RYAN WILLIAM WHEATON

RYAN WILLIAM WHEATON obituary

RYAN WILLIAM WHEATON

RYAN WHEATON Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Jan. 20 to Jan. 21, 2012.
Ryan William Wheaton formerly of Wheaton Ryan William Wheaton, 30, a resident of Oak Park, Ill., died Monday, Jan. 16, 2012, at home. He was born Nov. 17, 1981, in St. Louis Park, Minn. Ryan graduated from Wheaton Warrenville South High School. After graduating he enrolled in a semester of Outward Bound Adventures encompassing several western states and mountain ranges. He lived in Colorado and attended Colorado Mountain College and Western State College. He became the lead bike mechanic at Performance Bicycles in Lombard, Ill. He loved working with his hands and the physical demands of bicycling. His eventual goal was to return to Colorado with Jen and to be near his brother, Brad. He loved the outdoors, winter sports, music and attending music festivals. He is survived by his parents, Melissa and Walter Wheaton of Wheaton, Ill.; his brother, Bradford Walter Wheaton of Gunnison, Colo.; his significant other, Jennifer C. Williams, formerly of Dallas, Texas; his maternal grandmother, Marilynn J. Horner of Vandalia, Ohio; his paternal grandfather, Walter George Leonard Wheaton of Berryville, Ark.; his aunt, Mary Beth Gonzalez; his uncle, Col. Anthony Zell; and his cousins, Tony and Andrew Zell, and Trever and Dustin Gonzalez. He was preceded in death by his maternal grandfather, William Horner; his paternal grandmother, Geraldine Wheaton; his aunt, Cathlene Zell; and his uncle, David Horner and family. A visitation will be held on Saturday, Jan. 21, from 2 to 6 p.m. at Hultgren Funeral Home, 304 N. Main St., Wheaton, Ill. A funeral service will be held on Sunday, Jan. 22, at 3 p.m. at Gary United Methodist Church, 224 N. Main St., Wheaton. Interment will be private in Colorado and locally. In lieu of flowers, memorial gifts may be directed to Outward Bound, P.O. Box 62161, Baltimore, MD 21264-2161. Family and friends may sign a guest book at hultgrenfh.com. For more information, please call the funeral home at 630-668-0027.

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March 29, 2023

Daniel M. posted to the memorial.

November 8, 2021

Scott Keuer posted to the memorial.

January 30, 2012

Leah Kulczewski posted to the memorial.

Daniel M.

March 29, 2023

Miss you Ryan. Still remember the good old times we had.

Scott Keuer

November 8, 2021

Never forgotten. Put in a good word for me. Love and miss you.

Leah Kulczewski

January 30, 2012

Dear Melissa and Bud, Our hearts are so heavy for you and the entire family right now. I was out of town and just found out of Ryan's passing today. I still remember the cruise we all took together as a neighborhood and the fun our families had. I pray for strengh and love to come your way. Ryan is with his Lord now. May God bless you.

Doc Adelman

January 27, 2012

My thoughts are with you.

Alan Lerner

January 23, 2012

Bud,
Mary Kay alerted me to the passing of your son. So sorry for your loss. Your pain is every parent's nightmare. I only wish I could make it go away. My (and Anne's) thoughts are with you.

John Vander Wagen IV

January 23, 2012

Bud and Melissa,
Terri and I are so heart broken over Ryan's passing. We remember what a great love you had for Ryan, how proud you were of him. We will pray for God to heal your hearts and for something great to come from his passing. Best wishes to you all.
Love John and Terri Vander Wagen IV.

Kevin Nelson

January 22, 2012

I am very sorry about Ryan's passing. I had Ryan in class at Western back in 2001. I remember enjoying having him in class and working with him. I hope and pray for the best for his family and friends in the coming months and years.

Kevin Nelson

Mary Ellen Schumann

January 22, 2012

Melissa and Bud,
My heart is broken for your family. I am so sorry I was out of town and missed Ryan's funeral. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Love, Mary Ellen (Morreale) Schumann

Howard Feddema

January 22, 2012

Dear Bud and Melissa,
I am so sorry for your loss. I cannot imagine the grief you must feel. May God be with you and support you through this terrible ordeal.

Sarah Stuckenschneider Conroy

January 21, 2012

Ryan was a great person and will be missed among many groups of friends. I will always remember his contagious smile and humble attitude. May he rest in peace with all the others that have been taken way before their time. My prayers are with the Wheaton family and Jen.

Allison Cherry

January 21, 2012

My condolences go out to your family. Thinking of you at this time of loss.

Bob & Pam Cherry

January 21, 2012

We are so sorry for your loss and will keep your family in our hearts and prayers.

Joe and Karin Kramer

January 21, 2012

We cannot imagine the loss and pain you are feeling at this time and want to extend our deepest sympathy. Our thoughts are with you.

The Hann Family

January 21, 2012

We are so sorry for your loss. We have a lot of fond memories of swimming with Ryan at Arrowhead Pool.

karen grottke

January 21, 2012

I was so sorry and saddened to hear about Ryan's passing. He was a fun, friendly guy and a part of several group picutres we have from our kids' dances at WWSHS. My heart goes out to all the family. Keeping you all in my prayers.

Julie (Feddema) Neubauer

January 21, 2012

There are no words to describe the unfairness of the loss your family is enduring. No mother, no father should have to say a final goodbye to their child. My heart goes out to you.

January 20, 2012

We extend our sympathy and love to you. Ryan will remain in our hearts and we will keep you in our prayers. We are out of town or we would be there.

Bob & Mary Ellen Kolbe

John Vander Wagen

January 20, 2012

Dear Bud, Melissa, Brad and Jen
Even though we have been apart for many years our relationship with each of you is like family. We grieve for your loss and seek ways to comfort you but know that there are no words that can express the depth of your loss or deeds that can remove the ache in your heart. We can only now pray for you...and that we will do by asking that God help you through this time by granting you a measure of peace and understanding. Love, John III and Karen

January 20, 2012

We are so very sorry to hear of your loss. We send our prayers to all of you and hope you find comfort in loving memories. We regret that we are out of town and cannot pay our respects in person.

Don and Shelley (Moran) Kenyon

Merv Phillips

January 20, 2012

Ryan... You were one of the toughest guys i have ever met and such a solid friend. I'm missing you and having a hard time with grasping that your gone. There was no adventure to great for you. The world will miss you, I'm sure. LOVE...MCPIV

Mark & Cheryl Amos

January 20, 2012

It broke our hearts to hear of Ryan's passing. We pray for God's comfort to Jen and the Wheaton family during this sad time.

Mary Kay & Gus

January 20, 2012

Bud, Melissa and Brad, we were so sorry to learn about Ryan. As you know, Ryan held a special spot in my heart since he was a little boy. He had a sweet and giving nature and his smile was one in a million. God Bless you and eternal happiness to Ryan. Mary Kay and Gus.

Rose Ann Hatfield

January 20, 2012

To Jenn and Ryan's Family --I was so saddened to hear about Ryan's passing. I remember Ryan back to second grade when my daughter started Whittier. I worked with Ryan at HomeGoods, and he always helped me out and made me laugh. His smile was wonderful. He talked about his family alot, and I know he loved you all very much.

Dempsey Family

January 20, 2012

We are so sorry for your loss...our deepest condolences go out to the entire Wheaton family!!

Vickie Austin

January 20, 2012

Dear Bud and Melissa: Words cannot express our sorrow upon hearing about the loss of your son Ryan. We hold you in our hearts and prayers along with all of those in our Gary UMC family and beyond. With love and deepest condolences,
Vickie and Bill

The Hultgren Family and Staff

January 20, 2012

Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.

Gary Young

January 20, 2012

Jane and I are so sorry to hear about Ryan. We know he was special because Jennifer cared for him so much. With deepest sympathy

Mary Ann Stetler

January 20, 2012

So very sorry to hear the heartbreaking news. I have fond memories of both Wheaton boys through Whittier School and its' Cub Scout program. Your family will remain in our thoughts and prayers. Rest in peace Ryan.

Dave and Mary Ann Stetler and Family

January 19, 2012

So very to hear of your loss. Nothing can compare to the loss of a child. You are in our thoughts and prayers forever. Missy and Pat Cleveland

Alana Macary

January 19, 2012

My family and I were so saddened to hear of Ryan's passing. Hoping that cherished memories will bring you comfort and peace during this difficult time. Holding you in light and love.

Claudia Gerwin

January 19, 2012

Dear Melissa and Walter: I wept when I received Kathy's e-mail about Ryan's death. Lee and I pray that the Great Comforter shower mercy and peace down on you and your family.

Debra Ebetsch

January 19, 2012

So very sorry to hear about Ryan. I have fond memories of a talented guy in Jewelry class at WWS.

Pete, Peggy and Brian Hmelyar

January 19, 2012

Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time. Peace be with Ryan.

Judy Burnside

January 19, 2012

I am so sorrry to hear about your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Art and Sandy Hack

January 19, 2012

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts are with you at this very difficult time.

JJ Southard

January 19, 2012

Miss you, Ryan. So sorry to hear. You were a goid friend.

Betsy Ockerlund

January 19, 2012

Ryan, rest in peace my friend. I am sorry I can't be there on Saturday to say my goodbyes. My heart goes out to you and your family. You will forever be missed.

January 19, 2012

In sympathy for your loss,

Jon and Chris Noffsinger
Rebecca and Zachary

Nick McCarthy

January 18, 2012

My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

Cheryl and Jim Ferrell

January 18, 2012

You are in our thoughts and prayers at this very sad time. So sorry for your loss.

DEBRA WALTERS

January 18, 2012

So sorry for your loss. I will always remember Ryan and his great smile. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Sincerely,
Mike and Debbie Walters

Brandee "Holstein" Arndt

January 18, 2012

You will be missed.

Luke Adams

January 18, 2012

Ryan, you were always a good friend to me, and I will miss you.

Hollie (Grottke) Bourne

January 18, 2012

Really sad I will not be able to attend, but I want to express my prayers and thoughts to friends and family. Had many great high school memories with Ryan and he was one of my favorite people to run into after we graduated. Such a great person that was clearly loved by many and will be truly missed.

January 18, 2012

Know you are in our thoughts and prayers.
The Meuch/Hollingsworth Family

John & Bobbi Wheatley

January 18, 2012

With our heartfelt sympathy and caring,

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