SHANNON O'BRIEN

SHANNON O'BRIEN obituary

SHANNON O'BRIEN

SHANNON O'BRIEN Obituary

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Shannon Patricia O'Brien 1/11/1968 - 6/29/2012 Shannon Patricia O'Brien, 44, died peacefully in her home, her mother at her bedside, on June 29, 2012, following a heroic 18-year battle with brain cancer. Shannon was born on January 11, 1968, at Tacoma General Hospital. Her untimely death left her loving family, friends, and the international brain cancer community simply heartbroken. Shannon is survived by her mother Jan Brewsaugh O'Brien, father Thomas Joseph O'Brien, step-father Jim Horrigan, step-mother Joyce Swenson; siblings Thomas Joseph O'Brien III and sister-in-law Barbara, beloved twin Sean Patrick O'Brien, Ryan O'Brien, and Mary Bridget and Chris Hawkins; aunts and uncles Gayle Dorman, Christy Brewsaugh, Barbara Denny, Timi and Steve O'Brien-Sundgren, Bridget and Kent Jangard, Molly O'Brien-Smith, and Patrick O'Brien; nephews Connor and Myles O'Brien, and Dayn Addington; cousins Susan and Al Mooney and family, Leslie Denny and family, Adam and Chad Denny, Pieter Sundgren and family, TJ Sundgren, Trisha and Soren Johannessen and family, Chad Jangard and family, Bridget and Kelly O'Brien, Patrick and Bridget O'Brien-Smith. Shannon is also survived by her partner Michael Steele. She was preceded in death by her grandparents Donald and Esther Brewsaugh and Patrick and Patricia O'Brien, and her uncle Bill Dorman. Shannon attended Jefferson Elementary, Jason Lee Junior High, and Stadium High School, graduating in 1986. She excelled in academics, student government, athletics, and the arts. She was privileged to be the 1986 Stadium High School Tiger Mascot. Shannon was every teacher's pet. An outstanding member of the Young Ambassadors citywide gymnastics team, a creative artist, a trend setter in fashion, she was also an honest and loyal friend. Shannon loved hiking, camping, and being at the beach. She loved all the arts. Her passions included fashion, ballet, gymnastics, travel, and music. Shannon loved all animals, especially her cat Zion. Her greatest sorrow was not having children; consequently, she loved all children as if they were her own. Shannon and her brothers were fortunate to grow up near Jefferson Park. A gifted dancer and gymnast, Shannon began ballet lessons at Jefferson Park at the age of two, eventually giving back by teaching ballet and gymnastics to neighborhood children at the park. After high school, Shannon attended Tacoma Community College, Clover Park Technical College, Seattle Central Community College, and Shoreline Community College. During her college years, she supported herself by working in food services, hospitality, and the arts. Some of Shannon's employers include Jasminka, Hana, Jazz Alley, Fujia, Prosito, and Costas. Shannon was especially proud to work behind the scenes with the Seattle Opera. In her mid-twenties, Shannon realized a lifelong dream to see the world, traveling throughout Europe with her cousin Trisha. Using Paris as a home base, the girls visited many countries. Czechoslovakia - especially Prague - was Shannon's favorite. Shannon's life changed forever a few years later. On June 15, 1994, Shannon was diagnosed with a huge malignant brain tumor. Emergency surgery, followed by a grueling course of radiation therapy, gave a brief reprieve, but the tumor would grow back time and time again over the years. Even with her own daunting health issues, Shannon retained her highly developed sense of compassion for others. Love of family was deeply important to Shannon. She took on the role of devoted caregiver to her grandparents, caring for them in their home until their death, even while she was herself suffering from the harsh treatments she endured. Soon Shannon's compassion extended to encompass the cause of brain cancer awareness and advocacy. Beginning in 2001, Shannon (fondly known as SOB) traveled to Washington, DC year after year, lobbying her legislators for brain cancer research funding. She was especially dismayed by the terrible suffering of children afflicted with brain cancer. Shannon's courage throughout her long battle with her own brain cancer has given hope and inspiration to patients and families across the U.S. and around the world. Shannon's grace and courage are legendary. Her powerful advocacy was an inspiration to many other brain cancer sufferers and families. Shannon's legacy is the heart of hope. Shannon's funeral mass will take place at St. Patrick's Church in Tacoma on Saturday, July 14, 2012 at 10 a.m., immediately followed by Shannon's Celebration of Life, a potluck in Jefferson Park. Everyone is welcome. Please bring your favorite dish. Donations in Shannon's memory may be made to the Musella Foundation for Brain Cancer Research at www.virtualtrials.com/Shannon. The family is grateful to the Franciscan Hospice for the excellent and compassionate care they provided. Please leave online condolences at www.GaffneyCares.com. Arrangements by Gaffney Funeral Home, 253-572-6003.

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June 30, 2016

Kathleen McCarthy posted to the memorial.

June 30, 2016

Christy Brewsaugh posted to the memorial.

June 29, 2016

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Kathleen McCarthy

June 30, 2016

I met three Obrien families in one day in New Hampshire and that lead me to you dear one. We will all see you again on the other side, KNow you are NOT forgotten. Your friend and brain tumor buddy
Kathleen McCarthy RN
providence, ri. DYsembroplastic tumor 1994

Christy Brewsaugh

June 30, 2016

Shannon, I have so many memories of you. Remember when we went to Florida and swam with the dolphins? And there was the times we went to Washington DC for advocacy. Remember when we first met Georget? Now you can talk with him any time. I love you, my dearest darling

Jan, take heart (although I know you can't) that you will finally be united with your darling Shannon and all will be perfect.

Shannon ...On The Beach

June 29, 2016

MOMBO

June 29, 2016

I LOVE YOU SHANNON

Kathleen McCarthyRNBSN

January 14, 2015

Dear Shannon, We all love you so very much on the BRAINTMR list from Massachusetts. YOU ARE and never will be forgotten and was such a dear inspiration to me as a fellow brain tumor patient and as a nurse. All Love
Katie McCarthy RN Dysembryoplastic Tumor 1994 RHODE ISLAND

January 8, 2015

Shannon, you are loved and mourned by thousands. You touched so many. We all miss you so much, my darling. I like to think of you as frolicking with your heavenly hosts of your many many BT friends.

Miss you, my dearest darling.

Love always, Auntie Christy

Anne Bidez Schumann

January 2, 2014

Beautiful girl....we miss you.

Stefan's Mommy

September 11, 2012

Will miss you forever and then some sweet Shannon O'Brien - you touched our lives.

Janis Rich

September 1, 2012

Rest in peace XOXO. You have left a forever lasting impression on me, as well as many others. You are my reason for fighting this brain tumor fight. Love you XOXO.

Peggi Rowe

September 1, 2012

She was such a special person, magical in a way. Miss her and will keep her in my heart.

September 1, 2012

I miss you so much, Shannon. I will always love you...

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Dawn Starling

August 31, 2012

I met this fabulous girl in Jr. High and was with her through high school! I unfortunately lost touch, but I remember her beautiful smile, her fabulous personality and let me say...she was a fabulous person all around! After seeing what she did with her life, Im sad that I didn't get to enjoy it with her! Shannon was so unique! Love ya Shannon!

Anne Bidez Schumann

July 31, 2012

To all of Shannon's family and friends, please accept my deepest condolences.

The 'knowing of' and the loss of this bright shining star has touched so many. It's clear she was special from early childhood, she seemed to glory in the world around her in many ways. She handled the hand she was delt with enthusiasm, hard work and hope to find a cure for bts.

Much love to Jan who has to accept something no mother should have to experience, always there for others, even at the most difficult time.

We'll never forget,

Leesa Hammond

July 30, 2012

Jannie my condolences to you and Aunt Christy and the rest of your family. Our dear SOB, your leagcy will live forever in our bt community. Dance with the angels! ~LL~

michelle green

July 30, 2012

I know she will be remembered and missed foverever :)

Jim Lloyd

July 28, 2012

I went to all the same schools as Shannon from First Grade onward. Regrettably, I never got to know this beautiful girl as well as I would have liked, but I admired and esteemed her for the way she could bring good times wherever she went. Shannon was the type of person who could make an occasion pretty fabulous just by showing up. She did that in many of our lives time and again for 44 years, long after her own became an epic struggle. She will be missed tremendously, but her courage and grace will continue to be an inspiration to those who knew her and to those who come to know of her.

Susan Clementz

July 27, 2012

Shannon , Talk about being A strong , beautiful woman . You are and always will be . Your battle ,drive and fight are an inspirational . May you shine in Heaven .

Julie Canis

July 26, 2012

Shannon - Your courageous battle was an inspiration to us all. Always remain in our hearts as you begin your peaceful, painfree existence elsewhere. Jan - My heart goes out to you and I wish there were words to say. Know that you were a phenomenal Mom and Caregiver. I'm here if you want/need me, k? Aunty Christy - Incredible support you gave to all. Let's take a moment to envision Shannon healthy, happy and painfree in our hearts.

tami dutill

July 17, 2012

Jan and Aunty Christy.....ur messages of Shannons journey kept us hopeful.I am 7.5 yrs host both inoperable and incurable. My love to you!!!!!

Katie McCarthy

July 12, 2012

Shannon and I spoke online for yes, 18 years, diagnosed and operated on the same year. I cant believe in my heart of hearts she is not with us for she is. I am so, very saddened and everytime we lose one of our family my heart breaks. Jan may you accept my love as always-Katie McCarthy RN
DNET tumor 1994, Playwrite, advocate

Anna Austin

July 11, 2012

Shannon, I did not Know you in person, but you and your family were an inspiration for me. Your battle with brain tumor for so many years gave me strength and hope to help my husband fight this terrible disease! My deepest condolences to your family, we will miss you from the brain tumor group!

July 11, 2012

Shannon was the sweetest, most talented, and heroic young women I have ever known. She is in the hearts of so many people now that she definitely left a beautiful residual of her essence in this crazy world.
I loved you, your mom, and brothers, and feel terrible that you had to suffer, but no more, you're at peace.
Your friend, Suzy Wilson

Paul McKay

July 10, 2012

I remain eternally grateful and amazed. Thanks for everything, Shannon. It was an honor and a pleasure to know you.

Michelle Patrick Johnson

July 10, 2012

I went to Jefferson Elementary with Shannon. We were in gymnastics together in Elementary school. Although we went to different Jr. High schools, I looked forward to watching her perform in the meets. She was so graceful and strong. I will always remember her for the beautiful, talented, smart, funny, and compassionate person that she was. She had a brilliant smile that would light up a room. I never heard her speak ill of anyone, and always was very welcoming and friendly. She will be greatly missed by many. All my prayers go out to her family.

Michelle Patrick Johnson

July 10, 2012

What a great gal she was.

Val Dorman

July 10, 2012

Sending virtual hugs from NC and still feeling the light of Shannon's smile. Her spirit and courage lives on in the hearts and daily lives of the many people she has inspired in the brain tumor community.

Anne and Jose Cortes

July 10, 2012

Dear Jan and Christy and all the rest of Shannon's dear family,

18 years is unbelievable. What an inspiration Shannon has been to all of us here at the brain tumor list serve, celebrating life for so long while at the same time keeping back this invader. Now she is in glory, swinging around with glee (and probably with George Hunter as she said the day before she crossed over, and with Dan, my son). God bless and keep you all in this time.

Much love,
Jan Klooster,mother of Dan

Darlene O

July 10, 2012

I "knew" Shannon through the online brain tumor community. I am as devastated by her loss as I was impressed by her courage. In our bleakest times struggling with our loved one and his brain tumor Shannon was and remains my inspiration. Her strength and her will to live, truly live, inspired me every day and I have read her story online more times than I can count. I know that she is now whole again, I know she feels no pain. My thoughts and prayers are with her loving family.

Jane Newson

July 9, 2012

I'm sending you a hug from afar. My deepest sympathy to all of your family for the loss of your beautiful girl.
Shannon came into my life when my own daughter was diagnosed. Her courageous spirit has been an inspiration to me and has given me hope.
I hope that is of some comfort to know that Shannon touched the lives of brain tumor patients and families all around the world. Thank you x
Jane mother of Shona (age 45) GBM 2008

Lorraine Hewitt

July 9, 2012

When my 39 year old daughter was diagnosed with an inoperable brain tumor in Sept of last year, the very first place my heart found hope was the link to Shannon's story. What a strong and couragous spirit. I regret never having had the opportunity to meet her.
My deepest sympathy to her family. It must comfort you knowing you have an angel who now has heavenly powers to help those of us here on earth still fighting this disease.

Joy Linton

July 9, 2012

I am a brain tumor companion in awe of Shannon's strength and your [her family and friends] resolve to support her in this most unwelcome journey. It is my prayer that this time will be as gentle with each of you, and also those who walked professionally with Shannon, as possible. TEAM: Shannon has long been an inspiration. 18 years when 18 months may be considered more the 'norm'...here's to you SOB! We celebrate your life, your struggle and your willingness to share what you learned with others. Praying together for a day when we have more answers than questions and treatments that will bring cure...That happy day will belong to Shannon, too!

Sarah Hurst

July 9, 2012

Shannon was such a great fighter and a symbol of the great people that reside inside all of us, she is known by only one name Shannon, just like Madonna or Michael.

Sam Staatz

July 9, 2012

My deepest condolences to the family. I first met Shannon when I was diagnosed with a brain tumor 13 years ago and was struck by how she not only fought her own tomor, but how she fought for everyone else with a brain tumor. Shannon will be sorely missed by the brain tumor community.

Gaston Hernandez

July 9, 2012

My deepest condolences to the OBrian family. We shall always miss Shannon, a true inspiration in our fight against Brain Tumors.

Sandie Norton

July 9, 2012

Jan and Family

I was saddened to read about Shannon's passing. She was an inspiration to many people especially those living with a brain tumor. I am embracing the memories of meeting Shannon in May 2004 in Washington D.C.

God Speed Shannon............you taught us much.

Sandie Norton
Jennifer's Mom, AA111/GBM, 1978-2002

July 9, 2012

To embracing new journeys Shannon OB ...
Love Always
Maria, Wm's mom [JPA 1995-2005]

Terry Kornman

July 9, 2012

No words can say how saddened I am about Shannon. She was a beautiful young woman and truly left her mark on the world. Jan, my heart goes out to you. No mother should ever have to experience this pain. My condolences to all of Shannon's family, may you find peace in knowing what a gift she was to all of us.

Carole Broadhurst

July 9, 2012

My deepest condolences to Shannon's family. Although I never met Shannon, I felt I knew her through her Aunt Christy's postings with Al Musella's virtualtrial brain tumor group. Shannon was an amazing woman. May God give Shannon's family peace and comfort in the days, months & years to come. My prayers are with you all.

Janell Reher/Raymond

July 8, 2012

I was saddened to read about Shannon's passing. As a Stadium HS teacher and cheer advisor, I was was honored to have know Shannon. She had a zest for life and got along with everyone. What a beautiful smile. Condolences to her family and friends.

July 8, 2012

My deepest sympathy to the family of this beautiful young women who left an amazing legacy...may the lord embrace her and welcome her to paradise. Prayers to all who loved and cared for her.

Sincerely Marlene Costello

Eraina (Schmidt) Woodworth

July 8, 2012

My condolences to the family and friends of Shannon. May she be at peace.

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