Richard Laurence Distin

1937 - 2019

Richard Laurence Distin obituary, 1937-2019, Ventura, CA

Richard Laurence Distin

1937 - 2019

BORN

1937

DIED

2019

Richard Distin Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Feb. 3 to Feb. 8, 2019.
Richard Laurence Distin

Ventura, CA

It is with great sadness that the family announces the passing of much loved and long time Ventura resident Richard Laurence (Dick) Distin on January 29, 2019. Dick was born August 2, 1937 in Syracuse NY to Harold Distin and Ethel Rear Distin. He was the youngest of five children. He was a graduate of Syracuse Technical High School and then enlisted in the US Navy. Upon discharge he came to live in Ojai with his sister, Shirley, and her husband. It was there he met his first wife Janet McEgan with whom he had his three wonderful children, Tracy, Brandy and Todd. After that marriage ended he married Vivian Liberto Cash and helped raise her four children, Rosanne, Kathy, Cindy and Tara. Vivian passed in 2005. Dick's daughter Brandy worked with and introduced him to Janiece Bulgin and they fell in love and married in 2009. Janiece brought to the marriage her two children, Kym and Heidi.

Dick was a well known personality in Ventura County. He was a Ventura Police officer, then a private investigator and a travel agent. He was a practicing Catholic and was a member of Sacred Heart Church. Dick was always ready to lend a helping hand to anyone and one of his life mottos was "kindness costs you nothing". His sense of humor was contagious and he loved to make people laugh.

Dick is survived by his loving wife Janiece, sons Tracy (Anne), Todd, daughter Brandy Anderson, step-daughters Kymberle Carlson and Heidi Miller, grandson Sean Distin, granddaughters Crystal and Amber Anderson and great-granddaughter Averie Distin. Step-grandsons Spencer Kurisu, Lukas and Drake Miller. Numerous nieces, nephews and great nieces and nephews and great-grand nieces and nephews and countless dear friends he considered family.

He was preceded in death by his parents, sisters Laura, Shirley, Betty and brother Bob, nephew Phill Tomeny, niece Barbara Ludlow, great niece Michelle Ludlow, and nephew Roy Peebles.

Holy Mass for Dick will be held February 9 at 10AM at Sacred Heart Church Ventura with a reception immediately following at Biedermann Hall at the church. Dick was cremated according to his wishes. Dick's favorite colors were black and red so please feel free to wear those colors to honor him.

The family wishes that in lieu of flowers a donation to a charity of your choice be made in Dick's honor.

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May 20, 2023

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March 17, 2023

Harry Simpson posted to the memorial.

February 8, 2019

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May 20, 2023

Harry Simpson

March 17, 2023

Fair winds and following seas sailor. "Boatswain... Standby to pipe the side... Shipmate's going Ashore..." Thank you Richard for your service to this nation. U.S. Navy.

February 8, 2019

My sincere condolences go to the family. Deuteronomy 32:7 tells us to "Remember the days of old." May special memories of moments spent together bring you comfort as you cope with his loss and may you receive much love and support.

Antoinette Pozos

February 7, 2019

My thoughts and prayers are with you all. May Richard rest In Peace.

Vickie Judd

February 6, 2019

Todd, sorry about your dad. Last saw you when you were down for his birthday. I have since moved away but Joe D. and Bruce know how to reach out. Take care and God Bless you. Love to you Mrs Judd

Kathleen De La Huerta

February 6, 2019

Our hearts go out to you and your family Janiece . Dick was such an amazing person and the love for you showed in so many ways. I hope you can find comfort in knowing he is not suffering any longer. Love you❤,Kathleen and Ken

Caren Harrison

February 3, 2019

My Condolences To The Distin Family.

Jimmy Tittle

February 3, 2019

Dick was my father in law for many years with his marriage to Vivian. He loved to bowl and we went often when I was in Ventura. When I met Dick for the very first time it was to announce my wedding to Kathy. I had a very good job and the first thing he said to me was how do you plan to provide for our daughter I couldn't help but laugh. He was asking the question every father has asked for centuries. Proud to say we've taken care of each other. God speed Dick. Jimmy Tittle

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