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Maxie James
December 30, 2024
I just remember how smart and quiet RJ was and how he cared about his mother and sister..
Melanie Mixon - McClain
December 29, 2024
Our beautiful RJ, your name came across my screen and I had to stop and pause as I went down memory lane...Then I clicked the link to see your face and I saw your eyes and smiled... then came the tears... because I had to tell you, what you already know and that is just how much you are loved, missed and permanently placed inside our hearts. I saw your mom & Anthony earlier in the year and her smile and eyes continue to shine... but her heart is always with you. She is doing ok, as is your sister Alayna and loved ones, yet the spirit still yearns for what wasn't meant to be because God had other plans. Like my bonus-son Jawaun who gained his wings on his 23 birthday in 2010 due to an accidental drowning, I believe God chose each of you to be an example for all of the many children that had to make their way to heaven ... early ... so you could hold their hands and show them the way to paradise ... Both of you are wonderful examples of Gods Grace with an abundance of love and favor that was sprinkled over you, when you born, when you lived here with us and blessings that continue, now that you are singing with the angels. I also lost my mom this year, so this adjustment has not been easy... so my Dearest RJ, due me a favor and give my mom a big hug & kiss for me :) I am sure she will smile and immediately hug you back... tightly... and then send a wink and a kiss down to your mom, sister and me... As we prepare to move into this new year, please continue to pray for all of us on earth ( we need it) and we will continue to miss you, have a tear or two, smile, sing your praises, and feel grateful for the gift of you...because you are the ultimate gift of God's love... and that love will continue now and into eternity ... when we will see you once again and celebrate with alllllllll of our heavenly loved ones! God Bless you baby.... sorry this is so long , but as I get older, I become more sentimental...and my heart was full....Miss you RJ, keep smiling! Love you, always and forever, Melanie, Jay, Mommy in Heaven, Dad and our family... too (PS ... Just announced: President Jimmy Carter earned his wings today... he was a great soul too.. so expect the celebration to continue as he joins his wife and all of you! )
Also don't worry about your mom or your sister too much, we have her lifted up in ongoing prayers and with Anthony by her side, family & loved ones forever by her side, she will remain strong and joyful... plus she would have it no other way.... that's your mom and my beautiful sister Dena!!! :)
Deborah Love
December 27, 2023
Having lost a son of 37 yrs. we never forget and always carry them in our hearts. Best of God's greatest blessings to you, Ardena, Alayne, family & friends. With love from your "forever Sister-in-Christ" DL
Shandy Reed
January 10, 2023
My dear Soror Ardena, I just learned of your son's passing and I offer my deepest condolences to you and your family. Your Pfizer sister circle is here to support you in whatever way we can. You are loved!
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Maxie James
January 6, 2023
My dearest Dena, I´m sending my love and condolences for you, Alayna and your entire family! ..Blessings to you guys..
Heather Sell
January 4, 2023
I´m so sorry to learn of the tragic loss of TJ. Prayers for comfort for the family.
Kashif
January 3, 2023
Sorry for your loss. May your heart and soul find peace and comfort.
Melanie & Jay (Mixon) - McClain
January 3, 2023
Our Dearest Ardena & Alayna, my heart continues to break as I think of this devastating news regarding the loss of RJ. Through tears I ask that God continues to lift you up and hold you tight as you both try to find your way through this tragic time. Dena & Alayna you remain in our thoughts and prayers! And RJ as he watches from heaven, will simply nestle into & massage your aching hearts with love as he continues to hold your hands & guide you through this life with his beautiful smile .... now and into eternity... We send our love! Love always, your sister and brother, Melanie and Jay ( formerly from Anaheim Hills, CA) and now in Maryland.
Sean Sullivan
January 3, 2023
Ardena, Dear -- at a moment like this, my thoughts for you and Alayne -- and RJ in his eternal life -- are lines from a beloved hymn:"Everlasting arms of love, are beneath, around, above..." God keep you all - Sean
Deborah Love
January 3, 2023
Dear Ardena: I am deeply saddened for you, Alayne, Rachel Teel -- and other family members -- but also celebrate the blessing of your beautiful son's life. Wishing you peace during this difficult time. Good-by is not the end.....With love and hugs.....Deborah
Jo Anne Rolle Harper
January 3, 2023
Dear Arden´s, My heart breaks for you and your loss. Know you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Hugs to you!
Jo Anne
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