Sally Misao DeLaura

1936 - 2013

Sally Misao DeLaura obituary, 1936-2013, Oceanside, CA

Sally Misao DeLaura

1936 - 2013

BORN

1936

DIED

2013

Sally DeLaura Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on May 14, 2013.
Our dearly beloved wife and mother Sally Misao DeLaura passed away on Mother's Day, May 12, 2013. She was 76 years old and passed away at her daughter's home in Oceanside, CA from cancer.

Sally was born October 28, 1936 in Red Bluff CA, near Sacramento. She married Ernest DeLaura on June 20, 1954. Ernie and Sally traveled to many places when Ernie was in the Air Force. They lived in Okinawa, Oklahoma, Montana, Wyoming and then after Ernie retired from the Air Force they continued to travel to different states and countries where Ernie worked. Their last two homes were in Pueblo CO and Gilbert AZ.

Sally loved to cook, her delicious sukiyaki we will always remember. She learned to cook Italian food from her mother-in-law at the age of 18. Her Italian food was also delicious. Sally loved to dance, yodel, yes! yodel!, loved flowers and birds, especially hummingbirds, enjoyed writing every year at Christmas time to her family and friends, and also calling them to see how they were doing. She loved people. She also enjoyed reading, especially true life stories about people who went to Heaven and came back to tell their miraculous story.

Sally is survived by her husband Ernie of Gilbert AZ; daughter Cheryl (DeLaura) Dixon and husband Joshua of Oceanside CA; son Dan DeLaura of Pueblo CO, son Bryan DeLaura and wife Candy of Helendale CA; son Gary DeLaura of Gilbert AZ; son Chad DeLaura and wife Gina of Mesa AZ; eight grandchildren, Alexander Dixon, Michael Dixon, Taylor DeLaura, Brenden DeLaura, Tyra DeLaura, Darien DeLaura, Chad DeLaura and Ashlee Conatser; Six Great-grandchildren, Ethan, Wesley, Aspen, Audree, Ava and Alaina. Sally is also survived by Dawn Reitz and Missy Fredericks, whom she loved dearly.

She was preceded in death by her parents, Bunjiro and Jun Hironaka, four brothers Fumio, Richard (Kyoto), George (Sueyo) and Kochi; three sisters Betty (Sumiko), Ruby (Teruko) and Sue. Sally is survived by her brother Jim (Minoru) and her sister Mary (Tamako).

Cremation has taken place under the direction of Eternal Hills in Oceanside CA. A memorial will take place on June 29th at Saint Mary Magdelene Catholic Church in Gilbert AZ. And afterwards, a memorial reception will take place at the home of Gary DeLaura in Mesa AZ.

Sally wanted all to know to love each other and forgive each other. She had a beautiful heart for the Lord.

Sally speaking to her son Chad DeLaura the night she passed away, in his dream:
"Mom came to me in a dream last night. She told me not to cry & she said she spoke to God & He was soft spoken & kind & that God said that there's nothing anyone could have done about the cancer. It was meant to be. It was fate. I asked her if Heaven was wonderful. She said Heaven was beautiful & she was happy. She didn't want me to worry or be sad about her, that she knows I miss her & love her so much & she loves me very much too & everything is going to be okay. She kissed me on the forehead & it was the weirdest thing, I could see her face, she looked younger, maybe 40ish, then she said she had something important to tell me, to get a pen and paper or remember it and she started to say 100 and I woke up crying and she didn't get to tell me what was so important."

-- Mom passed away May 12, 2013 - Mother's Day. She was a wonderful loving, kind, patient, understanding Mother. She is still with us, in our hearts. We will all see her again.

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Mom, Michael & Brenden

Cheryl Dixon

May 17, 2018

Mom & Justice

Cheryl Dixon

May 17, 2018

Mom Cheryl Dan Bryan - Okinawa

Cheryl Dixon

May 17, 2018

Cheryl Dixon

May 12, 2018

Cousins Michael & Brenden & Grandma Sally, Pueblo West CO

Cheryl DeLaura Dixon

October 28, 2016

Today I am remembering you Mom on October 28, 2016. Today would have been your 80th birthday. Dad is 84! He always tells me how much he misses you. He asks God to allow him to see you in Heaven when he passes away. I still have some of your things and I can smell your fragrance in them. I am reminded by you every day of the ring you had that matched my wedding earrings. I hear you in my heart, telling me things like, "Look nice for your husband every day; put your makeup on." :) I love you Mom. Thank you for guiding me along in life. I will see you again and it will be a joyous reunion! Josh & I will remember you today on your birthday and your kind humble love for us and our children. Love, Your Daughter Cheryl

Cheryl DeLaura Dixon

May 13, 2014

On this day last year May 12, 2013, Mother's Day, mother passed away, at 8:51 pm. She passed away peacefully. Mom, I can't believe you've been in Heaven for a year. I am looking forward to hearing what you have been doing. I love you Mom. I will see you in Heaven. Love, Your Daughter Cheryl

Cheryl DeLaura Dixon

May 12, 2014

On May 10th, 2013 last year Mom did not really wake up. Around 8 a.m. the caregiver Diane said to me with a startled face, "Did you feel that?!" I said, "Feel what?" Diane said she felt a strong cold gust of air behind her back. I told her I didn't feel it. No windows were open & no fans were on. I told Diane it must have been Mom's Guardian Angel. Diane said she had never experienced anything like it before. I was told later that the cold gust of air was probably mother's spirit saying goodbye or hugging Diane. Mom loved Diane. Mom tried to open her eyes 3 times when Grace came around 9 am. Grace was always so cheerful with Mom. She was Mom's favorite caregiver. Grace cheerfully said Good Morning Mama! Grace always called mother Mama. And Mom tried to open her eyes 3 times but could not speak. For the second day now Mom has oxygen through 2 tiny tubes in her nostrils to help her breath comfortably. Mom seems to be in peace.

Cheryl DeLaura Dixon

May 12, 2014

On May 9, 2013 of last year Mom slept most of the day. This was the 1st day she could not talk well to Dad. She just said to him with a weak voice, "Love you, love you, love you." She spoke to Dad every day, 2 or 3 times a day all the days she was at my home. Mom is still clutching her Angel mirror. Mom said she saw 1 dove today. She said the doves were a blessing from God. She had been seeing doves in my backyard and to the side window where her bed was.

Cheryl DeLaura Dixon

May 12, 2014

On May 8, 2013 last year, the Hospice Chaplain Kwong came to see Mom for the 3rd & last time. He gave Mom a blessing with oil on her forehead. Me, Grace Hernandez (caregiver) & Diane Castanino (caregiver) witnessed it. Chaplain Kwong prayed with mother. She loves him & truly felt at peace & so comfortable with him. He was so soft spoken, kind & humble. When mother saw him for the 1st time, she said he reminded her of her brother George (Sueyo) & then slowly touched the side of his face with her hand. So beautiful.

Cheryl DeLaura Dixon

May 12, 2014

On May 5, 2013 last year Mom was asleep most of the day for the 2nd day in a row. She said to me today, "Cheryl, fix my hair." I smiled inside. It made me so happy to hear her say that to me, because she was in & out of reality. Anna the caregiver & I rubbed Mom's feet throughout the day to circulate her blood. Anna was such a good foot massager. I appreciated Anna so much. She was from Visiting Angels & such a loving person.

Cheryl DeLaura Dixon

May 12, 2014

On May 4, 2013 last year Mom spoke to her girlfriend Maggie who went to school with Mom when she was young & they kept in touch all these years. Mom also spoke to Lowell, Gary's best friend from Cheyenne.

Cheryl DeLaura Dixon

May 2, 2014

Today is May 2, 2014. On this day last year May 2, 2013 Mom said God touched her right arm, underneath it, just for a moment. Also, Mom said there was a warm feeling in her left calf.

Cheryl DeLaura Dixon

May 2, 2014

On April 30, 2013, 1 year ago, Mom said she saw an Angel in the morning.

Cheryl DeLaura Dixon

April 29, 2014

On this day last year April 29, 2013 Mom said she saw an Angel at night. I remember 2 birthday parties Mom had for me on April 29th. One was in Altus OK where we lived on the Air Force Base. She set up tables in the garage & had all my girlfriends over. The other was a birthday party in Great Falls MT with my girlfriends & some boys too. We had hot dogs & fixings & we all danced. It was so much fun. Such wonderful memories for a mother who took the time to make me happy & my friends too. Mom was such a giving person.

Cheryl DeLaura Dixon

April 24, 2014

Today is April 24th 2014 and it will be almost 1 year since Mom went to Heaven. On this day last year, April 24th 2013, Mom said she saw a light from God on top of her heart.

Ernie DeLaura

April 23, 2014

Thank you for loving me Sally. I loved you very much. It is such a great loss. You took such good care of me. You were a wonderful, loving, patient, understanding & forgiving wife. A great cook, learning Italian cooking from my mother when you were only 18 years old. I loved your kind & humble demeanor, your great sense of humor, your smile. You had a compassionate heart for those less fortunate. You loved talking to old people. I miss you dearly. It's hard & I thank God for you Mom & all you did for me. I hope God let's me see you again.

Taylor DeLaura

June 24, 2013

I will always remember coming over to your house in Colorado for big traditional Italian dinners or your famous sukiyaki. Or being a little kid at the house in Phoenix and you showing me your kung fu skills. I'll always remember all the stories you told me about your parents and childhood for my school projects. And I'll always remember how meticulous you were about cleaning and cooking. Haha like how you used to dry the paper towels you used on the trash can before throwing them away. I'll remember a thousand little details and things you did.

I love you and miss you very much. I can't imagine how hard those last few months were, but I'm glad we were able to talk on the phone those last two weeks.

I hope one day I am half the mother and grandmother you were.

Vincent Palazzolo

May 28, 2013

Dan, Gary, Bryan, and Cheryl your mother was the most kindest and loving person. She always greeted me with the warmest welcome and smile. She was truly sincere and gracious. She will be missed by all. God bless her.

Cherie Baker

May 25, 2013

Our deepest condolences to all the family. Although we never met I always felt like we did through Cheryl's loving words of how you raised the kids, how strong you were as a person and in faith and we would share a laugh to learn from you how we would need to grow as mothers and woman to be respected as well. Bless you and your family and Prayers so all will know Time Heals the Broken Hearted and She is Smiling Down on all of you in Peace With God!

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Bryan & Candy DeLaura

May 24, 2013

Mom it's been 2 weeks since
God and His Angels called you away.
Oh how the Angels rejoiced as you walked
through those Pearly Gates that day.

Mom when they said you were going to die
I refused to believe it could be true.
How could I allow myself to even
imagine saying goodbye to you?

Mom you were an Angel here on earth
I learned so very much from you.
You were so gentle and so kind your
Smile would always see me through.

You taught me how to love unconditionally
and how to be my very best in all I do.
You gave your all to God and your family
never once stopping to think about you.

You were more than a mother you were my
Best friend and a great listener too.
Oh how I miss our special talks, and
all the fun things we used to do.

Mom I can never say goodbye to you,
Because I could never bear the pain.
Instead I say I love you Mom
until we meet again.
The beautiful picture is how you will be
remembered.
You're Son, Bryan Dee
You're Daughter in-law, Candy Dee

Kim Jaynes

May 23, 2013

Today is a celebration of life as you go into a place of peace and joy. Oh my gracious Aunt Sally, how we shared such great stories and laughs. You will be greatly missed here on earth but you will never be forgotten. I love you, Aunt Sally

I miss you mom

Danny DeLaura

May 23, 2013

Mom,
What can I say, you were an exceptional lady, always putting everybody ahead of you. You raised us with your kindness and taught us how to love each other. I miss your love mom, you were the kindest person I have ever known, and you didn't have a mean bone in your body. You treated everyone with heart felt respect, everybody. I felt so bad for you these last 8 months, you did not deserve that. You put up with so, so much and you never complained. You were so strong to the end, such a great, great woman, you will be extremely missed by all of us whose lives you touched. Miss you dearly mom, and I will keep talking to you every night. I will see you in the future.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ccCnL8hArW8

Danny

May 20, 2013

"For our dear cousins, Cheryl, Dan, Bryan, Gary and Uncle Ernie, we are sending you our love and heartfelt sympathy. Your Mom always made us feel so welcome during our visits....she was always someone you wanted to be near.....we were always touched by her kindness, gentleness, and sweet sense of humor. Such lovely memories of a loving mother, grandmother and aunt we will hold dear to our hearts." With much love always, Annette and Bill

May 20, 2013

Goodbye dear friend of almost 50 years. I so remember the first time we met in February of 1965 where we lived across from each other on Walnut Street at Malmstroem AFB. God is holding you in the palm of His hand. Love and blessings to your dear family, Heide Massey-Reed.

Lance DeLaura

May 20, 2013

Our most sincere condolences to you Uncle Ernie, Cheryl, Danny, Brian and Chad. Aunt Sally was a very special woman that gave us all much to admire, respect and love.

-Lance, Jeannie, Ian and Chloe DeLaura

Mark, Robin, Chris, Alycia Librie

May 20, 2013

All of your Hawaiian Ohana (family) send our deepest condolances and Aloha (love) to Uncle Ernie, Cousins, Cheryl, Danny, Brian, Gary, and Chad, Aunt Sally was a kind, loving, compassionate, patient, woman. She was a great wife and mother, and a wonderful auntie. She has moved on to a paradise, and we will meet again.

Mark, Robin, Chris, Alycia Librie

May 20, 2013

All of your Hawaiian Ohana (family) send our deepest condolances and Aloha (love) to Uncle Ernie, Cousins, Cheryl, Danny, Brian, Gary, and Chad, and all of your familys. Aunt Sally was always a good, kind, patient soul, who is now in Heaven. We will meet again.

Steven & AnnMarie De Laura

May 20, 2013

Our deepest condolences to Uncle Ernie, and all our Cousins. I know for certain that we never lose the people we love, even to death. They continue to participate in every act, thought and decision we make. Their love leaves an indelible imprint in our memories. We find comfort in knowing that our lives have been enriched by having shared their love, support and kindness. Over the years when ever I thought of Uncle Ernie and Aunt Sally her smile has always stood out in my memories.

All Our love Steve and AnnMarie De Laura

Cheryl DeLaura Dixon

May 19, 2013

Thank you Lord for mother. She taught me about true love from the heart & about forgiveness. She wanted all who knew her to remember the good memories, to love one another & to forgive one another. Mother persevered through her suffering, especially in her last days. She never once complained about her illness. Mom said she wanted to see God. The night she passed away she appeared to Chad in a dream. She told him she has seen God & that he was soft spoken & kind. There is more to the dream, but I will let Chad tell you the rest. It was a beautiful dream. Mom, you have seen God !!! While we miss you very much, we rejoice in the knowledge that you are with God & Jesus in Paradise.

"Blessed are the pure in heart, for they will see God." --Matthew 5:8

Cheryl DeLaura Dixon

May 19, 2013

Lord, thank you for mother. She taught me about true love from the heart & about forgiveness. Mom wanted all who knew her to remember the good memories, to love one another & to forgive one another. Mom persevered through her suffering, especially in her last days. She remained faithful to God, never once complaining about her illness. Her strength was a source of great inspiration to me and her hope was to see God. Praise & glory to the Lord. You are finally at peace.

Blessed are the pure in heart, for they will see God. -- Matthew 5:8.

-- Mom passed away May 12, 2013 at 8:51 p.m., Mother's Day.

Susan & Eddie Costanza

May 19, 2013

The few times we saw Aunt Sally & Uncle Ernie over the years because of distance, were more than enough to give us a sense of warmth and family. We will miss her.
Memories of love and family are treasures to carry with you always.
Love, Susan, Eddie, Jamison & Raymond Costanza

Bing Lee

May 19, 2013

It is so true that you can't judge a person by her size. Miss Sally was such a strong lady with a big heart. She was so sweet, generous, and forgiving. You will be sorely missed. Enjoy your peaceful eternal life with The Lord!

May 19, 2013

Mom i will miss you more than anyone could imagine we talked every morning and will miss our talks you were the best mom wife friend to all of us you didnt have a mean bone in your body you went through life always smiling and laughing until the end i love you mom xoxo

Donna Sodero Nielsen

May 19, 2013

Heartfelt condolences to Uncle Ernie and my cousins. Aunt Sally was a special lady I will always remember. She was one of the sweetest, kindest people I have ever known, who weathered life with grace and patience. I will miss her letters and her thoughtfulness in always remembering me. I know she is with her and our family in a better place and at peace.~ With love, Donna

Kathy Palazzolo-Castellucci

May 15, 2013

Aunt Sally will always be special in my heart. She was a wonderful lady.

Dawn Reitz

May 15, 2013

You enriched my children's lives with your kindness, your smile and your love. We love you and will miss you terribly. ~Dawn Reitz

Brian Bates

May 14, 2013

Gary
I am very sorry for your loss but from the sounds of us the Heavens gained yet another Angel. God Bless You and your entire family.

Janice Hironaka

May 14, 2013

She taught me how to be a lady and a strong woman. Thank you Auntie Sally!

Love you Mom xoxo

Gary DeLaura

May 14, 2013

Gary DeLaura

May 14, 2013

Mom you were the best wife mother friend in the world im so thankful to have you as my mother you raised me and made me into the person i am today and i will continue to pass those traits on. I will always remember the good times me and you had together you made me happy when i was sad when i was sick you cured me when i was upset you cheered me up i know your smiling down on all of us Love you Mom xoxo

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