Robert J. Carpenter

Robert J. Carpenter

Robert Carpenter Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Dec. 5 to Dec. 8, 2009.

WINDHAM, N.H. — Robert J. Carpenter, age 42, of Windham, N.H., died Wednesday, Dec. 2, 2009 at his home.

He was born in Melrose, grew up and was educated in North Reading. He was a resident of Windham for the past four years, formerly of Lawrence and Haverhill.

Robert worked as a truck driver for Dunkin Donuts in the Merrimack Valley area. He had previously worked for Big & Beefy in Lawrence for 12 years.

He enjoyed yard sales, flea markets, and buying and selling on Craigslist.

He as predeceased by his father, Edward Carpenter. He is survived by his sisters, Karen Carpenter and her husband Charles Bestick of Bethel, Maine, Debora Carpenter of Winchester, N.H.; daughter, Katrina of Las Vegas; mother, Evelyn (Hatch) Carpenter and her companion James Lothian of Plymouth, N.H.; brother, George W. and his wife Margaret Jones of Alabama; two nieces, Arlee Govoni and Chelsea Carpenter; and several other nieces and nephews.

ARRANGEMENTS: Services will be private for the family and cremation will take place. There are no calling hours. Douglas & Johnson Funeral Home, 214 Main St., Salem, N.H. has care of the arrangements. To send a message of condolence to the family, please view the obituary at www.douglasandjohnson.com.

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December 11, 2009

Rev. Edward Lister posted to the memorial.

December 10, 2009

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December 7, 2009

Jennifer and David Bestick posted to the memorial.

Rev. Edward Lister

December 11, 2009

I'm so sorry to see you go old friend.
You will be sorely missed,
So many fond memories...

December 10, 2009

To my uncle bo & karen i'm sorry to hear about your loss. we send our condolences. god bless robert.

Jennifer and David Bestick

December 7, 2009

May you be gone but not forgotten Robert. It chipped our hearts to hear the news, I wanted to write and tell you how sorry I am for your loss. While there is nothing I can say that will ease your loss, I wanted you to know that I am grieving and thinking of you all.

Warren

December 6, 2009

Dear Mrs. Carpenter and All Bobby's family... I was very fortunate to have known your son, father, brother, a long time when worked for the state in 1986 and again in 2005 driving with him for Ward hill. and I enjoyed many good times discussing or debating current events , music and various television shows and movies with him.
And what I'll miss Bobby the most for will be those times... he had talent for colorful conversation , as well as a remarkable felicity of expression especially when we both dissaproved of, or just out right hated something. He could really make me laugh. Ill miss him...and I grieve with all of you. may God bless you

CHARLES M. BESTICK II

December 5, 2009

MAY GOD BLESS YOU ROBERT J. CARPENTER

We will miss you, Robert, with love from your loveing sister Karen and Bo...

December 5, 2009

Johnny and Bea

December 5, 2009

Bo and Karen,
As the days go by and your grief lessens, keep your memories of Robert close to your heart and know that he loved you. Remember that WE are always there for you.

Charles Bestick

December 5, 2009

DEAR Karen and DEBBIE, WE all have had our problems,and well all must go, but for this to happen at such a young age is not right. my blessings go out to you and to my wife karen, and to let you know that i will be here for you and karen during this grieving times. BEST WISHES...GOD BLESS YOU ROBERT, WE all will miss you so very much....

December 5, 2009

Dearest Debbie and family,

we are grieving with you on the unexpected and terrible loss of Robert. Our hearts ache for you. Losing Jim in September and now you losing Robert just 2 months later is beyond understanding or reason. We hope that good memories of Robert will help lighten your soul and carry you through your grief. We are and always will be here for you. We love you very much.
Scott and Kathleen
Lee, NH

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