Richard Anthony Salmon

1934 - 2017

Richard Anthony Salmon obituary, 1934-2017

Richard Anthony Salmon

1934 - 2017

BORN

1934

DIED

2017

Richard Salmon Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Feb. 8, 2017.
Richard Anthony Salmon

Imagine a life so beautifully lived that the standard-bearer for your life could largely be reduced to the following:

'In the evening of my life I shall look to the sunset.
At that moment in my life when the night is due And the question I shall ask only God can answer Was I brave and strong and true?
Did I fill the world with love my whole life through?'

Now, in order to answer the question, it requires an examination of the life of Richard Salmon.
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Richard Salmon graced this world, clear across the big pond, over 82 years ago in Dublin, Ireland. Born to Esther and Thomas Salmon and brother to Thomas and Harry, Richard's early intellectual curiosity and hard work led him to academic success at Rockwell College in Tipperary, Ireland. When he graduated from Rockwell, Richard was called to the priesthood, studying at a seminary in Leicester, England. The calling in Leicester did not work out and so Richard readily made the journey across the Atlantic to the United States simply to seek out better opportunity.

While in New York, Richard recommenced his college studies, graduating from St. Francis College and thereafter beginning a long, fruitful career as a teacher.

But, we have jumped ahead of ourselves. You see, there was this girl.
Richard had taken a job in 1955 at Best and Company, a high-end children's clothing store in Manhattan. It was on his 21st birthday that he met Pauline Corrigan, a 17 year old girl who was not supposed to be working on the third floor that particular day, but, fate had its way of intervening. On that day, he met the love of his life and the best friend he has ever known, Pauline. They wed on August 23, 1958.

In quick succession, Richard started his teaching career. After a brief nascent teaching stint on Staten Island, Richard embarked on a 36 year career teaching history to generations of young men at Archbishop Molloy High School in Jamaica, Queens. Richard's natural storytelling ability coupled with his knowledge and unique teaching style fed the spirit and stoked the imagination of young men for decades. He was not just a teacher for these young men, but, a counselor in perplexity and a soundboard of goodness and heart. His former students would routinely credit Richard to being the impetus for their own career choices and for the men they would eventually become. The school motto at Molloy, where Richard was affectionately dubbed Mr. Chips, was 'Non scholae sed vitae'--'not just for school but for life.' Richard lived that life, having maintained friendships with countless former students over many decades.

At the same time that Richard was honing and perfecting his teaching skills, he and Pauline's love story continued. Having married in 1958, they became first time parents in 1960 with arrival of Peter. In quick succession, they welcomed the arrival of three more children, Thomas, Edward and Jeanne.

The years went by and all things attendant to parenthood populated the days of Richard and Pauline. Pauline, through many years of part-time jobs, raising children and college classes, commenced her law school career in 1976, with her biggest cheerleader, Richard, taking on more parental and household duties, in this, yet, another adventure for the two. Scrappy and hard-working, Richard and Pauline ensured the children were happy, well-fed, and raised in the Catholic faith.

As time went on and the children grew up and the family was expanded by marriages and the arrival of grandchildren. Richard and Pauline then got to enjoy the fruits of their labor, taking trips across the globe from Russia to Australia and beyond. By chance, they booked a trip 30 years ago to San Diego, hoping simply for a brief respite from the February chill of New York. Instead of a mere break, the two of them found their Shangri-La and started a love affair with this city that continues today. On that trip, they concluded that their retirement years would be spent in America's Finest City. They permanently moved to San Diego in 2000.

Richard and Pauline's years in San Diego have been just as productive and busy as their time in New York. Together, they have answered the call to help those less fortunate, the two alone would bring water, food and books to their homeless friends living on the streets of San Diego.

Richard, as a man of history, always felt it was important that people truly knew history. In furtherance of this goal, Richard created 'Witness Art.' He took his exquisite artistic skills and made calligraphic renditions of quotes on panels. These quotes, whether by an politician, actress, playwright or sports figure, he then had attested, by signature, of the person, as an imprimatur of a moment, a place or a time. Richard created hundreds of panels. However, he felt his most meaningful panels were those that he made reflecting quotes from Holocaust survivors. These attestation were not just of the horrors, but, of the great hope and the humanity of those who helped these survivors. Richard's panels were exhibited in a showing at the Coronado Museum of Art as well as the San Diego Public Library.

Richard's carefully crafted panels were not his sole artistic endeavor. He went on to write book manuscripts, plays and essays. He used his well-developed Irish love-of-language toward writing Op-Eds which have been published in such papers as the New York Times and Newsday, among others. He used this skill to bring forth perspectives on social justice.

His forum for truth was not just the written word or artistic renderings. He sought truth through his actions. Throughout the 1980's and in to the 1990's, Richard would routinely participate in candlelight vigils against the death penalty, sometimes with only one other person participating. His sense of truth and bravery continued well-beyond, as he actively supported those who participated in the Occupy San Diego movement and, too, participated in right-to-life marches.

Richard never ceased to engage his mind. He would constantly be reading multiple books at the same time. He could readily engage in meaningful discourse about the world financial market with anyone. He followed and was well-versed on all things politic. He would speak with authority about genetics and the Genome Project. These are all but a sample of the things that piqued his interest. He was truly a Renaissance man.

By far, though, beyond his successful teaching career and his artistic endeavors, he was proudest of the life that he created with Pauline. Their friendship spanned almost 62 years. He would routinely tell his children, "We are so lucky to have her." They each described their time here in San Diego as 'the honeymoon.' San Diego served as a beautiful setting for this great love story.

Richard would want all of you to know the following:
He would want you to rejoice and be happy! He is with God the Father! As he has counseled his own children, when they experienced loss of a friend or love one through death, he would tell you to speak to him and know that he is just in the next room. Because, that is where he waits for the eventual great reunion. He would want you to know that physical death is not a coda--it is simply part of the journey of the soul, and Richard looks forward to celebrating with you in the Kingdom of Heaven one day.

His legacy to his nine grandchildren is this: love of God, love of family, constant intellectual curiosity and kindness to all. Richard stated countless times that the only way in to heaven is to know God and you only know God if you know love. He would want you to live your life in service to those less fortunate. This is a legacy of gold.

Richard was a man who espoused love and equally lived it. And, while we are without him at the moment, we anticipate that he will be making a great home in heaven for his beautiful bride, Pauline and for his entire family. But, that while we wait to be reunited, we all move forward with faith, hope and love.

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In conclusion, to answer the question, "Did I fill the world with the world with love?" Yes, Richard, unequivocally and with a resounding "yes!!"

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November 24, 2019

Angela Tamberino posted to the memorial.

September 22, 2018

Chad Romanowski posted to the memorial.

October 9, 2017

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Angela Tamberino

November 24, 2019

As a teacher for 38 years in the Comsewogue School District, I had a student in my class with the name Salmon. I took a shot and asked her if anyone in her family was a teacher at Molloy...it was her grandfather!
That Christmas, Mr. Salmon came for a visit and we were reunited after 29 years! We talked through my lunch hour about how I modeled my teaching style after him and so many others in the history dept. at Molloy. I was so glad I had the opportunity to tell him what a lasting gift he gave me. It's rare when a teacher actually hears about the impact they had on so many lives. I will never forget that day, nor will I ever forget Mr. Salmon. What a class act!

Chad Romanowski

September 22, 2018

Mr salmon has taught me a love of history that has been with me all my life. I always wished that I would have been able to thank him for that. His image and voice has been in my my mind many times over the years, and I have told my children about him..He was a truly good man and great teacher.

October 9, 2017

God bless Mr. Salmon, who taught me sophomore History, but who also showed me that calmness, confidence, and honesty is what makes a civilized man.
Bob Oakley, AMHS '67

Victor Capece

September 13, 2017

I was just reading my Summer edition of Stanner Life and was sorry to learn of the passing of Mr. Salmon earlier this year. My most vivid recollections of my years at Molloy include listening to Richard Salmon explain the origins of the Great War. I can still hear him intoning names like Bethmann-Hollweg and von Moltke in that deep, resonant voice. His rigorous 20th Century European history course helped me get through more than one university level course. Mr. Salmon inspired a lifelong passion for the reading and study of history, for which I will always be grateful.

- Victor Capece '65

Charles DiMaggio

September 9, 2017

I used to think Mr. Salmon was one of the best teachers I ever had. As time has gone by, I've come to realize he is one of the only teachers I ever had. May his memory and spirit live on in those who were fortunate enough to have known him.

Eileen Bauer

September 7, 2017

I had Mr. Salmon as my history teacher at Archbishop Molloy in sophomore year. Mr. Salmon truly made history sing. I was always saddened at the end of class.
He and Mr. John Gibbons (rip) had the most effect on my younger life - for the first time they made me feel like a confident person. At the start of each class, he would let us blow off a little steam. Then he would drag his chair to the middle of the front of the classroom, sit down, and start telling his stories. The class would instantly come to order. He taught us of the horrors of the past and made us understand how they were never to happen again. He taught us to respect life and everyone. I'll always remember him and he'll alway be my guide.

Gerald Catalanotto '79

September 6, 2017

Having just received the Archbishop Molloy Alumni Newsletter, I just learned of Mr. Salmon's passing. What can I add to all of the accolades posted here? He was, by far, my favorite teacher at Molloy. He and Bro. Leo Richard had the most profound effect on my young life - for the first time making me feel like a worthwhile human being. Like so many, it was by the luck of the draw that I had him as my sophomore year history teacher - but it was by choice that I enrolled in his senior year AP European History course. I was never a great student, but he always made me feel like a shining star. I remember how, at the start of each class, he would let us blow off a little steam (remember we were 15-16 and full of energy). Then he would drag his chair to the middle of the front of the classroom, sit down, and in almost a whisper start telling his stories. The class would instantly sit down and come to order. You could hear a pin drop. He could make us laugh and move us to tears. He taught us to respect life and everyone. He taught us of the horrors of the past and made us understand how they were never to happen again. He exuded love. My regrets are that I never got to know him outside the school as so many others did, and I am probably not half the person he was. My dear old friend, until we meet again, rest in peace.

Joe Burton

July 21, 2017

I had occasion to meet Richard several times over the years and those times that I met him I found a very likeable and kind person that made me feel good while in his presence. He seemed well versed on many subjects and I enjoyed talking with him immensely. Upon reading the guest book entries I've come to realize that he was much loved by his students who still remember his positive inspirational energy that had enriched and added value to their lives over the years. I'm very sorry to hear of his passing but I know that his spirit will live on in those fortunate enough to have been touched by his love and kindness. A truly remarkable man!

Mike Bayer

May 5, 2017

To the Salmon family and my fellow alumni,

I was thinking this morning about the values Molloy instilled in us when I realized that the epitome of those values was Mr. Salmon. I googled him and found this page.

I took him for AP in senior year heeding the advice of friends who had him as a sophomore (I had Br. Richard for Global). Mr. Salmon had such a presence. Later, I worked for a year as a TA when I was trying to figure life out. I was able to appreciate him better as 21-22 yr old than when I was a student. We would have lunch or walk around the track. It was a wonderful opportunity to know him, listen to him, and learn. He was so generous with his time. Just amazingly unselfish.

Mr Salmon began every class with a prayer. I can still hear him say, "Good St. Ann, pray for us". For many of us boys and men he was the answer to a prayer: a mentor and role model. As Catholics we take things on faith, but I'm sure that Mr. Salmon is in God's Heaven praying for us still.

Mike Bayer
Class of 1983

Joseph Levano

April 21, 2017

I was blessed to have Mr. Salmon as my history teacher twice at Archbishop Molloy, once by chance and the second time by choice. As many have said he is my favorite teacher ever. He taught more than European or AP history; he taught about the true meaning of life. To answer the question yes he was brave, strong and true. He truly cared for his students with compassion and wisdom. We was a great story teller with a great sense of humor. In class we heard stories of his beautiful wife Pauline and his four children, Thomas, Peter, Edward and Jeanne whom he loved deeply.
After graduation we got to meet them and kept in touch by visiting with his family at his home in Long Island and later once we visited with him and Pauline for a wonderful home cooked meal in San Diego. He shared many stories of Padre Pio, Mary Plye, and Solanus Casey. He introduced me to Ray Ewen, who met Padre Pio during the WWII.
I remember Richard told a story about a prayer book. As he said well not just any prayer book. It was originally purchased by a lady who lived in San Giovanni. She asked Padre Pio if he would sign her new book and he agreed. So, some time later, she received the prayerbook. She looked through the pages, one by one, but there was no writing. Nothing! Sometime later, she went to confession to Padre Pio and broke into tears. "What's wrong?." he asked. "You promised to sign my book but you didn't." she replied through her tears. "Well, go home and take another at it," he said. When she returned to her home, she opened the prayerbook and inside the front cover, you couldn't miss it, was a note from Padre Pio. That lady, in later years, lived out her life on Staten Island. It was given to Pauline by Father Pio Mondato who received his First Communion from Padre Pio.
He is greatly missed and may he rest in peace.

April 19, 2017

At the risk of being glib, but with the greatest respect, as he said at the end of a lesson, so many times, with punctuation:

He was a good man!

Dear teacher, I will always remember you.

Richard Farina '73

Robert Caro

April 13, 2017

Mr. Salmon once unexpectedly invited me to take a lunch-time walk with him. We discussed future career choices and he implanted the idea of optometry which at the time was only a curious idea. Eventually, I went to medical school and became an eye surgeon (ophthalmologist). So, Richard Salmon, my friend and mentor, thank you for that visionary ''in-sight''. God Speed...
Robert Caro, MD
1974

April 5, 2017

Mr. Salmon made history sing. I was always disappointed when the the bell signaled the end of class. Fabulous story teller who made historical figures and events tell a story of living breadth and depth.
Whenever I'm asked on a web site to indicate a "Favorite Teacher" it's always been Salmon.
Russ Welton
Class of '65

Francesca Adriano

April 5, 2017

Richard was a dear man who inspired me to be a better Catholic & physician. I was fortunate to be his doctor at Kaiser for the last decade. Every time he came for an appointment, he brightened my day. We would always spend a few minutes talking about life, family & Mary Pyle! I cherish our last visit which was 2 weeks before he passed and was solely a social visit. Thank you, Richard, for your friendship & encouragement over the years. You will not be forgotten. With love, Francesca D. Adriano MD

Xavier McDonnell

April 4, 2017

Richard was an extraordinary person in many ways. I use that word with full knowledge that it requires a great deal of greatness to call a person extraordinary. I was his realtor but more so a friend an admirer. First, he was a phenomenal story-teller. I had never met an Irish storyteller and Richard lived up to all anyone would expect. His stories were insightful and hilarious. Second, both Richard and Pauline are the most generous and loving people i have ever known. At one time they considered buying a condo as an investment. I spent maybe 4 or 5 hours showing them several condos. A few days later they requested I join them for supper at the Hob Nob Grill. They then informed me that they decided not to purchase at that time. They then handed me an envelope with a very large cash gift which they refused to take back. They insisted I be compensated for the very small amount of work i did. No other client has ever been so kind and considerate. In fact, I have had several people i spent months showing dozens of homes just stop communicating with me and I never heard from them again. I also recall when I was seriously injured in 2005 they showed up at my out-of-the-way place with a huge basket of delicious gifts! They had taken the bus all the way out to my place from downtown!

Richard's (and Pauline's) kindness and generosity extended to travelling every week by trolley to Costco in Mission Valley to buy several cartons of heavy water bottles which they brought back downtown to distribute to the homeless people who they considered their friends. They also bought some homeless people nights in a hotel for the holidays.

Finally, I was lucky enough to witness a bit of their very long love affair with each other and I witnessed a bit of their love affair with San Diego. They walked many miles together all over San Diego for years and explored many neighborhoods. They loved going to all types of restaurants, especially French. They attended church together daily and supported each other in so many ways. When I spent just a few minutes with Richard and Pauline, my spirits were lifted. They appeared to me to be about the happiest people I have ever know. I am so happy I met them and was so honored to be able to find them a home which they loved.

Mike Fichera

April 3, 2017

Richard Salmon taught me World History in sophomore year, but that almost seemed to be an afterthought compared to the real lesson of each class: teaching about the complexity of morality, putting Christian faith into action, caring for the poor, having courage despite being an underdog, and always striving to do the right thing. I remember him saying, "being good is not just refraining from being evil. 'I don't commit crimes.' Big deal! You're not supposed to be bad! It's about actively being a GOOD PERSON!" When I look back at when I first learned to defend the helpless and innocent unborn from abortion, it was Mr. Salmon's class. For him it wasn't just "right" or "left" politics - it was about being good and holy, never compromising his Catholicism to make things easy or practical. Care for the unborn, the poor, the sick, the oppressed. He didn't disrespect the solider, and told stories of bravery on the battlefront - but he also taught peace by all means possible before war. I'm uplifted knowing he spent his retirement walking the streets of San Diego with food, water, and books for the homeless. God rest his soul for eternity, and prayers of comfort for his grieving family. -Mike Fichera, Molloy '87

April 2, 2017

Teachers and people like Mr. Salmon are rare. My memories of his class, his stories and his wit will be with me forever and have influenced my life immensely. It brings me great joy to hear of the many lives well lived by our beloved teacher.

Nello Quattrociocchi

April 1, 2017

I graduated from Molloy over 40 years ago, and Mr. Salmon has always been present in my heart and mind all these years. Some years ago he came to Italy on a pilgrimage to the tomb of St. Padre Pio and he was interviewed by a TV station. Seeing him again took my breath away... God bless you Mr. Salmon. Rest in peace in the Glory of God!

Gary Legenhausen

April 1, 2017

I was also blessed to have Mr. Salmon as history teacher for Sophomore year and in AP history, and he also took over for me with the publication of Venture magazine when I had given up on it. He was outstanding as a teacher. He not only made history come alive, but he introduced major works. He spoke to us about Toynbee. It was college prep, but it was also an introduction to academic research accompanied by challenges to formulate out own thinking. I saw Mr. Salmon some years ago when I was in NY to see my mother and stopped by at Molloy. He told me that he remembered out class as one with idealists, and expressed disappointment that the idealism was gone. I will never forget the real lessons for life we were fortunate to be given by Mr. Salmon.
Gary Legenhausen, Ph.D., Stanner class of '71

Steve Gambino

April 1, 2017

"Mr. Salmon, of all the many things you taught me was this; that it was possible to be intellectually curious, loving, and irreverently funny all at the same time. Thank you for coming into my life at Archbishop Molloy. Your wicked sense of humor will always be remembererd and cherished"

Steve Gambino '72 (from Finesville, NJ)

Kevin McCormack

April 1, 2017

I knew "Mr Salmon" as a fantastic teacher at Molloy, having him for History in my senior year. However, I also remember riding the LIRR Ronkonkoma train with him often. On his way to Ronkonkoma and I to Hicksville, sharing a seat, he would often kid me about living in a town with such a strange name. I would counter with the fact that no one can even pronounce Ronkonkoma.

Years later, I moved to Lake Ronkonkoma and periodically took the LIRR to the city for work. One morning, I was greeted with a "Good Morning, Mr McCormack" - it was my Ronkonkoma train riding buddy from some 30+ years prior. Not only did he recognize me, but remembered my name. (I often wondered how teachers did that???).

We had a nice reminiscent trip to the city, with him getting off at Jamaica and me continuing to Penn. As fate would have it, on my way home that day, he got on the same car I was on as the train arrived in Jamaica. He approached me with "...well, Mr McCormack, we have to stop meeting like this...". It was another enjoyable ride home. Over the years, we did bump into each other a few more times riding the LIRR.

I will always remember him as not only a fantastic, engaging teacher, but eventually a friend. I will miss him.

Kevin E McCormack - Molloy - Class of '69

Stephen gallagher

March 31, 2017

You never knew but because of your passion and excellence as a teacher I decided to become a History teacher myself after a career as a NYC Police Officer. Throughout that career I always carried a deep seated desire to be the kind of teacher you were-bringing history alive for my students. May you rest in peace.

Daniel Dowd

March 31, 2017

Mr. Salmon was the first history teacher to explain to me that events did not happen independently of each other. Philosophy developed in Scotland and influenced the American Revolution, scientific discoveries allowed changes in culture, etc. He could also see right through you when you tried to **** him. I loved him and enjoy history to this day. I sit on the Board of Trustees of a historic house. Dan Dowd '66

Al Tretola, '89

March 31, 2017

I met Mr. Salmon 30 years ago as a freshman at Archbishop Molloy. I am so lucky to have had him as a teacher. His love and passion of history and story telling were just so amazing. I cherish those memories. He touched my heart and soul in so many ways. Thank you for being a part of my life.

Patrick Bohan, '82

March 31, 2017

Your passion was engaging and inspiring. Thank you for being my teacher.

Robert Serio, '76

March 26, 2017

Mr. Salmon,
Your teaching took us to another time.
Your humanity helped guide us through our own awkward age.
You were clearly one for the ages.
Thank you for your passion, compassion and frequent wry humor.
However long or brief our lifetime encounter, we each carry with us the benefit of that time together.
May you find the joy of everlasting life you are so deserving of.

Dagmar Carroll

March 23, 2017

I met Richard and Pauline later in their lives. Richard was such a gentle soul, always smiling and he always took the time to stop and say hello or share stories from his fascinating life and teaching career. When you listened to him there was no doubt that he enjoyed that part his life very much and that it was his passion. He loved that many of his former students were still in contact with him.
I always enjoyed seeing them taking water and books to the less fortunate living on the streets. He was a kind and compassionate man and he will be missed. What a great life he lived and he is truly an inspiration for all of us.

Paul Svitra M.D. '76

March 18, 2017

Mr. Salmon was truly wonderful if not the best teacher I had the blessing to have during my life changing four years at Archbishop Molloy. His passion and dedication not just to world history, but to guiding us with optimism to our lives ahead was unparalleled. I am grateful for his mentorship, and hope that the years since were happy and fulfilling. He was certainly a bright beacon in the shining lights that made a lasting impact on my life, and certainly multitudes of others. May heaven have a special place for this very special teacher, mentor and truly wonderful person.

Paul P. Svitra M.D. '76

March 18, 2017

Mr. Salmon was truly wonderful if not the best teacher I had the blessing to have during my life changing four years at Archbishop Molloy. His passion and dedication not just to world history, but to guiding us with optimism to our lives ahead was unparalleled. I am grateful for his mentorship, and hope that the years since were happy and fulfilling. He was certainly a bright beacon in the shining lights that made a lasting impact on my life, and certainly multitudes of others. May heaven have a special place for this very special teacher, mentor and truly wonderful person.

Edward Vomacka '72

March 17, 2017

I was blessed to have Mr. Salmon as a teacher at Molloy. He made learning a joy. It was having a scholarly storyteller instead of a teacher. His wit and wisdom were freely shared as he imparted knowledge and spirituality in class. We are all better to have known him.

John Mutolo '70

March 8, 2017

Sophomore and AP History. By far the most engaging classes I can recall at Molloy. I have thought about Mr. Salmon's lessons not only of school but of life many times in the last 43 years. The world has lost a magnificent man.

Robert Wernly, Molloy '71

March 5, 2017

Mr. Salmon stirred in me a passion for history that has remained with me my entire life (as one could tell by just looking at my personal library). He was not only a teacher, but an inspiration. When I had the opportunity to reconnect with him recently, I found that he was as much an inspiration in our later years. Thank you for everything, Mr. Salmon.

Ted Scala

March 3, 2017

I had Mr. Salmon as a history teacher in the early 1970s at Archbishop Molloy High School. He taught us about history and he taught us about life. As the obituary states, Mr. Salmon's lessons embodied the school's motto: 'Non scholae sed vitae'--'not just for school but for life.'
The obituary tells of Mr. Salmon's full and fascinating life outside of the classroom. I knew nothing of that, but I am not surprised.
Thanks Mr. Salmon.

Visiting Richard & Pauline in San Diego August 2012

Robert DiTillio

March 1, 2017

We all have had a teacher in our lives who has had a profound impact on us. For me, it was my High School history teacher Richard Salmon. He was one of the most compassionate, caring and wonderful people I have ever met in my lifetime. He had a way of bringing history to life in the classroom unlike any other teacher. He was a phenomenal storyteller who made you feel like you were actually living in the history he was teaching. He was also a very funny man with a great sense of humor who could make you laugh heartily - even if you'd heard the story before. You could listen to him speak for hours. He was never boring. I still remember many of his lectures to this day.

But more than anything else, Mr. Salmon cared about his students as though they were his own children, even after they graduated. For years after I left high school, Mr. Salmon would have a reunion every summer at his home on Long Island that would be attended by loads of his former students. I came to those events for many years while still living in NY. Eventually, I lost touch with Mr. Salmon when I moved to California, but luckily, about a decade ago, I heard that he had moved to San Diego and I managed to get back in touch with him. He often emailed me with interesting news stories, facts about the world and history, or inspirational messages. Thankfully, a few years back I was able to visit him in San Diego and my wife Christine finally got to meet him. I had spoken to her about him many, many times over the past 22 years and I was so happy she got to spend some time with him in person. We had dinner with Mr. Salmon and his lovely wife Pauline. We reminisced and shared a wonderful evening together, full of his marvelous stories. That was the last time I saw him.

Mr. Salmon taught me a lot of things about life, but the most important lesson I learned from him is that what matters most in life is having compassion, empathy and love for other human beings. Without that, we're just existing. We're not living. RIP Mr. Salmon. You were part of MY history, and you will be very, very missed.

John Mansfield '66

February 28, 2017

Mr. Salmon was my teacher (Topics in the 20th Century) and mentor (Venture Magazine) at Molloy. His gentle guidance sent me on the right path to college and life. About 20 years after I graduated, I went back to Molloy one afternoon with one goal in mind - to see Mr. Salmon again!! I stood outside his class, he saw me and said "Hello John-how are you?". Last November,my class had it's 50th reunion and, except for the few teachers still at Molloy, Mr. Salmon's name came up the most by far. RIP to a great man!!

Brenda Sprankle

February 28, 2017

The man with a Mrs. and always a bright smile. "Would you like a book to read" he so often said. Thanks for all the books and water you shared over the years. It was always a pleasure. I know you have a special place with the Lord. You earned it. Brenda

Don Calogero

February 25, 2017

Rest in peace, Mr. Salmon.

Kathy Oko

February 24, 2017

That question of did he fill the world with love his whole life through and was Richard brave, strong and true? If there ever was a perfect man in this world, Richard was the master of perfection. He was absolutely brilliant,loving and sensitive. He cared so much for mankind, especially the unfortunate. His aura was so powerful, I just can't express the joy that flowed from his being and entered your heart until it was full. My first encounter with Richard and his beloved Pauline was when I stepped into the world of social injustice and wanted to make a difference. I joined the Centereach Civic Association on Long Island. Pauline and Richard saw something in me that I did not know I possessed. They nurtured and encouraged me and I slowly got the courage and strength to eventually preside over the civic group as president. Without their support and trust, I would have been left just sitting there instead of participating. Richard's endless knowledge was mind boggling. Pauline became like a sister to me. On a few occasions with my brother living in Escondido, Ca. we went to visit them in San Diego. They were so blissful and content. they brought sunshine to a dreary day. Our last occasion was when we went out to Ca.to attend my sister-in-law's funeral. Our return flight was cancelled and rescheduled to a red eye. My husband called to tell them of our dilemma. Come over and visit with us was their immediate response. Having given up their car because public transportation in the city was so convenient, Pauline must have immediately went for a walk to her favorite market and brought back lunch (which was more like a dinner). We listened to their stories of how they went out late afternoon to feed the homeless with their cart full of food, clothes or water. They were faithful friends to the homeless where Richard was known as "The Professor". They had a room in their apartment full of donated clothes, food, snacks and naturally books. Richard told us about one man he encountered who had lost his whole family to a fire. Richard asked him "what can I get you". To his delight, the man responded that he would love a book, especially on engineering. My life is truly blest
because of these 2 wonderful, caring people who befriended me years ago. I don't know what Pauline will do without her Richard a.k.a. Lord Salmon. They shared an absolute love of God and lived their life as God's servants. Pauline, please stay strong. I know he was part of your very essence. You know you can still talk to him and he will listen. He was always a good listener! I'm honored to have known him and can truly say, he was my mentor, advisor and mostly my friend. Both Jim and I loved and respected him dearly. I cannot bring myself to say goodbye, we will meet again over the rainbow.

Fr. John Serio, SDB '71

February 23, 2017

I didn't intend to attend Archbishop Molloy HS, but my cousins were freshmen and insisted I had to go to this school, partially because a Mr. Salmon was a great and funny teacher. So, I started at Molloy and was more than happy when I found myself as a sophomore in one of Mr. Salmon's World History classes with some of the other gentlemen who have recently posted their memories here. As a young student, I was an ardent admirer - my best teacher in high school (or any school, for that matter). As a young adult and now an older adult, I am a dedicated friend. The teacher-student relationship became a 50 year friendship. Beyond all doubt, Richard Salmon was the most influential person in my life outside of my family members. All through my life as a priest and educator, I have sought to incorporate his words and his example into my own life and ministry. Visiting him and Pauline, whether on Long Island or in San Diego, was always a boost to my spirit. In some small way, I hope I have been an influence to some young people as Richard has been to me and so many others in many different ways.
I extend my poor words of condolence to Pauline and Thomas, Peter, Edward and Jeanne - who were known to us long before we met you. We - I - have been blessed beyond belief through our relationships with him over the years.
As he is in the next room -- as Jeanne wrote in her beautiful "obit-ography" -- we simply have to talk with him. He is interceding for us before the face of God. He was with us -- not just for school but for life. Richard, may you enjoy the eternal life in the presence of the Lord whom you so earnestly knew, loved and served in this life.

Rob Sancilio

February 22, 2017

One of the most fortunate occurrences of my life is that I was a student in Mr. Salmon's history class. I was actually a student in two of his classes. The first time was by chance and the second time was an elective class that I greatly hoped I would get in to. I was so relieved and happy when I learned that I was in. I enjoyed every minute of his classes. As he did with many of his other students, Mr. Salmon had a great impact on me. I always looked forward to his classes not so much because I loved European history, but because I so admired and respected him. I suspect that anyone who was in Mr. Salmon's class would agree that he was a unique individual. Mr. Salmon's classes were nothing like the typical setting in which the teacher presents the day's lesson and the class takes notes. At least for me, it often felt as if the material Mr. Salmon had to teach got in the way of what he really wanted to teach. I know that he loved history and that he needed to teach us about certain dates and events, but what seemed to excite him and make his classes so enjoyable was how he humanized history, how he brought it to life and related information that we didn't find in our textbooks. On many occasions Mr. Salmon would basically dictate notes to us, but when the note taking was done, whether he was talking about Rasputin or Sir Thomas More, Mr. Salmon would take center stage and perform his magic. He made history interesting and made the people and events he spoke about real. What always impressed me even more though was that while Mr. Salmon was indeed a master story-teller, his caring, gentle, peaceful soul was there on full display. That is what has stayed with me for almost 40 years now. Mr. Salmon taught me history, entertained me with stories of historical figures as well as members of his own family (especially about his son, Edward), made me laugh and made me think, but most of all he impressed me and inspired me by just being who he was. He was a man of integrity and conviction. He made me feel good - and undoubtedly a better person just by knowing him. I strongly regret that I did not keep in touch with Mr. Salmon, but I do think that he was pleased many years ago when I told him that I was changing careers and entering the health field. I suspect it was because he thought I would do some good for others. I don't doubt that he played a role in my wish to do so.
To this day I can't see a piece of chalk and not toss it in the air and try to catch it behind my back as Mr. Salmon did (well, mostly he did drop a few), I can't answer the your favorite teacher? security question with any name other than his, and I can't stop wanting to be more like Mr. Salmon.
My deepest condolences to the Salmon family.
Rob Sancilio, 80

John Jorgenson

February 21, 2017

I still think of Mr. Salmon, my instructor in 20th Century History back in the late 60's, as one of my favorite teachers. He awoke in me a lifetime interest in the importance of understand those who have passed before us. Sarcasm isn't usually considered as a virtue, but his smiling, wry ability to make his students understand the failings of anyone who does not learn from history will always remain with me. May he rest in peace and may you all take comfort in a life wonderfully lived.
John Jorgenson '67 (Pucallpa,PerĂº)

Henry Pitman

February 20, 2017

If we're lucky, we get to meet a few persons in our lives who indelibly change us for the better. Mr. Salmon was one of those persons. I was fortunate enough to have him as a teacher twice, and though neither course involved ethics or morality, I think I learned more about those subjects from him, and about what it means to be a complete person, than any other teacher I have had. Although I'm sure I do so imperfectly, I try to remember and practice what he taught me.
In my job, I spend a lot of time editing the writing of young attorneys, and frequently I find myself giving them paraphrase of Mr. Salmon's advice on how to write an essay for the AP exam. It was something like "If you're writing an essay on Attila the Hun, don't just say 'Attila the Hun was a bad man.' You need to explain why he was a bad man." In many, many respects, Mr. Salmon's lessons really were not just for school but for life. Mr. Salmon loved and respected his students, both when they were in his class and afterwards, and they loved and respected him. He will always be with me. I hope he's reconnecting with Dr. Englert and Bro. Terrence at Molloy's celestial campus. Thanks, Mr. Salmon. Ave atque vale.

Henry ("Harry") Pitman '71

James Orthmann

February 20, 2017

This will sound like such a cliche but my real education would not have been the same without Mr. Richard Salmon to encourage and orient my young mind.
Over the years, he may be the only person I know for whom "Mister" seemed like a first name, a sign of intimacy rather than a distancing title. It seemed to me to be a part of his charm.
He not only taught history--he certainly did that so well and so responsibly--but he taught me the importance of thinking and how to think and understand how details fit into a context, a living context. He taught me that thinking things through is an important way to respect human beings, give each her or his due, even carve out a better, more just world.
He also taught--by example--the importance of maintaining a sense of humor, of irony fine tuned by a broad culture and a real trust in the depth of human creativity. And all tempered by a feet-on-the-ground awareness of our inconsistencies. A good laugh goes a long way to healing many a hurt and overcoming any frustration.
He taught hospitality--the constant welcome of the other person, convenient or inconvenient in arrival; that "my" time sin't mine, only on loan. His was a hospitality that embraced and celebrated the once-in-a-lifetime manifestation of this unique other.
He certainly taught me to never take my gifts for granted, no matter how insignificant they seemed to me. They were not given for my appropriation but to share and spend. They are the instruments of hospitality.
Perhaps that sort of humor and hospitality are only possible when supported by the faith he also incarnated and communicated.

I offer my poor condolences to Pauline, his children, his siblings; this is, of course, sad news, but Richard Salmon lived a complete life, which is no small thing and we're all the richer for it.

Fr. James Orthmann, Holy Cross Abbey, class of '67

Lenny DeRoma '71

February 18, 2017

My life is richer having had the opportunity to be in Mr. S's class not just once but twice. He was a giant of heart and a true Christian. He lived his Christianity. I don't think he ever realized how many young lives he touched whether it was walking in the school yard after lunch having a cigarette or telling stories about the Hapsburgs. His teaching style made you feel that you were there, transported back 500 years. He and Pauline were always welcoming in their home. When my father passed away shortly after I graduated Molloy Mr Salmon helped me keep it together.
There are probably dozens of stories and anecdotes that I and my classmates have that wouldn't even begin to scratch the surface as to the quality of the man.
We'll miss you.

Joe Pisano

February 18, 2017

Mr. Salmon was one of the most memorable teachers at Molloy. Even though I was not a history buff, he made learning history most enjoyable. Glad to read about his full life! (Class of '84)

Stephen Mayer

February 18, 2017

One of my absolute favorite teachers not just at Molloy but anywhere. Loved how he would walk the aisles while giving a lesson in his inimitable style and just casually stop and talk or joke with a student. I still have a great interest in history thanks largely to him!

Kurt Schlegelmilch, MD

February 18, 2017

An amazing life lived and shared with thousands of us. I will never forget him and his influence on my life. So sorry he is gone. Condolences and blessings to his family during this time of great sadness.

February 18, 2017

LIKE MANY OTHERS, I ALSO GOT TO KNOW MR. SALMON THROUGH MY ATTENDING ARCHBISHOP MOLLOY FROM 1969 TO 1973. HE WAS A MAJOR INFLUENCE ON MY LIFE. WE KEPT IN TOUCH FOR A NUMBER OF YEARS AFTER GRADUATION, THOUGH WHEN HE LEFT THE SCHOOL I LOST TRACK OF HIM.
ABOUT 3 YEARS AGO I BEGAN TO LOOK FOR HIM AGAIN, & WAS SUCCESSFUL IN FINDING HIM IN SAN DIEGO. WE E-MAILED BACK & FORTH, & HE GAVE ME WORDS OF ENCOURAGEMENT, AS HE ALWAYS COULD, & I HOPED THAT WE COULD SEE EACH OTHER ONE MORE TIME. BUT THE E-MAILS BECAME LESS FREQUENT, & FINALLY I STOPPED HEARING FROM HIM. I REGRET WE NEVER HAD THAT ONE MORE CUP OF COFFEE. GOD BLESS HIM & HIS FAMILY.

Denis Fitzgerald, MD

February 17, 2017

He was simply the most influential person in my formative years.His concern for people, his students and the importance of history inspired many to lead lives that would make him proud. Washington DC could surely use his wisdom now.
My enduring memory is a conversation that several of us had with him a year after graduation upon which he said that at the end of your days, when you are looking out from your rocking chair, it will not matter how much money you have made or what commercial success you have BUT DID your LIFE MAKE A DIFFERENCE FOR AT LEAST 1 PERSON. You can do this in any way thru teaching, thru healthcare, research through finance but it will be a true measure of a life well-lived. His words and thinking continue to inspired me to this day. God bless a wonderful man.

Julie Kerry Cifaldi

February 15, 2017

Dear Richard,
it was such a great pleasure for us to have the chance to meet you. The Capuchin Friars will pray for you at the tomb of Saint Pio in San Giovanni Rotondo. R.I.P.

Paul Bulzacchelli

February 14, 2017

I shall always remember Richard Salmon and revere his memory until the day I die. He was a trusted advisor on many occasions, a dear friend and one of the truly 100% decent individuals I have ever met. My wife Pat and I express our sincerest sympathies to the family.

Bobby Blu

February 12, 2017

Each time, after I answer one of those obscure history questions on Jeopardy, my wife asks me "How do you remember these things?" I respond "I had a great teacher."

It was during his early teaching career, 1964-65, that I was first privileged to enjoy Mr. Salmon's world history class. He already had legendary status in the school, and we teenage boys were in awe. Every lesson was enjoyable and an educational treat, thanks to his gift to weave accounts of famous figures with his intelligence, charm, warmth and wit.

Of all the very good teachers I had during my life, Mr. Salmon was at the top of the list, enlightening and inspiring me... and about 4,000 other students.

Mr. Salmon, you and Thomas More were heroes; your light still shines and burns in our hearts.

Claire and Pete Sattler

February 12, 2017

We have many fond memories of Richard from his wedding to Pauline to their 50th Anniversary party. Richard was a friend to us both. He will be missed.

John Peterson Molloy '71

February 12, 2017

Richard Salmon was not only the most influential and important teacher in my life, but one of the most influential people in my life, period. He taught with a fire and conviction that seared itself into your soul. He explained why and how distant historical events played in a role in determining who and what we are today. He set an example not only in his teaching, but in the way he lived his life. He is simply irreplaceable.

One of my best and most joyous memories was the night of December 2, 2015, when business brought me to San Diego, and I offered to take Richard (whom I had not seen since his retirement from Molloy HS) and Pauline to dinner. As I perhaps should have expected, Richard hijacked me to their home for an evening of pot roast, wine and conversation. The years fell away, and I was awed by the richness of their lives.

Godspeed, Mr. Salmon. You were one of a kind.

forever in our hearts

Danielle Salmon

February 12, 2017

We love you and we will miss you grandpa

Danielle Salmon

February 12, 2017

Jeffrey Piontek

February 11, 2017

Mr. Salmon, is the reason I went into education. He was my mentor in HS and my why I learned to love "learning". He was an amazing man and the world needs more people like him. Thank you Mr. Salmon and maybe someday I can live up to your expectations of me, to be the best me I can be. It is still a work in progress.

Jeff Piontek (Molloy '84)

Diane Allen

February 11, 2017

It was a great blessing for me to know Richard. He was unique in many ways and I have never met anyone else quite like him.I loved his friendliness, his kindness, his compassion, his beautiful smile, his spirituality, his interest in life, his love for the poor. He always had a good word to say. His friendship enriched my life and I will always be grateful to God that I was able to meet such an outstanding soul. Richard, you are loved and you will be greatly missed. Diane Allen

Tom Lynch

February 11, 2017

Mr. Salmon was an incredible teacher. Always teaching but in a very friendly and enjoyable way. He had a great sense of humor, could tell a story better than anyone I know and truly cared about everyone. He was one of the best experiences I had at an incredible school - Archbishop Molloy High School.

Mark Trolio

February 11, 2017

Mr. Salmon, along with St. Thomas More, is my Man for All Seasons!
"Why not be a teacher...you'd be a fine teacher - perhaps a great one."
"If I was who would know it?"
"YOU...your pupils...your friends...God! Not a bad public, that."
Mark Trolio '70
God bless all Stanners!

Steve Bianco

February 10, 2017

Mr. Salmon remains a large influence on my life. The two years I studied with him at Molloy are still some of my favorite times. My love of history came into focus and was my college major. But more importantly he taught us the importance of critical thinking. My condolences to his family

Peter Zurlo

February 10, 2017

Mr. Salmon was a great teacher and an even greater person. There are people in your life who come and go there are those who stay in your heart forever. He will never be forgotten by generations of Stanners who were privileged to know him.

Thomas George

February 10, 2017

Mr. Salmon was the most influential teacher in my life. During my time as his student (Molloy 1974), I learned through his stories that people were the heart of history, it was their stories that mattered. It has impacted my entire life since then. Looking forward to seeing him in the next room.

Paul Galbraith

February 10, 2017

Thank you for being a Great Mentor when at Molloy. Though I did not have you as a teacher you were the first person in 1975 reunion to come to me at say "Welcome Home" . RIP Sir Richard.you definitely were "Bravehearted"

Laura Corrigan-Hoyt

February 10, 2017

A light in honor of a man who always lit up our world! I adore you Uncle Richard you will always be in my heart! I could not asked for a better Uncle!

George Kurth

February 10, 2017

I was very fortunate to have had Mr. Salmon as my history teacher for two years at Archbishop Molloy High School in New York. While he did a wonderful job of instructing us in history and how the events of yesterday shape today's world, his biggest gift to us was helping to open our minds to the fact that even the humblest among us can influence the world in profound ways, and we all have a social responsibility. I hadn't seen or spoken to him in many years, but he was very influential in my life, and I think I'm a better man for it. It was clear that he adored his family, and I always enjoyed hearing stories about them. I'd like to thank them for sharing him with us. Mr. Salmon may not have been imposing in stature, but he was certainly a GIANT in terms of legacy, and I'll always be grateful to him.

Stephen Brody

February 10, 2017

To the entire Salmon clan: May your hearts be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together.

Declan Salmon

February 10, 2017

To a wonderful man who will never be forgotten and will always be in our prayers and thoughts rest in peace

Una Byrne

February 9, 2017

With all our thoughts and prayers from the salmon family in Dublin

Jane Barbieri

February 9, 2017

Our beloved Uncle. May you fly high with the angels. Such a wonderful husband, father and grandfather. So many memories. Love, John and Jane

Una Byrne (Salmon)

February 9, 2017

To a good man who will be missed by many.You will always be in our thoughts and prayers.

Harry Salmon

February 9, 2017

Dick,
I am going to miss our phone calls greatly. You were an amazing brother to me. I love you so much and will miss you deeply.
Your loving brother,
Buddy

Paul Salmon

February 9, 2017

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

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