Robert Lenton Oakes

Robert Lenton Oakes obituary, Midland, TX

Robert Lenton Oakes

Robert Lenton Oakes Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on May 17, 2025.
Robert Lenton Oakes, 78, passed away peacefully at home in Midland, Texas, on May 11, 2025. Born in Santa Anna, Texas, Robert lived a full and adventurous life marked by service, hard work, and a deep love for the outdoors and his family.

A proud graduate of Brownwood High School, Class of 1964, Robert went on to serve his country as an airborne medic-jumping from helicopters as both an active-duty soldier and later with the Texas Army National Guard. His service and courage left a lasting impression on all who knew him.

Following his military service, Robert earned a BBA from Howard Payne University in 1969. He began a long and distinguished career in the oil and gas industry, starting with U.S. Steel Corp. His 27-year journey took him across the country and around the world-from Houston and New Orleans to Tallinn, Estonia, and the Gulf of Mexico-before finally settling in Midland, Texas.

In 1997, Robert founded his own business, Five-Star Pipe & Equipment, continuing to serve the petroleum field with the same passion and drive that had defined his entire career.

Robert was not only a dedicated professional but also an avid outdoorsman. He cherished time spent hunting, fishing, bonfires with friends, going on trail rides, working his farm, and caring for his beloved horses. His love of the land and the simple joys of country life were central to who he was.

He is survived by his loving wife, Jody Oakes; his sons, Justin Oakes and Brad Oakes; daughter-in-law Bonnie Oakes; granddaughters Katelyn and Lacey; sister Lenda Oakes; and nephews Bryan Hughes and Frankie Melendrez. Robert's legacy of strength, integrity, and adventure will live on in all who knew and loved him.

A viewing will be held on Friday, May 23, from 9:00 to 11:00 a.m. at Nalley-Pickle & Welch Funeral Home in Midland. A graveside service and burial will follow at 3:00 p.m. at the cemetery in Trickham, Texas. Lunch will be provided.

Family and friends are also invited to a celebration of Robert's life at a BBQ to be held at the family home in Midland on Saturday, May 24. Please contact Justin Oakes at (214) 709-2277 to RSVP.

Donations for the upkeep and maintenance of the Trickham Cemetery where Robert will be laid to rest can be made here: https://www.gofundme.com/f/2025-trickham-community-cemetery-fundraiser

Arrangements are under the direction of Nalley-Pickle & Welch Funeral Home & Crematory of Midland. Online condolences can be made at www.npwelch.com.

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James Davis

June 4, 2025

I grew up with the guy from second grade on. Always a friendly face.

Suzette and Johnnie from Comfort Keepers

May 23, 2025

Our heartfelt condolences to the family . May God bless and be with you in this time of sorrow. May he rest in peace.

Julio Guerrero

May 22, 2025

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. Rest in peace Robert!
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Robert McLean

May 21, 2025

Robert Oakes was a good friend and good man. I remember when we were kids and the fun times we had. Great in peace and in Love my friend.

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Kay Konze Herring

May 19, 2025

Fond memories of family reunions at Mama´s and Papa´s farm in Santa Anna.

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