Roderick Conover Lankler

Roderick Conover Lankler

Roderick Lankler Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Nov. 11, 2024.
Roderick Conover Lankler, devoted and very loved husband, father and grandfather died peacefully at his home in Tubac, Arizona on November 4, 2024. Rod graduated from St. Lawrence University (where he met his wife Barbara) and Columbia University Law School. Following Law School he began his accomplished legal career at the Manhattan District Attorney's Office, rising to become the Chief of the Trial Division. Rod thereafter became the New York State Special Prosecutor for the Investigation of Corruption in the New York City Criminal Justice System and Executive Director of the Liman Commision.

Following public service, Rod was a founding partner of the elite New York City litigation boutique Lankler, Siffert & Wohl. While in private practice he also served as Counsel to the Mayor's Advisory Committee on Police Management and Personnel Policy, a member of the Mayor's Committee on the Judiciary, a Commissioner on the New York City Commission to Investigate Alleged Police Corruption (the Mollen Commission) and First Deputy Independent Counsel on the Whitewater Investigation.

After retiring and relocating to Salisbury, Connecticut, Rod remained active in his church and community serving as Moderator of the Congregational Church, Chair of the Church Council, President of the Board of the Salisbury Visiting Nurses, Board of Directors of Rotary, Board member of the Salisbury Volunteer Ambulance Squad, Chairman of the Affordable Housing Committee and Chairman of the Transfer Station Committee among numerous other community organizations.

Rod is survived by his wife Barbara, the love of his life, his sons and daughters-in-law Andrew and Beth, Douglas and Jill, Gregory and Tracy and Stephen and Diana. Additionally, he had ten grandchildren: Bradley, Justin, Isabel, Hanna, Decker, Cassidy, Emily, Aiden, Kyle and Molly. In lieu of flowers, please give your loved ones large and lasting hugs.

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Marcy Kahn

March 15, 2025

Dear Mrs. Lankler and Family,

I am so sorry to have just learned of Rod's passing. Please accept my condolences. I was fortunate to have worked for Rod when he was Chief Assistant in the Special State Prosecutor's Office led by John Keenan. Rod was a mentor and a good friend to me, really a guardian angel, for decades. He encouraged, and I think advocated, for my becoming a judge. He was always a shining example to me of what is best in our profession, and I am so grateful to have known him and learned so much from him.

Sincerely,
Marcy Kahn

Jeanne Edna Thelwell

March 2, 2025

I´m so sorry to hear of Rod´s death. He was one of the people who trained me when I first went to work in the Manhattan District Attorney´s office. He was always available when I had a question and I learned an extraordinary amount from him.

William S. Braislin

November 26, 2024

In the 1950's, Rod spent his summers on Quaker hill in Pawling, New York. During the summer months his father, Dr. Ralph Lankler was the minister at Christ Church on Quaker Hill. Rod was a few years older than I was but I remember him well. We reconnected in 2011 when we worked together on the Building Committee for a new Transfer Station to serve the towns of Sharon and Salisbury, Conn. It was great to see Rod again. He was a kind, knowledgeable person who had led quite a life. Patty and I send our love to the Lankler family.

Bill Braislin
Sharon, Conn.

jack frost

November 15, 2024

I was very sorry to hear of Rod's passing and I offer my sincerest condolences to Barbara and his family. I will always treasure his mentorship and support of me those many years ago in the Manhattan District Attorney's office and always remember his great smile as he greeted me, saying "Action Jackson". God speed my friend and see you "on the high ground" Jack Frost

Joseph P Armao

November 15, 2024

Dear Lankler Family:
I am so sorry to hear about Rod's passing. I wanted you to know that he was for me a source of inspiration and someone whom I admired greatly. I send my heartfelt condolences on the passing of a remarkable man. I am proud to have known him.
Best wishes,
Joe Armao

Thomas J. Curran

November 14, 2024

Mrs. Lankler

I was most sorry to learn of your husband´s passing. Please accept my condolences for your and your family´s loss. Please know that you all, and especially Mr. Lankler, are in my prayers.

Much can and should be said about what a fine person your husband was - personally and professionally. To me, he was a gentleman. He was, simply, a "good guy."

Ave atque vale.

Tom Curran.

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