Scott Bader

Scott Bader obituary, Aptos, CA

Scott Bader

Scott Bader Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Oct. 2, 2022.
Scott Lee Bader peacefully passed from this life at his home on September 7th, after a long journey with cancer. Scott's life partner was with him. Throughout, he was sustained by the love, gratitude, and care of his family and his many, many friends. Scott's final words were of love, a reflection of his presence and his capacity to embrace the life he cherished. Scott was born to Wilson (Mick) and Doris Bader in Modesto, California where he was also raised. He was the youngest of three children and the only son. Scott loved his family and he carried the love, generosity, openness, and warmth he experienced growing up into his adult life. He was a self-proclaimed people person and sports enthusiast. He was also known for riding his unicycle to grammar school. Scott was a chiropractor by profession. He graduated Cum Laude from Palmer College of Chiropractic West in 1985. He began his nearly thirty-year private practice in Santa Cruz County that same year. Scott continued his education and participated in a number of healing arts programs over the years. He received a hypnotherapy certification, was a graduate of the Barbara Brennan School of Healing, completed the Center for Intentional Living's Depth Psychology program, and was certified as a Hellinger Family Constellation Facilitator through the Atherton-Borkan Institute. These and other educational experiences expanded Scott's professional life. Scott was a faculty member for several transpersonal healing schools that were located in Provence, France; San Diego, California; San Antonio, Texas; and Milwaukee, Wisconsin. He loved his work as a family constellation facilitator. Scott once said the single constant longing in his life was to touch the core issues that affect all of us. Scott achieved this in his work with others.A long time Santa Cruz County resident, Scott also gave back to his community through volunteering. He was a docent at Joseph M. Long Marine Laboratory, a docent/apprentice at Saso Herb Gardens in Saratoga, and a volunteer for the Hospice Caring Project, now Hospice of Santa Cruz County, where he led grief groups for children, and did public speaking about Hospice services to community groups. Scott was also a member of Cornerstone, a men's group that he met with weekly since 1982. Scott was a lover of life. He was a poet, writer, and voracious reader. He traveled extensively and enjoyed visiting many countries and seeing new places. He loved the outdoors. He was a scuba diver, mountain climber, vision quester, hiker, and river tripper. Most of all, Scott loved the people in his life. He maintained long-lasting, close ties with many friends over a span of years, some dating as far back as elementary school. He will be remembered for his kindness, warmth, humor, playfulness, and much more. Scott was preceded in death by his parents Mick and Doris Bader, and his oldest sister, Vickie Bader. He leaves behind his sister and brother-in-law, Cindy and Paul Gheis; niece and nephew-in-law, Brianna and Steve English, and their daughters Avery and Shelby; and many cousins as well as his life partner, Leslie Hartman. Scott will be forever missed by all who knew and loved him. He will always remain in our hearts. The family wants to express gratitude to Scott's caring doctors and staff at Palo Alto Medical Foundation, Dignity Health Radiation Oncology, and the California Pacific Medical Center Oncology and Neurosurgery Departments. As well, to Hospice of Santa Cruz County. A memorial service and celebration of life is being planned for October 16, 2022 at 11:30 a.m. in Aptos, CA. More details will follow soon. If so wished, donations to your preferred charity may be made in Scott's name.

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October 1, 2023

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January 22, 2023

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January 7, 2023

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Randy Lean

October 1, 2023

Hi Bates, thinking of you and how blessed I was to be your friend and to have experienced the Bader´s. Wow what a ride. Take care brother!
Love Rudy & Susan

Roxann Fister

January 22, 2023

Scott was a very special person, he had so many interests and talents, he was highly intelligent and he had a heart of gold. He was so soft spoken and ki d to everyone he came into contact with. My sincere condolences to Cindy and her family, my God bless you all. My deepest sympathies to you all.

Diane Ursich Curiel

January 7, 2023

Cindy, please accept my heartfelt
empathy. I just discovered this sad news and am deeply moved by it. He always had a special place in my heart and I remember him with gratitude and deep affection.
Diane Ursich Curiel

Pat Roe

October 23, 2022

I remember Scott being a great guy who came from a great family. Sorry for your loss Cindy.

Betsy, Bill, and Buster Posey Hare

October 14, 2022

"The loss is immeasurable, but so is the love left behind." ....
We are so so sorry to hear of Scott´s passing, Leslie. We´ll miss seeing you together, walking the pups on the trail. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to ease your path through this sadness. Sending you Love and Hugs, Betsy, Bill, and Buster Posey Hare

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giada

October 7, 2022

rip man he would've loved pokemon go

Max

October 3, 2022

Scott was truly one of my favorite clients and I will miss him. When I do a person's taxes for many years I feel like I get a good insight into the heart, and not just the check book, of the person. I was always somehow comforted by what Scott brought into my life. His love for Leslie was very much on the forefront of Scott's mind and her well-being was his main concern; especially since his diagnosis. I am thankful that Scott outlived the prognosis and was able to spend the years that he had left with Leslie. Rest in peace my friend!

Michael Cramblit Foster

October 3, 2022

In August of 1966, our family moved from Piedmont, California to Modesto, CA. It was a blessing that we moved into a new home on Kirkwood Ave.--just four houses south of the Bader's family home on Fleetwood Drive. What an awesome family! Mick, Doris, Vickie, Cindy, & Scott welcomed us with open arms. We shared many good times together at holiday meals, and birthday celebrations, etc... Scott was two years ahead of me at Grace M. Davis High School, and he was so thoughtful, and friendly. Charlene and I want to pass along our deepest condolences to Cindy, Paul, Leslie, Brianna & Steve, and to everyone else that loved Scott. May he rest in peace, and be joyful that he has reunited in Heaven with his parents, and with his sister, and with other loved ones, and friends that passed before him. Sent with love, and big hugs from Michael Cramblit Foster, and Charlene Kennady Foster.

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Tom Jensen

October 2, 2022

I am profoundly saddened today to read about Scott's passing. Growing up across the street from Scott, I had many opportunities to interact with Scott and appreciate his love for life. My condolences go out especially to his sister Cindy who I grew up with. I have so many great memories of you and your wonderful family.
With much Love.......Tom Jensen

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