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Daniel M.
March 29, 2023
Miss you Ryan. Still remember the good old times we had.
Scott Keuer
November 8, 2021
Never forgotten. Put in a good word for me. Love and miss you.
Leah Kulczewski
January 30, 2012
Dear Melissa and Bud, Our hearts are so heavy for you and the entire family right now. I was out of town and just found out of Ryan's passing today. I still remember the cruise we all took together as a neighborhood and the fun our families had. I pray for strengh and love to come your way. Ryan is with his Lord now. May God bless you.
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Doc Adelman
January 27, 2012
My thoughts are with you.
Alan Lerner
January 23, 2012
Bud,
Mary Kay alerted me to the passing of your son. So sorry for your loss. Your pain is every parent's nightmare. I only wish I could make it go away. My (and Anne's) thoughts are with you.
John Vander Wagen IV
January 23, 2012
Bud and Melissa,
Terri and I are so heart broken over Ryan's passing. We remember what a great love you had for Ryan, how proud you were of him. We will pray for God to heal your hearts and for something great to come from his passing. Best wishes to you all.
Love John and Terri Vander Wagen IV.
Kevin Nelson
January 22, 2012
I am very sorry about Ryan's passing. I had Ryan in class at Western back in 2001. I remember enjoying having him in class and working with him. I hope and pray for the best for his family and friends in the coming months and years.
Kevin Nelson
Mary Ellen Schumann
January 22, 2012
Melissa and Bud,
My heart is broken for your family. I am so sorry I was out of town and missed Ryan's funeral. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Love, Mary Ellen (Morreale) Schumann
Howard Feddema
January 22, 2012
Dear Bud and Melissa,
I am so sorry for your loss. I cannot imagine the grief you must feel. May God be with you and support you through this terrible ordeal.
Sarah Stuckenschneider Conroy
January 21, 2012
Ryan was a great person and will be missed among many groups of friends. I will always remember his contagious smile and humble attitude. May he rest in peace with all the others that have been taken way before their time. My prayers are with the Wheaton family and Jen.
Allison Cherry
January 21, 2012
My condolences go out to your family. Thinking of you at this time of loss.
Bob & Pam Cherry
January 21, 2012
We are so sorry for your loss and will keep your family in our hearts and prayers.
Joe and Karin Kramer
January 21, 2012
We cannot imagine the loss and pain you are feeling at this time and want to extend our deepest sympathy. Our thoughts are with you.
The Hann Family
January 21, 2012
We are so sorry for your loss. We have a lot of fond memories of swimming with Ryan at Arrowhead Pool.
karen grottke
January 21, 2012
I was so sorry and saddened to hear about Ryan's passing. He was a fun, friendly guy and a part of several group picutres we have from our kids' dances at WWSHS. My heart goes out to all the family. Keeping you all in my prayers.
Julie (Feddema) Neubauer
January 21, 2012
There are no words to describe the unfairness of the loss your family is enduring. No mother, no father should have to say a final goodbye to their child. My heart goes out to you.
January 20, 2012
We extend our sympathy and love to you. Ryan will remain in our hearts and we will keep you in our prayers. We are out of town or we would be there.
Bob & Mary Ellen Kolbe
John Vander Wagen
January 20, 2012
Dear Bud, Melissa, Brad and Jen
Even though we have been apart for many years our relationship with each of you is like family. We grieve for your loss and seek ways to comfort you but know that there are no words that can express the depth of your loss or deeds that can remove the ache in your heart. We can only now pray for you...and that we will do by asking that God help you through this time by granting you a measure of peace and understanding. Love, John III and Karen
January 20, 2012
We are so very sorry to hear of your loss. We send our prayers to all of you and hope you find comfort in loving memories. We regret that we are out of town and cannot pay our respects in person.
Don and Shelley (Moran) Kenyon
Merv Phillips
January 20, 2012
Ryan... You were one of the toughest guys i have ever met and such a solid friend. I'm missing you and having a hard time with grasping that your gone. There was no adventure to great for you. The world will miss you, I'm sure. LOVE...MCPIV
Mark & Cheryl Amos
January 20, 2012
It broke our hearts to hear of Ryan's passing. We pray for God's comfort to Jen and the Wheaton family during this sad time.
Mary Kay & Gus
January 20, 2012
Bud, Melissa and Brad, we were so sorry to learn about Ryan. As you know, Ryan held a special spot in my heart since he was a little boy. He had a sweet and giving nature and his smile was one in a million. God Bless you and eternal happiness to Ryan. Mary Kay and Gus.
Rose Ann Hatfield
January 20, 2012
To Jenn and Ryan's Family --I was so saddened to hear about Ryan's passing. I remember Ryan back to second grade when my daughter started Whittier. I worked with Ryan at HomeGoods, and he always helped me out and made me laugh. His smile was wonderful. He talked about his family alot, and I know he loved you all very much.
Dempsey Family
January 20, 2012
We are so sorry for your loss...our deepest condolences go out to the entire Wheaton family!!
Vickie Austin
January 20, 2012
Dear Bud and Melissa: Words cannot express our sorrow upon hearing about the loss of your son Ryan. We hold you in our hearts and prayers along with all of those in our Gary UMC family and beyond. With love and deepest condolences,
Vickie and Bill
The Hultgren Family and Staff
January 20, 2012
Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.
Gary Young
January 20, 2012
Jane and I are so sorry to hear about Ryan. We know he was special because Jennifer cared for him so much. With deepest sympathy
Mary Ann Stetler
January 20, 2012
So very sorry to hear the heartbreaking news. I have fond memories of both Wheaton boys through Whittier School and its' Cub Scout program. Your family will remain in our thoughts and prayers. Rest in peace Ryan.
Dave and Mary Ann Stetler and Family
January 19, 2012
So very to hear of your loss. Nothing can compare to the loss of a child. You are in our thoughts and prayers forever. Missy and Pat Cleveland
Alana Macary
January 19, 2012
My family and I were so saddened to hear of Ryan's passing. Hoping that cherished memories will bring you comfort and peace during this difficult time. Holding you in light and love.
Claudia Gerwin
January 19, 2012
Dear Melissa and Walter: I wept when I received Kathy's e-mail about Ryan's death. Lee and I pray that the Great Comforter shower mercy and peace down on you and your family.
Debra Ebetsch
January 19, 2012
So very sorry to hear about Ryan. I have fond memories of a talented guy in Jewelry class at WWS.
Pete, Peggy and Brian Hmelyar
January 19, 2012
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time. Peace be with Ryan.
Judy Burnside
January 19, 2012
I am so sorrry to hear about your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Art and Sandy Hack
January 19, 2012
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts are with you at this very difficult time.
JJ Southard
January 19, 2012
Miss you, Ryan. So sorry to hear. You were a goid friend.
Betsy Ockerlund
January 19, 2012
Ryan, rest in peace my friend. I am sorry I can't be there on Saturday to say my goodbyes. My heart goes out to you and your family. You will forever be missed.
January 19, 2012
In sympathy for your loss,
Jon and Chris Noffsinger
Rebecca and Zachary
Nick McCarthy
January 18, 2012
My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
Cheryl and Jim Ferrell
January 18, 2012
You are in our thoughts and prayers at this very sad time. So sorry for your loss.
DEBRA WALTERS
January 18, 2012
So sorry for your loss. I will always remember Ryan and his great smile. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Sincerely,
Mike and Debbie Walters
Brandee "Holstein" Arndt
January 18, 2012
You will be missed.
Luke Adams
January 18, 2012
Ryan, you were always a good friend to me, and I will miss you.
Hollie (Grottke) Bourne
January 18, 2012
Really sad I will not be able to attend, but I want to express my prayers and thoughts to friends and family. Had many great high school memories with Ryan and he was one of my favorite people to run into after we graduated. Such a great person that was clearly loved by many and will be truly missed.
January 18, 2012
Know you are in our thoughts and prayers.
The Meuch/Hollingsworth Family
John & Bobbi Wheatley
January 18, 2012
With our heartfelt sympathy and caring,
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