ROBERT DeKRUIF "Bobby" MERCHANT

1978 - 2018

ROBERT DeKRUIF "Bobby" MERCHANT obituary, 1978-2018, Pittsburgh, PA

ROBERT DeKRUIF "Bobby" MERCHANT

1978 - 2018

ROBERT MERCHANT Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Mar. 23 to Mar. 26, 2018.
MERCHANT
ROBERT DeKRUIF "Bobby"
Age 39, passed away on Saturday, March 17, 2018, in Taiwan. He was born May 15, 1978, in Pittsburgh, to Virginia "Ginny" DeKruif Merchant and Ralston Wentworth Merchant, Jr. Bobby was a 1996 graduate of Fox Chapel High School and a 2000 graduate of Loyola University in Maryland. After graduating from Loyola, Bobby embarked on what would become nearly a 20-year adventure in Asia, a place he grew to love and call home. Bobby first moved to Thailand, where he taught English to children and gained a Master's degree in Hospitality. He went on to manage hotel properties throughout the country for several years, before being offered a promotion to manage a large hotel complex in Taiwan. Bobby moved to Taiwan in 2006, where he met and married Pauline Wu, and was blessed with their son, Camden "Cam" Ralston Merchant, the love and pride of his life. Bobby is survived by his wife, Pauline Wu and beloved son, Cam Merchant, age four; parents, Ginny Merchant, and Ralston and Marta Merchant; his siblings, Ralston "Tripp" Merchant III and his wife, Mandy Merchant, McCall Merchant Cravens and her husband, Stephen Cravens, and their children, Michael Merchant and Hayden Merchant; and his grandmother, Jane Merchant. He was also surrounded by a team of loving aunts, uncles, and cousins whom he loved. He was preceded in death by his grandparents, Ralston Merchant, Sr., Robert and Jeanne DeKruif, and Dodie Palmer. Bobby was a great adventurer, sports enthusiast, and devoted father, and will be missed dearly by all. We will always remember him for his unending love for Cam, his joy in spending time with his family, and his excitement to live out his fullest life and adventures overseas. His heart was pure gold. So much so that he could not bear the burden he believed he placed on others anymore. We will always remember his courage and strength during difficult times. He was a fighter. We know that he is finally resting in peace and without pain. A Celebration for Bobby's Life will take place in Taiwan and Pittsburgh. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention, Western Pennsylvania Chapter.

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April 9, 2018

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January 24, 2019

May the God of all comfort strengthen the family during this time of deep sorrow. Those who pass on, God keeps in his memory because they are precious in his eyes. My sincerest condolences. (Psalms 116:15) ~DS

May 23, 2018

terrible loss

Jessica Huang

April 9, 2018

So sorry that you are gone. My condolences to your beautiful family. You spoke so highly of them. I wish that I could've taken the pain away from you. I'm sorry.

Elisa Rodgers

April 4, 2018

Ralston and Marta, our thoughts and prayers are with you. Elisa and Brian

April 1, 2018

Ginny and family in so sorry for your loss of your son Bobby my heart goes out to you I'll pray for you and your family i remember how he was a great boy at school Diane Hess

March 31, 2018

Ginny & Family,
So sorry to hear about the passing of Bobby. It seems his wonderful nature made people happy to be around him. You are all in my prayers,Connie Cannon

Carla

March 28, 2018

I'm so sorry to hear this. Please accept my condolences on your loss. May your memories comfort your heart; and God help your family during this time of sorrow. Isa.41:13

Elaine Morgenstern

March 25, 2018

Ral, Marta and Hayden,
We are so sorry for your loss. Always remember the good times and find peace in your memories.
Alan and Elaine Morgenstern
Mt. Lebanon

March 25, 2018

Dear Ginny,

So very sorry to hear about the passing of Bobby. I will always remember his beautiful smile and kind heart. My deepest sympathy to you and your family.


Kathy Secen

March 24, 2018

Ginny and family, we are so very sorry for your loss of your precious son. Remember the love that you shared, and be proud of the man that he became. You are in our thoughts and our hearts. Love you, Steve Stoehr and Shirl Ransley

March 24, 2018

Ginny,
I am so sorry to read of your loss. Truly a handsome yong man with a loving family. My sympathies to your entire family.
Veronica S Steinkirchner

March 24, 2018

GINNY AND FAMILY,
MY PRAYERS AND SYMPATHIES ON THE LOSS OF BOBBY. I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER HIS BIG SMILE AND BIG HEART. HE WAS A JOY TO KNOW AT FOX CHAPEL HIGH SCHOOL. WORDS CANNOT EXPRESS MY THOUGHTS TO YOU.
IN MY PRAYERS
JUDY MACHI

March 23, 2018

You have our deepest sympathies.We pray in your behalf, and we look forward to the day when we will welcome back our loved ones on a Paradise earth. Psm 37:29

March 23, 2018

Ral:

Linda & I send our heartfelt condolences.

May he rest in peace.

Barry and Linda Lopez

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