Roger Kenneth Alexander "The Shadow" Helmkay

Roger Kenneth Alexander "The Shadow" Helmkay obituary, St. Catharines, ON

Roger Kenneth Alexander "The Shadow" Helmkay

Roger Helmkay Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Apr. 2, 2022.
Peacefully, at NHS-St. Catharines Site on Sunday, March 27, 2022 at 78 years of age. Beloved husband of Brenda (nee Dunford) for almost 57 years. Dear Dad of Doug (Lisa), Kim (Norm) and Roger (the late Claudette). Cherished grandfather of Matthew (Catherine), Meaghan (Aleksa), Madison, Quinn and Chloe. Great-grandfather of Charlotte and Luka Teodorcevic. Dear brother of Gordon (late Barbara) and Jack (Geri). Brother-in-law of Steve, Wayne and Gail. Uncle of several nieces and nephews. Roger was predeceased by his parents; Walter John and Olive May (nee Boyle). Roger will be missed by his loving dog, Cuddles. Roger loved sports including bowling, umpiring and playing baseball. In honouring Roger's wishes a Celebration of Life will be held in the future. Memorial donations to HHS-Juravinski Hematology C-4 and NHS-St. Catharines would be appreciated. The family extends their gratitude to all the doctors and nurses that provided care to Roger. Arrangements entrusted to Considerate Cremation & Burial Services, 26 Nihan Drive, St. Catharines (between Lake Street & Scott Street), 289-362-1144.

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April 8, 2022

Jessie Clutterbuck and Jim Helmkay posted to the memorial.

April 4, 2022

Gordon Helmkay Jr. posted to the memorial.

April 3, 2022

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Jessie Clutterbuck and Jim Helmkay

April 8, 2022

So very sorry for your loss. Truly a great man, favorite Uncle!!

Gordon Helmkay Jr.

April 4, 2022

"Uncle Rog" will be so sadly missed by all of his many friends and family. His sense of humor would leave those around him, shaking their heads, and laughing at the same time. He was quite the character, and will be so missed at the family get togethers where he would constantly entertain his nieces, nephews, and all in attendance with his groan inducing sense of humor. Thanks for the laughs Roger! We're gonna miss ya Shadow!

Phil and Sue Wilson

April 3, 2022

Roger was always there for the players at the Grantham Optimist Club. His devotion to the kids and his efforts will be remembered by several generations of young ball players. We will miss him. Rest In Peace Roger.

Dennis Konkle

April 3, 2022

So sad to hear, He was a great guy and friend. Condoles from Dennis and Helen May god help in these times.

Ann & Jack Hutchison

April 2, 2022

Roger will be missed in the St. Catharines sports world . Whether at the arenas or the ball field. He was a home run on & off the field. A great athlete , a great guy. Our condolences to the family.

Robert Kent

April 2, 2022

Condolences to the Helmkay family from
an old Lightning teammate
Our thoughts and prayers are with you
Robert Kent and family

Ron walsh

April 2, 2022

Former player Lightning Fastner enjoyed monster homeruns sail out to Carelton Street. Winning championship.

Joe and Ruth MacNeil

April 2, 2022

Our deepest condolences to the Helmkay family.Lightning's ball team in Heaven just got a whole lot stronger.The Shadow's memories live on.

Don Betts Truro NS

April 2, 2022

So sorry to hear o the passing ofShadow.Was a great guy and my father Gig thought he was the best ball player my father ever coached.

Glenn Anthony

March 30, 2022

Rest in Peace Roger

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