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Robert Eppinger Obituary
On Monday May 11, 2009, beloved partner of Stephen A. Totter and the late Dr. Peter Henderson. Son of the late Elizabeth "Betty" and Melvin "Mel" Eppinger. Brother of Ronald Eppinger (Debbie). Uncle of Andrea and Adam Eppinger. Bob graduated from the University of Pittsburgh with a degree in Mechanical Engineering in 1966. During his extensive engineering career, he worked for U.S. Steel, Westinghouse Corp., Diamler- Chrysler and finally retiring from Bombardier after 38 years as a project manager. Bob's favorite things in life were entertaining, travel, fine dining and the theater. He spent countless hours volunteering in various community organizations throughout Pittsburgh. Friends will be received at JOHN A. FREYVOGEL SONS, INC. 4900 Centre Avenue at Devonshire Street Thursday 2-4 and 7-9pm. Funeral Friday, in Calvary Episcopal Church 1pm. (EVERYONE PLEASE GATHER AT CHURCH).
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Wendell Funk
July 6, 2009
I had the privilege of knowing Bob since the late 70's and knew that my home was in good hands when he purchased it from me. I was deeply saddened on recently learning of his passing. My memories are filled with his great stories, his laugher and his incredible gift at pulling off wonderful dinner parties of friends, fine food, conversation and laughter. His life was cut far too short. My sincere condolences to Stephen.
Wendell
Craig Melichar
May 20, 2009
I have known dear Bob since the 1970's when he was with Peter (also a wonderful friend). Although we haven't seen each other often in recent years, any time we met it was as though no time had passed. When he spoke it was always like a long verbal hug with his kindness, laughter and genuine attention. I just learned of Bob's passing and felt the pain of a light extinguished in my heart but it soon was replaced with the light of so many wonderful memories. Thank you Bob. You will be missed. You were taken from us much too young.
Pat McElligott
May 18, 2009
I knew Bob when I worked at the Shadyside Action Coalition in the 1980s. I remember thinking at the time that if all residents behaved the way that Bob did, we wouldn't need a citizens' organization. He was the essence of decency, a genteel and caring man. I am grateful that I knew him.
James Stevenson
May 18, 2009
Bob,
You will be greatly missed. You always had a laugh and a kind word to offer.
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Brian & Dave
May 14, 2009
"It is a far, far better thing that I do, than I have ever done: it is a far better rest that I go to, than I have ever known."
Bob; Dave and I will miss our dinners together, trips afar and stories shared with you....Save some for our times to come....
David Wintermute
May 14, 2009
I remember once Bob was telling us a story about somebody's children or some such thing and we asked him why he didn't have kids and he said "kids?!?, I have a hard time with live plants!"
Always the consummate gentleman with some of the funniest stories I ever heard. Steven, my sincere condolences in your loss.
John Clark
May 14, 2009
You knew when you were in for a good story when Bob pulled you aside and whispered into your ear at the back of his hand. Always, always the gentleman, but never without at least a hint of playful devilishness. There will be no other like our Bob Eppinger.
Susan Ward & Family
May 14, 2009
I first met Bob when I started working at Westinghouse Transportation in 1984. I worked with Bob for 20 years. In addition, Bob worked with various members of my family that worked in the same industry. He was always very lively and entertained us with fabulous stories of his travels. I worked more closely with Bob on projects where I got to know him better. He was always kind, considerate and honest. I thoroughly enjoyed working with him. Bob will be sorely missed on the streets of Pittsburgh where we bumped into him during his walks. To Bob’s family and loved ones please accept my condolences for your sudden loss.
May 14, 2009
Bob and I had mutual friends and I did not know him very well, but I was impressed how each time he saw me he greeted me, took time to talk and to ask how I was doing. He was a real gentleman, and he lived the phrase "any friend of yours is a friend of mine." That kind of class is very rare and will be missed.
Paul Simpson
May 13, 2009
Bobbie,
What are we going to do without your wonderful stories and insights into situations. You had such a wonderful life, we were all hanging on to every word.
You were a wonderful friend, and I will always remember you.
Randy
May 13, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers to all Bob's loved ones. His kindness, intelligence, style and wit will blessedly remain with us always.
Bob Davis
May 13, 2009
Dear Eppie,
To a wonderful and fabulous gentleman, your joyous laughter and smile will be greatly missed. You will always be thought of fondly.
May 13, 2009
BOB YOU WERE ONE OF THE GOOD GUYS , ALWAYS THE GENTLEMAN. YOU WILL BE MISSED. SYMPATHY TO YOUR FAMILY.
YOUR OLD OPTICIAN FRIEND
BILL MCCLEMENTS
A Friend
May 13, 2009
Imagine the beauty of it--
That moment when the soul of a loved one
returns to the stars,
Each voice whispering,
"I remember you!"
Mark Cunningham
May 13, 2009
I met Bob in 1995 when I started at Bombardier (AEG at the time) and had the pleasure of knowing him and working with him off and on for many years. I was sorry to hear of his passing and I will miss him as will all those who knew him here at work. Goodbye old colleague and friend.
Paul J. Gitnik
May 13, 2009
Dear Stephen and the Extended Family of Robert M. Eppinger:
May eternal rest be granted upon Bob, and let the perpetual light shine upon him. My thoughts and prayers are with you and Bob's entire extended family.
Ida Joiner
May 13, 2009
Dear Stephen:
I am so sorry to learn of Bob's passing. He is in a better place now that God has called him home. I pray that God will comfort you during this time and always.
Please remember to breathe and to take life one day at a time.
I am a telephone call away!
May God bless you and keep you!
I will see you soon!
Ida
May 13, 2009
Dearest Eppy,
Barron and I will miss your smile your laughter and your wonderful stories. It has been a privilege being part of your holiday celebrations over the years. Memories we will hold dear for the rest of our lives. We will miss you dear friend.
Barron and Bruno
Marty Matvey
May 13, 2009
I have worked with Bob closely for 20 years and celebrated his retirement with him. He is truly a kind and spirited person who went out of his way to always make you feel comfortable in and out the workplace. My sincere condolences to all his loved ones at this time.
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