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Valerie Campbell
January 1, 2003
My daughter and I knew Ryan when he started teaching us rock climbing lessons. My daughter picked him out as her instructor because he was the "nicest" guy at the gym. He was wonderful with kids and had a way of instilling confidence in my daughter when she needed it the most. He truly had a gift to share. He will always be an influence on my daughter's life. It is a great loss to us to lose him as a friend and teacher. I can't imagine the pain of losing him as a son. May God be with you and your family.
Jack Henderson
December 22, 2002
Dear Hartley family,
It was a great pleasure as the manager of TRG, to know Ryan. It was only a few weeks ago that I asked him,are you happy, cause I don't want to lose you,of course I was talking about the job, but that has been repeating itself in my mind countless times since Monday. The loss of Ryan had a profound effect on me as a coworker , I can't imagine what it must be like as a parent. This is very hard for me to find the words , but Ryan changed my life and I will be forever in his debt. Sincerely, Jack Henderson
Tre Banks
December 20, 2002
Ryan touched our souls, and opened our hearts. His climb was poetry in motion. While we wish he had found the tower summit he had higher places to climb.
God's speed - The climbing community at TRG will miss you.
Erin Bankhead
December 20, 2002
I am so sorry for you loss. I went to high school with Ryan, and was in choir and the musicals with him there. He will be sorely missed. My condolences.
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Ashley
December 20, 2002
Dear Hartley Family,
You are all in my thoughts and prayers. I am so sorry for your loss. God bless you all over the holidays and as you grieve.
Love, Ashley
Ann
December 20, 2002
Dear Hartley Family,
I remember the first time I met Ryan, it was at the TRG where I worked over the summer. One day he created this diagram on paper and as you flipped the paper over, it proved something. I asked him what he was doing, he said that this shows how time repeates itself. As he explained the philosophy behind it I knew that this person was extremely intelligent.
I also know that Ryan was a Christian, he brought this book to the gym one day and it was about Christianity and other things. After he told me about the book, I asked him if he believed Jesus died for us? His response was, "yes"
May God Bless you and keep you and know Ryan touched many many lives.
Paula Harmon
December 20, 2002
The Dash
I read of a man, who stood to speak, at the funeral of a friend.
He referred to the dates to be put on his tombstone, from the beginning - to the end.
He noted that first came the date of his birth,
And spoke of the following date with tears,
But he said what mattered most of all, was the DASH between those years.
For that DASH represents all the time that he spent alive on earth,
And now only those who loved him know what that little line is worth.
For it matters not how much we won;
The cars?the house?the cash.
What matters is how we live and love, and how we spend our "DASH."
So think about this long and hard?
Are there things you'd like to change?
For you never know how much time is left.
(You could be at "DASH mid-range.")
If we could just slow down enough to consider what's true and real,
And love the people in our lives, like we've never loved before.
If we treat each other with respect and more often wear a smile?
Remembering that our special DASH might only last awhile.
So, when your eulogy is being read, with your life's actions to rehash?
Would you be proud of the things they say, about how you spent your DASH
........I hopre you are happy and feel no pain any more............God has another angel now, watch out for your loved ones.
Christine Williams
December 19, 2002
Dear Kathy
I am so sorry to hear of Ryans death. It was on the Dallas news and I was so surprised to hear of this. My love and prayers go out to you and your family.If you dont remember me. I worked for you at your home on Valkeith. I was there when you brought your precious blessing home from the hospitol. I know I only knew Ryan in his younger years but even then I knew what a blessing he would be to so many people. Take care of yourself .
Katrin Currie
December 19, 2002
My thoughts and prayers are with you. May Ryan's precious soul rest in peace.
Sandra Harper
December 19, 2002
Dear Hartley Family,
My son, Nicholas Shimala, and myself knew Ryan very well from Exposure Rock Climbing. He was a wonderful, bright and thoughtful person who touched our lives. Our prayers and sympathy are with you during this very difficult time.
Steve Rosenfield
December 19, 2002
The Hartley Family and Friends..My deepest sympathies and prayers go out to all of you during this time of tragic loss. I dont know Ryan but I myself is sadened by this event.
Merrily Manthey
December 19, 2002
My deepest condolences to the Hartley family.
Rick Parks
December 19, 2002
What can any one say. My son always spoke very highly of Ryan. His attitude. His intelligence. His abilities. He considered him a good friend. Some one that people needed to meet. To watch. To listen to. Very strong beliefs, very strong challenges. You should be very proud.
Bryan Thome
December 19, 2002
I would like to extend my prayers and sympathy to the family and friends of Ryan. I frequented the climbing gym he worked at, he will be missed by many.
Caring-Houston Citizen@williamstower
December 19, 2002
For the family-Please know that Houstonians and many who work in the Williams Tower are praying for you at this difficult time. Ryan touched many hearts although we did not know him personally. May God wrap you in his loving arms during your time of sorrow.
Prayers and Love from us all...
Ronald Moore
December 18, 2002
Dear Kathy and Craig, Kevin and Joanna, Eric and Amy,
Ryan will be missed by the California relatives, Aunt Alice and cousins Marilyn and Ron Moore.
God be with you until the next family reunion.
Dick and Betty Tietsort of Sacramento, California will be at the funeral.
God bless us all in this time of sorrow for the loss of Ryan John Hartley.
Nate Rose
December 18, 2002
Mr. and Mrs. Hartley and Family,
I am deeply sorry for your loss and wish things had ended differently on Monday. Ryan was a friend and inspiration to me. I met Ryan five years ago while managing Exposure and have watched him mature into the strongest climber in Houston. Ryan was well respected in the climbing community and most wish they had half the talent he did. I will miss Ryan and the motivation he gave me in trying my hardest to keep up with him on the wall. He always set the sickest problems, with the hardest moves that most could never even begin to climb. He amazed me with his strength and skill on the rock, and I was jealous for his talent. I climbed with Ryan last Tuesday at S&B Powerhouse and only wish we would have known. We will miss him on Tuesdays and Thursdays there, but he is always in our hearts. Ryan we love you, and are happy you are safe in the arms of Jesus!!
Barbara Peterson
December 18, 2002
If we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so God will bring with Him those who have fallen asleep in Jesus. 1Thes. 4:14
May our Lord give you strenght and comfort in the coming days and know you are in my prayers.
Laurie Quates
December 18, 2002
Eric - your friends at WHR are deeply saddened by your loss. Our hearts and prays go out to you and your family.
Rosalinda Silverstein
December 18, 2002
That morning I heard the news on the radio I had to drive down there and see for myself. I had a feeling that he was going to make it to the top. When I got to work I heard the bad news. I am so sorry about your loss! I felt empty all day long. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family...He did make it to the top! He is with God.
Brandi Ainsworth
December 18, 2002
To the Hartley Family I pray that you come to peace with the loss of Ryan. I work in the Williams Tower, and we were all touched and effected by the incident that happened. He is walking in the arms of the angels above! My deepest Sympathy to you and your family!
Clay Bowman
December 18, 2002
My wife and I spent many hours climbing with Ryan at the Exposure Gym. We'll always remember him as a friendly and remarkable kid.
Whitney & Warren Wiener
December 18, 2002
Our thoughts and prayers go to the family and friends of Ryan. I hope that you may have some comfort knowing that there were many people praying for Ryan and his family, and that he was not alone.
Our deepest sympathy, A Williams Employee
Amber
December 18, 2002
I too, am an employee at Williams and I would like to express my deepest sorrows for your loss. I pray that God will walk with all of you to comfort and heal you through these tragic times. May your son, brother, friend, and our brother in Christ rest in peace.
Joan Whitzel
December 18, 2002
Dear Craig and Kathy,
My sincere sympathy to you and your family. May God be with you all and give you strength through this very difficult time. It only seems like yesterday when the boys were little. Time flies by much too fast. Your former co-worker and friend. Joan Whitzel
Marshall & Teresa Rorie
December 18, 2002
Words are of little comfort during such a heartbreaking time. We can and will pray that God will give you "peace that passes all understanding" and "grace" to endure the pain. We remember how proud you were of Ryan whenever he sang in SBS musicals and choir programs.It was evident how much you loved him. Ryan sang like an angel and he is singing with the angels now and walking those streets of gold.
Karen Barnett
December 18, 2002
My deepest sympathies and prayers to all of Ryan's friends and family. May God comfort you in this time of loss.
Karen Barnett
(Purchasing Dept. of Williams Tower)
Susan
December 18, 2002
To the family of Ryan John Harltey, my thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of such loss.
Geri Smith
December 18, 2002
Ryan will always remain in the hearts of the people here at Williams. Many of us were praying for him that day and will continue to pray for you and all his family and friends. May God give you the strength to get through the dark days ahead.
Williams Tower Employee
December 18, 2002
May God's peace be with your family and friends.
Robert Aanderud
December 18, 2002
My deepest sympathy and loving thoughts are with you during your time of sorrow.
Christal Lapaglia
December 18, 2002
Just wanted to let your family know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May God heal all of your pain and give you peace for all of the unknown.
Jamie Williams
December 18, 2002
-I do not remember Mr. Harley well, but I do remember as a child, I used to play with him while my mother would clean his mother's house. I want to express my greatest sympathy and wish his family the best in dealing with their loss.
Beverly Schorre
December 18, 2002
Dear Hartley Family,
May God wrap His loving arms around you with His Peace during this extremely difficult time. Please know there are countless prayers be lifted up for you...
Sabrina Hyde
December 18, 2002
I am an employee within the Williams tower. My deepest sympathies and prayers go out to his family and friends in their time of tragic loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers always. God Bless You All!
moniquica anderson
December 18, 2002
my deepest sympathy goes to the hartley family. may god comfort you in this most difficult time.i did not know ryan but may he rest in peace.
Frank Irwin
December 18, 2002
My deepest sympathies go out to the family and friends. No words can describe the feelings right now. I pray God heals your and our hearts. You will be in my prayers.
Frank Irwin / Williams
Terri Baker
December 18, 2002
Ryan was obviously someone who was destined to have a big influence on a large number of people. I work on the 26th floor. There are many, many here who are grieving with his family - as for a brief moment - he touched our lives as well. It is so comforting to know that he was a Christian. I am praying for peace for the family. And that you move through the grief and don't blame yourselves or dwell on "what-ifs." His Savior was with him the whole time. We don't know what God will do with this but we know he promises to bring good out of every situation. I hope it is some comfort to know that many of us were praying for him.
Cullen King
December 18, 2002
Mr. and Mrs. Hartley,
Our hearts go out to you at this difficult time. On Jan 13, 2002 our 19 year old daughter, Callie, who was a student at the University Of Colorado and an accomplished dancer, ended her life. We have lived with her death for almost a year now and remember very well the numbing pain and the unanswered questions after you lose a child. It is a difficult road to travel. If you ever would want to talk to someone who has been where you are, please let us know. We can be there to discuss our situation or just listen. You are in our prayers.
Cullen and Debi King
jody bustos
December 18, 2002
i work in the williams tower and just wanted to express my sorrow for your loss and offer my prayers to Ryan's family and friends
Beverly & Ron Powell
December 18, 2002
We are truly blessed to have been a part of Ryan's life. You are all family to us. We are grateful to have been included in so many of Ryan's wonderful musical performances and we smile remembering his practicing for them on some of our camping trips. We truly grieve with all of you. May God wrap his arms around you and grant you peace.
Susan Lovejoy
December 18, 2002
I am so sorry about your son. I only learned of him through his tragic death. I was unable to stop thinking about him, he must have been remarkable.
Heather
December 18, 2002
To the family and friends of Ryan, I would like to express my deepest condolences for your loss. I work at the Williams tower, and I am deeply sorry for your tragedy. You will be in all of our prayers as you go through this incredibly tough time. God bless you.
Heather
Cindra Jenkins
December 18, 2002
I am in the choir and my prayers are with you at this most difficult time. I will be praying for you and count it a privilege to sing with the other choir members at your beloved son's funeral.
With sympathy and love,
Cindra Jenkins
Cody Jordan
December 18, 2002
Ryan will be deeply missed, not only as a friend, but as a confidant. Nobody ever had a bad thing to say about him...being the person he was, an incredibly gifted climber with great enthusiasm which always seemed to wear off on those around him. Rest in Peace Ryan, our hearts are filled with prayers for you and your family.
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