Robert Blute Sr.

Robert Blute Sr. obituary, Shrewsbury, MA

Robert Blute Sr.

Robert Blute Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Oct. 25, 2016.
Robert D. Blute, Sr., M.D., 95, of Shrewsbury, husband of the late Ann-Marie (Hines) Blute, father of eleven children, former Chief of Urology and President of the Staff at St. Vincent Hospital in Worcester, and a Knight of the Sovereign Military Order of Malta, died peacefully at his home on Tuesday, October 25, 2016 surrounded by his loving family after a brief illness. Born in Salem in 1921, he was the grandson of Irish immigrants who had worked as laborers and in factories throughout the North Shore. The eldest son of Michael and Ethel "Lena" Blute, his family moved to Boston when his father, a World War I veteran, became a Boston Police Officer, and he was educated at St. Peter School in Dorchester. The family, including his sisters Kathleen and Ann, later moved to Roslindale. A stellar student, he went on to matriculate at Boston College High School in the class of 1939 and received an academic scholarship to attend Boston College. Like so many members of the "Greatest Generation," he was the first in his family to attend college. A pre-med student and Classics major, he volunteered the day after the attack on Pearl Harbor and was enlisted in the Army Medical Administrative Corps as a Reserve Second Lieutenant. He was a passionate Eagle who credited the Jesuit education he received at the Heights with his acceptance to Tufts Medical School. "Everything that developed in my life," he said "started on registration day at Boston College." While studying at Tufts Medical School, Dr. Blute's best friend introduced him to his future wife Ann-Marie Hines of West Roxbury, whom he called "Annie," and a 66-year love affair began. The War had ended, but Dr. Blute's service was only just beginning. After accelerated surgical residency training at Boston City Hospital and Brooke Army Medical Base in San Antonio, Texas, he was promoted to Captain, and at the age of 24 was appointed Chief of Surgery in a 250-bed U.S. Army Hospital in Bremerhaven, Germany. When he received orders in August 1947 to report to Germany, he proposed marriage to Ann-Marie. Two weeks later, he and Ann-Marie were married and began what they thought of as a 'two-year long honeymoon' in Europe during the Occupation. There, the Blutes had the first of their eleven children. When the Blutes returned to the United States, Dr. Blute completed his residency in Urologic surgery at Boston City Hospital. He and Ann-Marie eventually settled in Shrewsbury and Dr. Blute began a 45-year career providing care to the Central Massachusetts community. He was Chief of Urology at Saint Vincent Hospital for thirty years and served a term as President of the medical staff (1974-1975). A highlight of his career was entering into practice with his eldest son, Robert D. Blute, Jr., M.D., with whom he practiced for twenty years. "It was a privilege to work with my father for so many years as a Urologic Surgeon," said Dr. Blute, Jr. "He was held in such high esteem and loved by his surgical peers, colleagues, nurses, and most importantly, patients. He had a true gift of interacting with an abundance of confidence, sincerity, and surgical skill that made patients feel secure when they felt most vulnerable." Dr. Blute was a Fellow of the American College of Surgeons and a lifetime Member of the American Urologic Association, and the New England Section of the American Urologic Association. He was also a Member of the Massachusetts Medical Society and the Worcester District Medical Society. He was honored in 1998 with the Sisters of Providence Award by the Diocese of Worcester Society of St. Luke. The Blutes raised their children in Shrewsbury. A major focus of Dr. Blute's life was his dedication to his Catholic faith and Catholic education. He was a founding parent of St. Mary School in Shrewsbury, which awarded him the first Father Edward W. Lynch Founder's Award. He served multiple roles at St. Mary's Church as a parishioner since 1954, including as a Lector for 50 years, a Eucharistic Minister, a sponsor of adult converts to Catholicism, and as a long-time member of the bible study group. He was also a committed supporter of St. John's High School (Shrewsbury), where his five sons and four grandsons were educated, and where he was made an honorary graduate in 2008, as well as Notre Dame Academy (Worcester), where his six daughters and two of his granddaughters were educated. He was an active Boston College alumnus and supported his alma mater for over seven decades. He was a founding and sustaining member of the Fides Society of Alumni donors, active in Class of 1943 activities, and a BC football season ticket holder for more than forty years. After moving to Worcester, he continued his dedication to Jesuit values as a longtime member of the College of the Holy Cross Sodality of Our Lady. Dr. Blute and his wife Ann-Marie shared a lifetime commitment to charitable work and aiding the poor. In recognition of this commitment and service, Dr. Blute was invited by Cardinal John O'Connor of New York to St. Patrick's Cathedral where he was inducted into the Sovereign Military Order of the Knights of Malta, the oldest and highest honor bestowed on laymen by the Catholic Church. He and Ann-Marie shared a life-long love of classical music and for decades they could be found in their regular seats at the Boston Symphony Orchestra and the Worcester Opera. He was a voracious reader and a gifted raconteur. A "Renaissance man," he regaled friends and family with stories culled from his vast knowledge of history, medicine, politics, literature and the arts. Dr. Blute leaves eleven children. Robert D. Jr., M.D. of Northborough, Margaret A. Marshall of Shrewsbury, Michael L., M.D. of Boston, John P. of Columbus, Ohio, Carol J. Ryan of Holden, Mary E. Shrewsbury, Peter I. of Shrewsbury, Joseph G. of Natick, Ann-Marie T. of Shrewsbury, and Kathleen E. Madaus of Shrewsbury, Paula M. Ebben of Dedham, and a sister, Kathleen Matthews, of Fort Myers, Florida. "Papa" also leaves twenty-three grandchildren, and seven great-grandchildren who will always remember him as "Papa the Great." Family and friends will honor and remember Dr. Blute's life by gathering for calling hours at Heald & Chiampa Funeral Directors ~ The Sumner House, 5 Church Road, On the Common, Shrewsbury Center on Friday, October 28th from 4:00 to 8:00 p.m. His Funeral Mass will be celebrated on Saturday in Saint Mary's Church, 640 Main Street, Shrewsbury at 10:00 a.m. Burial with military honors will follow in Mountain View Cemetery. Donations can be made to St. Mary's Church, Capital Campaign, 18 Summer Street, Shrewsbury, MA 01545.

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To the children & family of Dr. Blute - Please accept my condolences on the loss of your dear father, "Bob". I was saddened to hear this news.

Your mother, Ann Marie was one of my oldest and dearest friends (from the age of 6 years old) as we grew up together at the top of "the hill", Cerdan Avenue, in West Roxbury.

I have so many wonderful memories of both your mother and father. Again, please know how very sorry I am for your loss.

Sincerely,
Dorothy (Carr) Buckley

Lucy

November 4, 2016

Dear Dr. & Mrs. Blute,
You didn't give birth to me; however, this fact becomes nonexistence by your loves for me. I always have a profound feeling of belonging when I am with you. Thank you deeply from the bottom of my heart for loving me as your own. Parts of my heart feel empty since you left. I miss you both so much.

Lucille and Harry Worley

November 3, 2016

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998

Louis WojcikMD

November 2, 2016

My condolences to the Blute family on the loss of their father - his legacy will live on in his wonderful family. I had the pleasure of working with his sons Robert Jr and Michael when I was the pediatric urologist at UMass, and the older staff would tell me how their father was a great surgeon and greater person - and how his sons carried on that legacy. Reading this obituary, I am humbled by how much he and his wife achieved.

James Colby

November 1, 2016

Deepest sympathy to the Blute Family, Dr. Blute jr. did my surgery when i was a young teen. I always remember to this day how great you were to me. Thank You

Peter Picard

November 1, 2016

Dr. Blute, So sorry to hear of your father's passing. I didn't get an opportunity to know him but my father always talked about your dad. Now they are together again up in Heaven.

Walter Pinkham

October 31, 2016

You set in motion threw you Son Robert Jr. a lot of survivors from cancer and I'm one of them,, I thank you for having a son who followed your footsteps. Doctor Blute my sincere condolences

Friend Worcester

October 31, 2016

Rest in peace.

Jim Lebel

October 29, 2016

To the Blute family my deepest sympathy of the loss of your father. He did surgery on my grandfather Alfred Laime who later passed from prostate cancer.Your Dad was a great man.
God Bless,
Jim Lebel

Diane Souza

October 29, 2016

Our deepest sympathies to the Blute family. Thoughts and prayers to the family.
John and Diane Souza, Columbus Ohio

Jack Santangelo

October 29, 2016

My deepest sympathy to Peter and family for your great loss. My prayers are with you at this time of sorrow.

Vin Colonero

October 28, 2016

Bob,Mike and the Blute Family. I was sorry to hear of the passing of your father. My Mom and Dad were both patients of his and thought very highly of him.

Jim & Lisa Hassett

October 28, 2016

Our prayers and sympathy are extended to all members of the extended Blute family. I had the pleasure of sharing faith with him and those who choose to embrace the Catholic faith through the RCIA program at St. Mary Church. A program without Dr Blute sharing his faith journey was incomplete. The annual RCIA Christmas parties were always a pleasure with Dr. Blute in attendance. May the multitude of terrific memories comfort you all.

Mary Sheehan

October 28, 2016

My sincere sympathy to the entire Blue family. What a beautiful family you have. Your Mom and Dad left a tremendous legacy. Find comfort knowing your parents are together now in peace. I have the fondest memories of your parents and all of the Blute children. My thoughts and prayers go out to you all.

Bobby Hinson

October 28, 2016

JB, my great friend of 50 years, and the Blute Family,

I'm sorry. The memories of your Dad, and your wonderful mother will always be important to me.

Perhaps the greatest complement I can give to your Dad at this time is to claim: If a Blute is a friend of yours, you know there's something special in your life.

Harris Berenson

October 28, 2016

My deepest condolences, thoughts and prayers to Ann-Marie and the entire Blute family.

Mike O'Shea

October 28, 2016

What a great man and what a wonderful life! He will be sincerely missed by all who knew him. He was my all time favorite surgeon and teacher.
Mike O'Shea SVH

A Grateful American ~

October 27, 2016

Though our grateful nation mourns with you in your loss, we can only feel a small part of the loss you are experiencing.

Your loved one will always be a part of our country's story. As such, their sacrifice on behalf of our nation will always be honored.

While the process of grieving requires a lot of time and, somehow, is never complete, we will be praying for you and grieving with you.

In deepest sympathy.

Susan Collins

October 27, 2016

To the Blute family,
Our prayers are with you . May all of the wonderful memories of your Dad keep you ... With our most sincere sympathy
Jim , and Susan Kalil Collins

Chris St. Amand

October 27, 2016

Bob, Mike, and the entire Blute family ~ Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.

Kathleen Blute

October 27, 2016

Our hearts go out to you at this most difficult time. We have lost a great man. We fondly remember his generosity, his positivity and his smile. His spirit lives on in all of you.

Kathy Blute, Dave Robinson and Melanie Blute Robinson

Patricia (Cleary) Gallo

October 27, 2016

I will never forget Dr. Blute's kindness to me as I started my new job as a nurse in the operating room at St. Vincent Hospital in 1970.No question went unanswered and his willingness to share his knowledge was greatly appreciated.Above all he was a kind and generous man who was respectful to the entire staff. My condolences to the Blute family and may you find comfort in knowing that there are a countless number of people who share warm memories of Dr. Blute.

Mani Menon

October 27, 2016

To Bob and Mike and the rest of the Blutes

We spent many years working together, and your Dad extended his hands in friendship, when I first joined the Worcester community. Just last week, Mike had said that he was doing well. A giant as a doctor, even greater as a human being.
Shameem and I pray with you

Patricia Nelligan Peterleitner

October 27, 2016

"To the entire Blute family~ you are in my thoughts and prayers at this most difficult time. May you all find comfort and peace through your enduring faith.

Diane and Bill Ebben

October 27, 2016

We will miss you Bob.Our condolences to the entire family.Know you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Diane and Bill Ebben,Naples,Florida

Eleanor Vadenais

October 27, 2016

To the Blute Family - what a beautiful life your father had - I'm hoping you'll find comfort in the wonderful memories he left behind. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Brother Stephen Comeau, CFX

October 27, 2016

To the entire Blute Family,
You will all be in my thoughts and prayers this Saturday as you gather at Saint Mary's Church to celebrate the wonderful life of Robert Blute, Sr. He lives on through all of you and I am confident that you will al do him proud and let his love, compassion and commitment to service continue.

Dana @ Gayle Clancy

October 27, 2016

He was truly a gifted man he touched many people in his life time and he raise a beautiful family he will be missed by so many.

Gerald Gladstone, M.D.

October 27, 2016

Bob, Peter, and the rest of your family, your dad was a wonderful gentleman. I'm sure both he and your mother left you with infinite good memories. I hope those memories will help you all through this difficult time. All best wishes to you.

Peter Schlegel

October 27, 2016

To Mike, Bob & the entire family, most sincere regrets for your loss. I know your father must have touched thousands of people's lives as he touched mine with his dedicated care of patients and critical educational role for future physicians. Please know that we are with you in our thoughts and prayers.

Dr.Timothy Hoffman

October 27, 2016

Thank you for serving our country. May your family find comfort in their faith and may you Rest in Peace.

Gary Beauchamp

October 26, 2016

Remembering & Honoring, A Great Man.....Eternal Peace, Dear Doctor Blute, Eternal Peace.....

Bill Allen

October 26, 2016

Great family, thinking of you all.

Sheila Seed

October 26, 2016

Anne-Marie and family,
We were saddened to hear of the loss of your father. May he Rest In Peace.
Paul and Sheila Seed

marshall zamansky,md

October 26, 2016

When I came to Worcester in 1973, Dr. Blute was already a legend, well known, and highly respected. He has left a great legacy. I would like to extend my sympathy to his entire family.

Christian Cortes Roa

October 26, 2016

Dearest Anne-Marie & family,

Please accept my sincerest condolences on the loss of your father. He was blessed in life with the wonderful gift of faith and family and it is a great example to many. You remain in my thoughts and prayers.

Isania [email protected]

October 26, 2016

Dear Dr. Blute
It is with great regret that I have heard about the loss of your father. At this difficult time, I would like to express my deep sympathy for you and your family. Please accept my sincere condolences.
Your sincerely,
Isania

Sarah Gleason

October 26, 2016

Please accept my condolences. Uncle Bob knew so much about so many things! He always made me feel as if I were the most intelligent person in the room. In peace, Sarah

CARL GENTILE

October 26, 2016

prayers for DR. ROBERT BLUTE

Marcus Berquist

October 26, 2016

My condolences to the entire Blute family. Dr. Blute and you are all in my prayers. May he rest in peace.

The Polito family

October 26, 2016

Our deep & heartfelt sympathy to the Blute family As you all know he was respected by all he met

JIm Smith

October 26, 2016

To Paula and the Blute family. SO sorry for your loss. Dr. Blute was a great man, and what a legacy he leaves.
My prayers to you all.
Jim Smith

Michael Gleason

October 26, 2016

Anne-Marie And Mary And The Extended Blute Family: We Are Very Sorry For Your Loss. Uncle Bob Set Such A Precedent With His Character, Stature. A Role Model To Friends And Family And Colleagues Alike

john collins

October 26, 2016

DEAR FAMILY MEMBERS-I AM SORRY ABOUT THE LOSS OF BOB WHO WAS A FAITHFUL MEMBER OF THE THOMAS MERTON CHAPTER AT ST. MARY'S FOR MANY YEARS. I WILL KEEP HIM IN MY PRAYERS. PEACE-JOHN COLLINS

Dr.Timothy Hoffman

October 26, 2016

Rest in Peace you are now with the lovely Ann-Marie who was a champion of Life. God Bless the Blute Family.

Carolyn Gonyea

October 26, 2016

To the Blute Family,

So sorry to read of the passing of your father. I was privileged to have had the opportunity to work for him for so many years. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

John Deschenes Deschenes

October 26, 2016

To the entire family, sorry for your loss He and all of you are in my prayers

October 26, 2016

We are sorry to hear of your father's passing. May he rest in peace. Mary Courtemanche and Dr. & Mrs. Leo Buckley

Mary Reynolds

October 26, 2016

Mary-my thoughts, prayers, and love on the loss of your wonderful dad. You have the peace of knowing you were such a comforting caretaker to him. He took terrific care of me when I was younger, a fact he wanted me to rub in to your brother at your mom's wake-I guess he always kept his humor!! I am sorry I will miss the calling hours because I'm headed to Charleston. Thinking of you and your family-Mary reynolds

Nina Restrepo

October 26, 2016

Dr. Michael Blute,
I am very sorry for the loss of your father. My deepest sympathy, my thoughts and prayer are with you.
Nina Restrepo
Urology

Rita Kapurch

October 25, 2016

DR. Michael;
So sorry to hve read of your father's passing.Sendingy my deepest Sympathy.
Rita

Kathy and Joey Prines

October 25, 2016

John, Suzanne, and the entire Blute family,
Condolences on the passing of your father. Our prayers are with you.

October 25, 2016

Bob, Mike,John,Peter, Joe, and Blute family,
I was saddened to read of your Dad's passing. He was..a ROCK. We are in Florida now, and will not be able to visit with you at this time.
Our thought sand prayers are with you all.

Bob and Diane Bradley

October 25, 2016

My condolences to your dear family!! Your dad was one in a million, may he fly high with the angels. God bless you all.
Maggie Curran-Early

Peter & Marilyn Blanchard

October 25, 2016

Ann-Marie, Kathy, and Family - So very saddened to read of your father's death. He was such a wonderful man and loved his family so much. How lucky you were to have him for so many years. There must be so many happy memories for all of you! Our love, thoughts, and prayers are with all of you during this difficult time. May it comfort you to know that he is at peace and in heaven with your Mom. With our deepest sympathy - Peter and Marilyn

elaine vadenais

October 25, 2016

To the entire Blute Family - we are so sorry about the passing of your dad. Our families go a long way back to the St. Mary's school days. Your dad can now be reunited with your mom.

Elaine Vadenais and the entire Vadenais family.

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