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Randy Pausch Obituary
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PITTSBURGH (AP) - Randy Pausch, a Carnegie Mellon University computer scientist whose "last lecture" about facing terminal cancer became an Internet sensation and a best-selling book, died Friday. He was 47.
Pausch died at his home in Virginia, university spokeswoman Anne Watzman said. Pausch and his family moved there last fall to be closer to his wife's relatives.
Pausch was diagnosed with incurable pancreatic cancer in September 2006. His popular last lecture at Carnegie Mellon in September 2007 garnered international attention and was viewed by millions on the Internet.
In it, Pausch celebrated living the life he had always dreamed of instead of concentrating on impending death.
"The lecture was for my kids, but if others are finding value in it, that is wonderful," Pausch wrote on his Web site. "But rest assured; I'm hardly unique."
The book "The Last Lecture," written with Jeffrey Zaslow, leaped to the top of the nonfiction best-seller lists after its publication in April and remains there this week. Pausch said he dictated the book to Zaslow, a Wall Street Journal writer, by cell phone. The book deal was reported to be worth more than $6 million.
At Carnegie Mellon, he was a professor of computer science, human-computer interaction and design, and was recognized as a pioneer of virtual reality research. On campus, he became known for his flamboyance and showmanship as a teacher and mentor.
The speech last fall was part of a series Carnegie Mellon called "The Last Lecture," where professors were asked to think about what matters to them most and give a hypothetical final talk. The name of the lecture series was changed to "Journeys" before Pausch spoke, something he joked about in his lecture.
"I thought, damn, I finally nailed the venue and they renamed it," he said.
He told the packed auditorium he fulfilled almost all his childhood dreams — being in zero gravity, writing an article in the World Book Encyclopedia and working with the Walt Disney Co.
The one that eluded him? Playing in the National Football League.
"If I don't seem as depressed or morose as I should be, sorry to disappoint you," Pausch said.
He then joked about his quirky hobby of winning stuffed animals at amusement parks — another of his childhood dreams — and how his mother introduced him to people to keep him humble: "This is my son, he's a doctor, but not the kind that helps people."
Pausch said he was embarrassed and flattered by the popularity of his message. Millions viewed the complete or abridged version of the lecture, titled "Really Achieving Your Childhood Dreams," online.
Pausch lobbied Congress for more federal funding for pancreatic cancer research and appeared on "Oprah" and other TV shows. In what he called "a truly magical experience," he was even invited to appear as an extra in the new "Star Trek" movie.
He had one line of dialogue, got to keep his costume and donated his $217.06 paycheck to charity.
Pausch blogged regularly about his medical treatment. On Feb. 15, exactly six months after he was told he had three to six months of healthy living left, Pausch posted a photo of himself to show he was "still alive & healthy."
"I rode my bike today; the cumulative effects of the chemotherapy are hurting my stamina some, but I bet I can still run a quarter mile faster than most Americans," he wrote.
Pausch gave one more lecture after his Carnegie Mellon appearance — in November at the University of Virginia, where he had taught from 1988 to 1997.
Pausch often emphasized the need to have fun.
"I mean I don't know how to not have fun. I'm dying and I'm having fun. And I'm going to keep having fun every day I have left. Because there's no other way to play it," he said in his Carnegie Mellon lecture. "You just have to decide if you're a Tigger or an Eeyore. I think I'm clear where I stand on the great Tigger/Eeyore debate. Never lose the childlike wonder. It's just too important. It's what drives us."
Born in 1960, Pausch received his bachelor's degree in computer science from Brown University and his Ph.D. from Carnegie Mellon.
He co-founded Carnegie Mellon's Entertainment Technology Center, a master's program for bringing artists and engineers together. The university named a footbridge in his honor. He also created an animation-based teaching program for high school and college students to have fun while learning computer programming.
In February, the Academy of Interactive Arts & Sciences in California announced the creation of the Dr. Randy Pausch Scholarship Fund for university students who pursue careers in game design, development and production.
He and his wife, Jai, had three children, Dylan, Logan and Chloe.
Copyright © 2008 The Associated Press
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Virginia Landestoy
June 8, 2018
even though I've never met you, your lecture and presence of mind teached me so much about life, and what is really important, so I dont have to wait til the very end of my life lo really be in the moment, cause you never know when is going to end, much love to your children, may your soul be in a really cool universe.
Tonya Howard
April 7, 2018
You've inspired so many people. Rest on sir❤
Sheila Davis
November 4, 2017
Randy Pausch Last Lecture was so overwhelming & Inspiring. It touched me like no other to the point, I felt like I knew him. "Your Dreams will Come to You". What a true loss.
To the Pausch Family, you have my sincerest condolences. Take solace in knowing what they say, God don't take No Junk. So long Randy...RIP.
Lucia Alfieri Bouchard
October 28, 2017
God bless you
Shirley Mcdonald
September 17, 2017
Just read this book and am feeling very melancholy. Thank you Randy for writing this book. I know your children will appreciate all you did to keep your memory alive for them.
Rhonda Orazio
May 6, 2017
I just spent all afternoon watching your last lecture and the Diane Sawyer interview.I don't think it was a mistake that I listened to you.I have been so depressed and full of anxiety about my health situations.You have just inspired me to be Tigger...I have been an eyore since my last brain surgery 30 years ago...Thank you and if there was one person that I could meet in Heaven I hope it is you.
Valenda Newell
July 22, 2016
ONE WORD. "GENIUS"
Gabriel Navarette
November 3, 2015
I read your book... and it was AMAZING! Im in 6th grade and i have become very interested in you and your life. You will be missed.
August 14, 2015
Not only did you do great things, you inspired a generation of people to believe in their imagination and that anything is possible. Very much like Walt Disney and his Imaginers, and Pixar but you passed on and for girls to get into mathematics, a tree hero, and Rest In Peace. Sheri Newberry
Narishms Basdeo
June 8, 2015
I was given Randy book called The Last Lecture it was the most amazing book I ever read it took me just over 18 hours to read it. I hope his wife and children find happiness in their lives
From Canada
The transplanted American
Thomas Reyes
April 9, 2015
You've left a lasting legacy. You've given hope and inspiration to millions. Rest now dear soul, for your toils are over.
Earl Grant Jr.
September 24, 2014
You did it big Randy! Much love
June 25, 2014
Bless your heart! You were being an inspiration when your own life was in danger yet you selflessly shared with us and I will never forget that. It will be inside my soul from now own. Now just rest in peace brother, knowing you are loved.
Mahesh Senadheera Pathiraja
June 18, 2014
I am Mahesh Senadheera fro Sri Lanka. I was totally impressed by you Mr. Randy.
Mahesh Senadheera Pathiraja
June 18, 2014
Mahesh Senadheera Pathiraja
June 18, 2014
I am Mahesh Senadheera fro Sri Lanka. I was totally impressed by you Mr. Randy.
mugdha dave
November 7, 2013
god bless you randy. U r a role model to millions.
September 15, 2013
love knows not its own depth until its hour of seperation. -kahlil gibran .... The last lecture was very honest and real and very generous of you Randy to share your insight and wisdom with the rest of us and take pride in what you have left for your wife and children. safe journey. jackie spady Edmonton alberta.
jordan howell
September 10, 2013
im 17 and you have inspired alot of kids in colorado for what you did with your book
Debbie Keibler
July 2, 2013
Randy ...you changed my life..you have changed all of our lives...WE WILL ALWAYS LOVE AND MISS YOU. GOD TOOK THE VERY BEST...MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY ALWAYS.
Beloved
Leonora Arredondo
May 20, 2013
"Randy" inspired me to move past my diagnosis and dare to dream and pursue those dreams and make the most of every moment in time because as it says in Gods word tomorrow is not promised, I am excited about life once again in my psych class i said another book, but i couldn't put it down, you have truly be used by God to give your testimony, and to Jai and the
kids you are so very blessed to have known him personally. God bless and Dare to Dream a Dream is a wish the heart makes...........Nenegurl03 near the happiest place on earth
May 29, 2012
You changed my life Randy Pausch.... you changed my life.
Timmy Emery
January 31, 2012
These words of wisdom will stretch throughout the ages. though it is a shame that a man of such character was taken too early, he will always be, in many ways, a legend and a hero.
November 19, 2011
As an RN I have experienced death of young people of all ages. What that does is help one to priortize the important things in life because there are no guarantees for any of us about the length of our lives. I read Randy's book and was inspired because of his ability to put into words the meaningful and critical points of his life. I cried when he wrote about how, at the end of his speech, he called his wife on stage and during a hug she said "please don't die". It was such a simple and at the same time such a huge prayer in the form of a plea. How many times in life do each of us have that same plea? I pray that God will bless Randy's widow and children. He has left a legacy of love and now they can move on when the time is right for them.
Vicki M. (Temple Terrace, Florida)
always true
October 31, 2011
Your dedication to getting the last minute of life was such an inspiration...I recorded your whole lecture to the world, and keep it close to my heart. To place ones health aside and continue to be a genuine contributor to life is no small feat, and you did it with such determination. The legacy you left your children and wife is beyond measure and will be treasured forever. No finer example of love for family and purpose in life are to be found...you gave everything to posterity, and we are the better for it. As human beings, we are measured by our actions...yours elevated you to the highest level of understanding...no comparison to be found. Your revelations of your medical condition helped others face their situations...a teacher to the end, and an example of grace to mankind. For your ultimate contribution to life we will always be in your debt. For those in need, your experience in living life will be a new beginning for theirs. You have proved there is more to know about existing in this world, a lot more. Thank you for leaving us with your experience, a gift we will always remember. You were just meant to be here, of that I am sure. On your journey now, may you watch your family with love, and be their guide. Thank you for everything you have done to ease the burden of finality. Peace now.
hd
August 13, 2011
Randy Pausch has touched the lives of so so many people. I read his book the Last Lecture and have just recently watched the actual Last Lecture, and I continue to be moved by him. I hope that his family is doing well, his children must be so proud of their dad. I hope that the words at John 5:28,29, can bring you comfort at difficult times.
Leslie
March 30, 2011
He will always be remembered and continue to teach us through his inspirational legacy.
acet reinoso
March 13, 2011
the life of randy will forever inspire millions of people suffering from terminal diseases but would like to give the best of their remaining years to GOD and humanity not knowing how.his story will definitely give them ways and means to influence the world that life is worth the living till the last breath,most especially so if JESUS were their SAVIOUR.
Hero
Todd H
December 7, 2010
Randy was one of worlds greatest wonders. I have listened to his "Last Lecture" many times. Why does it always happen to the good ones! But he has made many people better for being himself. I will strive to be more like him and have applied many of his examples in my life and my childrens lives. (Jai and kids), you were very lucky to have him and he was more than just man, father, dad and leader......He was a Hero and to many and he is definitely mine and this is the way I will be living my life from now on.
-My Best
Susan Eastland
December 5, 2010
Randy touched my life with the last lecture. His family and him are in my thoughts & prayers.
Khozaima Ziauddin
July 25, 2010
Dear Jai, today is Randy,s second death anniversay! Wish I could have met him. I am a teacher & I teach Enlish to students whose first language is not English. I teah them, " The Last Lecture". He has touched so many lives. I hope & pray that wherever he is he is at peace.
Khozaima F. Ziauddin, Dhaka, Bangladesh.
kim
June 8, 2010
I have come across excerpts from the Last Lecture on several occassions and never watched it in its entirety. Several days ago, I wandered into a store and in front of me was Randy's book. I bought and read it in one day and wanted to tell Jai how in awe I am of Randy for his bravery, wisdom, and words of inspiration. I cried as I read it and my heart aches for the loss Jai and the children have gone through but at the same time, it is filled with joy for the love you shared while he was with you.
May 12, 2010
Dear Jai and Family:
I wanted you to know that I have read "The Last Lecture" several times. What a wonderful book and tribute to a special man. I wanted you to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers as you continue to go on with your lives. I did not know your husband/father but what a remarkable man. I know that he has touched my life and many others. May your memories bring you comfort. God Bless all of you.
Darlene McGowan - Pittsburgh, PA
Donna Clark
December 29, 2009
Jai,
I just finished reading "The last lecture", something I received from a dear friend who also is batteling cancer. My husband also was diagnosed 7 yrs. ago in his fortys, but is a survivior. I want to wish you and the children a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year, and thank-you for allowing and supporting Randy through his book and all that he did during his last year of life, it truly touched my heart and I wish you the best!! thank-you....sincerely Donna Clark
Jordan Cendrowski
December 28, 2009
To Randy's family,
I recently received "The Last Lecture" as a gift. Since then, I have not stopped reading. Randy's story has touched my heart deeply.
3(coming up on 4) years ago my father passed away from cancer when I was 13. He, too, was terminally ill. It was a tender age to loose a parent. I survived somehow, and though the guilt stayed with me for sometime, I realized that though it was difficult to overcome...it was almost necessary. Living through someones legacy is highly important...memories are the most cherished thing we can have.
Reading Randy's book was refreshing. It was like a breath of fresh air to read about a man be so happy and fulfilled with his life in a time of sadness. I have read many things about Randy and I can confidently say that though I never had the pleasure of knowing him in my lifetime, I am certain that he was a wonderful man who touched the lives of many people all around the WORLD. And what an honor that is!!
I know it has been a bit over a year since the passing of Randy...it is still raw. I assure you that it does get a little bit brighter. Randy would be very proud to see his family living on, I'm sure. I am happy to know that you are all doing well (I assume) and remembering Randy.
This book has forever changed my life. I wish the best for Jai, Dylan, Logan and Chloe as well as all of the extended family. I hope that one day the children will see what a great daddy they had.
Randy....thank you for letting the world see your life and opening up. Thank you for sharing your time and dedication.
Prayers, Jordan
alfredo ruiz
October 6, 2009
hola sra. Pausch, I am from mexico and I am sure your husband was one of the greatest mans in earth, sorry my english is bad, fell he make my life better and enormous good, feel happy to konw he change my life, and that he is doing greats things in heaven.
yours. Alfredo Ruiz mexico city
September 17, 2009
Dear Jai,
My husband, Mike. is terminally ill. He has a caringbridge website and I know how much it means to know that people think of and are inspired by all you have endured. I have read "The Last Lecture" and have to admit that your husband and mine are soooo much alike!!! Their SENSE OF HUMOR and outlook on life have inspired more people than you and I will EVER know. My husband has metastatic colon cancer and has fought the great fight for the last 10 years. I know in my heart that his time is getting near. When I read your husband's book, I laughed; I cried; I RELATED to YOU. What is fair about their sickness, their fate??? God has a plan beyond our comprehension and I am trusting that no matter what happnes, everything will be ok. But I'm scared. I don't know what I'll do without him. He's always taken care of me. I guess I am searching for reassurance that I can make it without him. Sincerely, Jenni
Brenda Leklert
September 3, 2009
Dear Mrs. Pausch
My name is Brenda , My Husband passed away at age 37 of pancreotic cancer three weeks before your husband did. My husband Terry missed the birth of our 3rd child by two weeks, We have a 6 yr old girl Madeline and a 4yr old little boy Brandon and after a year of this saddness I think of you often- I never saw his lecture or read the book but want to very much so. Maybe it will help me. I hope all his memories give you comfort.
Benda Leklert
Our deepest feelings have no national boundarys. I honor your strength.
August 2, 2009
Rosina Michael
July 28, 2009
I know it is over a year, but today in Cyprus (Mediterranean Sea) we saw for the first time the Oprah Winfrey show with your husband's insperational interview. My husband and boys and myself would like to express our deepest condolences for your loss. God bless.
Lee Racer
July 25, 2009
To the Randy Pausch family,
Today is a year since Randy has passed. I am praying for your family I know this is probably a very difficult day. My husband called me last year when he heard Randy had passed, you see he was in th hospital dealing wth pancreatic cancer also. He took it very hard and it seemed like he realized then that this disease would also take him away from his family that he so deeply loved. Hopefully there soon will be better treatments for PC. God Bless You and your family.
Deb Collins
May 24, 2009
What a blessing in my life to have had the experience of seeing The Last Lecture. I have bought countless numbers of that book to give to friends and recent graduates. He truely showed us how to live ech day. You will never know the impact it has had on me and I hope you and your family and friends find comfort in knowing he so deeply touched countless lives. Thanks to Randy's sharing his earth-ending journey, we can only be better people for being allowed to be a small part of your life. God bless his soul.
Julie Conway
April 23, 2009
I loved Randy from the first moment I saw him. He captivated the attention of his listeners. He was such an inspiration to those with health problems and those without them. Such a loving and giving man to his wonderful wife and wonderful children. He was very blessed in life and we are bless because of his attitude to be his best every day and have fun. Randy was a gift to the world in spite of his hardships. He was an exceptional personality full of love and generosity that he so freely shared in his life. Rest in peace dear sweet man and God bless your wife and children with the memories of your lifetime. You have given much to many.
Robert Dea
April 3, 2009
To Mrs. Pausch and Family,
I have followed Randy's story and was filled with sadness when he passed away last year after such a brave fight against all odds with his cancer. I just read his book, "The Last Lecture" a week ago and can hardly find the words to express what a truly amazing person Randy really was. Even in his passing his memory, legacy and so much more are such an inspiration to so many.
My sister-in-law just recently lost her 50 year old husband of 24 years to cancer and I have referred Randy's book to her to read. There is so much good that can come of this little book with so much power in it. I am thankful that he wrote it and it has become my number one favorite.
I hope this finds you all well.
Respectfully submitted,
R. A. Dea
Shelley H.
January 20, 2009
My brother in law was diagnosed a few months ago with Pancreatic Cancer and has undergone the "Whipple Procedure". My sister is in the honeymoon state of disbelief, but she has faith, and right now that is all that matters.
Having lost my dear Dad to Cancer 3 years ago, I truly can understand what Randy's family are going through and the loss they are enduring.
I read Randy's book, The Last Lecture, and was astounded at his courage for writing this book. It is my hope that if I can get my sister to read it. Randy...Thank you !
Janice
January 11, 2009
Dear Mrs. Pausch,
I saw the Last Lecture and have read the book. God has chosen Randy too early but has left us all with many memories of a truly devoted husband and father. I shall always remember his words of wisdom and think of him often. May you find comfort in the coming months knowing people admired Randy and looked to him for strength and encouragement.
Kimberly Clolinger
January 1, 2009
It was with many tears that minutes ago I learned of Randy's passing. Unbelievable as it may sound I didn't know he had passed until today. In August I viewed the lecture on the internet and quickly purchased the book. I started reading the book just before Thanksgiving and finished it minutes ago. Weeks ago while reading one night I looked for dated information inside the cover as I wondered if he was still with us. I couldn't find a date only the year 2008. Even though I'm on the internet for the most part daily I committed to not Google for the answer to my wonder until I completed the book. That just happened moments ago and led me here. Although his words thoughts and life would have interested anyone with a heart, I was particularly interested because my father is still surviving the same cancer after 4 plus years and I've often wondered what his last impressions thoughts and words be for me even though I've not had the privilege to know them. Dr. Randy Pausch brought me to tears and joy repeatedly in the video of the lecture and his book and for his life and lessons he taught me I am eternally grateful. I can't wait to meet this man in Heaven which is the same I will be wishing about my Dad when he passes.
Lea Gostyla
December 27, 2008
May the peace of this special season be with your family. I know this must be a lonely time for you and the children, Jai. Feel Randy's protective arms around you all.
It's Christmas and Tiger is with us, Randy!
December 10, 2008
chelsea chech
December 3, 2008
Pausch family,
As an assignment for my senior year, we were assigned to read The Last Lecture. I cant even fathom how inspired I am by it. Hes a beautiful, amazing man and I can't tell you enough how sorry I am. I will keep you all in my thoughts, prayers, and deep in my heart.
CANDACE HAMILTON
November 24, 2008
JAI AND CHILDREN,
YOU ARE ALL HEAVY IN MY HEART WITH THE HOLIDAYS APPROACHING. KNOW THAT PRAYERS AND STRENGTH ARE BEING CONVEYED TO YOU, ESPECIALLY AT THIS TIME.
Luigi Zacco
October 12, 2008
Wherever you are now, thanks for your last lesson, doc
Sharon G
October 8, 2008
Jai;
I saw part of Randy's speech on YouTube and was inspired by it.
I bought The Last Lecture book and I am reading it now. I find myself going from inspired to laughter to tears over & over.
I didn't have the pleasure of meeting him but he made and continues to make a difference.
His love for you and his children is very evident and his spirit and strength will live on not only for you and others (like me) but in your children.
God bless you and I wish you and your children the best. You're in my thoughts.
Sharon
J Weavil
October 1, 2008
A co-worker had sent the Y-Tube last lecture video around our office. We all sat listening to every word and was just totally absorbed by Randy's speech. All of the love that he had for his family was just so precious, and then to see him later on tv. I totally became involved with his story and kept tabs on how he was doing by going to the website. I know that he is now in heaven watching and waiting for when it is his family's turn to meet up with him again. Thanks for coming into our lives Randy for a short time and may you Rest in Peace. I look forward to meeting you some day as well.
J Presnell
October 1, 2008
Jai and family,
I didn't know Randy personally, but felt I knew him from his interviews and his book. I asked my husband for The Last Lecture for Mother's Day this year. He listened and gave it to me as my gift. I leave the book out so I can see Randy's picture on the back. Everytime I look at it I think of you and the kids and what a wonderful man Randy is. He will live forever in you and your children. He did so much for people he didn't even know. You will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.
Nancy Shea
September 30, 2008
Jai,
My handsome, fit, 51 year old husband died on October 22, 2005 from pancreatic cancer. Your family reminded me so much of my own and I felt a connection and a comfort when I read Randy's book, saw his lecture and followed his website. I so hoped he would beat the odds. I wish you the best as you rebuild your life.
Gaby Garcia
September 18, 2008
The first time I heard of Randy was on Oprah. I am sadden to hear that such a great person has passed away. I was praying for a miracle. May the way he lived life inspire others to live the same.
Mary Muscarella
September 3, 2008
I have followed Randy's progress from the beginning and been inspired by his courage. I have the picture of him with Chloe standing on his hands on the wall next to my computer. She so looks like my grand-daughter Jordyn, that I keep it there as a constant reminder of Randy and his love for life. My heart goes out to his whole family. What a magical person he was. I will never forget him or the lessons he taught us.
Bonnie Lee Lamont
August 31, 2008
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, ""I welcome you.""
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......""My day was not in vain.""
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008
Dawna Migliore
August 29, 2008
Jai,
i was first introduced to Randy through and email I received a day after his last lecture, I was immediately drawn to him and his words and was compelled to research him and follow his journey, I am an only child who has watched my entire family tree one by one leave this world from one cancer or another, and I always question why,my mom was the last to go at the young age of 56 in "1998" from pancreatic cancer she was diagnosed on mothers day and the whipple procedure was done immediately and prolonged her life for
15 long grueling, painfull months chemo was horrific and by the time she would have a good day it was time for chemo all over again, it was painful to watch and all i wanted to do was make her better take away her pain,find a cure it was my one chance to give her back for all she had sacraficed for me but there was nothing i could do, Randy was an inspiration to watch, and a day didnt go by that i didnt look on his home page to see how he was doing i felt as though he was family and i understood what he was going through and how lost and helpless you must have felt i find comfort knowing my mother is in a better place and realize its my brothers turn to have her since he died so young. we need to find a cure for this beast i worry everyday that i am next and cant imagine what i will do if i have to leave my children. god bless you and yours and thank you for sharing your wonderfull husband and family
Angela Foutty
August 28, 2008
Ms. Pausch,
I read "The Last Lecture" yesterday and it has enriched my life greatly. My daughter has Acute Lymphoblasitc Leukemia. I couldn't wait to take her the book tonight. I can only imagine the vast void that each of you must be feeling. It must be a beautiful feeling to have been such an important part of a man who still, after his death, is touching lives, changing thoughts and inspiring so many. I will pray for you and your little ones but you must know without a doubt how truely blessed each of you are. I feel blessed to have just read his words!
Darla
August 27, 2008
Dear Pausch family:
I was extremely sadden for your loss. Randy was an exceptional person, sharing with the world. I had just finished reading his book two days before he passed away and his love for all of you is everlasting. May God Bless You and keep you save.
Marsha Barnhart
August 26, 2008
I just found out yesterday, 8/25/08, that Randy passed on. I have had his name posted on my bedroom wall as a reminder to pray for him and his family! I am forever touched & gratefull for his testimony! May God bless you and give you His peace.
Mike Vento
August 25, 2008
Jai , I was very saddened by your loss. Seems that the ones who touch others the most are gone too soon. Your friend.
Pat Walker
August 25, 2008
Jai & Children,
Once in a lifetime a person leaves a footprint on the souls of others, Randy is such a man. A true gift from God to we wayfaring strangers on this earth who was able to tell us and show by his example what it is to be a "Man among Men", giving great love to family and friends all the while battling cancer that he knew would not adjust it's time schedule for his sake. It is so remarkable to me that his love of wife, children, students, friends beams forth from him and is so strong that it is not contained by the constraints of the medium of TV, he crosses those boundaries in a giant leap. It is mesmerizing to view the LECTURE, no matter how many times, your heart hurts for him and his family and once again you are reminded of the old adage, the good die young. I feel privileged that I have become acquainted with the book,lecture and the sentiments of friends, which tends to only open your eyes further to this gift of a man. A quote attributed to St. Francis de Sales, Make yourself familiar with the angels, and behold them frequently in spirit; for without being seen, they are present with you. God Bless You All.
Diane Hanlon
August 25, 2008
What a devoted Father, Husband, Friend and human being! His last lecture was truly amazing. He left a legacy for all of you! I know that you and your children have to miss him terribly! I lost my Sister in law to the same evil monster! Know that you are not alone, there are lots of people out here that are praying for you. You are in my thoughts.
PA
August 25, 2008
God Bless you Jai and your children. You and your children are in my prayers daily. Dr. Pausch is a angel that we all know and love.
Bonnie Lamont
August 22, 2008
Dear Mrs. Pausch,
It has been an honor and a joy to get to know your husband through his lectures and appearances on television. I was so sad to hear of his passing, but I know how tough it is to survive pancreatic cancer. I lost my husband to cancer many years ago when my husband was 33 and my sons were 6 and 9 years old. I know how tough it is to provide normalcy in their lives while you are hurting so bad. I thank God that I had the children. Life had to go on for all of us. They are so resilient because they have you, but you cannot forget to take care of your needs. Whether it is private time, time with a friend or a counselor, you must work through the grieving process. I know I tended to hide my feelings for the boys' sake, and because of it, I think my grief was prolonged. Just remember to take care of yourself. Lastly, I want you to know that I often think of how your husband inspired me. I keep a quote of his on my computer at work. "You cannot change the cards you are dealt, just how you play the hand." What an awesome guy! My prayers are with you and your family.
JUDY CAPRETTA
August 22, 2008
WHAT A LOSS TO HUMANITY.
Linda Racki
August 22, 2008
My friend's husband Doug was diagnosed the same month and year as Randy with pancreatic cancer - Doug lost his fight this past June. Jai, Randy was the voice for all of those fighting pancreatic cancer and those who loved them. He was able to 'introduce the elephant in the room" and made it easier for all of us to talk to someone with a life limiting illness. He was an incredible man - please find comfort in knowing that his messages and legacy will live on
Richard Grimes
August 21, 2008
Mrs. Pausch,
It's the friends we meet along life's path who help us appreciate the journey.
The Pearls of Wisdom expressed by Dr. Pausch will remain for eternity with all whom he touched.
Thank you for the blessing of allowing it to be shared with the world.
May God bless you and your family.
Kenn & Arlene Popko
August 21, 2008
Sincere Sympathy to the Pausch Family.
Kelly Guzek
August 20, 2008
Jai,
It's been a few weeks now since Randy has passed. I'm so sad for your loss. As the days stretch on, you probably can't wait to pull the covers up at night, yet your children are always there to make you smile, to make you remember, to keep you close to Randy. Your husband let us in at such a personal time and we couldn't help but care about him and you and your kids. I've been trying to have more fun since I first saw Randy on Oprah. He was an inspiration and I look at life in a different way now. I wish you peace just knowing he's not suffering anymore. I know your family and friends will be there when you need them, but those sweet kids will save you when the days seem so long. Please know that so many people care about you and your family. Hang in there and take it one day at a time.
Flo Wood
August 20, 2008
I first heard of your husband on Oprah. He touched my heart and made me appreciate family, friends, and life more than ever before. When he passed away, I felt the need to read as much about him and his family as I could find. His purpose was to teach us about gratitude and love. It was hard for you to share him with the world when his remaining time on this earth was so short; a sacrifice treasured by so many. Remember 'Footprints' and how our Lord is carrying you at your lowest and lonliest moments. I wish you peace and comfort. We are all blessed for having a small part of your lives shared and his words of wisdom.Thank you and God bless and keep you all.
JANET LEVINSON
August 19, 2008
DEAR PAUSCH FAMILY:
MY HEART IS SO SAD FOR ALL OF YOU, BECAUSE RANDY IS NOT WITH YOU IN BODY, BUT I KNOW HIS SPIRIT SURROUNDS YOU. HE IS A MAN OF HONOR AND HE GOT IT. WHAT I MEAN BY THAT IS WE ALL TAKE LIFE FOR GRANTED AND ALOT OF TIMES WE DON'T APPRECIATE THE IMPORTANT THINGS IN LIFE. I AM A SINGLE MOM AND HAVE RAISED MY 17YR OLD BY MYSELF. MY HUSBAND LEFT ME 5 MONTHS PREGNANT FOR ANOTHER WOMEN THAT HAS SINCE LEFT HIM. HE HAS NOT HAD ANY RELATIONSHIP WITH MY SON AT ALL AND MY SON HAS SUFFERED FROM THAT. I WOULD ALWAYS TELL HIM YOU WILL BE SORRY ONE DAY FOR HURTING YOUR SON THAT WAY. I WOULD GO TO MY SONS BALL GAMES AND TEAR UP BECAUSE HE HAD NO DAD TO WATCH HIM PLAY. I KNOW YOUR CHILDREN MISS THEIR DAD, BUT I AM SO GREATFUL THAT THEY HAD THE BEST DAD THEY COULD HAVE EVER ASKED FOR AND THAT YOU HAD THE BEST HUSBAND YOU COULD HAVE EVER ASKED FOR AND THAT YOU CAN HOLD ONTO THOSE BEAUITFUL MEMORIES FOREVER UNTIL YOU SEE HIM AGAIN IN GODS KINGDOM. RANDY UNDERSTOOD WHAT WAS REALLY IMORTANT IN LIFE AND CHERISHED EVERY MOMENT AND FOR THAT I HOPE HIS HEART IS FILLED WITH JOY. MAY GOD BLESS YOUR FAMILY AND KNOW THAT I PRAY FOR YOU EVERY DAY.
JANET LEVINSON
August 19, 2008
DEAR PAUSCH FAMILY:
MY HEART IS SO SAD FOR ALL OF YOU, BECAUSE RANDY IS NOT WITH YOU IN BODY, BUT I KNOW HIS SPIRIT SURROUNDS YOU. HE IS A MAN OF HONOR AND HE GOT IT. WHAT I MEAN BY THAT IS WE ALL TAKE LIFE FOR GRANTED AND ALOT OF TIMES WE DON'T APPRECIATE THE IMPORTANT THINGS IN LIFE. I AM A SINGLE MOM AND HAVE RAISED MY 17YR OLF BY MYSELF. MY HUSBAND LEFT ME 5 MONTHS PREGNANT FOR ANOTHER WOMEN THAT HAS SINCE LEFT HIM. HE HAS NOT HAD ANY RELATIONSHIP WITH MY SON AT ALL AND MY SON HAS SUFFERED FROM THAT. I WOULD ALWAYS TELL HIM YOU WILL BE SORRY ONE DAY FOR HURTING YOUR SON THAT WAY. I WOULD GO TO MY SONS BALL GAMES AND TEAR UP BECAUSE HE HAD NO DAD TO WATCH HIM PLAY. I KNOW YOUR CHILDREN MISS THEIR DAD, BUT I AM SO GREATFUL THAT THEY HAD THE BEST DAD THEY COULD HAVE EVER ASKED FOR AND THAT YOU HAD THE BEST HUSBAND YOU COULD HAVE EVER ASKED FOR AND THAT YOU VCAN HOLD ONTO THOSE BEAUITFUL MEMORIES FOREVER UNTIL YOU SEE HIM AGAIN IN GODS KINGDOM. RANDY UNDERSTOOD WHAT WAS REALLY IMORTANT IN LIFE AND CHERISHED EVERY MOMENT AND FOR THAT I HOPE HIS HEART IS FILLED WITH JOY. MAY GOD BLESS YOUR FAMILY AND KNOW THAT I PRAY FOR YOU EVERY DAY.
Bill Roser
August 18, 2008
Jai,
Death does not end relationships. It only transforms them. It's true, just ask Randy. Remember, the next time you think you smell him or he leaves something out of place, he is there for you. Even Dr. Randy would agree that matter and energy can only be transformed not destroyed. Remind the children when they need reminding. Show the children when he leaves evidence behind for you. Thank you for sharing Randy with us.
Kathy Canfield
August 17, 2008
I just had an awe inspiring experience - I just watched Randy's interview with Diane Sawyer and his last lecture AGAIN. Every time I read his blog or read news about him online I was overwhelmed by his strength of character. What a great man! I am so happy he was able to impart to all of you his love, his kindness and his wisdom. May you and the children keep smiling as you caress his memories. He will always be with you.
Kathy Marino
August 17, 2008
Such an amazing, amazing man, who possessed such dignity and inspiration.
The world needs more people like him.
God bless his wife and children.
March 11,1975- August 23,2007
Janice V
August 16, 2008
Mrs. Pausch,
My kids & I are continuing to pray for your family. For Randy, my late husband Joe (pictured), & all who have had so much Tigger left to share with the world.. but have had their lives taken by pancreatic cancer- Let's have more research, find better treatment options, & never give up hope for the discovery of a cure. This disease does not play fair. God bless & comfort you always,
Janice
tina mazzetti
August 16, 2008
what a great inspiration for life!
August 16, 2008
To the family, I first saw his lecture and thought what an inspiration for those who are terminal. I can only imagine what you are going thru. Please keep in mind the hope and comfort from God's word, the Bible. It offers comfort to the bereaved by letting us know that we have the promise from God's son that a resurrection will take place and we have the hope of seeing our loved ones again. Your family has my deepest sympathy. Amy
August 16, 2008
Mrs. Pausch and Family,
You have my deepest sympathy. May knowing that there are those who feel for you and your family give you a measure of comfort. You could see he was a wonderful Husband, Father, Teacher, Friend and a Man!
May god who comforts us in all our pains and sorrows strengthen you to endure.
“He [Jehovah God] will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away. And the One seated on the throne said: ‘Look! I am making all things new.’ Also, he says: ‘Write, because these words are faithful and true.’”
Pe'Peto Loma
August 15, 2008
Beloved Pausch Family,
By way of beauty, grace and strength, I do know you. For that which steal away in your heart, now brings light to the world. And as a flower grows praising only sky, so has the love of many, who think of you as friend. As family. For in heart felt places our prayers, our thoughts are of you. And of that which binds, making us one.
It is so that morning comes, with blush does kiss gray dawn. And through kindly pursuasion, her patience has its perfect works. For shadows fade in places unseen, and surrenders to coming day.
Hope drifts not afar, seen as children at play. And the wishes, dreams and hopes of a father, are reborn in innocence and love. From the worlds glistening seas and true constant, love surrounds Cloe in effortless persuasion. And in gentleness her loving capacity seeks far reaches, with a resilience of being. The world will know him as a friend, for Logan's adventurous nature and kindness of spirit will carry him afar. His compassion, sensibilities and loyalties will find him to be loved. As clear as the northern sky, his search for truth and will of fixed purpose, even now serves him well. For in Dylan, hope, understanding and love, flourishes in a magnificent way. He stands as his father's son, and no better man to be.
A mother's love holds them. In her strength they will not bend. Her wisdom guides them. And through her spirit, they will know a father's dream. Their father's love.
"Jai," we love you.
Brenda Griffith
August 15, 2008
My son is a 4th year student at the University of Virginia. He told me about Randy's talk on time management last fall about which the entire campus raved. I am very proud as a parent of a Wahoo to know that Randy Pausch taught at UVA for a time. I listened to the online "Last Lecture" as well as the "Time Management Lecture" and I fell in love with his wonderful style of connecting with the audience. Being in the medical profession, I followed his progression through his terrible disease. What a tremendous loss for all of the students in of America as well as the plain ole folks like myself. I was truly inspired by everything he had to say. My prayers and thoughts are with his family at this time.
Marialys G.
August 15, 2008
It is nearly 3 weeks since Randy's passing and I think of Jai and the kids all the time. I pray that God be with you during these hard times and pray that Randy is home with the Lord. God bless him for the strength to do what he did.
Lorraine Hennemuth
August 14, 2008
I had purchased Randy's book the weekend of mother's day and had lent it to to others to read. I finally got it back and didn't know when I would have time to read it. My family and I were going away for the weekend and I was getting some things together and decided that I would take the book just in case I had time to read it over the weekend. When I arrived at work that morning, I logged into the the internet to check my emails. WOW, was I taken aback when I read the news about Randy's passing that morning. I guess that was my sign to read the book. So I began reading it that weekend. What a wonderful story he had to tell. And what great inspiration for everyone. The first person that I loaned it to told me that my girls (ages 20 & 17) should read it because he gives some great life lessons. Wow, was she right.
I lost my mother to breast cancer 6-1/2 years ago and you do learn alot from going through this. You become more caring and I always tell people not take things for granted - Life is too precious!
I wish you and your family well and may good bless you. We are all put here on this earth for a reason, Randy found his and may we all find ours.
Linda Fratarcangeli
August 13, 2008
was going thru saved email and found this poem i saved to print next to email with R.P.'s website. so I think I was meant to put it here:
Do not stand at my grave and weep
I am not there; I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on snow,
I am the sun on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circling flight.
I am the soft starlight at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry,
I am not there; I did not die.
Jenny C.
August 13, 2008
Randy was a true inspiration to so many people; most who he never knew; what an incredible legacy for your family. I hope for peace for you and your children. I will never forget him!!
August 13, 2008
Dear Pausch Family - You all are in my thoughts and prayers today and always. May God bless you, watch over you and keep you in His care.
Mary Lou & Dick Silk
August 13, 2008
To Randy's lovely Wife and Children: We wish peace and comfort as the days go by-you will see him again someday.
lisa tabaka
August 13, 2008
what a wonderful human being.
at this difficult time, please know that this man, your husband, father, son, has done so much to inspire people everywhere. the world is a better place to have had Randy in it, if only for a short time.
i never met him personally but i read his writings. what a wonderful man.
your family has my deepest sympathy.
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