Shifra Stein

Shifra Stein

Shifra Stein Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jun. 1, 2008.
Shifra Stein, free-spirit, author, travel writer, artist, newspaper critic, media personality, wife, mother, sister, daughter and niece, ended her life's journey at Kansas City Hospice House after an extended battle with cancer. Shifra was born in Kansas City in 1940 and graduated from Southwest High School. She attended Texas Women's College in Denton, Texas, on a full scholarship before graduating from Kansas City University. She worked for a short time as a medical technologist in Kansas City and St. Louis before moving to Greenwich Village in New York in the 1960s, where she eventually took over the management of a medical laboratory. She was a songwriter and an accomplished musician on guitar, banjo and piano. After an extended independent trip to Europe, she returned to Kansas City, where she went to work at Hallmark Cards as a copy writer and then a writer of holiday and special-occasion books. From there she was appointed as the first woman to be hired by the Kansas City Star as the Arts & Entertainment Editor, writing reviews of area restaurants and concerts for several years. Her first book, The Edible City, was a compilation of her restaurant reviews, and she co-wrote several more cookbooks with other Kansas City authors including Karen Adler and Rich Davis. Shifra was the author of Kansas City DayTrips, a trademarked guide book about Kansas City and the surrounding area, and eventually expanded the DayTrips concept to several cities, including Phoenix, Milwaukee, Houston and others. The 15th Edition of Kansas City DayTrips will be released in July 2008. Shifra also wrote books about journaling and taught journaling and creativity workshops nationwide. Travel writing was a natural outgrowth of her experiences and she contributed travel articles to many national publications and appeared many times on Walt Bodine's radio show on KCUR-FM. She was an award-winning member of the prestigious travel writers' organization SATW. Eventually her interests turned toward art, and she learned and shared new techniques, lectured and taught art classes at the Kansas City Art Institute, as well as around the country in Florida, Louisiana, and Texas. Her art is part of the permanent collection at Cancer Action in Overland Park, Kan., where she created workshops in creativity and healing. Of all her accomplishments, her proudest was her son, Jason Stein, whom she raised with her best friend and beloved husband, Bob Barrett of Kansas City, Kan. Her survivors are also Jason's wife Erica and two grandchildren, Max and Samantha, all of Boca Raton, Fla.; her sister and brother-in-law Judith and David Epstein of Overland Park, Kan.; uncle Marvin Hammer of New York, and any cousins and dear friends who helped her through her life. Shifra's parents were Mary and Martin G (Bud) Spitcaufsky and grandparents Isreal and Sarah Hammer and John and Mollie Spitcaufsky. Shifra was always finding new ways to share herself and her passions with - and for - others. Her humility, humanity and sense of humor defined her. Art has been a large part of her life, and it's certain that her life has been a work of art. There will be a private cremation, and online condolences may be expressed at Martsmemorialservices.com. Shifra's family is very grateful to the staffs of KU Medical Center and the Kansas City Hospice House. Contributions in lieu of flowers may be sent to the Kansas City Hospice House, Cancer Action, or a charity of one's choice.

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May 27, 2009

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May 2, 2009

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Margot Sims

May 27, 2009

How could a whole year have gone by since we lost this extraordinary soul? Bob, the lovely photo of Shifra you mailed out after her death smiles down at me every day from my bulletin board. I hope you and all of Shifra's loved ones are doing well, and finding comfort in the wonderful times you had with her.

May 27, 2009

It's been a year, and I still can bring myself to delete her number from my speed dial.
- Diana Lambdin Meyer

Diane Haug

May 2, 2009

Today I was reviewing Shifra's last email to me and wanted to share my artistic success with her. I was so saddened to read about her passing almost a year ago. We had many good times painting, journaling together. I am looking right now at her wonderful painting of the Red Pears. She will be greatly missed by all who knew her.

Michele Bonan

September 19, 2008

9/19/08 This morning being a bit blue, I began looking for dyes and then began looking at silk-dyeing artists. When I saw the art Shifra did, I clicked on her link and began reading her inspiring article about the healing power of silk-painting. I decided to write to her, to let her know how her article, as well as the silk-paintings I saw on the Dharma dyeing site had inspired me and made me feel better. Clicking on the link, I was stunned to learn that she had crossed-over almost four months ago. To Ms. Stein's family and relatives: her words live on, and her words encouraged me today. May God bless her, and all of you. Sincerely, Mich?le B.

Tonna Crotty

August 29, 2008

I just learned of Shifra's passing. My sincere condolences. My home is filled with Shifra's art and I treasure them. I managed Annedore's Fine Chocolates and had the honor of being the first person to hang Shifra's work for sale and display. What an amazing person. Tonna Crotty

Sylvie Radvinsky

July 16, 2008

Dear Bob and Judy. I can't tell you how sad I was to hear about the passing of your beloved, Shifra. She was such a jewel and I loved hearing her talk about journaling and art. Bob, I know you and Shifra talked extensively with Israel when he would come to do computer service for you both. I hope Shifra and Israel have met up in heaven where they can sing, have long discussions. It's been really difficult these past months since Israel died the end of November. We were both so lucky and blessed to have such wonderful life partners, it just makes it that much more difficult. I hope Jason and his family are a comfort to you all as my children and grandchildren are for me.

It was an honor to know Shifra and she will be greatly missed by us all. I hope you and the whole family gather the strength and courage to continue your dreams and paths in your life's journey. You all are in my thoughts and prayers.

Take care,
Sylvie Radvinsky

Diane Capps

June 19, 2008

I only met Shifra a few times through my parents, Bill and Kitty Sims. My daughter Andrea gave me "Kansas City Daytrips" when I retired--which was so appropriate. My condolences to Bob and family.

Laurie Borman

June 2, 2008

I enjoyed traveling with Shifra at SATW meetings. She was a grand dinner companion, full of lively, frank discussion. She will be missed by all her travel writer friends.

Emma Dixon

June 2, 2008

We've heard so many wonderful stories about Shifra and our thoughts and prayers go out to her beloved son and family.

with much love,
Emma and Douglas Minear

Diana Lambdin Meyer

June 1, 2008

Oh girlfriend. Who is going to poke me with toothpicks and make me laugh now that you are gone?
Safe travels and send me a postcard.

Sheryl Peterson

June 1, 2008

It was an honor and a privilege to know Shifra. Although our friendship was cut short, I will treasure the relationship we had. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.

jean maneke

June 1, 2008

when i was a struggling young journalist, shifra was one of the writers i admired and looked up to. i was thrilled to have several chances to meet her and talk to her over the years. as with her, journaling has been a big part of my life and as i now find myself moving into artistic endeavors, i again find that shifra was there before me. she was an incredible woman.

Cathy Hammer Cardozo

June 1, 2008

I met Shifra a few times over the years at various family functions and
local art shows and thought she was a wonderful person.
I am proud to own a piece of her art. We will miss her.
Her Cousin,

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