i ever had, rest in peace Buddy

Mark E Matanes

November 12, 2024

I first met Ralph in 1964. We were both trying out for a baseball league in South Boston called the Connie Mack League. I was so impressed with seeing him standing there that I thought he was the coach. We both went on to play baseball in college together; played in the Boston Park League together; taught school in Dorchester together; coached together; and even went into business together (Curves for Women). We shared many happy times together, as well as some not so happy. He was a true friend, and someone who I would say changed the lives of many people. He loved his family, his God, and his country. Knowing him was a gift. He was truly one of a kind, and will be missed dearly.

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