Ramsey Essa Mahmoud

Ramsey Essa Mahmoud

Ramsey Mahmoud Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Aug. 26, 2009.
Ramsey Essa Mahmoud Apr. 21, 1980 - Aug. 22, 2009 Ramsey will be remembered as a caring son, brother, uncle, and friend. He is survived by his mother, Jane Mahmoud; step-father, Harold Baker; brother, Basil Mahmoud; sister-in-law, Kelly Mahmoud; nieces, Madeleine and Charlotte Mahmoud; and cousin, Bassam Mahmoud; all of Austin. In addition, he is survived by numerous family members, both in the U.S. and abroad. His beloved dog, a black lab named Pancho, was with Ramsey at the time of his death. He is predeceased by his loving and devoted father, Issa Mahmoud. A native Austinite, Ramsey loved his family and was proud of his heritage. He never missed the opportunity to spend time with his family, whether simple get-togethers in Austin or on numerous trips to North Carolina, Oklahoma and New York. Ramsey was a great athlete, scholar and friend. Growing up, Ramsey's front yard was the place where all the neighborhood kids tossed the football or met to ride bikes. Ramsey was always "game" for anything, and friends were drawn to his easy smile and fun loving nature. Ramsey excelled at soccer and played on many select teams, which his father often coached. Academics came easily for Ramsey. He graduated from Westwood High School; Ramsey was a Dean's List student at Texas State University, just a few classes away from completing a degree in Information Technology. During his teenage years, Ramsey began using marijuana to cope with grief and depression related to his father's illness and death. What started as experimental and recreational drug use in high school developed during his college years into the use of the prescription drug oxycontin, and eventually into an addiction to heroin. Within a matter of just a few months, this addiction derailed a once promising future. Ultimately, Ramsey was unable to escape the grasp of his addiction, though he had a tremendous will and desire to do so and the efforts and support of his family (most especially his mother and step-father) and numerous friends. The slide from recreational drugs to addiction is slippery and does not discriminate. Ramsey's family hopes that telling his story may help someone else avoid following a similar path. The family will receive family and friends at Beck Funeral Home located at 15709 Ranch Road 620 in Austin on Thursday, August 27 from 7:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. The service will be held at the Northwest Hills United Methodist Church on Friday, August 28 at 10:00 a.m. Ramsey's final resting place will be alongside his father in Charlotte, North Carolina. In lieu of flowers, the family has designated memorials to Discovery! Austin, 3001 RR 620 South, Suite 328, Austin, TX 78734 or Summer Sky Chemical Dependency Treatment Center, 1100 McCart, Stephenville, TX 76401.

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August 22, 2024

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August 22, 2024

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August 22, 2024

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Jane Mahmoud

August 22, 2024

Grief is still so hard. Missing and loving you always, Ramsey. -Mom

Jane Mahmoud

August 22, 2024

Missing and loving you always, Ramsey. -Mom

Myrna Fourcher

August 22, 2024

Remembering Ramsey today and always. Can“t believe it has been 15 years!
Aunt Myrna

Bruce and Myrna Fourcher

August 22, 2022

We join Jane in missing Ramsey. Time doesn't erase the memory of those we love; they remain in our hearts forever.

Jane Mahmoud

August 22, 2022

Thinking of you today and every day, Ramsey, and missing you always. My heart is still broken after 13 years without my beautiful boy. Love, Mom

Mortada and Pam Mohamed and family

August 20, 2022

Your memory lives on in our family. Our son Sharif has named his first child Ramzi. He looked up to Ramsey so much. He was the big brother he wished he had.

Myrna and Bruce Fourcher

August 22, 2021

We think of Ramsey today, but not just today. We will always hold him in our hearts and in our memories.

Jane Mahmoud

August 22, 2020

Thinking of you today and missing your smile, your hugs, and your kind heart. I love you, always, Mom.

Bruce and Myrna Fourcher

August 22, 2020

We never forget our nephew, Ramsey. His absence is a void that will always remain with everyone in our family, and, of course, most especially with his mom Jane.

Bruce and Myrna Fourcher

August 22, 2019

As always, we remember Ramsey, especially on this anniversary day.

Jane Mahmoud

August 26, 2014

Ramsey, all the messages and calls I received on August 22, 2014 reminded me how much I miss you with all my heart. No one, except those who have had a similar experience, can understand how it feels to have this big hole in my heart. Some days, I relive the evening of August 22, 2009, and I feel like I cannot breathe because the memories are so painful. I try to remember your childhood to put the pain out of my mind and my heart. I love you so much, Ramsey, and cannot believe it has been five years. With all my love, Mom

Myrna and Bruce Fourcher

April 22, 2014

We continue to miss Rams, especially when we have a family gathering for a special occasion. We remind ourselves that we never truly lose those we love because they remain in our hearts forever.

April 21, 2014

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, RAMSEY!! Missing you and loving you more each day. It seems like forever since I saw you last, but at the same time, it seems like you could walk through the door any minute with that big smile on your face. LOVE YOU MORE THAN WORDS CAN SAY. Mom

Jane Mahmoud

August 22, 2010

Ramsey,

Today is the first anniversary of your leaving us to rest in peace, away from the pain and troubles of your life here on earth.

I hope you were there in spirit today when Nic, Karson, Chris, Poncho and I visited the place where you died. It was very hot, just like it was a year ago today, but we stayed there long enough to leave a bouquet of roses and carnations and some mementos that the guys wanted to leave. Each of us released a white balloon to symbolize your heaven-bound spirit, and took pictures of one another in front of our makeshift altar. I was so glad the guys suggested we go there today; they miss you so much.

We also visited Comfort House just a few blocks away. Nic wanted to meet Flo, and I wanted to deliver some more donated clothes for the children who come there. Erica, Flo's grandaughter who found you in your car that day, was not there, but Flo enjoyed meeting the guys and Poncho.

You would be happy to know that Harold has been volunteering as a TA at Discovery this week and he is loving it. We thank you so much for being brave enough to go to Discovery, not knowing anything about it, and unknowingly leading us there. It has been such an awesome experience, and we feel that we owe it all to you.

Bassam and I are going to Basil's today for dinner. Bassam misses you so much and wanted us all to be together today in your memory. None of these things that we do to remember you will bring you back to us, but it helps me somehow to go through the motions. You just can't imagine how much we miss that beautiful smile of yours. You are such an important part of our lives, and we will never forget you.

I love you Ram.

Mom

Jane Mahmoud

July 8, 2010

Ramsey,

You and your dad have been on my mind and in my heart so much today, the 16th anniversary of your dad's death and the one-year anniversary of your time in the hospital, fighting for your life. I am so glad that God allowed you to pull through that terrible illness so that you would have more time to make amends to so many of your family and friends, and more time for you to spend with me during your recovery, before you left us too.

Ramsey, you will never be forgotten as long as I am here and I truly believe that many others will remember you after I'm gone. Your Discovery friends and Chris and Nic have been so supportive and caring. Nic even brought me flowers on Mother's Day, and Chris brings Poncho over to see me now and then. Of course, Maddy and Charlotte bring true joy to me -- I don't know what I would do without them.

I love you so very much and miss you more than words can say. I hope that you can hear my words and know that you mean the world to me.

With all my love,

Mom

April 21, 2010

Ramsey,

Happy 30th Birthday, Ramsey! I can't believe it has been 30 years since you came into our lives and blessed us with so much love and compassion.

Tomorrow will mark eight months since you left us, and I am missing you more and more as time goes by. I know that you are resting now, free of all the pain and heartache you suffered here on earth.

Just know, Ramsey, that I loved you unconditionally and that I want so much to be with you again someday.

With all my love, Mom.

April 21, 2010

Jane and Basil:
We are thinking especially of you today, April 21, 2010, as you remember Ramsey on the 30th anniversary of his birth, and tomorrow, marking the 8th month since his death. For all of us who knew and loved Rams, we continue to miss his presence among us. We know, too, that the pain of losing him has not lessened over these months, but shared fond memories of the impact he had on the lives of others continues to be told. The only consolation in losing Rams is knowing that he is at last at peace and that we will see him again.
With our love and prayers, Myrna and Bruce

Jamie Miller Smith

February 2, 2010

Dear Jane,

Anytime I think back to my childhood, Ramsey is always in my memories. He, along with Jonathan, Jeremy, Jeff, Megan, and other kids we were so very close to are moments I will treasure forever and will be in my heart unendingly.

You were always there for me and my family whenever you were needed. You and Jackie were like my second "moms" and have a special place in my heart.

Riding bikes, playing nintendo, soccer, late night capture the flag games, sitting beneath a street lamp on the curb making lightning bug "rings" (I think Jackie started that one), hanging out in our forts, and aggravating each other like kids do... These are my memories of our times growing up across the street from one another.

My heart is saddened and aching for you and now all we have are the good times forever etched in our minds. I love you and hope things will get more bearable with each passing day and pray you never forget that boy you raised through so many difficult times really does have his wings and is no longer suffering.

All my love,

Jamie (Miller) Smith

Pam Mohamed

January 31, 2010

Dearest Jane and Basil,
Mortada and I are greatly saddened to learn of Ramsey's death. Sharif fondly remembered Ramsey's kind heart and great generousity even at a young age. He was the big brother that Sharif wished he had. Alia and Hoda were his soccer fans. Our prayers are with you and all your family.

January 1, 2010

Ramsey, my "beautiful boy" -- On the first day of this new year 2010, I find that I miss you more and more each day. The holidays have not been the same without you -- there was joy in spending time with family, especially Maddy and Charlotte, but that emptiness in my heart just would not go away.

I love you with all my heart and miss you more than words could ever express. I know that if there truly is a God and His Son, Jesus Christ, then you have spent your first Christmas in Heaven with them. There is no doubt in my mind and heart that you were a good and caring person. I will always remember the goodness in you.

You are always on my mind.

Love, Mom

Tiffany (Davis) McMillan

October 26, 2009

Mrs. Mahmoud,

My heart goes out to you and your family. Ramsey was a genuine, wonderful, and loving soul. I am thankful that I had the opportunity to share a few words with him this year.
He stole my heart early on and always held a piece of it. I will always remember him and what a great Mother I always saw you to be.
Warmest regards,
Tiffany Davis McMillan

September 20, 2009

To all of those who have made entries on Ramsey's guest book, I want to say thank you for your kind words of sympathy and caring. I would like to thank especially his young friends for their fond remembrances of Ramsey and for just simply being his friend. He loved all of you.

I cherish most Ramsey's kind heart and his love of family, friends, and his dog, Poncho. But what I will miss most is that beautiful smile and his loving hugs. My heart is broken and I miss him terribly.

God, please take care of Ramsey's beautiful soul. I hope you have a pair of XXLarge wings; he doesn't like anything that fits too tightly.

His loving mom, Jane

Molly Green

September 8, 2009

My heart aches that I only knew Ramsey for a month but at the same time I realize how lucky I am to have known him at all. I will never forget his smile, his genuine love for his family (including Pancho), his enthusiasm, and his kind heart. I love you, Jane, and I am so grateful that you are a part of my life. Thank you for helping me and Erin be a part of Ramsey's life too.

Aunt Myrna and Uncle Bruce Fourcher

September 5, 2009

Those of us who are a part of Ramsey's extended family (aunts and cousins) are devastated at his death. We've shared so many precious times with Rams over the years since he was born. We remember his handsome face and infectious smile; his love of family; his play days with friends; his pet cats that he loved so much; his excellence in soccer; his achievement at the Hollins Institute; his educational accomplishments and desire for a career; his hopes for a family of his own; his friendships made in the Discovery! Austin group; his love for his dog Pancho; his final days pursuing a knowledge of his Creator and giving his life to Christ Jesus; and especially his desire to overcome the addiction that plagued him. This is all like a bad dream, like something that cannot be real, and yet it is. Our hearts ache for Jane, Harold, Basil, Kelly, Maddy, Charlotte, Bassam, and all their other family and friends. The one consolation in our profound grief is knowing that Rams is free from the addiction because he is now perfected in Heaven. Peace and love to you, Rams. We look forward to the time when we will see you again someday!

Nancy Rightmyer

September 3, 2009

Jane,

I heard about Ramsey's passing through Amy, my daughter who was in the same grade as Ramsey. I read the obituary on-line and wanted to tell you how beautifully it was written. Although our lives have gone in different directions since the days when we were in Anderson Mill's Little People's Babysitting Co-op together and we have seen each other only a handful of times since those days, I wanted to let you know how sorry I am for your loss. Ramsey was just six days older than Amy and I can't even begin to imagine the intensity of your loss. Please know that I am thinking about you and your family. May God grant you strength for today, courage for tomorrow, and comfort you always.

Rixie Vanderberry

September 2, 2009

Jane, my heart goes out to you and your family. I can only imagine what you have gone through. I, too, have a daughter who is following the same path and often worry that the "call" will come any day. My love and sympathy goes out to you.

Erin McAffrey

September 1, 2009

Jane...thank you so much for allowing Ramsey and I to cross paths. He was a beautiful, genuine, and truly brave person. And although our time together was brief, he has left an everlasting impression on my heart.

Desiree Brutocao

September 1, 2009

Ramsey helped me and we didn't even know each other. In a series of very random events, I attended the funeral service for Ramsey. My husband is friends with Basil. I came along last minute. I have just recently finished my second bout of lymphoma, including chemo and a bone marrow transplant, and, in my moments, have told my husband that maybe it would be just better if I die--my kids will move on. Well, I know from Ramsey that it is better to be here for my children. I know Ramsey's dad didn't quit. He died, but he didn't quit. I am not going to quit either. Thank you for illustrating that I need to fight. I hope you are with you dad now Ramsey. You are very special to me.

Angie Mahmoud

August 31, 2009

My beloved Ramsey..words cannot express how much you will be missed..the dynamics of our relationship will never be understood but they will forever stay with me and remembered. I loved you so much and hope you are at peace now...xoxo

Frank & Lucy Ditmore

August 31, 2009

We always enjoyed having Ramsey at our family get-togethers. He was always very polite and helpful. We saved a very special thank you note from Ramsey for the gift we gave him when he graduated from Westwood. He thanked us not only for the gift, but every little thing we had done for him. It's a keeper! Our hearts go out to Jane and Basil.

Friends

Clay Ruppen

August 28, 2009

Ramsey,

You will always be in my heart and will see you again someday. I am very thankful for all the good times and laughs we had together. I am glad you are at peace now and will be dearly missed.

Clay Ruppen

Vivian

August 27, 2009

Jane, My heart is breaking for you. I know how much you loved Ramsey and what a wonderful mother you were to him. He was your baby boy and the love between the two of you was so strong. What a wonderful mother and what a wonderful son. May you find peace in your faith and know that he will be watching over you.

Jason Cutrer

August 27, 2009

Ramsey,

You are a loving and compassionate human and you will be missed. I will cherish the conversations and laughter we shared.

Kimberly Armstrong

August 27, 2009

Dear Jane,

I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers

August 27, 2009

Ramsey,
We loved you dearly and always will. We will always cherish our memories with you and we will miss you.
Elizabeth and Jack

jnn

August 27, 2009

Ramsey,

You will be deeply missed, a funny, loyal and caring friend. I can't express in words the sense of loss and I know your mother must feel it ten-fold. I wish her peace and comfort at this time of crisis.

Saundra Allen

August 27, 2009

Dear Kelly and Basil,
Ron and I are so sorry for your loss. Life is so unfair sometimes, but the fact that God is always there for us helps us to survive.
God Bless,
Ron and Saundra Allen

Savitri Kumar-Saldana

August 27, 2009

Precious Family of Ramsey,
We at Discovery! Austin, came to know Ramsey in a very special way,as we walked with him as he was turning his life around. We loved him! My heart is very saddened at his sudden departure. However, I believe that he is finally at peace in the Kingdom of God. He will be missed very much. My prayers, sympathy and condolences go out to all his family and friends.

Monica W.

August 26, 2009

Dear Jane and Harold,

Thank you for your honesty. Know that the love of a Higher Power flows through those of us who see that you are hurting. I send that love your way.

David & Suzanne Ryan

August 26, 2009

News of Ramsey's death was such a shock. What a sad loss to you, Jane and Basil, and all those who loved him. We fondly remember Ramsey having a great time on the soccer field with his buddies and Issa shouting, "Ramsey, what are you doing?!" You have reason to be proud of him, and your candor in sharing his struggle with his addiction adds a note of empathy which will be sadly familiar to many other families. You're in our thoughts and prayers.

Deborah McElfish

August 26, 2009

May strength and peace find your family quickly and deeply.

My daughter Kari held you in high esteem now and always.

Peace

Linda McNair

August 26, 2009

Jane, Harold & Family:

The death of Ramsey leaves a heartache that can not be healed; however, his love leaves many memories that can not be taken away.

Thank you for telling Ramsey's story, I pray that it helps the many other famlies that are dealing with these same issues.

kjm

August 26, 2009

Dear Kelly and Basil - bless you and your girls and look for the quiet that may surround his passing. In peace, K

Paddi Hall

August 26, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you now and always. May you find some confort knowing just how much he was loved and respected by all. i went through Discovery with Ramsey 1.2 and 3
I have learned so much from him I will never forget his SMILE.

Kelley Anderson

August 26, 2009

I am sorry for your loss. I went to Westwood and Tech with Ramsey and was saddened by the recent news. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.

Karen Hill

August 26, 2009

Ramsey, you will always live in our hearts and prayers.
Jane my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family

Marty Bustos

August 26, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you Jane and your family. Drew Ford and Marty Bustos

August 26, 2009

May God richly bless you all for telling Ramsey's story.

Janet Girard

August 26, 2009

So sorry to hear about Ramsey. My heart goes out to you! You're in our prayers.

Jamie Miller-Smith

August 26, 2009

Ramsey, you will be missed... I will cherish memories of many good times as children. Jane, you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Nancy Ohlendorf

August 26, 2009

This obituary is incredibly loving and generous. We are so terribly sorry that Ramsey could not conquer this horrible addiction. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Nancy Ohlendorf

Kelly Watson-Melancon

August 26, 2009

Ramsey will live on, forever in the people that were lucky enough to have met him. He was one in a million.

The times we had at Tech, we're unforgetable and will be cherished forever. You'll be missed, my friend

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