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ROBERT JENNINGS, IV. Rob died suddenly on Sunday, July 29, 2007, of Cinnaminson, NJ and formerly of Willingboro. Rob was born in Mt. Holly, and he was 18 years old. Rob is a 2007 graduate of Cinnaminson High School where he was the soccer goalie and editor-in-chief of the school newspaper. Rob received a full scholarship to attend Monmouth University in the Fall. Loving son of Maureen Ashley and Bruce Branin of Maple Shade and Robert J., III and Lauren Ashley of Cinnaminson. Brother of Melissa, Julianna, Diana and Jason. Grandson of Robert J. Ashley, Jr. and Martha Ashley, Priscilla Ashley, Joan and Donald Dougherty and Gerald and Karen Pollack. Great grandson of Mildred Ashley and Lisbon Sosebee. Also survived by many uncles, aunts, cousins and friends. Relatives and friends are invited to attend Rob's Life Celebration Thursday Eve 7-9 P.M. and Friday 9-10:30 A.M. at SNOVER/GIVNISH OF CINNAMINSON 1200 Route 130 North. His Funeral Mass will follow 11 A.M. at St. Charles Borromeo Church. Interment Lakeview Memorial Park. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions in Rob's name may be made to The Rob Ashley Scholarship Fund c/o Cinnaminson High School Riverton Rd. Cinnaminson, NJ 08077. www.lifecelebration.com
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Shaw Family
August 28, 2007
Ashley family,
our thoughts and prayers go out to the you in these hard times. He will never be forgotten for he was a great kid with a loving family.
Bob Snyder
August 7, 2007
Rob and family; my prayers are with you. I did not know your son but from talking with you I know he was loved by you. Having children the same age as your son this really hits home.
(worked with Rob for many years)
Bob Snyder
August 7, 2007
Rob and family; my prayers are with you. I did not know your son but from talking with you I know he was loved by you. Having children the same age as your son this really hits home.
(worked with Rob for many years)
Adam Toscani
August 3, 2007
In times where society is based on material gain and an uncaring attitude towards the future, Rob was one of the few people I knew at school that was aware enough to see past the lies and pretense circulating throughout the halls and classrooms, as well as the media. I know most students would take a small glance at the
Ship's Log (Cinnaminson High School's Newspaper), then proceed to throw it out, but for those that gave it a more thorough viewing recieved some of the inner thoughts of a great writer. If Rob had been able to continue writing, there is no doubt to me that he would have become a brilliant writer, highly sought over by literary critics, fellow writers, and anyone else with the courage to engage his books. Rob and I did not see each other much beyond the school walls, but I would hope that he regarded me as more than just a friendly acquaintance, for I regarded him as a good friend and really the only person at school whom I could talk to about writing and books. One memory I would like to recall about Rob is the time we were at the Teen Arts Festival together. For most of the day I was hanging around with Rob and I'm really glad now that we were able to share that time together. One specific instance from the event I want to talk about though was the poetry workshop. During this workshop, we were allotted a small amount of time to write a few poems in some different styles and such. After we would write the poems, the lady who was leading the workshop asked people that would like to present their poems to read them aloud. I read what Rob had written and although I cannot recall now what it was about, I liked it alot and was trying to prod Rob into reading it aloud. He really didn't want to but eventually did, in a shy voice, and I think this showed how naturally humble he was about his uncommon writing talents. I'm sure Rob did not leave behind the amount of writings and books he wanted to, but what he did leave behind was a hope that people he knew (and people he didn't) would learn to pick apart the lies from the truth. Please, to anybody reading this, pick up a book, make sure it's not a generic romance or mystery thriller, make sure it's something good (I'm sure Rob would tell you to read Steinbeck), and read it, not half-heartedly, but with your full attention. That is something we all at least could do for Rob and it is something that Rob would want us to do for ourselves as well. Rob, I'll miss you alot, I really wish you could have had more time, there was really alot I would have loved to talk to you about, but I cherish what memories I do have of you.
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The Durkin Family
August 3, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers go out to the Ashley family at this difficult time.
Steven Marquez
August 2, 2007
Wow Rob, Life won't be the same without you man. You will be missed but never forgoten by your friends. My condolences go out to all your family
Patty Kropp
August 2, 2007
I am so sorry to hear about Rob. I know there is nothing that can stop the feeling of tragic loss, but know that we are here and thinking of you. Stay strong.
Patty (Mahoney) Kropp and family
Sandy Pytrysson
August 2, 2007
Robbie and Family,
We are very sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with you.
Pete/Sandy Pytrysson
(Maria/Ian's uncle/aunt)
Matt McMenamin
August 2, 2007
Rob was affectionately known as "CG". Although this was made to be a joke at his wrong answer, he was a better student than most of us (he read Les Miserables in a day and told me once that he would get a 100% on his next Chem test, which he did). I'll remember the constant joking about the people and material in our Senior physics class, as some of his comments and hilarious pictures are still in my notebook. The fun we had in that class actually made Physics interesting. We didn't have much in common, he liked indie rock like the Shins and Spoon, while I preferred Norwegian Black Metal. He was on the Varsity soccer team, I was an unathletic metalhead. We constantly butted heads over Steinbeck. But I could always make him laugh, and vice-versa.
Miss ya man.
Rose Hampton
August 2, 2007
To all the Ashleys,
Little boy memories of Robbie will remain in my heart always. I can see him running and playing with so much energy and enthusiam for life. That smile is etched in my mind. God bless you through this sad time. Love always, Rose & Jim Hampton
Maria Massaro
August 2, 2007
It’s wonderful to hear so many great stories about Robbie. I knew Robbie more as a baby & little boy then a young adult and although I've seen him about 2-3 times a year every year, I didn't really know what he was like with his friends. So, keep the stories coming, Gang! My favorite memory of Robbie was when he was just 4 months old. We were babysitting him overnight & his parents said he'll sleep from 11pm-7am and sure enough he did. I woke up with Robbie lying next to me with the biggest smile I can ever remember seeing. It was the most wonderful thing & something that will be forever etched in my mind. My heart breaks at this loss. May everyone find the strength & courage to live on with the happy memories of Robert Jennings Ashley, IV. Love to you all.
August 2, 2007
I know that you do not know me, but my daughter graduated with Rob
and my deepest sympathies go out to your family. You have been in my thoughts all of this week. God Bless you and your family
Mary Ellen McGady (Lauren's cousin)
August 2, 2007
It's so touching to hear how treasured "Robbie" was by his friends, and to read their memories of him -- his extensive reading and writing, his humor. I would encourage his friends to write so we relatives can learn more about this vibrant young man.
Brian Mooney
August 1, 2007
Melissa and Family,
My deepest sympathies go out to you for the absolutely tragic loss of Rob.
Teachers aren't supposed to have "favorites" but I can absolutely say that Rob was a student I will remember fondly for the rest of my life. Although his time in this life was tragically cut short, take comfort in knowing and be proud of the fact that those whose lives he did touch were affected in a positive way. I certainly was.
He had a bright future ahead and much to offer this world. It will suffer from the fact that he won't be here to make even more of a mark than he was in his 18 years. I hope that he rests in peace knowing how well he did while he was here.
He will be missed.
Cindy,Frank,Gwen,Michael Sanford
August 1, 2007
Dear Rob,Lauren and family I know your pain and I'm so sorry for the loss of your son.Anything you need,we are here for you.
Kathleen Leach
August 1, 2007
Dear Lauren and Rob and family,
We are so sad about Robbie. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Kathleen and Les
Kasia Gardyasz
August 1, 2007
My greatest condolences to the Ashley family. After going through the school system with Rob, I would be lying if i said that he has not left an imprint at CHS. When looking back at highschool, there are many of my most memorable moments that involve him. From his universal "cottin gin" answer in History Class to his ecclectic array of novel choice each week. There would not be a day that passed by when I would not turn to him in Physics class and ask " So what's this week's book( sometimes it would be "what's today's book"!) or talk to him in different accents so we could annoy everyone else who couldn't put on a proper british accent hahahaha.....and thats how i'll remember him, not after seeing him in his present state at the viewing, but i'll remember his smile, his crazy accent, and his random outbursts of "what is the amendment that first gave women the right to vote?"...."COTTON GIN!" With time,possibly years upon years, i promise you it will get better. Both family and Rob are in my thoughts <3
Katie Llamas
August 1, 2007
The Ashley Family,
When i heard about what happened to Robbie i was in complete shock. I didn't want to believe it. I remember when Robbie and Melissa would come over my house after school and my mom would babysit them. I loved Robbie so much, he always made me laugh. He was a great kid and i'm really going to miss him even though we haven't seen each other in years. I'm praying for all of you, and your all in my thoughts at this hard time.
R.I.P Robbie <3 May Angels Lead You In
Kathy Bill Borton
August 1, 2007
Rob Lauren and family,
Our thoughts and prayers are for your family in this very difficult time. He was loved by all that met him. A lovely guy...
Bill & Kathy Borton (Maple Shade)
Afterglow
I'd like the memory of me
to be a happy one
I'd live to leave an afterglow of
smiles when life is done
I'd like to leave an echo
whispering softly down the ways
Of happy times
of sunny times and bright and sunny days
I'd like the tears of those who grieve
to dry before the sun
OF happy memories that I leave
when life is done
CHARLES MASSARO
August 1, 2007
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Jennifer Allen
August 1, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. May you find comfort in your memories.
The Allen Family
(friends of Maria)
August 1, 2007
Although we did not know Rob all that well, we do know the pain when losing a brother/son. Our prayers are with you during this very difficult time.
The Murtaugh Family
Daniel Reed
August 1, 2007
Rob was pretty much "the man", easy to relate to, very funny had tons of laughs through out the course of highschool. Always reading a new book, never put them down. we were suppose to be the modern day Socretes according to our 12th grade english teacher. He will be remembered as a great friend awsome person and brilliant writer. Love you bro
Clement Joachim Jr
August 1, 2007
My heart and my prayers goes out to you and your family Rob. My deepest sympathy.
Jamie and Harris Pasternack (friends of Neal's)
July 31, 2007
Rob and Lauren,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
FLORENCE COLEY
July 31, 2007
MAUREEN&FAMILY, I CANNOT FIND THE PROPER WORDS TO EXPRESS OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHY TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. I HAVE ONLY FOND MEMORIES OF ROB AND THERE AREN'T ANY WORDS I CAN EXPRESS AT THIS MOST SORROWFUL TIME EXCEPT TO TELL YOU THAT YOU ARE ALL IN OUR PRAYERS.
ALL I KNOW IS THAT THEY MUST OF NEEDED AN EXCELLENT JOURNALIST IN HEAVEN IMMEDIATELY. NOW, THAY HAVE THE VERY BEST!
MAY GOD BE WITH YOU DURING THIS TIME AND GIVE YOU THE PEACE AND STRENGTH YOU WILL NEED IN THE FOLLOWING WEEKS TO COME.
JACKY AND I WILL SEE YOU ON FRIDAY!
ALL OUR LOVE AND PRAYERS. JACKY&FLOSS
claudia townend
July 31, 2007
To the Ashley Family,Rob's passing is a tragic loss for you and so many others. May memories of his loving spirit support you in this sad and difficult time. Our Deepest Sympathy.Claudia, Tony and Laura
maureen weiner
July 31, 2007
Rob, Lauren and Girls.....Our hearts feel your pain....In the days ahead may you find comfort in his memories and the joys he gave to his family...With much love, Len, Mauren and Girls
Dave & Doris Lafferty
July 31, 2007
Robbie & Lauren,
We were so devastated to hear about your loss. Our prayers are with you.
Ashley Cheeseman
July 31, 2007
Rob meant a lot to me. He was a good friend of mine since eighth grade. He always had my back when I needed it and he never let his friends down. He knew how to cheer you up and make you laugh just by being his amazing self. He was smart and a brilliant writer. Last week he let me read the first chapter of a book he was writing and it was truely amazing. We were supposed to go to Monmouth together.
I loved Rob and I will miss him so much. Life won't be the same with out him.
His family will be in my prayers.
The Rooney Family
July 31, 2007
Dear Ashley Family,
Words are not enough to express our deepest sympathies to your family. Robbie was a wonderful young man. We will keep you in our prayers as you adjust to this tragic loss.
Nancy Axelrod
July 31, 2007
Dear Mrs. Ashley:
Our deepest sympathies for your loss.
Nancy Axelrod and Rita Cinelli
Jewish Camden Partnership
Betsy Harvey
July 31, 2007
Dear Lauren, Rob, Melissa, Julianna, and Diana,
I was completely shocked when I received the news. I know how proud you were of Robbie and how much joy he brought to your lives. Seek comfort in the good times and memories. May G-d bless and keep all of you in his heart and prayers.
Donna Bruzio
July 31, 2007
Dear Maureen & Family:
We were very sorry to hear about the loss of your son. We will keep you and your family in our prayers.
Donna & Tom Bruzio
The Scafiro Family
July 31, 2007
You are in our hearts, prayers and many fond memories. We are so very sorry.
Susan Kennedy
July 31, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with all of Robbie's family and friends. I am so sorry for your loss.
melissa morin
July 31, 2007
i did not know rob that well but my daughter was good friends with him. my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
nancy kelly
July 31, 2007
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help at this time.
The Gramlich Family
July 31, 2007
We are very sorry for your sudden loss.
Judy Sassano
July 31, 2007
Lauren, you are in my thoughts and in my prayers, God Bless you and your family.
Carole Ann Davis
July 31, 2007
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
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