Richard Terrence Cautley-Davis

Richard Terrence Cautley-Davis obituary

Richard Terrence Cautley-Davis

Richard Cautley-Davis Obituary

Published by Vancouver Sun and/or The Province on Apr. 30, 2016.
Richard Terrence Cautley-Davis (Terry Davis) April 8, 1947- April 23, 2016

Terry loved cars, jukebox oldies, gin martinis (straight up, very dry), history, the stock market (when the Dow was up), telling stories, inappropriate jokes, and wine (as long as it wasn't French). He loved to travel, was generous to everyone, was brilliant, and kind. Terry was larger than life, surrounded by laughter, and was amused by the ridiculous. He loved sports, and was a season ticket holder for the Canucks for over 20 years, but would threaten each year to sell them if "they didn't get it together." He never missed an opportunity to reunite and reminisce with his Quesnel buddies, had a remarkable ability to strike up conversions with people and make new friends wherever he went. He believed that "work was man's salvation," and worked as the Vice President of sales at Richmond Plywood for 28 years.

He disliked pretence, those who took short cuts, people who were easily offended, and golf.

The women in his life were loved. He leaves behind his wife, Eleonora (a beautiful Italian girl whom he loved above all else); his daughters, Laura (who reminded him of his mother, and whom he liked even more when she married Dave) and Catherine (who inherited his wit and charm).



To his grandchildren, Brett and Annie, Owen and Macy, he was and will forever remain their beloved granddad. His legacy of generosity and love will live on in them.

Terry is survived by his brothers Mike (Donna) and Kevin (Michele), and sister, Betty (Len), but will be joining their parents, Dick and Anne. He also leaves behind his dearest friends Marty, Greg, Dave, Ross, and Bill, who, as Terry would say, "would hold the rope for him"- and they did.

In lieu of flowers we kindly ask that you hug your child or grandchild, tell a friend what they mean to you, take a moment to show kindness to a stranger, or travel to that place you have always wanted to go. Dad always did...time waits for no one.

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May 15, 2019

Terry
Ever in my thoughts ,miss you and the friendship we had.
Frank Green London

May 14, 2019

We still miss you and think of you often here at the office. Stephenie/Bina/Lisa et al.

Mike Cautley-Davis

May 13, 2019

Miss You Terry. Hear you laughter and thoughts always. "When You Talk To Me, I Hear Everything."

Tyler Davis

August 14, 2017

Didn't get to spend much time with you Uncle Terry, but those few times were so memorable. Love to you, and love and prayers to the family.

Catie Cautley-Davis

April 25, 2017

Daddy, I still can't believe you're gone. It's been a year. It's been a difficult year. But, I know you would be proud of your girls. We lived! We lived like you taught us. We traveled together, we dined together, we celebrated together and we cried together (but not too much, I promise).
Your ladies miss you and your grandkids talk about you every day. They are little Cautley- Davis' and its so wonderful to see. Thank you for teaching us so well. We promise that the legacy will live on.
Love you so much, Dad xo

Michael Cautley-Davis

May 14, 2016

Do you ever find yourself wishing this was all a bad dream? Ya, me too!

For my big brother, blessed to be able to share some private time with you alone, and with friends and family gathered around you. I laugh to think how at home you'd be with all the loud laughter, tears, stories that were shared. You knew we were there, you opened your eyes for just a few seconds at a time, long enough to give me a thumbs up to reassure me that everything would be ok.

That final goodbye, before heading home to our hometown was the most pain i've ever endured, a drive that was spent lost in great memories sprinkled with anger and the why's. I prayed God would misplace the plans he had for you, like the Davis boy's misplaced their keys and wallets on any given day. It was not to be. What hurts the most is your story was not finished. You and Eleonora had a thousand memories yet to make. It gives me solace to know the love of your life was there to gently hold your hand when the Angels came in the early quiet hours of the morning to wrap and shelter you within their wings for your journey home. Why are we still crying? your pain is now through, it's time we start smiling what else can we do? They say time heals, i don't agree, things will never quite be the same. For now i'll just wave bye, bye, i know i'll see you again. There'll come a time all of us must leave here, we need to live, like you did, larger than life and too the fullest. There are no infinite tomorrows.

In deep confusion, great despair, when i look for you, i know you'll be there. Though pain mingles with smiles and laughter, when i talk to you i know you will hear everything, what you meant to me. To say i was proud to be your brother is an understatement. I truly looked up to you, wanted to be just like you. Too many times we leave things until it's too late, Eleonora encouraged me to overcome my fear and i was able to share a lifetime of thoughts, no regrets to deal with, i said it all, and you made it easy as you let your feeling be known as well. Thank you for always looking out for us. At the end of every phone call you would say goodbye, be good Michael, maybe just a little thing to some, but huge to me. Love and miss you big brother. Until we meet again, we'll cherish the times we had with you. I can see you and hear that great laugh, the Davis sense of humour will live on. Love you Terry. A proud little brother.....Michael.

May 12, 2016

For an outstanding man who loved his family dearly and was a gentlemen to all. Terry, I only wish you had retired a couple of years earlier!

Joseph Andrews

May 9, 2016

Terry will be missed by more friends than most anyone can ever imagine attaining in two life times. He brought me to Richply and treated me like a brother while I was learning the ropes as the new manager and new to Canada. During any tuff period Terry would have use all forgetting our problems and laughing so hard our sides hurt. I know how much family, friends and work meant to him and it was the relationship that was so important to him. The last time we parted we hugged and I saw a tear in his eye---now Terry I have many tears. Sonya and I will miss you.

Dan Poh

May 4, 2016

I was extremely sad to hear about the passing of Terry Davis. I've known Terry professionally for the 17 years that spanned my entire career at CANPLY (Canadian Plywood Association and CertiWood). Terry was an esteemed member of our Board, serving as chairman and board member with distinction.

Terry had the sharpest of wits, and was always quick with timely comebacks and good-natured retorts that fueled discussions, made them more lively and built camaraderie.

Terry was always sure to acknowledge the work of CANPLY staff and often went out of his way to ensure individuals were recognized and praised. He made us feel like even routine work was important and appreciated and he inspired all of us to do our best work at all times.

Terry stood for the best interests of the Canadian plywood industry at large and was truly an industry giant serving it with both decency and integrity.

He will be greatly missed.

Tania Stadnik

May 3, 2016

Elenora, Laura and Catherine,

I am so heartbroken to hear this news. Please know that my love and thoughts are with all of you. I have such fond memories of your dad/Terry from our many years of friendship on Borthwick. May your hearts heal and may you find healing in your many memories and in his essence that continues on with you. Much love, Tania and the Charalambous family

Frank Green

May 3, 2016

From your family in England. I met Terry over 40 years ago in London where we had a business meeting, we were both starting out in the plywood industry. The arguments started on price and went on for hours, his price was too high, mine was too low, but we soon thrashed out a deal over a drink...or five! The price was agreed and that was the start of my close friendship with Terry. He was a hard but fair negotiator and the banter was always flowing.

Over the years we each travelled over the pond to see each other and with each meeting our friendship grew. Our business relationship soon turned into a close personal friendship which transcended through both our families.

Terry was such fun, had a wicked sense of humour, spoke his mind, and was genuine to the core. I had so much respect for him, he was one of the most generous men I've ever met in so many ways. When I sent my son Matthew out for work experience he took him under his wing and gave him so much life experience and guidance. It was wonderful to watch their friendship grow over the last 20+ years.

Terry was a wonderful family man, he doted on them and they always came first. He was always so proud to show us photos of his children and grandchildren on one of their many holidays together.

Rest in peace my dear friend, we will miss you greatly.

Our love and thoughts are with Eleanora, Laura and Catie at this most difficult of times.

Frank Green and family.

May 2, 2016

It was always quite a challenge dealing with Terry over the twenty or so years. In the end he always looked after us at AFA . He will be missed by all that new him. Gods speed my friend.

Stephenie Murphy

May 2, 2016

What a lovely testament to the wonderful man that Terry was. I worked for Terry for 28 years and through it all he remained the witty, hilarious boss that made each day an adventure and learning experience. His work ethic was astonishing. Always available to answer any question or concern. I will miss being able to pick up the phone and say "Sorry to bother you...and he'd say "Don't be sorry, what can I do for you." My prayers and thoughts go out to his family and friends.

May 1, 2016

Beautifully said, Laura! Love from Aunt 'Bets'.

April 30, 2016

"With heavy hearts and fond memories, the Billett women Linda, Ashley and Chelsea send our love to all of you today and for all your future tomorrow's."

Colleen and Chris Badger

April 30, 2016

Terry always had a cheeky grin, a story and a laugh when I saw him, he will be missed, but fondly remembered.

Heather Haryu

April 30, 2016

Terry was very well described in the above words and it is difficult to add more, and even more difficult to know that he has passed on. I was "my secretary" to Terry for 11 years before he retired last year, and there was never a day that he didn't make me laugh, usually with him but often at the sheer wit that emanated from him at all times. Whether it was politics, current events, historical events, or bad drivers - whom he encountered most days - I was never left wondering where he stood on any subject, even if I didn't necessarily agree, LOL. What was always apparent was his love for his family and his love for travel. He always had instructions to share about the best places to see and eat at any of his favourite places, especially Italy and Mexico. I wish Terry could have enjoyed more retirement years but I truly believe he loved his work and lived a full life in the time he had. My heartfelt condolences to his family and best friends. I will surely miss him.
- Heather Haryu

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