Dr. Robert C. Wheatley

Dr. Robert C. Wheatley

Robert Wheatley Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Apr. 29, 2012.
Dr. Robert C. WHEATLEY (1925 ~ 2012) Robert Wheatley, retired Pastor, counselor, working in the service of others and their needs, passed peacefully at the age of 86 in Barrington, IL on Friday, April 27th - he is survived by this wife of 61 years Isabella and son Robert. He is remembered and revered by hundreds of parishioners at Boulevard Park Presbyterian Church in Seattle, WA where he ministered for 25 years before retiring in 1990. His life's work best described as a visionary teacher who inspired others in their relationship with God, while helping many families deal with the grittier troubles of struggling marriages, conflict between parents and their children and doubts about life's questions and uncertainties. Robert and Isabella met at church in Schenectady, NY while he was working as an electrical engineer for General Electric. They married in 1951. After returning to school at Princeton Theological Seminary to study for his Divinity degree, Robert briefly pastored at a church in Pleasantville, NJ before the couple ventured to Edinburgh, Scotland. There Robert attended the renowned University in Edinburgh earning his PhD in Philosophy, and produced their first and only child Robert. From Edinburgh to Princeton, NJ Robert began an eight-year period devoted to teaching Chemistry and Philosophy starting at the Hun School - a private college preparatory school where he counted the son of the King of Saudi Arabia among his students. He moved to a similar position at the St. Louis Country Day School - and while in the mid-West had a transformative experience that led him to re-enter the ministry. What ensued was an adventure founded entirely on faith and belief that he had been called to the church in Seattle. The family moved, belongings and all, before he had been offered a position - believing he would be welcomed and embraced by the congregation there. Robert began the zenith of his life as spiritual leader and guide to a community in need of strength and spiritual vision. His church office was a revolving door of counseling to families in need while he expanded Boulevard's community focus by creating The Way Inn, a home and real-world learning experience for young people. He expanded the church's reach and ministry through an out-sized commitment to support of foreign missions and missionaries. Following retirement Robert launched part II of his ministry, working as an advance scout and liaison with local Pastors for the US crusades of South American evangelist Luis Palau and his World Ministries organization. Family focus became a larger goal in 2003 when he and Isabella relocated to the Chicago area to be closer to son Robert, his wife Kristen and two grand children Peach and Heather. Robert's life in sum a stellar example of a brilliant mind in service of his faith and belief that a relationship with Jesus Christ would transform lives - eternally. Visitation will be held Monday, May 7, 2012, from 10-11a.m., at Davenport Family Funeral Home, 149 W. Main Street, Barrington, IL 60010, with a funeral service at 11a.m. Burial will be held at Evergreen Cemetery, Barrington, following the service. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to the Salvation Army, www.salvationarmyusa.org or World Vision, www.worldvision.org or Moody Church www.moodychurch.org. For information, please contact Davenport Family Funeral Home, 847-381-3411, for online condolences please visit, www.davenportfamily.com.

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June 3, 2021

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April 26, 2020

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John Allman

June 3, 2021

I hope this note doesn't come too late (June, 2021) to reach Bob's family. I knew him from a difference stage of his life. I was a student of his at St. Louis Country Day School, Class of 1963. He was a particularly important teacher to me because he generously sponsored me in an Independent study of Nietzsche and a group of us in one of Freud. I believe Bob had studied with Nietzsche scholar Walter Kaufmann at Princeton. I suspect that Bob's open-mindedness and generosity carried into his later ministries. I also carry a distinct visual memory of Bob. My carpool would sometimes pass him as he biked to school on Olive Street Road in St. Louis. He was our gentlest teacher, and one of the best.

Janet Cothrell

April 26, 2020

Pastor Wheatley was a spiritual father to me. His understanding and his intellect influenced me in ways that are myriad to contemplate. Glad to know he is with our Lord!

May 17, 2012

The loss of Pastor Wheatley is a great one to the world but what a joy and homecoming that must have been when he reached heaven and met his savior face to face. I have lost my Christian father and friend. I look forward to seeing him in heaven in future years. Isabella, Bob Jr., and beautiful grandchild - you are in my thoughts and prayers. My love goes out to all of you. Thank you for sharing Pastor with me for all these years. Sheri Russom

Gene Haury

May 5, 2012

In 1967 my late wife, Pat, and I moved across the street from them. When Pat became afflicted with major seizures, they were right there to help, visit in the hospital, and pray for her. They, and other members of their church were there to care for her while I had to go to work. They led her to The Lord. I am grateful for their love and support. I know that when Bob joined The Lord in heaven God said to him, "Well done good and faithful servant."

Debbie Wood

May 3, 2012

Pastor Wheatley was such a demonstration of the power of a deeply Christ-like life where the pure love and insight of the Holy Spirit was so evident even to people who only had brief encounters with him.

May 2, 2012

Thanks to Pastor Wheatley for his willingness to share his wisdom, kindness and encouragement. He was a great example of a servant of God
Janet Cothrell

Susan Holliday

May 1, 2012

Robert C. Wheatley was my spiritual doctor. He and Isabella were leaders of my high school group at Blvd. Park Presbyterian Church in Seattle back in 1965/ the first visitors to the hospital ICU after I was broadsided by a speeding car in 1969/ godparents for my two children/ and frequent encouragers through the next two decades.
When I was confined to a wheelchair and literally couldn't use a telephone to talk to anybody else, Dr. Wheatley was also my savior: Not once ever complaining about my calling him --both at work and at home-- around 8 days a week for years!
“Dad” baptized me, laid the foundation of my faith, shaped the person I now am, and (although I unfortunately stopped doing it for far too long!) was the person who told me to praise God for all the GOOD things in my life instead of grumbling about the BAD things.
I know without a doubt that I would not be the person I am if God had not brought that wonderful man into my life. It grieves me more than words can say that I will never get to see and talk to him again on this earth, but I am so glad he is with his Lord!

Jeff Heider

May 1, 2012

Great man of God looking forward to seeing him in heaven one glorious day

Jonathon Lowen

May 1, 2012

Mark 10:27. The verse that Pastor Wheatley gave to me has served me well. Great man.

May 1, 2012

Thank you Pastor Wheatley for mentoring Joe in so many ways at the Way Inn, for marrying us, and for your encouragement when you visited us in the hospital so long ago when our newborn had to face many surgeries to repair a birth defect. Your life inspires us to keep your strong, gentle and humble faith.

Joe and Sharon Gauntt

May 1, 2012

Thank you Pastor Wheatley for mentoring Joe in so many ways at the Way Inn, for marrying us, and for your encouragement when you visited us in the hospital so long ago when our newborn had to face many surgeries to repair a birth defect. Your life inspires us to keep your strong, gentle and humble faith.

Judy Rasmusen

May 1, 2012

Pastor Wheatley had a profound influence on the foundation of my life. I am eternally grateful to him for the love and dedication that characterized his life and impacted so many. He lived well, may he rest well, the world will miss him.

Bonnie Johnson

May 1, 2012

Pastor Wheatley was one of the brightest stars as I became a Christian. His tender teaching has stood as my standard as I went to find a church that I could attend as an adult. His loving kindness was his first and lasting impression. Welcome home Pastor.

Susan McCormick

May 1, 2012

I was fortunate to get to know Robert and Isabella at the later years of their lives at The Garlands. Their love for each other was obvious everyday. I never saw one without the other, having lunch everyday at their own special table, quiet loving conversations shared through a marriage that stood the test of time. Their love for family and the lord was obvious in everthing they did, truly two of the finest people I ever met. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Dave Harmon

April 30, 2012

I alway remember that warm compassionate smile that was so genuine . Always cared about how you were and encouraged me to go deeper in faith. The verse he gave me was Jer 33.3 and that verse is still so true today. He's true man of God who reached so many!

Karen (Pugh) Grace

April 30, 2012

Pastor Bob & Isabella were always such an encouragement at BPPC. The things I learned of the Lord while growing up at BPPC I have carried with me all my life and have taught my children, who love the Lord too!! "Thank you for giving to the Lord, I am a life that is changed"

Wayne Dyrness

April 30, 2012

Bob was a compassionate intellectual who was a humble man. I attended BPPC during his entire ministry there. He will be missed. My condolences and love to Isabella, Robert and extended family.

Bob Hannah

April 30, 2012

The verse Dr. Wheatley ascribed to me upon my membership (and to my life) was from John 15:16,17

16 You did not choose Me but I chose you, and appointed you that you would go and bear fruit, and that your fruit would remain, so that whatever you ask of the Father in My name He may give to you. 17 This I command you, that you love one another.

This has “remained� for 40 years now and counting!


Bob Hannah
Systems Analyst
Providence Strategic and Management Services (PSMS)
Renton Washington

Jim Cram

April 30, 2012

Dr Wheatley was, by far, the most influential pastor I have had. His heart for Jesus and his faith in follwing after the leading of God was exemplary to his congregation and to those of us who seved in internship positions at Boulevard Park Presbyterrian Church and The Way Inn. His heart was real, and his compassion was felt by many. He personally instilled in me my understanding of spiritual gifts in general, and my own gifting specifically, thereby leading me into my own ministry endeavors. I consider Pastor Wheatley more than a pastor. He was a friend, a mentor, and a father. I thank God for bringing him into my life.

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