Sandra A. "Sandy" Deckman

Sandra A. "Sandy" Deckman obituary

Sandra A. "Sandy" Deckman

Sandra Deckman Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on May 13, 2016.


Sandra 72, of Sequim died on May 9, 2016, in Seattle, Washington, after a lengthy fight with cancer.

She was born in St. Paul, Indiana, to John and Doris Vanarsdall, graduated from St. Paul High School and later received her Bachelor of Science in nursing from Evansville College (University of Evansville now).

In 1967, she was married to James M. Deckman at St. Paul Christian Church. They have two children and five grandchildren.

Sandy had a career in nursing that spanned obstetrics, kidney research, pediatrics and occupational health. She earned her Certified Occupational Health Nurse certificate while employed at Delta Airlines in Atlanta, Georgia.

She finished her career at Delta by becoming a flight attendant, serving until just after 9/11. Her second career was dental assisting in her husband's dental practice both in Georgia and Washington state.

Gardening was her most-loved hobby, followed closely by golf. She became a Master Gardener in Clallam County in 2009 and had attained 500 volunteer hours.

Sandy was a member of the Lady Niners at Cedars of Dungeness golf course.

She leaves her beloved husband, Jim; a daughter, Jill (Deckman) Cooper of Ballard, Washington, and grandson Dylan and granddaughter Lila; a son, Drew, and his wife, Paulina, and granddaughter Matilda of Valle de Guadalupe, Baja, Mexico; two grandsons, Samuel and Philip Deckman, both of Berlin, Germany; and younger brother Glen Vanarsdall and his wife, Edie, of Indianapolis, Indiana.

She was predeceased by her older brother, Robert of Johnson Valley, California.

The family suggests that Sandy can be honored by making a donation to the Clallam County Master Gardener Foundation, P.O. Box 1596, Sequim, WA 98382.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

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June 5, 2016

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May 17, 2016

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Karen Johnson

June 5, 2016

Jim, you do not know me, but I knew Sandy from Delta Women's Golf Tournaments. We played together many times all around the system. I so enjoyed her company, our memories of laughing, her stories and definite wisdom and encouragement when playing golf. My prayers go out to you and your family. RIP. Karen C Johnson retired Delta Flight Attendant

Renee Slaton

May 31, 2016

Jim, so sorry to hear of Sandy's passing. May you find Peace and Comfort in our Blessed Lord and in your family and friends. You will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.

John Crosby

May 17, 2016

Sandy was a beautiful lady! Knew her since age 5 ,held hands on the front porch, my first girlfriend and too many great memories in school to remember. Rest in peace....

Judy Helvig

May 17, 2016

So sorry to hear of your wife's passing. Thinking of you and your family at this time. Prayers said.

Helen Caradine Biancani

May 13, 2016

So sorry to learn of Sandy's passing. We graduated from Nursing
School together.

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