Ray H. Siegfried II

Ray H. Siegfried II

Ray Siegfried Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Oct. 7, 2005.
Tulsa industrialist Ray H. Siegfried II dies
By Staff Reports
10/7/2005

A business and civic leader, he is credited with raising The Nordam Group's profile globally. Tulsa industrialist Ray H. Siegfried II, who took The Nordam Group from a struggling operation to an international competitor in the aviation industry, died Thursday. He was 62.
A Rosary will be recited at 8 p.m. Sunday at Cascia Hall's St. Rita's Chapel, and a funeral Mass will be celebrated at 10 a.m. Monday at Holy Family Cathedral. Private burial services will be held on the University of Notre Dame campus, and a memorial service will be held in Tulsa in about two weeks.
Local services are under the direction of Fitzgerald's Ivy Chapel Funeral Home.
"Ray Siegfried was a wonderful, generous human being who taught us all how to live and how to die courageously," said former Oklahoma Gov. Frank Keating. "He was a robustly successful businessman who, even when faced with illness, was always cheerful and spiritual. Oklahoma has lost a splendid man."
In 1969, Siegfried started his re-creation of Nordam.
R.H. Siegfried Co., the family insurance company, had as one of its clients a failing business, Northern Oklahoma Research Development and Manufacturing. Siegfried acquired it out of bankruptcy.
With little staff and about $1.2 million in debt, the company started producing helicopter components during the Vietnam War.
Siegfried eventually turned the company into an international leader in aerospace manufacturing, repair and overhaul.
The company grew from eight employees to about 2,300 today, mainly in Tulsa. It has seven divisions operating on three continents. The company's estimated annual revenue is more than $500 million.
After Siegfried was diagnosed with amyotrophic lateral sclerosis, a nerve disorder also called ALS or Lou Gehrig's disease, he ceded the position of chief executive officer and became chairman in October 2001.
"I believe there are no coincidences," Siegfried said in 2002. "There is a God-developed plan for me and everyone else."
Using a wheelchair and later an Eyegaze computer when he could no longer speak, Siegfried spent the last years of his life completing the succession planning, leadership and governance structure necessary to achieve his dream of growing Nordam into a $1 billion company.
Siegfried was born in Tulsa and graduated from Cascia Hall in 1961. He received his bachelor's degree in business from the University of Notre Dame in 1965.
After college, Siegfried joined the U.S. Army as a lieutenant, serving at Fort Benning, Ga., and in the Demilitarized Zone on the Korean peninsula.
He returned to Tulsa in 1967 and completed his military service in the Army Reserve while joining the family business.
Siegfried held leadership positions in his industry, in education and in the community.
His aviation career was distinguished by his chairmanship of the General Aviation Manufacturers Association in 2002.
In 2003, Siegfried was honored by the National Business Aviation Association with its "First Century of Flight Award," in recognition of his lifelong contributions to aviation.
Outside of aeronautics, Siegfried may be best known for his association with the University of Notre Dame, where he served on the board of trustees from 1987.
He and his father dedicated Siegfried Hall dormitory on the Notre Dame campus in 1988, and the Ray and Milann Siegfried family and The Nordam Group donated the MBA wing of the College of Business Administration in 1995.
In 1997, the Ray and Milann Siegfried family funded the Chair for Entrepreneurial Studies.
Last year, the International Astronomical Union named an asteroid the Asteroid Siegfried at the suggestion of Notre Dame physics Professor Terrence Rettig.
The Notre Dame Club of Tulsa named Siegfried its Man of the Year in 1980.
Siegfried was named an Augustinian affiliate, Cascia Hall's highest honor, for his work with the Tulsa school.
Three generations of Siegfrieds have been Cascia Hall graduates.
Siegfried served as chairman for many of the school's fundraisers, including campaigns that built a wing onto the middle school in 1999 and helped the school adapt to a co-ed policy in 1986. He also served as president of the athletic board for many years.
Siegfried also served on the boards of Embry-Riddle Aeronautical University, the University of Portland and the University of Tulsa.
He received an honorary Doctor of Law degree from Notre Dame in 1992 and an honorary Doctorate from the University of Portland in 2002.
Siegfried was a civic leader in a variety of other ways.
When he served as chairman of the Tulsa Area United Way in 1987, the campaign set a new record for contributions.
He was president of The Tulsa Club and served as treasurer of St. John Medical Center.
He was a director of the Tulsa Day Center for the Homeless, leading its 1991 capital campaign, and director of the Tulsa Community Foundation.
He served as director of the U.S. American Boxing Federation and was a founder and director of Tulsa Charity Fight Night Inc.
He was a past chairman of the Institute of Nautical Archeology, director of the Oklahoma Aquarium foundation and a founding director of the Tulsa Aquarium.
Siegfried was the recipient of countless awards, including induction into the Oklahoma Hall of Fame in 1990.
He received the Brotherhood Award from the National Conference of Christians and Jews in 1989.
In 1991, Siegfried was received as an affiliate of the St. Augustine Order of the Catholic Church, and in 1992 he was invested as a Knight in the Sovereign Military Order of Malta.
In 2000, he received the Humanitarian Award from the National Jewish Medical Research Center.
In 1987, he was inducted into the Headliners Club by the Tulsa Press Club.
He received the Gold Knight of Management Award from the National Management Association's Eastern Oklahoma Council in 1988.
Siegfried was named Tulsa's "Number One Corporate Citizen" by Oklahoma Magazine in 2002.
Survivors include his wife, Milann; and six children, Tray, Hastings, Terrell, Bailey, Milannie and Meredith. He also is survived by four grandchildren.

Siegfried remembered
Leaders from education, religion and government were saddened Thursday by the death of Tulsa businessman Ray Siegfried:
“The Notre Dame family today lost one of its most cherished members, a man whose wisdom, leadership and generosity will be felt on this campus for all time. We will miss his warm friendship and will be inspired by the courage he showed while tested by medical challenges in the past few years.”
— The Rev. John I. Jenkins, president, University of Notre Dame
“He was a very good practicing Catholic. . . . I wrote to him and told him I was praying for him, and he wrote back immediately, a short, spontaneous note, that this (disease) is in God’s plan, so it must be for the good.
“I never heard him complain. . . . He never showed one bit of anger, ever, about the disease.”
— Bishop Edward Slattery, Catholic Diocese of Tulsa
“He was a great man of faith and a great friend to Cascia Hall.’’
— The Rev. Bernard Scianna, headmaster, Cascia Hall
‘‘Ray Siegfried was a wonderful, generous human being who taught us all how to live and how to die courageously. He was a robustly successful businessman who, even when faced with illness, illness, was always cheerful and spiritual. Oklahoma has lost a splendid man.’’
— Former Oklahoma Gov. Frank Keating
‘‘Ray Siegfried was a committed philanthropist and true visionary of industry, and he will be deeply missed.’’
— Oklahoma Gov. Brad Henry
“Tulsa was so blessed to have someone like Ray Siegfried in our community. He gave of himself to the business community, to the nonprofit community, to the people of need in the community. I can’t think of a greater leader.’’
— Tulsa Mayor Bill LaFortune
‘‘Ray was a true friend and one of the finest gentlemen I have ever known. Whatever he touched was better because of his involvement.’’
— Robert E. Lorton, chairman, World Publishing Co.
‘‘Ray Siegfried was a remarkable man. He was only 26 years old when he left his family’s insurance business to take over the Northern Oklahoma Research, Development and Manufacturing Co., called Nordam. It was bankrupt and lacked direction. Ray — with absolutely no aviation experience — had the rare ability to seek out innovators in the new field of honeycomb bonding, hire them, and learn from them. Through the years he grew Nordam into a $500 million global leader in aerospace manufacturing, repair and overhaul. Now that’s what I call visionary leadership.’’
— Ken Lackey, vice chairman and chief executive officer, The Nordam Group.

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Sheila Reed, MS, RN

January 7, 2016

I met Ray while caring for him during the last months before his death. Ray only had words of encouragement for me and probably most he communicated with daily. Ray told me one day shortly after I started caring for him that I lasted longer than most of the nurses'who had came to care for him. His care was not easy but he was so grateful for those of us who did care for him. He told (typed) me one day that I reminded him of an Irish women. I told him my grandmother was Irish and I had Irish blood that made his eyes light up.He will never be forgotten! I think God truly sent me to care for Ray. Rest in Peace my friend.

JENNIFER BRETZ

October 26, 2005

I'M A TEMP, I GOT TO MEET RAY ON TWO DIFFERENT OCCASIONS, IT WAS MY PLEASURE TO MEET SUCH A NICE MAN.

Amos Adesokan

October 23, 2005

I give thanks always to God for allowing me the opportunity to meet Mr. Siegfried. Ray was a man of high intergrity and excellence. He had such a devotion and contagious committment to God unlike many his caliber. Because our paths did cross, I have chosen to emulate him in many ways. Ray, your honesty and intergrity lives on in our lives. It is my hope and prayer that around the world, we'd have more businessmen with your type of discipline.

Bill Lane

October 17, 2005

Ray has always been an inspiration to me. It is huge man who can always put his God and his family before all else....even himself. Ray was this man.



Kudos to you, Ray, and your family. You will be missed, but your legacy lives on!!!

Fred Zimbelman

October 12, 2005

It doesn’t seem that long ago that I made the biggest career move of my life by joining Ray and his team at NORDAM. The years I spent in Tulsa helping bring his and NORDAM’s World Class Quality message, service, and caring to the customer will remain with me forever. It was a defining period in my life. Ray and his dedication to the industry, his company, his employee’s, and to the community at large is something that few will ever forget. Certainly not me, nor any of those who ever had the pleasure of his company, insight, caring, and wisdom. Yes, he will be missed. My heart, prayers, and best wishes go to the Siegfried family.

Theresa Parrett

October 11, 2005

Dear Siegfried Family,



My mother, Rosemary Parrett and I want you to know that we are praying for you all. Your family and Ray had an impact on us that still shapes our lives today.

We send our love.

Randy Pierce

October 10, 2005

It was a honor and privilege to provide Reserve Chief Deputy Ray Siegfried and his family the full law enfrocement honors deserved.

Our thoughts and prayers are with the Siegfried Family.



TULSA COUNTY SHERIFF'S OFFICE

Sgt. Randy Pierce

Deputy Chris Pierce



TULSA POLICE



Major Lynn Jones (ret)*

Sgt. Ed Pierce (ret)*

Cpl. Paul Hunter

K-9 Officer Don Pierce

K-9 - PEE DEE

Officer Jeanne Pierce



DRUG ENFORCEMENT AGENCY

Special Agent Eddie Pierce

Cathy Kerr

October 10, 2005

Milann and Family: Ray was a wonderful, caring and loving person and a wonderful boss. I will never forget an experience with Ray, just after I started at NORDAM, Ray was ordering some hardhat cowboy hats for his Club he was in and I remember he put that hardhat cowboy hat on top of his head and then turned to me and said "Hey Cowboy", and then smiled with that wonderful, ear to ear smile of his...he definitely had humor...just to let you know my prayers are with you and your family.......

~There are two ways of spreading light~...

To be the candle...or the mirror that reflects it!

Ray was both.....

with deepest sympathy,

Cathy Kerr

Rick Simpson

October 10, 2005

To Ray and the Siegfried Family:

Ray and the whole Siegfried family has done more for me and my family than you can even imagine. I am very grateful and proud to be a part of the Nordam Group and its family for the past 15 years and hope to retire here. It is the greatest place to work and Ray has truely made all who works here feel like a part of his family. Ray has truly been an inspiration to me and will be very missed by me and my whole family. Ray and the whole Siegfried family will always be in are prayers.

Tilmann Gabriel

October 7, 2005

I met this truly remarkable aviator only recently at the CdC meeting in spring. I honor the communication we had then, via modern technology, but then again via Ray's smiling eyes, which had a deep impact on me.

I value a cheerful notice he sent to my room that night, my memory of a great man with an encouraging aura.

I had the opportunity to meet his wife and two of his sons, I know, that the guiding light of Ray Siegfried will be with them and the rest of the family.

My heartfelt condolences.

James(Don) Snyder

October 7, 2005

Ray was a true insprition to all who knew him.He will forever be missed by his stakeholders.

May the light of God's love show you,his family the way through this difficult time.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Don Snyder and family

Members of the Notre Dame Boxing Club

October 7, 2005

Past and present members are forever grateful for Ray Siegfried’s participation and support of the Notre Dame Boxing Club and the Bengal Bouts. Our prayers are with you and your family.

Gail Curtiss

October 7, 2005

To Ray: You lived the last few years with grace, pride, courage and love, as seen by those who were fortunate enough to be around you. You worked hard to succeed in life and earned the right to be proud of what you accomplished. Your kindness and love for your stepmother (my mother, Doris) over the years and your final "words" to her last year will be kept forever in my fondest memories.



To Milann and your children - always hold the good memories in your hearts. These last few years have been very hard for all of you, but your love, determination and faith kept you strong and will continue to guide you through this very difficult time. We all know what a special person Ray was, but you were the luckiest of all - he was your husband and father and he loved you very much. He left a legacy for each of you to carry forward, which you will do with the same pride, determination and courage that he had.



He left too soon and will be missed by all who knew him - whether it was briefly or for years.

Mike Leland

October 7, 2005

to the siegfried family:

Your father ,husband, family member, Ray was my boss for many years also my friend and mentor.I have never met a kinder more energetic business driven man in my life. which never interfered with his true dedication to his employees. I know for a fact he made some decisions based strictly on the basis of not hurting his employees when it would have mde more business sense to go another direction. we will all miss ray a lot but i know i am a better person for having been around him. please be comforted in the sense he is not suffering anymore and he is in heavan watching out for all of us with his wonderful grin from ear to ear. thank you RAY

Frances West-Williams

October 7, 2005

To Milann and Family, please accept our deepest sympathy.

Frances (West) and John Williams and Family

Julie Smith

October 7, 2005

My husband, Doug Smith, has worked for Nordam ever since before we were married some 18 years ago. I have always felt so blessed for Mr. Seigfried and his company. It was always so apparent to me that he valued his employees and wanted them to do well within the company. I have been a stay-at-home mom for over 12 years and my husband and I are forever grateful that because of his wonderful job, I was allowed to stay at home with our children. May God comfort your family during this time of grief. Our family is praying for yours. Take care.

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