Rosalyn Chin-Ming Koo

Rosalyn Chin-Ming Koo obituary, San Mateo, CA

Rosalyn Chin-Ming Koo

Rosalyn Koo Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jan. 30, 2021.
On January 30, 2021, Rosalyn C. Koo passed away peacefully in her sleep, knowing that all of her family had been there with her that day. She was 94 years old. Known to many as Roz, she was a passionate volunteer, a fierce fundraiser, an inspirational mentor and role model, and a cherished matriarch. Born on November 11 in Shanghai, Roz was the middle child and only daughter in an affluent family. During the Second Sino-Japanese War, Roz observed horrors and levels of destitution that embedded themselves into her young mind. She vowed that she would one day "help the poor." She eventually graduated boarding school from McTyeire High School where she often got into mischief, even bribing her friends to eat up her poorly baked cake so that there would be none left for her mother to taste. At only 18 years old, Roz arrived in Oakland, California to attend Mills College. She soon met her future husband, Karlson Koo, on Market Street in San Francisco. During their courtship, she would often test his devotion by doing things like making him wait downstairs for their date while she finished her book upstairs. Needless to say, Karlson passed all the tests, doting on her and their two daughters, Debbie and Jackie, for their nearly 50-year-long marriage until his passing in 2000. As the Cultural Revolution made communication with relatives in mainland China sparse and travel back unthinkable, Roz's stay in the United States became indefinite. She eventually transferred from Mills (because she couldn't pass her swimming test), and finished her bachelor's degree in Economics at UC Berkeley. Shortly after the birth of her children, she joined the workforce in the 1950's when few women were working. Roz eventually became the Chief Financial Officer for MBT Associates, an award-winning architectural firm in San Francisco. She was the only non-architect partner. Every day of her professional career, Roz wore a beautiful traditional Chinese dress, to remind those around her of her Chinese heritage. She retired in 1989. Yet, Roz's commitment to community organizing and fundraising began years before her retirement. In the early 1970's, as diplomacy between China and the US improved, Roz returned to Shanghai and to her beloved high school, McTyeire. Much to her dismay, the school was in utter ruin and had converted to a co-ed school. Always the leader, Roz began strategizing how she could raise the funds to restore McTyeire to its original glory. Her plan included rallying her fellow alumni around their former principal, whom she brought to visit the US, and negotiating that McTyeire return to an all girls institution. Providing girls with quality education remained one of Roz's foremost missions. In 1990, Roz co-founded The 1990 Institute. Under the auspices of the Institute, Roz secured key support from the All China Women's Federation in 2001 to initiate the Spring Bud Project. This diaspora-funded project sponsored 1000 girls in one of China's poorest rural provinces, Shaanxi province, to continue their education, hired the teachers, built the schools and housed and fed the children. The girls chosen would have otherwise been unable to continue school beyond second or third grade. Through the Spring Bud Project, all 1000 girls completed both elementary and middle schools, 275 girls completed high school and approximately 200 went on to university, with a majority attending 1st and 2nd tier colleges in China. Many of these now young women returned home to enrich their villages through the skills and knowledge gained through Spring Bud. After the 2008 earthquake devastated neighboring Sichuan province, Roz and the 1990 Institute secured the funding to design and construct a new school in Qian Yang County. Led by the U.S. architectural firm EHDD, the new school was both green and seismically safe. Today, the school serves around 350 local students in Shaanxi province. Just prior to the founding of the 1990 Institute, in 1984, Roz joined Self-Help For The Elderly's Board of Directors. The organization served over 40,000 seniors in the San Francisco Bay Area, 90% of which were low-income and from minority communities. While with Self-Help, Roz spearheaded hugely impactful projects, including the construction of the 70-unit Lady Shaw Senior Housing, the 15-bed Autumn Glow Alzheimer's Care Home, and the 82-unit Lincoln Court Senior Apartments in Oakland. Additionally, Roz founded the San Mateo Senior Center in 1991 and the Millbrae Senior Center in 2018, providing meals, services, and multilingual activities for local seniors. On the day of her passing, Roz received the happy news from long time friend and Self-Help For The Elderly's President, Anni Chung, that the San Mateo Senior Center had a promising chance of a permanent home. The 1990 Institute/Spring Bud and Self Help for the Elderly were two of Roz's greatest legacy passions. Roz also contributed to many other shorter term endeavors that ranged from assuming the role of political campaign manager in a SF supervisor race, fundraising and organizing to support the reopening of the SF Chinatown branch public library and securing funding for the San Mateo Public Library's complete remodel. She also worked on and with the Sustainable San Mateo initiative, and, more recently, the Burlingame Music Club. In addition to her extraordinary community-focused life, Roz could be easily persuaded to enjoy a rootbeer float at the local diner or a movie theater hot dog. She loved the Metropolitan Opera and was an avid reader. She could name every movie star in any Turner Classic Movie and had a wicked sense of humor with a wonderfully raspy laugh. She would often clip newspaper articles that reminded her of her loved ones, to save for them when they next visited. Her more recent indulgence was sitting outside in the shade with a latte in hand. In later years, Roz became easily recognizable by the sight of her walker, cheekily referred to as the "Cadillac of Walkers," which was fully complete with fire breathing dragons on the sides—a tribute to the beloved "dragon lady" that she was. In one of her many award acceptance speeches, after all the applause and praise, Roz demurred and said that all she wanted was to be remembered as just "a little old volunteer" - that's "L.O.V." for short. But those who knew her will remember Roz as a fearless, tireless, and dedicated leader committed to making a difference in the lives of those less fortunate. Roz is survived by her two daughters, Debbie and Jackie, her grandchild, Sam, and her two sons-in-law, Dennis and Pete. In lieu of flowers or a service, her family is asking that any donations be made to Self-Help For The Elderly San Mateo. https://www.selfhelpelderly.org/

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March 27, 2021

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I first met Roz ten years ago, back when I was a college sophomore at Princeton. Roz took me under her wing and shared her own amazing life story with me -- one that I have never forgotten, and which I immediately remembered years later when producing a p

Stephanie Tam

March 27, 2021

I first met Roz ten years ago, back when I was a college sophomore at Princeton. Roz took me under her wing and shared her own amazing life story with me -- one that I have never forgotten, and which I immediately remembered years later when producing a podcast on immigrant voices. I knew she had to star in the pilot episode, not only because she was herself such a radiant voice, but also because she used her voice so powerfully for others. She blew my mind with her energy, generosity, and passion; she also supported my own journey as an academic, writer, and journalist with her great warmth and wisdom. She was an amazing mentor and it was an honor to know her and interview her.

She continues to be an inspiration to me.

With deep condolences for her family and community,

Stephanie Tam

I'm mourning the loss of a hero and giant in our community, Roz Koo. Roz you were a fierce fighter for women and girls, myself included. At your core, Roz, you were a catalyst for change. In your tiny frame, you were always the biggest one in the room - b

San Mateo City Councilwoman Amourence Lee

March 8, 2021

I'm mourning the loss of a hero and giant in our community, Roz Koo. Roz you were a fierce fighter for women and girls, myself included. At your core, Roz, you were a catalyst for change. In your tiny frame, you were always the biggest one in the room - bossy, brutally honest, and incalculably generous with an insatiable strategic mind.

Roz, you accomplished 10x what most will do in a lifetime, feeding the minds and bellies of thousands. During our last lunch together, you just happened to mention that you raised $30k the previous day for rural schools in the Philippines and eyed me asking, "So what have you been working on?"

I salute you Roz, you will not be forgotten, your work and vision will carry on. I promise not to cry for too long because I know that you'd tell me to stop wasting time and get back to work, keep climbing the mountain. I love you and miss you so much already.

Deanna Chan

March 5, 2021

We heard about the loss of your mother, Rosalyn Koo, and wanted to reach out to her family.
Rosalyn was the most caring, funniest, liveliest mother-hen to all of us, and was largely responsible for finding a niche for my mother at the Regent retirement community - on the lucky 8th floor, which is the same floor with Rosalyn. She was such a natural leader, always radiant and funny, with big ideas and a convincing belief that you will help her because the cause is so right! We miss her so much, there is no one like Rosalyn. We so treasure the laughter and the times we got to spend with her.

With deep condolences and with celebration of all the love that Rosalyn gave,
Andrea and Deanna Chan

Rachel Lu

February 27, 2021

My deep condolences to Roz's family. It is hard to believe Roz, a mentor, inspiring role model, and a dear friend of mine left us.
I was once told that Roz was raised and expected to be an Ambassador to her then homeland back in China. I would think she did fulfill the ambassador role above and beyond through her professional life and retirement. Her vision, wisdom, and most importantly, her love and devotion for the community improvement and advancement, re-establishment of her beloved high school in Shanghai, establishment of education program for the underprivileged rural girls in China. One life touches and inspires thousands- you will be truly missed, and may your legacy lives on.

Rachel Lu, Friend and Alumnae, San Mateo, CA, Feb 27, 2021

Gail Louis and Family

February 21, 2021

Our thoughts of Auntie Roz are filled with our love, admiration, sincere gratitude, and deep respect for her. Auntie Roz's legacy of lifetime accomplishments touched and inspired so many of us in so many ways. We are deeply saddened by her passing, but are comforted in knowing that her unforgettable passion, her adventurous spirit, and her boundless energy continue to inspire us all. We love you, Auntie Roz!

michiko Ibuka

February 20, 2021

Hard to believe Roz is gone... I worked with her on water conservation project at TPR, and she was such a good organizer. Her life story is so impressive, and the remarkable thing is that she is very approachable and personable. She was truly one-of-a-kind lady, and quite a challenge to follow her steps. We truly miss her... Love and Peace, Michiko Ibuka

Vicky Wong

February 19, 2021

I had the privilege to get to know Roz during the last few years. I called her the Madame of San Mateo! Although she's in her 90's, her mind was razor-sharp and full of smarts, what a formidable leader. With a heart of gold, her passion and service for the community moved mountains and yet she didn't think too much about it. I am forever grateful for her coaching, her sharing of her past, and her distinctive humor. Roz could be brutally honest, but always in style.

There's only one Roz --- Your legacy lives on.

Denise Romaneck

February 18, 2021

What a lovely and fulfilling life she led. My deepest condolences for the loss of your beloved mother, grandmother, friend. May she rest in peace and her memory live on in those who loved and knew her.

On behalf of the students and faculty of Young Chamber Musicians, we morn the passing of Roz Koo. She was a music lover, very active in the Burlingame Music Club, and a dedicated supporter of Young Chamber Musicians. I will miss her presence in the front

Susan Bates, YCM Director

February 17, 2021

On behalf of the students and faculty of Young Chamber Musicians, we morn the passing of Roz Koo. She was a music lover, very active in the Burlingame Music Club, and a dedicated supporter of Young Chamber Musicians. I will miss her presence in the front row of our master classes, and a highlight for YCM was a performance we presented for Roz and all the residents of the Peninsula Regent in 2018. Roz made every young performer feel special with gifts for each. Her dedication to young musicians at YCM, and throughout the Peninsula will be an impactful legacy. We'll miss you Roz.

John with Lynne, Bonnie and Alex Shen

February 17, 2021

I met Auntie Roz in Shanghai 40 years ago in 1981 when she and my mother reconnected after 30 years. They were classmates and good friends at McTyeire High School in Shanghai. At that time I was ready to go for my visa interview to study in the US at the US Consulate of Shanghai and Auntie Roz generously offered to take me to the Consulate office and furthermore, spoke with the visa consulate officer and assured the officer that she would be my co-sponsor along with my uncle if required. I successfully passed the interview and received a visa to San Francisco to pursue my college education.

She guided and supported me as I struggled through language barriers, cultural differences, and financial difficulties. I successfully graduated and became a professional engineer and later on was able to sponsor my parents and siblings to the US as well. We are so close to her family and we shared many cherished memories of Christmases together and as well as her fabulous 10-year running Chinese New Year Potluck celebration at the Peninsula Regent.

Auntie Roz taught me how to support other disadvantaged people and contribute to our community. She was a grand force, generating patrons for many fundraising events such as Self-Help For The Elderly and the Spring Bud Education Program. She cultivated incredible life-changing opportunities for so many girls from the rural villages in Shan Xi, China. Her life was filled with love, generosity and dedication to others. She is a positive role model to all of us and she continues to inspire us to carry on her legacy.

Auntie Roz will always live on in our hearts.

David Jew

February 17, 2021

Our Mom and Auntie Roz were McTyeire School classmates in Shanghai, China. Their lifelong friendship spanned over 70 years and included many family gatherings, celebrations and vacations. In so many ways, our two families grew up together and were as close as any blood relatives, if not closer.

I have so many fond memories of the Koo family including enjoying Auntie Rosalyn and Uncle Karlson's delicious dinners as a young boy; our unplanned and coincidental day trip encounter driving down on the highway to visit Monterey; our vacation (to Tahoe/Yosemite?) where Uncle Karlson taught me how to ride a bicycle; celebrating each other's birthdays, weddings, newborns, etc.; enjoying lunches at Little Shanghai with my Mom and Auntie Roz; the list goes on.

There is no question that Auntie Roz embraced McTyeire's school motto "Live! Love! Grow!". She was a positive life force and inspirational role model whose remarkable time on this earth will be marked by the thousands of individuals whose lives are brighter, better and bolder because of her help, influence and compassion.

I can only imagine (and hope) that Auntie Roz and Uncle Karlson are going out on a double date with my Mom and Dad...I can hear my Dad saying "Roz, what took you so long?"

David Jew

Bob Yee

February 17, 2021

My deepest sorrow on the passing of Roz.

She was my colleague, mentor, and friend since 1972. We worked together at MBT Architecture until she retired. We served 10 years together on the Board of Self-Help for the Elderly. We were a part of the team that help design and built the Lady Shaw Senior Center in San Francisco Chinatown. She was an honored guest at each of my three Grandson's Red Egg Party. She was the person I respected the most.

We had lunch together at the Peninsula Regent in late November, 2019. We had a great time together; that was the last time I saw her. Since then, we were in touch by email. I cherish the memory of Roz.

Frances Liu

February 17, 2021

Roz was a mentor, a friend and an inspiration to me. Roz touched the lives of many young people like me, with her care, her vision, her sharp mind, her generosity, her devotion to serving the underserved, and her great sense of humor. We made this slide show about how Roz helped us and these other fortunate young friends grow in our own fields. I and everyone in this video would like to share it with you, to remember our beloved Roz.

https://youtu.be/aCCvQSQhIgE

Valerie Hardy-Mahoney

February 16, 2021

Mrs. Koo was my earliest example of a successful working mother and woman of substance. Everything she touched flourished and she will be missed by so many. May she rest in eternal peace and love.

June Huang

February 16, 2021

Auntie Chin-Ming was my mom's cousin, and our families have been in touch for decades of years. When my parents visited US, they had spent precious time with Auntie Chin-Ming's family, and those happy moments were captured in photos as well.

I still remember when I first came to US, I stopped in Bay Area for 4 days before heading to my university. Auntie Chin-Ming invited me over to her house and toured me around San Francisco area. I was so impressed by the climate and beautiful scenery of Bay Area that I moved back here without hesitation after graduation, again Auntie Chin-Ming helped me when I was trying to settle down. She has helped so many people in her life, from poor students in China's remote area, to elderly people in senior center. She is a true role model and such an inspiration to all of us. Me and my family all have fond memories of Auntie Chin-Ming and we will always remember her.

Ynez Olshausen

February 15, 2021

I came to know Roz Koo as a fellow resident with my dad at the Peninsula Regent, and care to know and love her as a friend and inspirational mentor. My life is richer for having known her and interacted with her. I have been inspired by everything she accomplished in her life. She was a force of nature and a brilliant soul. I mourn her passing and celebrate the rich life she lived.

Brad Hyman

February 15, 2021

A true force of nature and an inspiration for all of us. Her daughter Debbie has been a special friend for 50 years now. So grateful to have been part of the 'family' all these years.

Richard Sheng

February 15, 2021

Roz and my mother attended McTyeire in Shanghai at the same time, my mother being a few years her senior. I'm not sure if they knew each other prior to that. Shortly after my parents emigrated to the SF Bay Area, I was born and Auntie Rosalyn and Uncle Karlson graciously agreed to be my God Parents. In 1964 my family moved to Hong Kong. I returned in 1967 to attend UC Berkeley. They offered to let me stay in their beautiful brick-faced home on Longridge Road in Oakland until a spot opened up in a campus dorm. At that time, Roz was working in the Architecture Department in Wurster Hall, eventually to become the Assistant to the Department Chair, Gerald McCune. That association led to her successful career at MBT. I would visit Roz on occasion to just chat or kvetch about how obscure Quantum Mechanics and Analytic Chemistry were and in no small part as a result of those conversations, I transferred from Engineering to the Architecture Department, embarking on a career that I immensely enjoyed. After graduating, I would call Roz on occasion just to chat or receive candid advise about the profession with the occasional joke thrown in. She was an immense influence on my young adult life.

Stella Wong

February 15, 2021

What an amazing life story. It is a positive, hopeful and inspirational message for all of us. Many thanks to the family for sharing her legacy with us. Wishing you much love and peace.

Lucille Lee

February 15, 2021

My husband Billy and I have known, and became friends with, Roz since 1975 (?) when we moved to the Bay Area. Way before Springbud, Roz was already dedicated to educating women. She had started several education programs, albeit smaller, for poor girls in China. Roz also had a sharp sense of humor. I remember receiving a call from Roz, in 1990, and the first thing she said was "Billy just called me, it can't be anything good!" (That's when Billy wanted to recruit Roz to join the 1990 Institute.)

Nancy Coon

February 15, 2021

What a wonderful legacy Roz has left us! I've had the pleasure of "knowing" Ms. Rosalyn through my friendship with Jackie. While I've heard stories, learning more about her demonstrates what a fearless fighter she was for the underprivileged and poor -- especially women! She was ahead of her time and her family must be very proud of her accomplishments. I now see why Jackie is the wonderful person that she is -- raised by a fabulous role model. Rest in peace Ms. Roz, you will be missed but not forgotten.

K J

February 15, 2021

What an inspiring woman! She accomplished so much.

Melanie Douglas

February 15, 2021

What a pleasure to learn even more about Ms. Rosalyn's well-lived life. How I wish I knew her beyond my relationship with her daughter Jackie. Her spirit lives on in her daughters and the many lives she touched.

Chris Angeles and Steve Cady

February 15, 2021

We feel very fortunate we got to know Roz these past several years through the Burlingame Music club. It was wonderful to read about all her work helping others and to see the photographs of a long life well lived.

Teri Babcock

February 14, 2021

What a beautiful and inspirational message of a life very well-lived. Sending lots of love to the family! (friend of Jackie :o)

David Louie

February 14, 2021

No one will ever match Roz's humanity, her passion to help others, and her remarkable ability to lead and to motivate others to support each project she undertook. She inspired all of us to make a difference. Thank you from all the people whose lives you have touched.

Judith Hirsch

February 14, 2021

I met Roz when she moved into The Peninsula Regent in 2001. We became friends and I had the privilege of having lunch with her 3 or more days each week since then, until the pandemic closed the Dining Club. She was always working on a project, often two or three at the same time. She was a formidable fund raiser but her talent was to bring in workers/volunteers to carry out her plans. She enjoyed going out to lunch with a small group to celebrate birthdays or going to a movie without caring what was playing because she went for the movie hot dog. Her sense of humor made her a good sport when she missed the point of a joke because of the cultural gap. But it was what she didn't or couldn't do that made her special. She couldn't cook or sew or shop. Her upbringing made sure girls of wealthy families didn't spend time in the kitchen. Fortunately, her husband was willing to fill in as cook and her devoted daughters did the shopping, bringing her new clothes when she was perfectly happy with what she had. The people of Self Help, the San Mateo Senior Center, and the myriad of other projects she accomplished may not know all this. She was Grandmother to them all. She will be sorely missed by all these beneficiaries. I will miss her

Edna Steele

February 14, 2021

Roz was so special, tender but plucky and wise. Several times when financial events in our music club baffled me, Roz would point out a clear path. I want to always remember her strength, no frivolous femininity for her. Her example of leadership is a precious gift to me

Anne Hinton

February 11, 2021

I so appreciate reading about Roz's life and am sure the depth of her work and character are hard to depict in such a small space. I always enjoyed my conversations with her and learned so much. I only wish I had spent more time with her

Leny Nair

February 11, 2021

Thanks for sharing Roz life with us. She's really a remarkable woman and happy to know her in the last few years of her life. Roz is really dedicated to Self-Help especially the San Mateo Senior Center. I'm sure she'll be looking down on us from heaven and guiding Self-Help for the Elderly. Thank you, Roz and you'll be missed.

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