Robert Joseph Connelly

1939 - 2016

Robert Joseph Connelly obituary, 1939-2016

Robert Joseph Connelly

1939 - 2016

Robert Connelly Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Sep. 30, 2016.
Dr. Robert J. (Bob) Connelly was born in Greeley, Nebraska in 1939 and raised in Denver, Colorado. He completed his undergraduate work at Regis College (now University) in Denver, and earned his masters and Ph.D. from St. Louis University. Both graduate degrees were in philosophy. Bob taught briefly at St. Louis University and Fontbonne College, but the bulk of his teaching – and giving – has been at University of the Incarnate Word where he began a 44-year tenure in 1972. Bob's heart has always been in teaching where he could engage students in learning and in understanding the concept of service. He once computed, to his own amazement, that in 40 years of teaching he had "touched and been touched by approximately 8000 students."

To Bob that brought a sense of responsibility and humility. That sense of responsibility led Bob to push for the Community Service requirement for graduation. It began as part of the curriculum which established the Dimensions of Wellness course as well as the required 45 hours of community service. He also helped develop and launch the Meet the Mission event, the Service-Learning Movement that began almost 20 years ago, and the more recent Ettling Center for Civic Leadership. Bob was as strong an advocate for the faculty as for the students he guided. He focused on the faculty role in shared governance, served as president of the faculty association/senate twice, and chaired most standing committees at least twice. He served as editor of the Faculty Handbook, and acted as director for the Southern Association of Colleges and Schools Commission on Colleges accreditation efforts.

Again that sense of responsibility led Bob to accept several important administrative roles even while he continued his student-focused approach. Bob served as dean of the College of Humanities, Arts, and Social Sciences, dean of the School of Mathematics, Science and Engineering, director of assessment, and assistant to the associate provost. In recent years, Bob has been recognized for developing the university's recycling program, and also for the development of the Headwaters at Incarnate Word. Both touched Bob's deep love for creation and his strong efforts at sustainability. In response to the number and level of initiatives Bob championed, the university honored him by establishing The Robert J. Connelly Faculty Leadership Award in 2009. The award is granted annually to a professor who provides outstanding leadership within the faculty. Bob was named a Texas Minnie Stevens Piper Professor and a Danforth Associate. At UIW Bob was a Moody Endowed Professor of Philosophy and a CCVI Spirit Award recipient. Most recently he received an honor he deeply appreciated, the William Mulcahy Award for Ecological Stewardship.

Bob will be missed by all, but he leaves a strong legacy and an equally strong circle of friends and family. Bob is survived by his wife, Dr. Kathi Light; their children Kim Connelly; Corin Connelly and spouse Sylvia Garza; Sean Hampp; Stephanie Light and spouse Tony Reynolds; five grandchildren, Rachel, Maegan, George, Kaylee, and Luke, two sisters, Mary McCready and Janet O'Brien and numerous nieces and nephews.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the UIW Ecological Sustainability Fund. This fund is for faculty led projects involving students. Gifts in Dr. Connelly's name may be mailed to the UIW Development Office, 4301 Broadway, CPO #317, San Antonio TX 78209 or visit: www.uiw.edu/give Under "Other" indicate that the gift is for the Ecological Sustainability Fund "in memory of Dr. Bob Connelly" or call 210-829-6013 for additional information.

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September 13, 2017

Cathy (Tangney) Howard posted to the memorial.

May 17, 2017

Patrick Woodward posted to the memorial.

May 13, 2017

Larry Tucker posted to the memorial.

Cathy (Tangney) Howard

September 13, 2017

I knew Bob in a little different way from most of our classmates; he was my fellow inductee into the Mother of God choir. I'm not sure if he felt the same, but I thought of as two young inmates in a collection of old ladies. Once I bought him a gift of an unmarked can from the gourmet food department at May D&F, where I worked. It turned out to be fried grasshoppers. I even got a ride in the baby blue Buick with seat covers to protect the upholstery and towels to protect the seat covers. God bless you, Bob.

Patrick Woodward

May 17, 2017

Bob was a classmate of mine for my last two years at St. Francis de Sales when my family moved to Denver halfway through high school. I was nervous about changing schools and the city in which I was moving and Bob was very kind and helpful to a newcomer. Bob and about 15 other guys became very good friends during these two years. About halfway during our Senior year Bob turned on a switch and devoted about 100% of his efforts to academics and he rode this passion to Regis and then St. Louis U. I can only second what our classmate Larry Tucker said about all that Bob has accomplished. I am proud to have known Bob and called him my friend.

Larry Tucker

May 13, 2017

We at St Francis High School, Denver, CO., never dreamed that any of us would reach the heights that Bob reached in service and significance that Bob reached. Many of us have done well in our own estimation but few matched Bob. His passing leaves a huge void!
Larry Tucker, class of '57.

Norm Silva

May 12, 2017

Bob was a dear friend from the 6th grade at St.Francis school in Denver. I remember him being the biggest guy on our football team. I remember him singing an Elvis song at a talent show and I painted the sideburns on him. My condolences to his wife, children and grandchildren. Rest in Peace buddy.

Ralph Redfern

May 11, 2017

Bob has been a friend since grade school days at St. Francis De Sales Through high school, boy scouts and loads of hanging out time. His mother was a second mother to many of us, may the Connelly's all rest in Christs peace.

Mary Angela Douglas

October 16, 2016

MUSIC BOX

[in memorium, Dr. Robert J. Connelly, 1939-2016]


is everything meant to stop, then start again
like a music box repaired how could I wonder
when you had gone and there was no more rewinding;

at the edge of autumn edged in a pain fine as gold
because it was yours and the way cleared.
is this where the cacti bloom I thought

in my room hearing news you had died.
what's death you always asked each classroom day
through intimation or indirection's way

and praised our poetry, the small steps
we took, with a gladdened look.

you lived when we bent our heads in the sunlight,
questioning,

your students
who couldn't comprehend yet
the truth there was in books

raveling out into the yard.

now you are There

and know what we learned to think of
at odd moments perhaps
more than before, in full.

more than ever now I seem to know
we never lose consciousness, grief or joy
stepping from gold to a finer gold refined

at our appointed hour.

mary angela douglas 16 october 2016

October 10, 2016

Well, I was taught philosophy and so much besides by Dr. Robert J. Connelly so many years ago, from 1970-1972 at Fontbonne College in St. Louis and I can say that no one of my teachers ever made the impression he made in his classes. Somehow he created a kind of golden atmosphere where it seemed all things were possible in learning and in life at the same time. He had an incalculable gift. The memory of that gift has sustained me all my life and lightened the way to lifelong learning for me even in times of hardship. He was born to be an unforgettable teacher and if there are universities in Heaven I am certain he will be teaching there as well. I could say a lot more but somehow I feel Dr. Connelly, modest as he was would want me to just let it be. God bless his dearly loved wife Kathleen, all his children and grandchildren always is my sincere heartfelt prayer and every student he ever taught or, as in my case, greatly encouraged. We will all meet again. With love and respect and honor.

Mary Angela Douglas 10 October 2016

Laura Shaw

September 30, 2016

I was so sorry to learn of Bob's passing. He was such an important part of Incarnate Word. So many will miss his teaching and leadership. Prayers for Kathi and family. May God be with you, especially in this time of sorrow.

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