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Rosely Robinson
November 1, 2024
You were one of the kindest person I have ever known. God Bless! Your USMC Flag flies high!
SEMPER FI
glenn kresge
March 4, 2023
Thank you for your Gallant service! Two combat tours in Vietnam, serving 26 months as a Marine Corps Captain in a war zone. It was an honor to have known you and be counted as one of your friends. Semper Fi! Glenn Kresge, USMC
Rosely
November 1, 2021
My heart is with all of you today as we remember the wonderful legacy Ray left behind. He will be forever remembered in our hearts. A gentle soul.
Rosely Robinson
November 1, 2020
Remembering you today with great sadness. You were a wonderful person, touched many hearts. RIP
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Peggy Marshall
December 21, 2016
I just learned about Ray's passing and I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with your family especially during the holiday season. I worked with Ray on the other side of the aisle (Department of Justice) for 15 years in Wilmington and would occasionally run into him down in Sussex where I practiced for another 15 years. I remember Ray as a true gentleman, a thoughtful advocate and a pleasure to work with. I remember running into him at the Sussex County Courthouse and was happy to catch up with him -- he always a great smile, a pragmatic approach to a criminal case and a joy for life. He will be truly missed and well-remembered.
Sincerely,
Peggy Marshall Thomas
Ann Walther
November 20, 2016
I just heard about Ray. I am so sorry to hear he is no longer with us. Please accept my sincere condolences. As a paralegal in the Office of the Attorney General I met and worked with Ray for many years. He was a joy to know. He always had a smile on his face and it was contagious. He was a gentleman, polite, engaging, and enthusiastic. For a time Erin Boggs, a paralegal with the Public Defender, and I worked together at the Courthouse. Whenever Ray walked into the courtroom, we would turn to each other and smile. We knew immediately it would be a good day. We looked at Ray as our great big teddy bear and we loved working with him. Even now, as I think of Ray, a smile comes to my face. Thank you for sharing him with us. His presence will be greatly missed but his memory will live on in our hearts.
With Love.
Ann Walther
PS: Kristen, I absolutely adore the pictures you posted of Ray as a young man. They are precious. Thank you.
November 14, 2016
Our thoughts and prayers are with the Otlowski family. We were deeply saddened by Ray's passing.
Ray was an amazing individual. He was a pleasure to work with. I am thankful that I had the opportunity to work with him for a few years.
He also served his country proudly as a Marine. Semper Fi
He will be missed.
Jim and Suzie Maxon
Gibson Yoder
November 12, 2016
Sincere thoughts and prayers to the entire extended family.
Raymond was a loyal friend to us at Newark Anglers' Association, Inc. and on the personal level with any professional family legal advice or support.
Sincere regards,
Gibby
Kenneth Bartholomew
November 10, 2016
Ray you were a great person. Always treated people with respect. Haven't seen you in over 30 years. RIP my old friend. Ken "Bart" BARTHOLOMEW.
Darlene Stillwell
November 10, 2016
Dear Nan and family, As I read these messages sent to you regarding the lose of Ray, tears are streaming down my face. It was an honor for me to be his cousin, I will truly miss his wonderful hugs whenever I saw him. I'm so sorry I was not able to attend his viewing , but please know you are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Love, Darlene, Bill, Ryan and Meghan Stillwell
Dale Hall
November 10, 2016
My sincere condolences to the Otlowski Family. Ray was a tremendous lawyer and it was my sincere pleasure knowing him even though, as a policeman, we were on different sides of the courtroom. He was truly an Officer (Marine) and a Gentleman. Semper Fi, Ray. Rest in Peace.
Dade Werb
November 10, 2016
I worked with Ray in the Public Defender's Office for many years. A great person and role model to all of us who had the pleasure to work with him. He accomplished more in a lifetime than many of us ever will. He will truly be missed.
November 10, 2016
Our deepest sympathies to the whole Otlowski family. Vincent and I were shocked to hear that Ray had passed. We saw him 2 weeks ago at the Corpomax office and he was optimistic. He was just a joy to be around and we will cherish his memory for the rest of our lives. We are really sorry that we didn't make it to the funeral home yesterday as we were moving but our thoughts and prayers were with you. Stay strong and do not hesitate to reach out if you need us. Sylvie and Vincent Allard.
Susan Louth
November 10, 2016
To the Otlowski Family with Love, Ray will always hold a special place in my heart as well as your entire family. I miss you all terribly right now and wish I was there to pay my respects to one of my all time favorite bosses and friend. My Dad loved Ray as well, I'll be there in spirit through my Dad and through God. Love and prayers of strength for all of you.
Janice Smith
November 9, 2016
My sincere condolences to you Nan and your family.
Mike Nardozzi
November 9, 2016
Otlowski Family: I was saddened to learn that Ray had passed away. I had worked with him for several years in the Public Defenders Office, and he had done legal work for my family. He was a great help to me at work, and fun to work with. May God give strength to your entire family during this difficult time.
Ruth Matruder Smythe
November 9, 2016
I worked with Ray at the Public Defender's Office for many years. He was a kind and gentle man. I am sorry for your loss.
Ruth Matruder Smythe
November 9, 2016
Nan,
It won't be the same without Ray at all the family gatherings. We would always seek him out knowing that we would be greeted with a genuine heartfelt smile that would light up the entire room! Our prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Our Deepest Sympathy,
Phil and Mary Ann Storm
November 9, 2016
Ray was always with our family whenever we needed him. Always there for us. Could not have had a better friend than Ray. Our thoughts and prayers are with the family now and always. Another Guardian Angel to watch over us.
God Bless Ray and his family
The Jack Mummert Family
Claymont, Delaware
November 8, 2016
Condolences to the Otlowski family. As a classmate of Ray's PAHS class of "58, Ray will always be remembered as an outstanding athlete and human being. I shall miss our conversations at our reunions. May all the wonderful memories you share, sustain you in the days ahead.
Donna Cohen Scher
November 8, 2016
Jill and family, I am very sorry for your loss. Keep those beautiful memories you have, he will always be in your heart.
Melody Nickle
Rosely Robinson
November 8, 2016
Ray was one of the kindest, gentle, caring man I have met. You touched so many lives. You will continue to look over your family from heavens above.
MARINE Semper Fi my friend, until we meet again.
Jim and Rosely Robinson
November 8, 2016
I knew Ray as a fellow classmate at PAHS CLASS of 1958 and looked forward to chatting with him at reunions. I send my condolences to his entire family on your loss of a great man.
Barbara Spector Eisnet
Jason & Katy Sowden
November 7, 2016
Jill --- we are so very sorry for the loss of your dad. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Kaylee and your family. We hope you can take comfort in the memories...
Sandi Thompson Moore
November 7, 2016
So sorry for your loss,thoughts and prayers are with you.Travis and Sandi Thompson Moore and family
Richard Herczeg
November 7, 2016
My deep condolences to you Nan and your entire family during this heartfelt time.
Ray is still a great man - I have always looked up to him with admiration and respect - for his public success, his service and his loving dedication to his family. He had class and set an good example for all of us. Always Honored to be his cousin. Godspeed to you Cousin Ray - Love Ricky
Jim Wilhelm
November 7, 2016
God bless you Ray and your family. It was a pleasure to have known you and work with you!
Richard Herczeg
November 7, 2016
My deep condolences to you Nan and your entire family during this heartfelt time.
Ray is still a great man - I have always looked up to him with admiration and respect - for his public success, his service and his loving dedication to his family. He had class and set a good example for all of us. Always Honored to be his cousin. Godspeed to you Cousin Ray - Love Ricky
Holly Carhart
November 7, 2016
My condolences to the Otlowski family. I knew Ray when I worked with him at the Public Defender's Office. He was a great man and I know he will be missed greatly.
November 7, 2016
Mr. O was one of the kindest, most giving men I have ever had the privilege of knowing. In every conversation I had with him over the last 30+ years he always made me feel like I was the only one in the room. From his infamous, how's it going kid to the way he took a genuine interest in me and my family, I will always cherish the time I spent with him. He was truly one of a kind and will be sorely missed. My prayers and condolences go to the entire family.
Love,
Nancy Wilson
Kim Hrycak
November 7, 2016
So very sorry for your loss.
Joe Riccardello
November 7, 2016
So sorry for your loss....
Ray Jr, you will be missed...
Rita Savage
November 7, 2016
Nan I am so sorry for your loss, Ray was a wonderful kind person.
Mary Riberio
November 7, 2016
Ray, I am so sorry for the loss of your father. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
brooke murray
November 7, 2016
I have known Ray for most of my life. He was a good friend of my Dad, Bill Murray. I give my condolences to his family at this sad time.
Deb Hinderer
November 7, 2016
Otlowski family, we were so sorry to learn yesterday of Ray's passing, he was truly a gentleman and will be missed. Please accept our deepest sympathies on your loss. - Bill & Debbie Hinderer
Kristen Otlowski
November 7, 2016
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DEBRA CLENDANIEL
November 7, 2016
We will miss you dearly. So glad to dance with you at my birthday. Love and hugs to Nan and the whole family.
Pam & Joe Burgos
November 7, 2016
Nan, Dave and Family,
What a wonderful man Ray was and a great legacy he has left for all of you. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. May the many wonderful memories and good times bring you peace and comfort.
Kheea Anderson
November 7, 2016
Jill, it was with great sadness that I learned of your dad's passing; please accept my heartfelt condolences. I pray the love of God enfolds you and your family during this trying time and may your many memories of your husband/dad/granddad and friend help to sustain each of you at this most difficult hour. My thoughts and prayers are with the family.
DEBRA CLENDANIEL
November 7, 2016
We will miss you dearly. I will always remember dancing with you at my birthday. Love to Nan and the whole family.
The Inguito Family
November 7, 2016
Ray, a kind man and gentle soul who was a loving husband to our friend, Nan, for 51 years! Our deep heartfelt sorrow are with the Otlowski family.
Coach Blue
November 7, 2016
My sincere condolences to the otlowski Family.
May god keep and strengthen you at this difficult time.
God Bless
The Blue Family
Honey Vickers
November 7, 2016
Just to hear his name- Ray Otlowski- brings a smile to my face. Over the 50+ years we have been friends I can think of no one who surpasses him in gentleness and caring. In the last conversation we had with him, he- with an endearing smile on HIS face- spoke of his family as the beacon of light that guided him through every moment and choice in his life. May that legacy guide those who love him through the grieving that follows such a loss.
Honey & Ross Vickers
Beth Harvey
November 7, 2016
So very sorry to learn this dear man is no longer with us. Prayers for you and your family, Nan.
Jean Weitzel
November 7, 2016
I can't imagine what you are feeling right now, but I hope with the love and care of your friends and family it will help to provide you with comfort. Nan, I know words don't begin to tell the story of the special happiness you shared with Ray, but I hope your memories will always bring a smile to your face and warm your heart. Love, Jean
Susan scala
November 7, 2016
Dad you were the greatest person ever I cant imagine life without you but know you are watching down on is...I love you with all my heart and miss you so much ...❤
Kellie Altman
November 7, 2016
I am glad to have known ray. I realize you have lost a very very special person. Our prayers are with you . Kellie and Rich Altman ( Joe Roskeys daughter and son in law ) so so sorry !
November 6, 2016
Prating God's comfort for your family
Love Pamela Gray Burkett.
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