Robert O'Reilly II

Robert O'Reilly II

Robert O'Reilly Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Sep. 23, 2004.
O'REILLY, II ROBERT FRANCIS Robert, 37, of La Jolla, CA, died Monday September 20, after a hard fought battle with cancer. He was a graduate of University of Wisconsin-Stout and earned his MBA from NYU. He excelled as a Senior Director for Elan Pharmaceuticals, was an avid golfer, and more than anything else, enjoyed his family. Preceded in death by his parents Robert and Capitola; grandparents Joseph and Margaret O'Reilly; Sara Thompson. Survived by loving wife Nilda and daughter Ciara of San Diego, Ca.; grandfather Arthur Thompson of Columbus, Ohio; sister, Cynthia (Charles) Felice, of Katy, Texas; brothers: Todd of Chicago, Ill., Timothy of Minneapolis, Minn., Tedmond (Mary) of Cedarburg, Wis., Terrence (Pamela) of Burlington, Mass.; nieces and nephews, Amanda, Christopher and Patrick Felice, Jacqueline, Brittany, Kyle, Meghan, and Katherine O'Reilly. Further survived by Lorenzo and Isabel Castilleja of Bakersfield, Ca.; brother and sisters-in-law Lorenzo Jr. (Paula) of Shafter, Ca., Irene (Victor) of Shafter, Ca., Noel (Donna) of Bakersfield, Ca., Elizabeth of San Diego, Ca., Linda of Bakersfield, Ca., Oliver (Jenny) of Bakersfield, Ca., Gloria (Robert) of Allen Park, Minn.; nieces and nephews Daniel, Samuel and Vanessa Aguilar; Amanda, Noel, Jessica, Joshua, Jacob and Alex Castilleja; Ariel, Stephanie, Marina, Santana Waters, and Emily Hand. Mass of Catholic burial Saturday, September 25, at 10 a.m. at Mary, Star of the Sea, La Jolla. Visitation at Pacific Beach Chapel Funeral Home 4710 Cass Street on Friday, September 24, from 4-9 p.m. Family requests memorials be made to The American Cancer Society and St. Jude Children's Research Hospital. Please sign the guest book at obituaries.uniontrib.com

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Terrence O

May 4, 2005

Bobby - tomorrow is May FEEEF - I wish you were here so I can call you first.. Guess I will have to yell it when I get up in the morning. I know you will hear me. Miss you and think of you every day, as well as Nilda, Baby Girl and your puppies. Terrence

Bob on his birthday, December 1, 2003. Happy Birthday Day!

December 1, 2004

Nilda and Ciara O'Reilly

December 1, 2004

HAPPY BIRTHDAY BOB! WE MISS YOU AND LOVE YOU VERY MUCH!

David Kaim

October 17, 2004

I was so shocked and saddened to learn of the tragic news. Nilda, my heart goes out to you. Bob was such a good guy. May you find the strength of spirit to raise your little Ciara, and may you convey joy to her when you tell her who her father was.

God bless you, and all of Bob's family.

Wendy Harrigan

October 16, 2004

Nilda, I am so saddened to hear of Bob's passing. I hope that all of the great memories you have will help give you strength during this difficult time. My thoughts are with you and your family.

Bob and Ciara

October 6, 2004

Diane Hawkins

October 4, 2004

Bob will be missed by all of us. Heaven has gained another loving soul. Bob lived his short life to the fullest. He accomplished much with the time given, and I'm sure the Lord is saying "well done my faithful servant".



My prayers are with you Nilda, Ciara and the entire family.

Sue Ogorzalek

October 4, 2004

Bob was one of my favorite people. He was such a good guy, had such a great laugh, and a great sense of humor. He never failed to make me laugh out loud. I still repeat his one-liners even though he told some of them over 10 years ago. They’re classics, and so was he. I feel very lucky to have been a part of his circle of friends.



I always enjoyed listening to stories of his family, and his friends from Stout. Bob put me on the mailing list for the O’Reilly family newsletter even before I met any of them. And, of course, there was Bert. Not too many men could carry off traipsing around the world with a doll, but Bob could. I felt honored whenever Bob entrusted Bert to me, although I was fearful of the consequences if anything ever happened to him. Thankfully, I always brought him back in one piece, and I have some excellent Bert pictures myself.



After attending Bob’s 30th birthday party (AKA Bob & Eric’s wedding), I got to find out in person what a great family and support system Bob had. I also got to meet Nilda, and found out why Bob loved her so much. I can’t believe how strong they both were through Bob’s illness. I admire them both so much. Bob’s service was beautiful. It was so hard, but touching and heartwarming at the same time. I’m glad I attended. I have shed many tears over Bob’s passing, but I will remember him in happier times with a smile on my face. My thoughts and prayers are with Nilda, Ciara, the O’Reilly clan, the Castilleja family, and Bob’s extended family of friends.

J. David Hawkins

October 2, 2004

As the O'Reilly Clan grew we all tended to spread out throughout the country and the world. The sad part about this fact is that we seldom see each other. The blessing of this is that the spirit, caring and goodness that we've been taught from our O'Reilly elders is shared with so many. Bobby was my younger cousin and unfortunately I don't have the fond memories of playing together as a child with him as I do his older brothers and sister. I do, however treasure the times we were able to visit as adults and seeing Nilda and their beautiful baby daughter, Ciara. May God bless and keep this wonderful family in His loving care!

Love and Peace,

jd

William Farndon

September 29, 2004

Bob was a friend and colleague who will be greatly missed by all those who had the privilege to work with him. As his manager, I will remember Bob as a man of the highest integrity and the utmost professional. He was an able manager who enjoyed the greatest respect of his team, which he lead by example and encouragement. But, above all, Bob was a friend who helped make my time in the USA an enjoyable and rewarding experience. My thoughts are with Nilda, Ciara and all Bob's family.

Kevin Fitzmaurice

September 28, 2004

It's difficult to accept the fact that Bob is no longer with us. Bob was one of those rare individuals that brought out the best in everyone, whether at work or at play. I cannot recall Bob ever being in a bad mood or losing his cool. I will miss his laughter and enthusiasm for life. His strength over the past year is inspirational to me. My thoughts and prayers are with Bob and Nilda's family. May Bob's strength carry his family over the difficult times ahead.

Bruce Pflieger

September 28, 2004

Bob was always ready to lend a helping hand when needed. He was the best person with which to share a joke and the first to get it. I remember the crazy times we had together as “housemates;” trips to Saratoga, Boston, Montreal, etc.; his trying to play Songburst with tunes written before his birth. I can see him smiling down on us in that knowing way of his. He knows that the fairways in heaven are a little wider, the greens are truer, and the cart paths are paved with gold. He’s the first one to get the joke and he’s waiting for the rest of us at the turn.

Bryan Monahan

September 27, 2004

I have always been told by my Mom that there are very few people who you come across in life that make a lasting impression on you, Bob was one of those unique people. He was always professional in his approach, knowledgable in his advice and honest in his intention. I appreciated his calming influence in some challenging business times that we shared. But the most lasting memory of Bob that I have is this, I was able to twist his arm one time to play golf when he was visiting our packaging plant. He used rented clubs on a course he never played and was receiving bad course management advice from me... and still shot a 76! When reliving the round later on in the evening over a few pints, Bob matter of factly stated, that he had a good round and did so with a big smile.



My thoughts and prayers go out to both Nilda and Ciara, Bob was a good man that will be missed by many.

Chris Arcovio

September 27, 2004

I can't believe Bob is no longer with us, but I am certain he is watching over us and smiling. We had so much fun together! Whether it was golfing, bowling, playing Pictionary, or just hanging out at one of Ken's Memorial Day picnics, it was always a good time. And when we met Nilda, we loved her just as much. We will miss Bob dearly and will keep Nilda, Ciara and the entire famly in our thoughts and prayers.

Barbara Perkalis

September 27, 2004

"May the road rise up to meet you, may the wind be always at your back and until we meet again, may God hold you in the palm of his hand."

and we shall all see Bob again but until that day comes, let us remember him with a smile in our heart. His smile and good humor made some of our days just a little better, his legacy lives on a little in all of us. He leaves a beautiful family that he was so proud of and another family at elan who was just as proud of him. In his memory let us not forget our families both personal and professional. What I will most remember about Bob was his love of family and that he always knew his priorities. He was a kind and gentle soul and I feel honored to have known and worked with him. My deepest sympathy to all of his family!

Maria Tinoco

September 27, 2004

I very sad to hear about the passing of a dear collegue, Bob. I am too grieving the loss of my father who passed this September to cancer. My thoughts and prayers are with all his family and friends. "Via Con Dios"

jacob Castilleja

September 26, 2004

Bob was the coolest person i ever met.He was also the smartest person i ever met. There arent any words to really express myself on how i feel about bob.All i know is that i would give anything to have him back

Juan Moya

September 24, 2004

I worked for Bob during his tenure at the Élan Miramar site. It was a great pleasure working for him. He offered me an opportunity to work for him that I will be forever grateful. He was a very intelligent and noble man and will be a great loss to humanity. I offer my deepest sympathy to you, Nilda, and your family.



Que dios lo tenga en el Cielo…

Mayra DeMott

September 24, 2004

I did not report directly to Bob, but often wished I did! When he was here with us at the Elan facility in Miramar for a short time he made such a possitive impact on us all. Nilda you and Ciara are in my thoughts and prayers, and I wish I could be there to comfort you during this difficult time. May God give you the strength you need, I am sure that Bob will look over and take care of you both.

Lesley-Ann Lawrence

September 24, 2004

What can I say? Bob was the best boss anyone could ever hope to work for/with. Getting to know him and Nilda exposed the true meaning of humanity.



Bob was a kind, understanding, non-judgemental, fun, overall dynamic human being...he will be definitely missed.



Bob, we'll keep an eye on your GreenBay Packers down here - they'll be my "back-up" team for the Dolphins!!



Maybe one day, we could still have our "Austin Powers" party...



Nilda, Ciara, and the rest of the O'Reilly family, if it is any consolation, you have one of God's best creations watching over you...my prayers are with you.



Eternal rest grant unto his soul oh Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon him, may he rest in peace. Amen.



Sincerely,

Will Tilton

September 23, 2004

Bob is one of the elite in our industry who is respected in each and every way. His knowledge, understanding, personality, and attitude was clear and honest. He is one of those people you are proud to know and say you have known.



One of my most interesting experiences with both Nilda and Bob shows the strenght that his beautiful wife has. Bob, Nilda and I were stuck on a Elan fishing charter with 6 to 9 foot swails. I got to know my new friend Bob by chumming with him over the side of the boat. However, Nilda not wanting to waste any time, was one of the few anglers with her line in the water vigeoursly tryin to catch the big one (right between us none the less). It was clear to me at that point that her strength and determination is very strong.



Nilda, you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Linda Telegan

September 23, 2004

I worked with Bob O'Reilly at Elan in South San Francisco and appreciated him as an honest, dedicated and hard working individual.

Bob was a huge Packers fan and he and I exchanged many friendly, funny harassments if either team were in the play offs or Super Bowl. He had a wonderful sense of humor. I still drink coffee from a 49er mug that he and Nilda gave me one Christmas.



I remember Nilda and Bob planning their successful wedding and the happy, goofy grin Bob wore in some of their wedding pictures, he had captured and married the most beautiful bride.



Bob's death at such a young age is terrible loss to his family and friends. My deepest sympathy goes out to Nilda and Bob's family.



Sincerely,

Jason Mullally

September 23, 2004

There are not enough words to adequately describe Bob in the manner he deserves. Bob was, and will always be my Mentor. Working for Bob over the past four years have been the most rewarding and meaningful in my life. I’m really going to miss you Boss.



I Pray for Nilda, Ciara and all of Bob’s family during this difficult time.

Cheryl Badaracco

September 23, 2004

I worked with Bob and Nilda when they were still at Elan in SSF. We were all in the same group, whom I supported at the time. Bob always struck me as an easy-going, kind-hearted person. He was happy most of the time and laughed often. I was so happy for Bob and Nilda when they told us they were getting married, but I was sad to see them move to Florida. When I received a call last year about this time from Bob, I was shocked to hear he had cancer. Bob was calling for advice since I, too, had cancer. I was heart-broken to hear the news on Monday from a mutual friend that he had died. Life will not be the same without him in it. He was truly a unique person. You do not come across people in your life that leave such an impact as Bob did. I feel fortunate that I had the opportunity to know and work with him. My thoughts and prayers are with the O'Reilly family.

Dr. Scot Wilfong

September 23, 2004

I knew Bobby through his brother Ted. It seemed they had a very special bond. I was fortunate enough to get to know Bob a few years ago during a golf weekend. I will always remember him as a smiling energetic young man enjoying life. The O'Reilly's as a group define family.

While Bob's time on earth was too short, all who knew him realize that he was a special person who gave back more than he received.

We all must trust our faith during these times of loss.

Scot

Donna Orozco

September 23, 2004

Nilda, I am so sorry for your loss. I was broken hearted to hear of Bob's passing at such a young age and will always remember him as sincere, thoughtful and dedicated.

Judy Lash

September 23, 2004

I worked for Bob for only 1 1/2 years, he was a wonderful boss. What a sense of humor and very sensitive to each persons needs.

He was so proud of Ciara and loved you both dearly. I'll miss Bob, but his great memory will stay with me. My love and sympathy to Nilda, Ciara and the family.

Jose Zaldivar

September 23, 2004

Bob was one of the nicest person I ever met. I enjoyed his conversations and his sense of humor at work. I still can't digest the idea that he won't be around. I would pray for his eternal rest.

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