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Jane Mahmoud
August 22, 2024
Grief is still so hard. Missing and loving you always, Ramsey. -Mom
Jane Mahmoud
August 22, 2024
Missing and loving you always, Ramsey. -Mom
Myrna Fourcher
August 22, 2024
Remembering Ramsey today and always. Can“t believe it has been 15 years!
Aunt Myrna
Bruce and Myrna Fourcher
August 22, 2022
We join Jane in missing Ramsey. Time doesn't erase the memory of those we love; they remain in our hearts forever.
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Jane Mahmoud
August 22, 2022
Thinking of you today and every day, Ramsey, and missing you always. My heart is still broken after 13 years without my beautiful boy. Love, Mom
Mortada and Pam Mohamed and family
August 20, 2022
Your memory lives on in our family. Our son Sharif has named his first child Ramzi. He looked up to Ramsey so much. He was the big brother he wished he had.
Myrna and Bruce Fourcher
August 22, 2021
We think of Ramsey today, but not just today. We will always hold him in our hearts and in our memories.
Jane Mahmoud
August 22, 2020
Thinking of you today and missing your smile, your hugs, and your kind heart. I love you, always, Mom.
Bruce and Myrna Fourcher
August 22, 2020
We never forget our nephew, Ramsey. His absence is a void that will always remain with everyone in our family, and, of course, most especially with his mom Jane.
Bruce and Myrna Fourcher
August 22, 2019
As always, we remember Ramsey, especially on this anniversary day.
Jane Mahmoud
August 26, 2014
Ramsey, all the messages and calls I received on August 22, 2014 reminded me how much I miss you with all my heart. No one, except those who have had a similar experience, can understand how it feels to have this big hole in my heart. Some days, I relive the evening of August 22, 2009, and I feel like I cannot breathe because the memories are so painful. I try to remember your childhood to put the pain out of my mind and my heart. I love you so much, Ramsey, and cannot believe it has been five years. With all my love, Mom
Myrna and Bruce Fourcher
April 22, 2014
We continue to miss Rams, especially when we have a family gathering for a special occasion. We remind ourselves that we never truly lose those we love because they remain in our hearts forever.
April 21, 2014
HAPPY BIRTHDAY, RAMSEY!! Missing you and loving you more each day. It seems like forever since I saw you last, but at the same time, it seems like you could walk through the door any minute with that big smile on your face. LOVE YOU MORE THAN WORDS CAN SAY. Mom
Jane Mahmoud
August 22, 2010
Ramsey,
Today is the first anniversary of your leaving us to rest in peace, away from the pain and troubles of your life here on earth.
I hope you were there in spirit today when Nic, Karson, Chris, Poncho and I visited the place where you died. It was very hot, just like it was a year ago today, but we stayed there long enough to leave a bouquet of roses and carnations and some mementos that the guys wanted to leave. Each of us released a white balloon to symbolize your heaven-bound spirit, and took pictures of one another in front of our makeshift altar. I was so glad the guys suggested we go there today; they miss you so much.
We also visited Comfort House just a few blocks away. Nic wanted to meet Flo, and I wanted to deliver some more donated clothes for the children who come there. Erica, Flo's grandaughter who found you in your car that day, was not there, but Flo enjoyed meeting the guys and Poncho.
You would be happy to know that Harold has been volunteering as a TA at Discovery this week and he is loving it. We thank you so much for being brave enough to go to Discovery, not knowing anything about it, and unknowingly leading us there. It has been such an awesome experience, and we feel that we owe it all to you.
Bassam and I are going to Basil's today for dinner. Bassam misses you so much and wanted us all to be together today in your memory. None of these things that we do to remember you will bring you back to us, but it helps me somehow to go through the motions. You just can't imagine how much we miss that beautiful smile of yours. You are such an important part of our lives, and we will never forget you.
I love you Ram.
Mom
Jane Mahmoud
July 8, 2010
Ramsey,
You and your dad have been on my mind and in my heart so much today, the 16th anniversary of your dad's death and the one-year anniversary of your time in the hospital, fighting for your life. I am so glad that God allowed you to pull through that terrible illness so that you would have more time to make amends to so many of your family and friends, and more time for you to spend with me during your recovery, before you left us too.
Ramsey, you will never be forgotten as long as I am here and I truly believe that many others will remember you after I'm gone. Your Discovery friends and Chris and Nic have been so supportive and caring. Nic even brought me flowers on Mother's Day, and Chris brings Poncho over to see me now and then. Of course, Maddy and Charlotte bring true joy to me -- I don't know what I would do without them.
I love you so very much and miss you more than words can say. I hope that you can hear my words and know that you mean the world to me.
With all my love,
Mom
April 21, 2010
Ramsey,
Happy 30th Birthday, Ramsey! I can't believe it has been 30 years since you came into our lives and blessed us with so much love and compassion.
Tomorrow will mark eight months since you left us, and I am missing you more and more as time goes by. I know that you are resting now, free of all the pain and heartache you suffered here on earth.
Just know, Ramsey, that I loved you unconditionally and that I want so much to be with you again someday.
With all my love, Mom.
April 21, 2010
Jane and Basil:
We are thinking especially of you today, April 21, 2010, as you remember Ramsey on the 30th anniversary of his birth, and tomorrow, marking the 8th month since his death. For all of us who knew and loved Rams, we continue to miss his presence among us. We know, too, that the pain of losing him has not lessened over these months, but shared fond memories of the impact he had on the lives of others continues to be told. The only consolation in losing Rams is knowing that he is at last at peace and that we will see him again.
With our love and prayers, Myrna and Bruce
Jamie Miller Smith
February 2, 2010
Dear Jane,
Anytime I think back to my childhood, Ramsey is always in my memories. He, along with Jonathan, Jeremy, Jeff, Megan, and other kids we were so very close to are moments I will treasure forever and will be in my heart unendingly.
You were always there for me and my family whenever you were needed. You and Jackie were like my second "moms" and have a special place in my heart.
Riding bikes, playing nintendo, soccer, late night capture the flag games, sitting beneath a street lamp on the curb making lightning bug "rings" (I think Jackie started that one), hanging out in our forts, and aggravating each other like kids do... These are my memories of our times growing up across the street from one another.
My heart is saddened and aching for you and now all we have are the good times forever etched in our minds. I love you and hope things will get more bearable with each passing day and pray you never forget that boy you raised through so many difficult times really does have his wings and is no longer suffering.
All my love,
Jamie (Miller) Smith
Pam Mohamed
January 31, 2010
Dearest Jane and Basil,
Mortada and I are greatly saddened to learn of Ramsey's death. Sharif fondly remembered Ramsey's kind heart and great generousity even at a young age. He was the big brother that Sharif wished he had. Alia and Hoda were his soccer fans. Our prayers are with you and all your family.
January 1, 2010
Ramsey, my "beautiful boy" -- On the first day of this new year 2010, I find that I miss you more and more each day. The holidays have not been the same without you -- there was joy in spending time with family, especially Maddy and Charlotte, but that emptiness in my heart just would not go away.
I love you with all my heart and miss you more than words could ever express. I know that if there truly is a God and His Son, Jesus Christ, then you have spent your first Christmas in Heaven with them. There is no doubt in my mind and heart that you were a good and caring person. I will always remember the goodness in you.
You are always on my mind.
Love, Mom
Tiffany (Davis) McMillan
October 26, 2009
Mrs. Mahmoud,
My heart goes out to you and your family. Ramsey was a genuine, wonderful, and loving soul. I am thankful that I had the opportunity to share a few words with him this year.
He stole my heart early on and always held a piece of it. I will always remember him and what a great Mother I always saw you to be.
Warmest regards,
Tiffany Davis McMillan
September 20, 2009
To all of those who have made entries on Ramsey's guest book, I want to say thank you for your kind words of sympathy and caring. I would like to thank especially his young friends for their fond remembrances of Ramsey and for just simply being his friend. He loved all of you.
I cherish most Ramsey's kind heart and his love of family, friends, and his dog, Poncho. But what I will miss most is that beautiful smile and his loving hugs. My heart is broken and I miss him terribly.
God, please take care of Ramsey's beautiful soul. I hope you have a pair of XXLarge wings; he doesn't like anything that fits too tightly.
His loving mom, Jane
Molly Green
September 8, 2009
My heart aches that I only knew Ramsey for a month but at the same time I realize how lucky I am to have known him at all. I will never forget his smile, his genuine love for his family (including Pancho), his enthusiasm, and his kind heart. I love you, Jane, and I am so grateful that you are a part of my life. Thank you for helping me and Erin be a part of Ramsey's life too.
Aunt Myrna and Uncle Bruce Fourcher
September 5, 2009
Those of us who are a part of Ramsey's extended family (aunts and cousins) are devastated at his death. We've shared so many precious times with Rams over the years since he was born. We remember his handsome face and infectious smile; his love of family; his play days with friends; his pet cats that he loved so much; his excellence in soccer; his achievement at the Hollins Institute; his educational accomplishments and desire for a career; his hopes for a family of his own; his friendships made in the Discovery! Austin group; his love for his dog Pancho; his final days pursuing a knowledge of his Creator and giving his life to Christ Jesus; and especially his desire to overcome the addiction that plagued him. This is all like a bad dream, like something that cannot be real, and yet it is. Our hearts ache for Jane, Harold, Basil, Kelly, Maddy, Charlotte, Bassam, and all their other family and friends. The one consolation in our profound grief is knowing that Rams is free from the addiction because he is now perfected in Heaven. Peace and love to you, Rams. We look forward to the time when we will see you again someday!
Nancy Rightmyer
September 3, 2009
Jane,
I heard about Ramsey's passing through Amy, my daughter who was in the same grade as Ramsey. I read the obituary on-line and wanted to tell you how beautifully it was written. Although our lives have gone in different directions since the days when we were in Anderson Mill's Little People's Babysitting Co-op together and we have seen each other only a handful of times since those days, I wanted to let you know how sorry I am for your loss. Ramsey was just six days older than Amy and I can't even begin to imagine the intensity of your loss. Please know that I am thinking about you and your family. May God grant you strength for today, courage for tomorrow, and comfort you always.
Rixie Vanderberry
September 2, 2009
Jane, my heart goes out to you and your family. I can only imagine what you have gone through. I, too, have a daughter who is following the same path and often worry that the "call" will come any day. My love and sympathy goes out to you.
Erin McAffrey
September 1, 2009
Jane...thank you so much for allowing Ramsey and I to cross paths. He was a beautiful, genuine, and truly brave person. And although our time together was brief, he has left an everlasting impression on my heart.
Desiree Brutocao
September 1, 2009
Ramsey helped me and we didn't even know each other. In a series of very random events, I attended the funeral service for Ramsey. My husband is friends with Basil. I came along last minute. I have just recently finished my second bout of lymphoma, including chemo and a bone marrow transplant, and, in my moments, have told my husband that maybe it would be just better if I die--my kids will move on. Well, I know from Ramsey that it is better to be here for my children. I know Ramsey's dad didn't quit. He died, but he didn't quit. I am not going to quit either. Thank you for illustrating that I need to fight. I hope you are with you dad now Ramsey. You are very special to me.
Angie Mahmoud
August 31, 2009
My beloved Ramsey..words cannot express how much you will be missed..the dynamics of our relationship will never be understood but they will forever stay with me and remembered. I loved you so much and hope you are at peace now...xoxo
Frank & Lucy Ditmore
August 31, 2009
We always enjoyed having Ramsey at our family get-togethers. He was always very polite and helpful. We saved a very special thank you note from Ramsey for the gift we gave him when he graduated from Westwood. He thanked us not only for the gift, but every little thing we had done for him. It's a keeper! Our hearts go out to Jane and Basil.
Friends
Clay Ruppen
August 28, 2009
Ramsey,
You will always be in my heart and will see you again someday. I am very thankful for all the good times and laughs we had together. I am glad you are at peace now and will be dearly missed.
Clay Ruppen
Vivian
August 27, 2009
Jane, My heart is breaking for you. I know how much you loved Ramsey and what a wonderful mother you were to him. He was your baby boy and the love between the two of you was so strong. What a wonderful mother and what a wonderful son. May you find peace in your faith and know that he will be watching over you.
Jason Cutrer
August 27, 2009
Ramsey,
You are a loving and compassionate human and you will be missed. I will cherish the conversations and laughter we shared.
Kimberly Armstrong
August 27, 2009
Dear Jane,
I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers
August 27, 2009
Ramsey,
We loved you dearly and always will. We will always cherish our memories with you and we will miss you.
Elizabeth and Jack
jnn
August 27, 2009
Ramsey,
You will be deeply missed, a funny, loyal and caring friend. I can't express in words the sense of loss and I know your mother must feel it ten-fold. I wish her peace and comfort at this time of crisis.
Saundra Allen
August 27, 2009
Dear Kelly and Basil,
Ron and I are so sorry for your loss. Life is so unfair sometimes, but the fact that God is always there for us helps us to survive.
God Bless,
Ron and Saundra Allen
Savitri Kumar-Saldana
August 27, 2009
Precious Family of Ramsey,
We at Discovery! Austin, came to know Ramsey in a very special way,as we walked with him as he was turning his life around. We loved him! My heart is very saddened at his sudden departure. However, I believe that he is finally at peace in the Kingdom of God. He will be missed very much. My prayers, sympathy and condolences go out to all his family and friends.
Monica W.
August 26, 2009
Dear Jane and Harold,
Thank you for your honesty. Know that the love of a Higher Power flows through those of us who see that you are hurting. I send that love your way.
David & Suzanne Ryan
August 26, 2009
News of Ramsey's death was such a shock. What a sad loss to you, Jane and Basil, and all those who loved him. We fondly remember Ramsey having a great time on the soccer field with his buddies and Issa shouting, "Ramsey, what are you doing?!" You have reason to be proud of him, and your candor in sharing his struggle with his addiction adds a note of empathy which will be sadly familiar to many other families. You're in our thoughts and prayers.
Deborah McElfish
August 26, 2009
May strength and peace find your family quickly and deeply.
My daughter Kari held you in high esteem now and always.
Peace
Linda McNair
August 26, 2009
Jane, Harold & Family:
The death of Ramsey leaves a heartache that can not be healed; however, his love leaves many memories that can not be taken away.
Thank you for telling Ramsey's story, I pray that it helps the many other famlies that are dealing with these same issues.
kjm
August 26, 2009
Dear Kelly and Basil - bless you and your girls and look for the quiet that may surround his passing. In peace, K
Paddi Hall
August 26, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you now and always. May you find some confort knowing just how much he was loved and respected by all. i went through Discovery with Ramsey 1.2 and 3
I have learned so much from him I will never forget his SMILE.
Kelley Anderson
August 26, 2009
I am sorry for your loss. I went to Westwood and Tech with Ramsey and was saddened by the recent news. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Karen Hill
August 26, 2009
Ramsey, you will always live in our hearts and prayers.
Jane my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family
Marty Bustos
August 26, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with you Jane and your family. Drew Ford and Marty Bustos
August 26, 2009
May God richly bless you all for telling Ramsey's story.
Janet Girard
August 26, 2009
So sorry to hear about Ramsey. My heart goes out to you! You're in our prayers.
Jamie Miller-Smith
August 26, 2009
Ramsey, you will be missed... I will cherish memories of many good times as children. Jane, you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Nancy Ohlendorf
August 26, 2009
This obituary is incredibly loving and generous. We are so terribly sorry that Ramsey could not conquer this horrible addiction. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Nancy Ohlendorf
Kelly Watson-Melancon
August 26, 2009
Ramsey will live on, forever in the people that were lucky enough to have met him. He was one in a million.
The times we had at Tech, we're unforgetable and will be cherished forever. You'll be missed, my friend
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