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Rebecca West Obituary
Rebecca Sue (Fieldbinder) West, 70, of Valparaiso went to be with her Lord in Heaven on Saturday, January 11, 2025.
Becky, as most friends and family know her, was born to parents Robert and Shirley (Rowe) Fieldbinder on May 25, 1954 in Champaign, IL. She grew up in Urbana where she graduated high school, attended beauty school, and met the love of her life, Gary D. West. They were married in 1974.
Soon after getting married, Becky and Gary moved to Hobart, IN and shortly after that settled in Valparaiso, IN. There, she fulfilled her life's dream of being a mother to four children and eventually grandma to nine grandchildren. She was the best at both of those roles! Becky was an active member of Liberty Bible Church, loved to sing, was an avid quilter, as well as a joyful tap dancer. Her family was always blessed and excited to be treated to one of her creative and delicious birthday cakes!
She is survived by her husband Gary, four children Justin (Lexy) of Munster, IN, Joshua (Kristy) of Valparaiso, IN, Lauren (Brian) Poncsak of Valparaiso, IN and Leslie (Eddie) Lareau of Valparaiso, IN, nine beautiful grandchildren: Adeline, Gwendolyn, Ronald, James (JD), Harper, Kamden, Hudson, Logan and Garrett, her two sisters Cindy (George) Hubert of Fairmount, IL and Amy (David) Tomasko of Columbus, OH, as well as several nieces and nephews, and many, many friends. She was preceded in passing by her parents and sister Bobbi Jean Gudgel.
Visitation will be held on Thursday, January 16 from 5-7pm at Dykes Funeral Home in Valparaiso, IN. Funeral service will be held at the funeral home on Friday, January 17 at 11am.
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Charlene Taylor
May 1, 2025
Gary- I am sorry to hear of Becky´s passing. In reading her obituary she sounded like a wonderful lady who greatly impacted her family and friends. I look forward to getting to know her as we spend eternity with our Savior.
Peggy Howard
May 1, 2025
Gary,
I am so sorry to hear of your wife, Becky's passing--I really enjoyed talking to her at our last reunion. Keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
Peggy Shields Howard
Rick Kesler
May 1, 2025
Gary, so sorry to hear of the passing of your wife Becky. I remember her being at some of our class reunions and she was always so pleasant and uplifting. It looks like the two of you had a good life together filled with wonderful memories. That's all any of us can ask. Prayers. Rick Kesler
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Val Boston
January 23, 2025
I was fortunate enough to be in Liberty Bells, choir and play choir chimes with Becky for many many years. She was always so friendly and sweet and very upbeat. She had a great sense of humor. She was a joy to be around and brightened the day for all of us. I am thankful that we will see her again one day! So sorry for the pain and grief you all are suffering now. Val Boston
Becky Graham
January 21, 2025
I have many fine memories of conversations with Becky.
It was a blessing to know her.
Sharon Phillips
January 19, 2025
I was in Becky's bible studies, she was loving , kind, compassionate a beautiful Christian women wife mother and friend she will be sadly missed but remembered for her big heart.
Jan Shore Fitterling
January 18, 2025
45 years of BFF friendship...so many memories...my heart is . I will always love you, Becky. Thank you for holding that very special place in my ...ALWAYS! Jan
Tina and Scott Kleppe
January 15, 2025
Our family will always be grateful for the kindness Becky and the West family showed us when our daughter transferred to Chesterton High School. During those years, they welcomed her into their home so we wouldn't have to make a trip 4 times a day and never asked for anything in return. We will always remember her kindness and generosity and her big smile and she never had anything bad to say about anyone. Our thoughts and prayers are with her husband and family during this time. Don't say "goodbye", say "goodnight, until we meet again".
Michael & Sandy Mick
January 15, 2025
Becky was always a bright presence in the choir at LBC. And, being a redhead, she caught my attention (I have a family of redheads!) With respect to her husband, Gary, I could hardly think of one without the other, they were so well paired! Condolences to the entire family in this sudden loss of mother and wife. So glad that we shall meet again in the presence of Jesus!
Curtis Rowe
January 14, 2025
She possessed a bubbling, cheerful personality with a deep faith in our Lord. Becky is a first cousin. She is with our grandparents, our parents, and her sister, Bobbi Jean in Heaven for eternity. Our memories of Becky will always be in our hearts. Our deepest condolences to Gary, her children, and grandchildren. Blessing of Peace to her sisters, Cindy and Amy. - Curtis & Margie Rowe
William Cravens
January 14, 2025
I remember meeting Becky in choir while we practiced for a Christmas cantata. She was always so very happy to be serving the Lord!
Daniel B. Smith
January 14, 2025
Dear Amy, So sorry to hear of the passing of your sister.Knowing you I am sure you and she were close.The ache you feel will never completely go away but the wonderful and loving memories you shared will be yours forever to remember. Bless You and yours Respectfully Dan Smith
Carol Hazen
January 14, 2025
Not only did we share a birthday, but many musical memories, starting with Liberty Belles and handbell choir with John Wilson. I counted on her as a faithful and gifted 2nd soprano... And loved her as a friend!
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