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Raymond J. HENNESSY Sr.
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Cecelia Durning
May 18, 2016
Dear Kathy, I was stunned to learn today of Ray's sudden passing. There are so many things about Ray that I hold fond memories of, and with reading the many memorials left by people who were touched by him, I was reminded of many more. I remember the pink shirts that he looked so handsome in, and the way he spoke so lovingly and proudly of all of his kids, and Mulligan, the dog. A flood of memories came back to me and I feel so very sorry for your profound loss. But mostly I want to say that Ray was such a decent man, a man of honor and character, who treated my husband, Dr. Robert Durning, with the greatest respect durning all of the days that he worked with Ray up until the day he got sick and the months following until my husband died. That, I will never forget. You were so lucky to have such a man for your husband and role model for your children. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Hold tightly to each other, nothing helps more.
Nicole Penna
May 17, 2016
My heartfelt condolences to the entire family. I knew Ray professionally where we fondly nicknamed him "Sugar Ray" as he usually came bearing cookies or muffins or some other sweet treat. Always dapper, always smelled great, that huge grin, ready to help solve your problem of the day, and always, always, always telling stories about his beloved family. And dog. So sorry to be hearing this sad news. May he rest peacefully in paradise.
Dr. Allan Yozawitz
May 16, 2016
Erin and R.J.,
My sincere condolences to each of you and to the entire Hennessy family on your loss. May your father's memory always be a source of comfort, strength, and inspiration.
May 14, 2016
Mrs. Hennessy, Ray Jr., Sean, Brian: Saddened to hear of Ray's unexpected passing. He was a tremendous Dad, always a true gentleman, and an outstanding coach. My deepest condolences.
Tim Ellis Sr.
Apex, North Carolina
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May 12, 2016
Deepest condolences and prayers to the entire Hennessy family.
Randie Torgalski
Greg Shea
May 12, 2016
I'm very saddened to hear of Coach Ray's death. As one of the thousands of former players, I can attest to the impact he had on my life. He taught me how to compete, how to do my best and how to be gracious in victory and to lose with class. He was a great influence on who I am today.
I wish I could have been with the family today. We'll miss one of the great coaches of all-time. He'll sure be missed.
- Greg Shea - SFHS 1991
May 12, 2016
Erin and Ray,Jr.
I was shocked to hear about your Dad....there are just some people that should be around forever,and he was one. The ultimate gentleman, always a smile on his face and always something positive to share !!!! We had some great conversations before I retired and I always looked forward to seeing him . Believe me,he will be remembered for a long time as he touched so many people. My condolences to your family ,but,always remember the great times. .....I always told him how good he smelled too !!!!
Nancy Moran...retired from FCS Administrators
Kevin Jerge
May 12, 2016
Sending strength and prayers to the Hennessy Family. Your Dad left an indelible, positive impression on so many people. Boys - enjoy your upcoming golf trip. Tee Jerge Family is thinking of you all. Kevin SFHS '82
Angie & Jim Ricci
May 12, 2016
Brian & Stacey and the entire Hennessy family - Our hearts and prayers are with you all. We are deeply sorry for your loss.
May 11, 2016
To all of the Hennessy Family. We are sending our
deepest sympathies. It has been many years, but it
was and still is very much appreciated that Ray and
Kathy let us borrow their family van to travel to
Bridgeport, Conneticut for a PAL basketball tournament when Brian Hennessy and our son Rob
we're 12 years old. Without hesitation, no questions
asked, Ray said sure. Need I say More? Heaven
just acquired a very special angel .
Rob and Loretta Lange and Family
May 11, 2016
Kathie & Family. Our most sincerest condolences to you and your family in the loss of Ray. He will be sorely missed. Sincerely, Art & Claudia Vater
Sue Murphy
May 11, 2016
Dear Erin and family, I am so sorry for your loss, my heart goes out to you and the family, Ray was just a wonderful person to know came in with a smile always
June Faber
May 11, 2016
Dear Kathie and family, I was deeply sorry to hear of Ray's sudden passing. He was always a pleasure to work with and to later briefly work for. He could always light up a room with his smile. No other man I know could wear pink like Ray could. He often talked about his family he was truly devoted to all of you. I know the family will miss him dearly. He has left behind a great legacy in all of you. His smile and his quick laughter will live on in my memory. Rest in piece buddy. My you find peace in the arms of our Lord.
Sr.Edmunette Paczesny
May 11, 2016
Dear Ray,
Sincere sympathy to you and your loved ones. Know that the Hilbert College community is remembering you in our prayers. Peace!
Mel Palano
May 11, 2016
Dear Hennessy Family,
So sorry to hear of Ray's sudden death. He was a great man and good friend. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Coach Mel Palano
May 11, 2016
Dear Kathy and the whole family:
We go back 40 some years and I still remember all the good times and fun and laughter we had. My prayers are with all of you. Love, Gail Faubel
Stacey Balcom
May 11, 2016
Condolences to the family - Delaware North Co.
Sue Macris
May 11, 2016
Dear Erin & Family,
I am so deeply sorry for your loss. Your dear father will always be remembered for his kindness & generosity. My prayers & sincerest sympathy go out to you all.
Ron Yoviene
May 11, 2016
Thoughts Prayers to all in the family
God Bless
Ron Yoviene SFHS 86
May 10, 2016
Brian and the entire Hennessy Family:
My thoughts and prayers are with you. Please cherish the wonderful memories of Ray. Many of us have great memories from his coaching days at St. Francis High School. My deepest condolences.
Shawn Connolly SFHS 90
Michele Miles
May 10, 2016
Heaven gained an angel of a man. Ray was a true inspiration that I was privileged and lucky to know. He will forever hold a special place in my heart and I will miss him more than words can say.
May 10, 2016
I am heartbroken for all of you. May God Bless your family during this tough time and always. Love to you all.
May 10, 2016
We were all so heartbroken to hear about Ray's passing. Never have we worked for a team like Kathy and Ray, who treated us like family while we worked in the yard or in the house. His inspirational view on life will stay with us all.
Remembered very fondly,
The crew of Mongoose
Anita Hoare
May 10, 2016
I am thinking of your family with the deepest of sympathy. Ray was someone who always had a smile on his face. He could walk into a room and brighten the room with his smile. I will really miss that smile. Just want you to know that my prayers are with your family.
Karen Rouin
May 10, 2016
Kathy and family, I'm so shocked and sorry for your loss. He will be in my prayers as your family as well.
May he rest in peace.
Karen Rouin (Zurek)
May 10, 2016
Our deepest sympathy to the Hennessy Family. May all the memories you have keep him dear to your hearts. The Bogacz Family
Julie Merola
May 10, 2016
Kathy, Ray, Sean, Erin, Brian & Quinn: Both Bob and I send our condolences in the loss of a wonderful husband, father, grandfather and professional. I always looked up to Ray and had the utmost respect for him. He was a pleasure to work with/for and no doubt will be missed. He's one of the few men that I knew that would wear a pink shirt with confidence! My heart hurts for you all...
Dan Kaczynski
May 10, 2016
To the Hennessy Family- My deepest sympathy for your loss, Coach Yar had a profound impact on my life not only in baseball but in life. I hope the knowledge that he helped so many become better people will ease your grief.
Dan Kaczynski SFHS '88
May 9, 2016
To all of the Hennessy family, We are so sorry about the loss of Coach. I will never forget the years playing for him at Lakeview. I will always remember him smiling all of the time. I know he loved baseball but could tell he loved all of his players as well. Find comfort and strength in friends and family during this time of need. Know that so many are praying for you. May God bless you all. Rest in Peace Coach.
Steve and Sonia Delisanti and Family
Cynthia
May 9, 2016
Kath, Ray, Sean, Brian, Quinn & Erin; no words will bring Uncle Ray back however we all have so many wonderful memories from Cooperstown Championshios to playing a somewhat sober Santa Claus during family Christmas parties. You recently were honored as Patriarch of the family; a well deserved title. Ray also unselfishly took the role of dad when my dad passed away. It's time Ray takes his place in the empty poker chair. Mom,Grampa, uncle Sonny & Uncle Ken are waiting. I love ya Ray. RIP
Brigid Crangle
May 9, 2016
Dear Erin & family - I was so sorry to hear this news. Your Father was so kind and caring every time he came into our Esis office. Not to mention, he always looked so sharp and full of life. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. He was one of a kind! May God Bless you all!
May 9, 2016
So sorry for your loss to the entire Hennessy family. Our prayers and thoughts are with you - The Raymond Family
Dan & Lisa Sullivan
May 9, 2016
Kathy and Family, We are so sad to hear about Ray. He was a wonderful man and we were blessed to have a chance to get to know him. You are all in our prayers.
Wende Pyanowski
May 9, 2016
Kathy and family, I am so sorry to hear about Ray's passing. You are all in my prayers. And Ray will always be watching over you all.
Steven DeWolfe
May 9, 2016
Grief can be so hard, but the special memories help us cope. Draw strength from family and friends to help you through this very difficult time. Coach your were a mentor and someone I always will remember for being so patience and passionate. The lessons I learned reach far beyond the diamond. May god bless you and your family.
Kristy Caggiano
May 9, 2016
Coach Hennessy and my father Joe Caggiano go back a lot of years. He touched a lot of lives and will be missed by everyone. We are so sorry for your loss. Sending prayers to the entire family.
Salliann Honan
May 9, 2016
Kathy and family, so sorry to hear of cousin Ray's passing. Your all in our thoughts and prayers.
Laura and Frank Maiorana
May 9, 2016
Ray, Laurie & family, So very sorry to hear of your Dad's passing. Cherish the many fond memories you have. May you find comfort and strength in the love of family and friends during this most difficult time. We will keep you all in our prayers.
Kristofer Baker
May 9, 2016
In the short time I was able to know Ray, it was clear he had a great bond with his children and grandchildren. It's something we can all strive for. I'll certainly miss his humor.
With deepest sympathy,
Proud Grandpa at Brody's Birthday!
Robyn Zimmer
May 9, 2016
There are no words...but know our thoughts and prayers are with you. We Love you, The Zimmer Family
May 9, 2016
My deepest sympathy to the Hennessy family. Coach Hennessy will be remembered as a great coach, but an even better person. RIP my friend!
Gil Licata
May 9, 2016
Our hearts are broken for the Hennessy family. God Bless Ray and the entire Hennessy family. Remember all the good times and the things that he has taught so many.
Jim, Carleen and Family
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