Robert W. Barnes Jr.
1958 - 2019
Robert W. Barnes Jr.
1958 - 2019
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BORN
1958
DIED
2019
Robert Barnes Obituary
Oakdale - Robert W. "Bubba" Barnes, Jr., 61, of Oakdale, passed away peacefully with his loving family by his side on December 29, 2019, at Connecticut Hospice in Branford.
Born in New London on April 30, 1958, Bobby was the beloved son of the late Robert W. Barnes Sr., and Elizabeth (Fratus) Barnes. He worked for many years as a burner at Electric Boat and as a slot attendant at Mohegan Sun Casino.
Bobby was a devoted and loving family man, and his life was defined by the endless amount of amazing memories made with his wife, Patricia, and two daughters, Melissa and Brittany. Known as the life of the party, Bobby always knew how to have a good time and encouraged others to smile and laugh along with him. He had a great love for his favorite hobbies, including coin collecting, playing golf, and was an accomplished drummer. Family vacations were always an epic affair, and nothing gave him greater joy than being able to provide these wonderful experiences for his growing family. Whether working on keeping his home meticulously landscaped, or rooting for his beloved Cowboys and Red Sox, Bobby was filled with a zest for life that lifted up those around him. He will truly be missed and loved forever by everyone who was fortunate enough to have known him.
In addition to his wife of 37 years, Patricia (Annibalini) Barnes, Bobby is survived by his two daughters, Melissa Orlando and her husband, Josh, and Brittany Huta and her husband, Brian; his adored grandchildren, Charlotte and Juliet; and his sister, Deborah Dumphy. Bobby's family would also like to extend their gratitude and appreciation for the care and compassion shown by the Connecticut Hospice medical staff in Branford.
Bobby's family will receive friends from 3PM-5PM on Saturday, January 4, 2020, at the Woyasz & Son Funeral Service, 11 Jerome Road, Uncasville, CT 06382. Burial arrangements will be private and at the convenience of the family. In lieu of flowers, the family is asking for donations to be made out to the Connecticut Hospice Tree of Life Fund, 100 Double Beach Road, Branford, CT 06405. Please include "Robert Barnes, Jr. on the memo line of your donation.
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Bud Avdevich
January 17, 2020
Bubba was da man. I worked next to him in MS slot dept. Straight shooter, lover of drums, family and live. He amazed me with his dedication to the drums. He'd always tell me how the skins were going. We'd also reminisce how he played in many local bands, along side CL. God bless this wonderful human being.
Janet Herman St Marie
January 9, 2020
May Bobby's memories be forever in his family's hearts.
Glenn and Irene Bammer
January 7, 2020
Brittany and family. We were very sorry to read of your dad's passing. Sending our deepest condolences to you and your family. Glenn sends a big hug to Patty!
Jennifer Mattison
January 5, 2020
Very heart broken to hear about bubba passing. I'm so glad i was able to talk to him when I was home in November for Thanksgiving. He can now party with my dad again. He was truly a great guy and will always be Santa to me.
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Joan Gardner
January 4, 2020
Dear Debbie, Patty, and family,
So very sorry to hear that Bobby has passed. He and Den always had fun together- lots of laughing whenever and where ever they would meet. Let your good memories help you through the tough days ahead. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Rest In Peace, Bobby.
Love, Joan
Victor H. Ferry
January 4, 2020
It was truly saddening to read of Bobby's passing in The Day this week. I knew both Bob Sr. and young Bobby from my years at FINAST and as young Bobby's fifth grade teacher at Stanton School in Norwich, CT. In recent years, a reconnection of sorts occurred when I had business with Bobby's sister, Deborah at the CPCU. Debbie and I would reminisce about her and Bobby's dad, the years at FINAST (where my dad also worked) and why I remembered young Bobby, now known affectionately as Bubba. As a youngster, Bubba was a friendly, eager to learn youngster. He was a happy young man, and in 1968, gave me a piece of coral I kept on my desk for decades! Earlier this year, I returned the coral piece to him through Debbie advising that it had adorned my desk for the past 50 years and it was now time to pass it on. You see, that piece of coral always reminded me of this bubbly young man who could cheer up the whole class with his demeanor and personality. I remember him fondly and with a smile. I wish his family comfort in their loss.
Dr. Vic Ferry, retired Connecticut educator
Mary Sherman
January 4, 2020
Patty and Family, So sorry for your loss, Bubba will be missed by so many. My favorite memory of him is when he played drums at Craig and my wedding. The song was Joy to the World. When I think of that day it is one of my favorite memories. It met the world to me and Craig. My deepest sympathy, Mary Smith Sherman
Dawn Penman
January 3, 2020
Brittany and family- we are so sorry for your loss. Sending lots of love your way.
January 3, 2020
My condolences to your entire family.
I was a little younger than Bubbha - but he always treated me like one of the guys.
Great neighborhood! Great Guy!
He will be missed.
David and Diane Cook
January 3, 2020
Patty, Melissa,Brittany,and Family
We will miss Bubba. A shining light of fun
always made us laugh!!!
Wishing you peace to bring comfort, courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your heart.
Love,
Jim and Jetta Cook
Sue Selvidio-Stanley
January 3, 2020
Dear Debby and Family,
So very sorry for your loss Debby. We have never met your dear brother, but memories of his gifted talents and happiness will always be cherished.
What a great life he had ! So many years of wonderful. Praying that you have the strength to carry on, and we wish that we could be there with you in Connecticut.
Much love to you all, Sue and Joe
Guy Kirchner
January 3, 2020
Dear Barnes Family,
I worked with Bubba back in the 80's at EB. Even did a stint in sharing a house. Great memories. Great person to be around. Always a smile. Especially when he was in that Dodge Ram truck back in the day. He will be missed. My condolences.
May he Rest In Peace.
Joe and Kathy LePage
January 2, 2020
To Deb and the Barnes family,Our Condolences. I was shocked to hear my friend and drum brother Bubba has passed.I met him in NFA band and gravitated to him immediately.We had some great times together.I haven't seen him in awhile,Grumpy Joes to be exact. He graciously sat in and played the night for me at the Village Green so I could witness the birth of my first child. That's the kind of guy he was. He will be missed.
Joe Le Page
January 2, 2020
To Deb and the Barnes family,I was shocked to hear of the passing of my friend and drum brother Bubba. I met him in NFA band and gravitated to him immediately.I haven't seen him in awhile,Grumpy Joe's to be exact.He graciously sat in and played the night for me at the Village Green so I could witness the birth of my first child.Bubba was the best.He will be missed.
Karen Simpson
January 2, 2020
My condolences to Roberts family . I worked with Robert At Mohegan sun . He always had a smile . He had a wonderful way with people and Will be sadly missed . Karen Simpson.
January 2, 2020
Patty, Deb and the rest of the Barnes family, Bob was always a smile to see in the yard or just around town. His memories will help to heal, and he is now your guardian angel watching over you.
May he RIP and be pain free now.
Ann and Dave LAGram
Oakdale Ct
Jo-Ann Spurgas
January 2, 2020
Bobby "Bubba" your smile could light up a room. So sorry to hear that you passed. My condolences to your family.
Many happy time shared in High School
Jo-Ann Spurgas
Joyce Gardner
January 2, 2020
Patty,Debbie and the rest of the Barnes family, with heartfelt sympathy at the loss of Bobby. I was shocked as well as surprised from seen Bobby at his dad wake. Got has another angel and hoping God will heal you during this sad & trying time. RIP Bobby!
Peter & Peggy Ververis
January 2, 2020
Bubba, We will remember you always!!
The Ververis Family
January 1, 2020
Deb
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this sad time. May his memory bring you comfort in the years to come. May your brother rest in peace, he is now an angel with you father. My sincerest condolences.
Dana Jolly
Raymond Georgene Bernier
January 1, 2020
Patty Britney Melissa and Deb. So sorry for your loss Bubba was a true original. A great person. If you knew him you loved him.
He will be greatly missed by many.
R.I.P. Bubba
Kristopher Knapp
January 1, 2020
Rest in peace my good friend Bubba. You were always there for me. When i started at EB you always looked out for me. I love you like a grandfather and you are missed.
Kriss Saraiva
January 1, 2020
I am very saddened to hear of Bubbas passing, although I never had the pleasure of meeting him he helped my son alot when he started at EB and was spoken very highly of .. my sincerest sympathy to his family and friends
Anita Speirs
January 1, 2020
Pat and Family ♥♥ All my prayers and condolences to all of you ♥♥
Sue Edwards
January 1, 2020
Brittany my prayers are with you and your family your dad was awesome quite the funny guy in high school!! Cherish your memories and know he will always be in your heart ❤
Don & Wendy Venditto
January 1, 2020
Dear Debbie and Family, We are so sorry to hear of your brother Bob's passing, can't imagine what you are going through as you just lost your Dad a few months ago Honey. Please know that we are thinking of all of you and praying for all of you at this very sad time! Love, Wendy & Don V.
Wendy & Don Venditto
January 1, 2020
Dear Patty & Girls, We are so deeply sorry to hear of Bobby's passing!! Just seeing him at his Dad's funeral a few months ago, he was so full of life as usual! We send all of you our very deepest sympathy, love and prayers at this very difficult time. Love, Wendy & Don V.
John and Kathy Scovish
January 1, 2020
Patty,
John and I are without words at the loss of Bubba.
Bubba was such an amazing man, he will be missed so much.
You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Let him rest with the angels.
Nancy Foss
January 1, 2020
Sorry for your loss ❤
January 1, 2020
Dear Patty and family;
My heart is so heavy for this loss. I can't tell you in words how sad and sorry I am that you must endure this loss Please know that my heartfelt prayers are with you all. May God give you an abundance of peace and mercy going forward
Love Sue (Hoffman) Winkle ❤
Jennifer Leone
January 1, 2020
So sorry to hear of the passing of Bubba. May he RIP. Prayers
Ed and Gretchen Watson
January 1, 2020
We are very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you and he will be greatly missed.
Eddie and Gretchen Watson
Linda Emmons
December 31, 2019
Randy and I will miss Bubba, such a wonderful guy....such fond memories. We are so sorry and will be praying for your family.
Mark Ciliano
December 31, 2019
To the Barnes Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort. RIP Bubba!
Cheryl McNabb
December 31, 2019
RIP Bobby you will be missed you always had me in stitches you were a fun and loving person your flying with the Angel's now❤
Mark Texter
December 31, 2019
BUBBA you were such a beautiful person always helping others. You were a good friend and it was a pleasure to meet you and to work with you. I will miss you my friend rest in the arms of the savior our LORD JESUS ✝
Deborah Zglobis
December 31, 2019
Fred and I want to extend our prayers,and sympathy to all of the family. God bless, i am sure your mom and dad were waiting with open arms. Fred loved bubba and had many memories that bring smiles to him.
Barbara McCarthy
December 31, 2019
To all the Barnes family, especially Melissa and Brittany. I am so sadden to read of the death of your father. Please know that I am keeping you in my heart and in my prayers and asking God to give you all the strength to get you through this time of sadness and sorrow.
With love and prayers,
Michael Fowler
December 31, 2019
Bubba you will be missed and you are and will always be one of my best friends through out our childhood! There are so many great memories with all of us guys in the neighborhood!
I love you my bud Rest In Peace
Mike Fowler
Greg Gates
December 31, 2019
I remember many a great time with Bubba. At NFA everyone knew Bubba and he could always make you crack up. We rode together for years to EB and he made the commute enjoyable and fun. Gone to soon Rest In Peace my friend. Condolences to his family.
Sherry LaRose-Cooke
December 31, 2019
I was saddened to learn of Bobby's passing. Our parents were long time military friends and we spent many memorable times with the Barnes family. I remember Bobby as this legacy depicts; a fun, happy guy who seemed bigger than life to me. It has been many years since I last saw Bobby. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with your family during this difficult time.
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