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Kathy Kilgus
March 10, 2025
Thinking of you Wendy and Mike today and every time I drive by your house.
Dan Rich
April 14, 2023
I had the pleasure of training Sean as he readied himself for admission into the Navy and bootcamp itself. He continually brought effort, dedication, and conversation to every session we had. I enjoyed his comradery, his humor, and his relaxed attitude even when facing daunting challenges ahead. I truly appreciated the time we got to spend with one another, and I am heartbroken about his passing. To his family, my deepest condolences. I cannot state that enough. I hope he found the solace he was searching for.
Katherine and Tom Shoemaker
April 12, 2023
To the entire Coakley family: We are saddened by your loss and grieve with you. Unfortunately, it is a loss shared by too many families as too many young men and women have lost hope for a viable future. In his memory, may we renew our efforts to promote hopefulness in our youth for the future with messages such as this passage from Desiderata, "And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should...Whatever your labors and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life, keep peace in your soul. With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be cheerful. Strive to be happy."
Thomas Frelinghuysen
April 2, 2023
I will never forget when he performed a perfectly memorized soliloquy from "The Scottish Play" right on the spot when I was introduced to Sean at the Lenox School.It was a very inspiring moment to me as I was lacking in self confidence at that moment in time in my own abilities as a performer. I pray now that he has found peace but his light has not gone out. I will carry his memory in my heart and view each moment to perform as a gift, an opportunity ,no matter what my nerves may say. You all are in my thoughts and prayers
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Eileen Tierney
April 1, 2023
My sincere condolences.
Frederick and Renee Keator
March 23, 2023
Mike, Wendy, Kevin, Dr. and Mrs. Coakley and family,
We stand with you at this time of deep loss of Sean. Please know that we surround you all with our love and support and share your pain having lost our Katie as well; you are not alone.
"So you also are now in anguish. But I will see you again, and your hearts will rejoice, and no one will take your joy away from you. On that day you will not question me about anything. Amen, amen, I say to you, whatever you ask the Father in my name he will give you."
-John 16:22-23
Jennifer Astore
March 22, 2023
Wendy, I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Diane England
March 22, 2023
Wendy and all who love Sean, I am so sorry for your loss. May He Rest in Peace
Valerie Bailey Fischer
March 22, 2023
Coakley family, I am so sorry to hear of your loss of your son and brother. Your family will be in my prayers. Your tribute to Sean is very moving and beautiful. Valerie
BeckyKnox
March 22, 2023
Dear Wendy, Mike, Kevin & family,
I am so very sorry to learn of your heart-breaking loss. I cannot imagine the depth of your grief. What a beautifully written tribute to Sean´s life & memory.
Sending prayers for peace and comfort in the days ahead. May God´s grace rest softly on you all. And may Sean rest now peacefully in our Lord´s arms.
Sincerely,
BeckyKnox
Matt Behnke
March 21, 2023
Mike and Wendy-
You and your whole family are in my thoughts and prayers over the past days. I am so sorry for this tragic loss. condolences, prayers, love
Marlene
March 21, 2023
To the entire Coakley family!
Our heartfelt condolences to all of you! Praying your sorrow turns to smiles soon remembering Sean! Our hearts ache for you. Sending prayers and hugs.
Nancy Hutchinson
Marlene Hutchinson MacFarlane
John MacFarlane
Daniel O´Brien
March 21, 2023
Mike & Wendy my heart breaks to hear this sad news. Your in my heart and prayers at this difficult time. He was a gift taken too soon.
Susan Halpin
March 21, 2023
Mike,
I was so sorry to hear about your son. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
Cheryl Mirer
March 21, 2023
Mike, Wendy, and Kevin,
My deepest condolences.
Sending you all my love.
Mariangel Dus, BCC´s SGA President
March 20, 2023
On behalf of the Student Government Association, our deepest condolences for your loss. Sending prayers to your family.
Theresa LePicier
March 20, 2023
Wendy and Family,
I was sorry to hear of the loss of Sean
Time will allow you to enjoy the many fond memories that you have of him. For now it´s time to try to heal
Katie Kensell McKnight
March 20, 2023
Wendy and Family, I am so saddened to hear of Sean's passing, can't stop thinking about what you must be going through. I remember what a sweet boy Sean was. Please take care of yourselves during this very difficult time and know that I am thinking of you all.
Nancy Kiss
March 20, 2023
Mike, Wendy, Kevin and the entire Coakley family I am so sorry for your tragic loss. My heart goes out to you all during this incredibly difficult time.
Lisa Lewis
March 20, 2023
Wendy, I am so very sorry for your heartbreaking loss. Sending you strength to help you through this terrible time for you and your family.
Much love, Lisa Lewis
Kimberly Flynn
March 20, 2023
Mike and Family - my heart is breaking for you all. Thinking of you and sending comfort and prayers.
Richard DeFazio
March 20, 2023
Dear Bob and Mary Ann,
I am saddened to read of your grandsons passing. I know there is nothing I can say to ease your pain or remove the wound in your heart. I didn't know Sean but judging by the eloquent obituary he leaves many pleasant memories for you.
I will pray for Sean and for the good people he leaves.
God Bless,
Richard DeFazio
Jennifer Andrews and Shelby Lynch
March 19, 2023
Our hearts are with you, our deepest condolences for the loss of Sean.
Joe Markland
March 19, 2023
Mike and Wendy,
I am very sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts are with you both.
Jack Hathawat
March 19, 2023
Mike and family,
I m so sorry for your loss. You are on our thoughts and prayers.
Jack Hathaway
Mike Simone
March 19, 2023
Mike, Bob and Maryann, we just learned of the sorrowful death of Sean . Ann and I are so, so very sorry for your loss. You are in our prayers and thoughts. God bless you and your family. Mike and Ann Simone
Cindy Lagarce Paralta
March 19, 2023
Dear Mike and entire Coakley family,
We are profoundly sorry and saddened by your loss. Your tribute to Sean beautifully describes how deeply he was loved and cherished by so many. May all the love and kindness he provided be retuned to you all as you find the strength to honor his memory now and always. Please know the entire Lagarce family share your grief; will promise to keep you all in our hearts and prayers.
Mary M Farley
March 18, 2023
Mike, Wendy, Kevin and family,
Our hearts are heavy with this news and our prayers for peace and grace for all of you are incessant. Please know that even in our distance we are keeping you close in heart. Hold close to each other. Love, Mary and Shaun Farley
Michelle Messana
March 18, 2023
Michael, Wendy, Kevin, and Coakley family,
My deepest condolences for Sean's passing. He was such a wonderful kid. My love and prayers to you all. May you hold all the wonderful memories of him close to your hearts forever.
Sincerely,
Michelle Messana
Gail Gernat
March 18, 2023
My sincere condolences on your tragic loss.
Doreen Tornicelli
March 18, 2023
Wendy and Family,
My sincere condolences to you as you grieve the loss of your beautiful Son. Sean will be forever loved and missed. Cherish the memories you made together; they will live on in your hearts forever.
Sincerely,
Doreen
Lenox Police Department
March 18, 2023
Coakley family,
Please accept our sincere condolences.
Jim & Heidi Nejaime
March 18, 2023
Sending prayers, deep sympathy & love to all of the great Coakley family for your heart-breaking loss.
Bruce Lachance
March 18, 2023
Dear Coakley family sorry for loss
Eric Holmes
March 18, 2023
I only knew him briefly (he was enrolled in a class of mine at BCC) but he made a positive impact in the class during his short time there. I am terribly sorry to hear this.
anthony diana crea
March 18, 2023
we have no words but heartfelt for coakley family. he was fine young man he will be missed by all that new him rest in peace sean. crea family
Jeff Astore
March 18, 2023
Wendy,
I am so sorry for your loss. Special prayers to you and your family.
Sharon & Doug Chapman
March 17, 2023
Wendy, Mike, and Kevin,
Our hearts hurt so very much for you. When we think of Sean, we smile and remember him reading in the book aisle of Stop and Shop as Mom shopped. We are sending much love, gentle hugs, and prayers for your strength during this sad time.
Brian, Nicole and Max Shepardson
March 17, 2023
We are so sorry for your loss. Sean and your family are in our prayers.
The Reynolds Family
March 17, 2023
Coakley Family - We are so saddened by this tragic loss. Sean was such a delight to watch perform on the stage, it's hard to fathom he's gone. We are all thinking of you at this difficult time and remembering him with great fondness.
Jennifer Vrabel
March 17, 2023
Wendy-I was so very sorry to learn about Sean´s death and this heartbreaking loss. He, you and your family are in my prayers.
Jennifer (Hermanski) Vrabel
Mike Ward
March 17, 2023
Mike and Wendy - Jen and I send our condolences and prayers of peace for your family at this time.
Laura Roche
March 17, 2023
Wendy, Mike & Kevin,
We are heartbroken to hear about Sean´s passing. Sending you so much love. Laura & Jim Roche
Bob Vaughan
March 17, 2023
Truly a good kid. I enjoyed watching him perform at LMMHS, especially in Little Shop of Horrors.
Very sorry for his family.
Laura Zink
March 17, 2023
So deeply saddened hearing about your loss. His family and friends are in my thoughts and prayers.
Mrs. Laura Zink (Morris School)
Ginger Field
March 17, 2023
To the entire Coakley family. The loss of a child is a pain that you should not have to endure. I am so very sorry for your loss.
Don Kjelleren
March 17, 2023
Wendy, Mike, and Kevin,
My deepest sympathy for your loss. It is just heartbreaking and Kevin's obituary is one of the most beautiful and meaningful I have ever read.
Healing and peace,
Don Kjelleren
Debra Reed
March 17, 2023
Beautifully expressed. My condolences for your loss of Sean. The world is harsh and our precious youth are too burdened having to navigate unkind and inhospitable people and systems. Sending Sean´s family and loved ones my love, support and sympathy. (Classmate of Mike at Choate).
Gary M Lagarce
March 17, 2023
Wendy, Mike, Kevin, and family - so very sorry for your loss. I cannot even begin to imagine the pain you are experiencing. May God provide you the strength to push forward. Always heard great things about Sean and the arts he was involved in.
Will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers.
Paula and Kevin Downer
March 17, 2023
Mike, Wendy, Kevin and your entire family,
We are so sad and sorry for your loss. Sean was a beautiful young adult gone too soon. Our deepest sympathies and hugs are being sent to you all.
Laurie
March 17, 2023
My heart is broken for Michael and the entire Coakley family. May your dear son rest in peace.
Sending love and peace,
Laurie Benson
Suzanne Merritt
March 17, 2023
My heart is breaking as I read this, thinking about all the time Sean spent with us at Lenox Fit getting ready for his journey into the Navy. He was a fine young man who was a joy to work with. I, along with the Lenox Fit team send our deepest and heartfelt sympathy to you all.
Jamie Cahillane
March 17, 2023
I'm so sorry for you loss. I have such fond memories of Sean in plays with Charlotte and Sophia. My heart is broken. Take care and love to all.
Nancy Greenwald
March 17, 2023
Mike,Wendy,Kevin,
Our hearts and thoughts are filled with sympathy. We are so sorry for your loss. Rest in peace Sean.
The Greenwald/Freifeld Family
Marianne Vallee
March 17, 2023
Heartbroken and devastated..... Wendy and Mike, I am so very sorry for your loss. I remember Sean vividly as my little sidekick at Lenox Children´s Center!!! He was so bright and charming! I loved watching him grow and seeing his many performances throughout the years. He was truly an amazing soul! You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Rest in peace and happiness Sean
Scott Sibley
March 16, 2023
Mike, Wendy, and Kevin, so very sorry to read this. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Thinking of you all.
Kathy Kilgus
March 16, 2023
Mike and Wendy my heart goes out to you and your family. No words can express my sympathy
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