Robert Adamo Obituary
Born and raised in Teaneck, New Jersey, Bob earned a mechanical engineering degree from Fairleigh Dickinson University before moving to Silicon Valley on January 1, 1980. In December of 1990, he met Dr. Melanie De Gennaro, and they married the following year after becoming engaged only 2 months after their love story began. Their love was instant and undeniable.
Bob soon founded Technical Builder's Inc. (TBI), a commercial general contracting firm. As a passionate and visionary leader, he shaped TBI into a respected company and eventually transitioned it to an employee ownership. After retirement, the family moved to Carlsbad, CA, where the ocean brought peace and healing during his illness.
A dedicated golfer, Bob achieved two holes-in-one, 3 months apart in 2014. One at Pebble beach (12th hole) and the other at CordeValle (12th hole).
After his cancer diagnosis in 2017, Bob turned to integrative care and became a beacon of strength for others facing similar challenges. His faith in God was central to his journey. It gave him courage, peace, and perspective during even the most difficult times. He often spoke about the power of prayer, the presence of miracles, and how God's grace was evident in every moment. Bob inspired others not only through his commitment to healthy living but by sharing his unwavering belief in God as a healer and miracle worker.
Bob was a deeply devoted husband and an exceptional father to his daughters, Bianca and Adriana. He was a constant source of wisdom encouragement, and unconditional love. He lived with integrity, joy, purpose, and faith-based values that he passed on daily.
He is survived by his beloved wife, Melanie De Gennaro-Adamo, his eldest daughter, Bianca Adamo-Novak, who is expecting her first child this summer; and his youngest daughter, Adriana Adamo. He also leaves behind his sisters, Deidre Morgan and Kim Adamo as well as many extended family who loved and cherished him.
A Celebration of Life will be held in the fall of 2025 to honor Bob's extraordinary life - a devoted family man, a man of faith, a mentor, and a friend whose legacy will continue to touch lives for generations. Bob's strength, humor, bright blue eyes, and engaging smile will be deeply missed. He was a true warrior and a guiding light to all who knew him.
"But I trust in your unfailing love; my heart rejoices in your salvation." Psalm 13:5
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Melanie Adamo
October 12, 2025
Sunday morning visit Oct 12, from B&B´s with our little angel Sunny. Some throw backs with my warrior and warrior walks.
Melanie Adamo
October 9, 2025
Finally a sign on my afternoon walk. A God wink...
Melanie Adamo
October 5, 2025
Baby Sunny is now 3 months. Still showing some gorgeous blue eyes.
Desiré Smith
October 2, 2025
Honestly, she´s purely the angel Bob sent!
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Melanie Adamo
September 24, 2025
September 22nd would have been 34 years married. Thank you for the amazing journey my sweet warrior
Melanie Adamo
September 17, 2025
Norbert Fronczak
September 1, 2025
I met Bob in 2007 when I needed to build out a facility for novel specialty chemical startup. It was Bob's charisma and straight talk that won over my CEO to select Technical Builders to complete the task. We stayed connected through 2019 when our relationship changed to supporting each other through our cancer journey. Bob was a wealth of knowledge on prostate cancer and his guidance was instrumental in my 5 year treatment process. I will be forever grateful. Norbert Fronczak
Chris Campos
August 31, 2025
There are a few people who have been as influential in my life as my uncle Rob. His choice to move to California all those years ago had ripple effects through our family resulting in myself and my sister moving and building our lives here as well. But it wasn´t just the choices he made that had an effect on me. His intelligence, ambition and athleticism were aspirational. His example was a sort of North Star, guiding me to the man that I wished to become. I know that I made him proud because he never failed to tell me so; he expressed his love openly and freely to me and all those around him. Cheers to a life well lived!
Melanie Adamo
August 26, 2025
Melanie Adamo
July 26, 2025
2 weeks today July 26, 2025. Grandpa Bob is smiling over all of you.
Melanie Adamo
July 18, 2025
Not a day goes by that I don´t take my warrior walks to our special spots and say a prayer.
Melanie Adamo
July 13, 2025
Welcome your first grandchild Bob. Sunny Adriana Novak. Born July 12, 2025. Beautiful baby girl.
Melanie Adamo
July 4, 2025
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The Suzuki Family
June 21, 2025
Fun times in Sorrento with the Adamo Family 2007
Kimberly Trevino
June 22, 2025
We are heartbroken to hear about the loss of Bob. Please know that our
hearts are with you during this unimaginable time. We remember Bob with deep respect and affection as he was always so kind and we will always hold on to those memories. With all our love and sympathy.
Richard, Kim, Brandon, Austin and Lindsay.
Valerie Dobson
June 20, 2025
So blessed to have known Bob for over 45 years. He was such an amazing friend - always so full of life, laughter and love. We shared so many great times over the years. One special trip to Sicily was so much fun, where Bob and Melanie danced in front of the church from The Godfather movie. It was the sweetest.
All the special memories we have shared, as well as Bob's infectious laugh and smile, will remain in my heart forever. Melanie, Bianca and Adrianna - his love for family was immense and his spirit will live on in all of you and your growing family. I love you all.
Suzanne Phelps
June 17, 2025
I remember the first time I met Bob. Melanie and I grew up across the street from each other on Belvue Drive in Los Gatos. She had recently met Bob and couldn't wait to walk over and introduce him to our family. Everyone immediately noticed the incredible light that Bob radiated... he lit up the room with his laughter and warmth, but especially by the way he looked at Melanie. My parents adored Melanie (she was my childhood babysitter) and thought she only deserved the best. Well when Melanie and Bob left the house, they turned to us and said, "Well, she found him!" Bob has been such a blessing to us over these many years, and the DeGennaro/Adamo family has seen our family through many joyous times, as well as through some very serious health challenges as well. Bob, in his own battle, remained a source of incredible inspiration and strength to us. Bob continued to model the kind of warrior I could only dream of being, while Melanie continued to witness to my entire family the kind of advocates that are needed for those suffering through serious illness. Our lives are so much fuller and blessed because of the entire Adamo Family, and Bob's wisdom, joy and strength will remain in our hearts until the day we meet again in God's perfect kingdom. We love you all so deeply and are keeping you in our prayers as you navigate through this very difficult time.
René Siegel
June 16, 2025
Kim Adamo
June 15, 2025
It took some time to gather my thoughts and emotions to get past the thought of writing something on what seems so final. But it never will be, I have 62 years of memories of my big brother, his humor, endless laughter and smiles, long talks, inspiration, wisdom, crazy sounds he´d make, jokes he´d play on my parents ( and some how always get away with it)
In our later years I admired him for his tenacity and hope and faith to live each day to the fullest. I watched him become the finest father, husband, and soon to be a grandfather. I will never forget everything he has done for all of us. His love and compassion for family goes beyond words.
Rest in peace my brother, you´ll always be in my heart.
Sherry Casey
June 14, 2025
I met Bob at a Cancer Center where he quickly became a caring friend, with encouragement that brightened each day. His love for his family and life was endearing and contagious. Bob's sense of humor turned conversations to laughter and gratitude for each day.
Bob's spirit is cheering us on, to live each day to the fullest, with a positive attitude, enabling us to run the race of life with endurance and joy.
I'm so grateful to have had the opportunity to be his friend. Sherry
Alena & Barry Hyde
June 13, 2025
Bob was a truly beautiful person. His love, laughter, and kindness left a lasting impact on everyone who had the privilege of knowing him. We will miss him deeply and will forever cherish the wonderful memories we shared.
Chris & Desiré Smith
June 11, 2025
Dear Melanie, Bianca, Adriana and Bryce, We are so sorry for your loss. It took me sometime to write something, probably denial. We will always remember his quick witty words that made us laugh, his warm heart that made us feel loved and his strength that gave us hope. Forever in our hearts, we love you Bob and your family.
Chris & Desiré Smith
June 11, 2025
Ed Kulha
June 9, 2025
This coming Fall it will be 50 years since I met Bob in the Fairleigh Dickinson University Mechanical Engineering Student Lounge. In no time we were good friends. After graduation I immediately moved to what was then the real Silicon Valley to take on my first job at National Semiconductor. Bob started his First job in NJ at Owens Corning Fiberglass. I kept in touch and one day saw an opportunity for Bob in CA, and I must say it took very little convincing for him to come visit. Bob ended up joining me one year later in CA at the same company and department! We were officially California buddies, even bought our first house together. It was the beginning of the time of our lives, so many stories, so much fun! I will miss my dear friend though the memories will carry on. My thoughts and prayers are with you Mel, Bianca and Adriana. He sure was a wonderful guy!
Ed Kulha
June 9, 2025
Deidre Morgan
June 7, 2025
Deidre Morgan
June 7, 2025
I will miss seeing the infectious smile on your handsome face, listening to your profound advice, laughing at the crazy sounds you produced, and for always watching out for me. You were a special human bro, and my heart is broken without you with us. Rest easy, and know you will be in our thoughts everyday. Love you.
Laura Tsuda
June 5, 2025
We are so saddened by your loss. We know what a special father and husband he was. We are keeping you in our prayers and sending you and the family love.
Laura and Ken Tsuda
Giacomo Reverberi
June 5, 2025
I don´t know enough words in English to express how deeply sorry I am for this loss.
Bob was one of the kindest man I´ve ever had the chance to meet. I will always remember his smile, his stories, humor, generosity and the way he made people feel welcome.
He made me feel like family in every possible way.
I´ll never forget the day he introduced me to ''The Lumineers'' while he was working in his garden. Since then, every time I hear their music, I think of him, and of my family in America.
It´s hard to accept that he´s no longer with us.
Riposa in Pace, Bob.
Mike & Karen Denholm
June 5, 2025
"EVERYTHING IS BETTER WITH BOB"
Bob had a heart of gold and was always fun to be around
You and Bob are such an inspiration and example of what true, deep and caring love is.
Mike´s recalls when the "Dads" took Adriana and Austin´s Holy Spirit Junior High class to Washington DC. Mike and Bob shared a deep connection of the loss of their fathers while at the Vietnam War Memorial
Please know our love and support is with ALL of you.
Until we meet again , May God hold you in the palm of His hands.
Mike & Karen Denholm
Craig and Diane Shirley
June 4, 2025
In loving memory of a truly inspiring soul. You had a gift for seeing the beauty in every moment, always choosing optimism and kindness. Your words of encouragement lifted so many, and your stories painted the world with wisdom, humor, and warmth. You celebrated the successes of others as if they were your own, and that generosity of spirit will never be forgotten. Though you are no longer with us, your legacy of hope and compassion continues to shine through the lives you touched. Thank you for everything-you will always be remembered with love and gratitude.
Harriet Harvey-Horn
June 4, 2025
So blessed for 42 years of friendship with this amazing man. Larger than life, full of life, and a joy to know and love. He and my precious hubby - candles that burned bright in the world - I know they're somewhere, laughing it up, at peace with lives well-lived. To Melanie, Bianca, Adrianna - wishing you peace and comfort in knowing how much joy he knew in your presence. Much, much love to all of you as you weather this challenging time. xoxo
Mark Hawkins
June 4, 2025
Our mutual friend Mike Dobson introduced Bob to me over 30 years ago. Bob was starting a new construction company (Technical Builders) and needed a CPA. It was readily apparent to me that Bob was going to be very successful in this new business venture. He had a wonderful outgoing personality and was a helluva sharp contractor.
Bob and I both had kids about the same ages and he was SO proud of his beautiful girls!
Of course a guy that looks like Bob also had the most gorgeous wife who he also was oh so proud to be honored as her partner in life.
My thoughts are with Melanie, the girls and the rest of the family.
We lost a good one. His large personality will be missed by many. A warrior to the end.
Mark Hawkins
Elias and Sana Amireh
June 4, 2025
Our heart is sad and our spirit is scarred-but man, what a ride it´s been. Since we met back in ´84, we´ve packed a lifetime full of memories-business adventures, ski trips, golf days, and way too many glasses of wine and laughs to count. From driving up to Tahoe in the Porsche to rocking those awful powder suits in Aspen, to watching our families grow side by side-it´s been nothing short of epic.
I´ll never forget our birthday traditions-your day at Boulder Ridge, mine at CordeValle. Those weren´t just games; they were sacred times. And somehow, every time we got together, it felt like no time had passed at all.
You´ve lived life with heart, grit, and a hell of a lot of style. Even now, you´re teaching us what it means to face things with strength and grace. That´s just who you are.
Melanie, Bianca, Adriana and Bryce -Sana, Michael, and I want you to know: you´re part of us. Always. Bob will be with us in every story we retell, every round we play, every glass we raise. Rest assured that Baby Novak sure has a dedicated Guardian angle watching over him
Love always,
Elias, Sana, Michael & Grace
Tamara Pow
June 3, 2025
Even during difficult times, it felt like there was nothing that couldn't be fixed by a smile and a hug from Bob. He is unforgettable. His memory and his expression "What if up?" will live on forever. RIP my friend.
Anita Benedetti
June 3, 2025
We are so very sorry to hear about Bob´s passing. So glad we got to spend time with you all and we will forever cherish those memories. You and your family are in our thoughts.
Anita Benedetti and family
Cathy Nichols
June 3, 2025
Dearest Melanie and family,
When I look at all the photos of your family and friends, I can see what a blessed life this man, husband, father and friend had. He was loved by all who were blessed to know him and your family.
May Bob rest in peace and may God bless him on his journey home.
With love my dear friend,
Cathy and Roger
Gene and Deborah Ashley
June 2, 2025
Gene and Deborah Ashley
June 2, 2025
The best friend a person could ever have. We sure do miss you my dear friend!
Devin James
June 2, 2025
Some sweet childhood photos of my mom and uncle robbie..
Devin James
June 2, 2025
The patriarch of this crazy family
Devin James
June 2, 2025
The story teller, the focal point of every gathering lighting up every room, with each person family or friend completely RAPT hanging on to his every word ..
Devin James
June 2, 2025
My uncle, my mental and physical health guru, my hero
Devin James
June 2, 2025
quarantine family FaceTime coast to coast with Texas family
René
June 2, 2025
René
June 2, 2025
Annette Cohen
June 2, 2025
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Tom Taylor
June 2, 2025
Since his passing, there hasn´t been a day I haven´t thought of Bob. He was a great man-a great friend and an unbelievable husband and father. He was always so proud of his wife and daughters and would light up any time he was discussing his family.
Even in tough times, he would be a calming and reasonable voice. When things were difficult, I often turned to him for advice and direction and never left a conversation without feeling better-with more clarity and peace.
We had so much fun, so many laughs, and he made my life better and more rewarding. He made the world a better place, always looking at the positives. I learned a ton from him about leading a positive life, and I was so thankful to call him a best friend.
Kit Sanders
June 2, 2025
So sorry to hear about the passing of Bob. I don't believe I ever heard a negative thought come out of him. In 1997, and after 17 years of his friendship in construction, I approached Bob about getting his help and advice in giving Break Away Concrete Cutting a shot at doing business together. He smiled and looked at me with those piercing blue eyes and told me how our working relationship was going to be. Bob gave me a shot at his business and we worked together on many projects throughout the years and Bob was always very honest, fair and available.
Bob was one of a kind and will be missed by all that knew him.
Kit Sanders
Break Away Concrete Cutting Inc.
Mike Dobson
June 2, 2025
Mike Dobson
June 2, 2025
Bob, my dear friend of 46 years. You were one of a kind and through the years we shared so many discussions of the things life had to offer. You always took on life with such vigor and persistence. I have so many memories over those 46 years that will live with me in my heart. I was blessed to be in your life through so many of your chapters and will cherish every memory of all the amazing times we had together. I will miss you and your amazing uplifting character. I love you buddy and may you you rest in peace and go with god.
Brian Dian
June 2, 2025
My Heart goes out to the Family and I have tears in my eyes today...met Bob in 1988 and we became friends and did a few vacations with buddies also did business with Bob's company, life became involved with kids and now grandkids and we would see each other a few time a year, but what a Great Friend and guy....so sorry...Brian and Carol Dian
Christine Suzuki
June 2, 2025
Melanie-I have been thinking of you and the girls every day. I can't begin to imagine what you are going through right now.
When I think of Bob, I remember his magnetic personality, his radiant smile, and those dazzling, bright blue eyes. But above all, I remember the deep love he had for his family-especially for you and the girls.
I looked through our photos and, while I don't have one specifically of Bob, I keep thinking about that wonderful visit to your home in 2009 with the kids. I remember both you and Bob's incredible hospitality and generosity-it truly meant so much to us. That time remains a very special memory for our family.
Jim and Jen Hunter
June 2, 2025
Like a vein from which the gold has been extracted, Bob used himself up giving to others. His loss is magnified because he was a life-giver, not a life taker. "In the evening of life, we will be measured by love alone." St. John of the Cross - Love, Jim & Jen Hunter
Steve Woods
June 2, 2025
Bob was a remarkable person - a mentor, a visionary, and a true friend. His guidance shaped our paths, his ideas inspired many, and his kindness touched countless lives. He saw what others couldn´t, and he believed in people before they believed in themselves. His legacy lives on in all of us who had the honor to know him. We carry his spirit forward-with gratitude, with purpose, and with love.
Forever in our hearts.
Camillo and Maria Martino
June 1, 2025
Bob will always have a special place in our hearts. He was the Italian big brother we never had....a true companion, confidant and loyal person. The bond we had with Bob was strong and unique. He was like family to us.
Our hearts are full of wonderful memories of many joyful times together.
He will be sadly missed but never forgotten!
May his spirit live on forever in our hearts!
May he rest in peace in God´s eternal embrace
Gary Schmitt
May 31, 2025
Rest in God´s arms now my friend, you fought the battle hard and will be forever missed. You were the most positive, joyful friend I ever had. You leave behind a great wife, family and legacy, well done!
Jack Zarour
May 31, 2025
Rest in peace Bob. You have been a great friend. You will be missed by all. Jack and Maha Zarour
Danny Cimino
May 31, 2025
A great example of a life well lived, a true family man, a leader in the business world in Silicon Valley, his accomplishments in life, an impeccable reputation and a strong sense of spirituality. He will be missed.
Lea krugel, Debby´s and Tony´s friend
May 31, 2025
God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Luke George
May 30, 2025
Bob's can-do attitude touched us all deeply and motivated us to do better here at The Bridges. Our thoughts and prayers are with all that held him dear.
Michelle Neri
May 30, 2025
God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
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