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ROBERT HAM Obituary
GREENSBORO - Robert "Bob" Morrison Ham, 66 of Greensboro, passed away on Wednesday June 20, 2012 in the Hospice & Palliative Care Unit of Moses Cone Hospital.
Respecting Bob's wishes, no memorial service will be held.
Bob was born on August 15, 1945 (a VJ Day baby) in Greensboro to the late Mr. & Mrs. Robert Henry & Marion Morrison Ham. He attended Washington University in Washington, D.C. and graduated from Guilford College. He was a manager for his family's business Robert Ham & Associates and was Volunteer of the Year for his work with the Adult Center for Enrichment in Greensboro. Bob was also a longtime member of the First Presbyterian Church in Greensboro where he served as Treasurer of the Paisley Sunday School Class.
He is survived by the love of his life , his wife, Brenda Hanes-Ham of the home, sister Carol Frank of Greensboro, stepsons, Freddie, Michael, Keith, Greg, & Tim Hanes all of Asheboro, aunt, Joy Morrison of Greensboro, nieces, Katie Springer of Deerfield, IL and Kelli Phillips of Greensboro.
In lieu of flowers memorials may be made to: American Kidney Fund, 11921 Rockville Pike, suite 300, Rockville, MD 27852 or the First Presbyterian Church, 617 N. Elm St. Greensboro, NC 27401
Forbis & Dick N. Elm St. is serving the family.
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Peggy D'Avella
June 27, 2012
The Ham's Family
My depest sympathy on the loss of Bob. I don't know him, but I'm a friend of his sister Carol. She has told me what a wonderful person he has been.
My thoughts & prayers are with you all.
Em, Brad and Lincoln Hinesley
June 25, 2012
Bob was a great man with a good heart. He loved my grandmother and made her very happy. Remember all the great times that you guys shared; watching movies together on the couch, all your wonderful trips to awesime places, lincoln playdates/naps, even just sitting on the couch beside each other with your laptops! I am so thankful to Bob for loving my grandma, loving my family and loving me (he even liked my cooking!). We will miss you Bob but never forget your place in our crazy family! We love you always!
Amanda Hanes Deaton
June 25, 2012
Mammaw,
Just wanted to let you know that I love you! We are here for you if you need us. Bob was a good man! I'm very glad to have known him. He will be missed.
Love,
Amanda & Chad
Carol Frank
June 25, 2012
To my brother: I love you with all my heart and soul. We will carry on, knowing full well that one day we will be with you again. Love, your sister, Carol
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Guy Grundman
June 25, 2012
Rob and I were childhood friends when he lived on Madison Avenue in the 50's and early 60's. He was the best pal a kid could have. My most sincere condolences to Brenda, Carol and family.
Brianna Hanes
June 25, 2012
Gram,
You are a strong woman, and I know you will come throw this, but if you need me, I'm here. Bob was a great man and loved you very much. He will be missed, but never forgotten. Rest in peace Bob,
Love always,
Brianna and Daisee
Katie Springer
June 24, 2012
I will always remember Uncle Rob's smile and kindness. We did not get to see him enough since we moved away- holidays mostly- but he always was thoughtful and made an effort to reconnect with us and show us his caring.
Dianne Nickles
June 24, 2012
To Brenda and family: I am so sorry you have lost Bob and I for one will miss him too as he was always smiling in the Paisley Class at First Presbyterian. I am glad that you had Bob as both of you were a wonderful couple. Even though I had not seen you guys in a while, doesn't mean I have not thought of you. But the memories do remain over the years. May God bless you all at this time in your loss and deep sorrow.
Cheri Lebrecht
June 24, 2012
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
Charli Clark
June 23, 2012
Brenda, my deepest sympathy and prayers are with you. Bob,will aways have a very special place in my heart and I am so very happy that he had you. You are a special wonderful person that he loved and you took such good care for him, God bless and please keep in touch.
Joe Benson
June 23, 2012
Bob was a memorable person of faith. He had a big heart and he will be missed. With sympathy, Joe Benson
June 23, 2012
Brenda, I will be thinking of and praying for you and your Family at this difficult time. Bob was a special and blessed man to have shared his life with such a very special woman like you.
Gary Stephenson
Patti Brown
June 23, 2012
Will miss you sorely Bob....enjoyed hearing your I love you back on Saturday nites....enjoyed our friendship albeit from so far away....Brenda is strong but I am sure she will be lost without you. Rest in peace my dear cousin-in-law....
Pal Ingold
June 22, 2012
Dear Brenda and Family, prayers and hugs are heading your way. May God's strength and love carry you during this time difficult journey. Love you. Pal
Richard Thomas
June 22, 2012
Was saddened to hear of Bob's passing. My deepest condolences to you. Bob was a good friend to me, and I always enjoyed talking with him.
With Sincere Sympathy,
Lisa Hanes
June 22, 2012
Bob was a man of few words, but we knew he loved us, and we loved him. We will miss you, but we promise we will take care of your Brenda..because without a doubt we know you loved her..Thank you for sharing a part of your life with our family..You will be missed so much..Love, Keith, Lisa,Luke,Emily, Bradley and yes "Grumpy" your boy Lincoln.
Karen Towery
June 22, 2012
Brenda and Family,
I am so sorry to hear of Rob's passing and your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you. May God's word and promise bring you comfort during this difficult time. Rest in peace Rob.
Love & Sympathy,
Greensboro Kidney Center
June 22, 2012
We send our sincere condolences to the family of Mr. Robert Ham. He will be missd!!!
Elizabeth Doles
June 22, 2012
Brenda, you are and will be in my thoughts and prayers. Love you, Liz
Elizabeth Doles
June 22, 2012
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
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