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Betty Brosius
May 6, 2022
Shirley was my lifelong friend. We were neighbors, schoolmates, members of her girls club. We played tennis, walked to school together and went to dances together. Shirley got me into her girls club of which we were the last two living members. Shirley always said she was going to live to be 100. She almost made it. We kept in touch all through the years even though I moved to Arizona in the "70's". Shirley was great leader and a strong woman before the feminist movement began; a woman before her time. 
She kept up with all the girls in the club and I've cherished our lifelong friendship. 
Shirley, save me a spot next to you in heaven, I'm not far behind you. 
Your loving friend
Betty Brosius
Peter Broeksmit
April 23, 2022
We will miss Shirlee's joy de vie
Peter and Maureen Broeksmit
Richy Huxsel
February 6, 2022
My deepest sympathy to the family. 
I know her daughter Jocelyn from the outdoor municipal pool in Deux-Montagnes, Quebec. I met Shirley back in the days when Jocelyn would bring her to the pool to swim when she visited Quebec. From all the stories I hear, she was a special Lady. 
Her stories, her values, and her love will live on in her family; a wonderful legacy.
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Laura Broeksmit Downing
February 5, 2022
Shirley was a good friend of our family. She had tremendous energy and like a true Chicago native would take the bus from the symphony to a jazz performance right afterwards. Everyone will miss her parties, stories and spark.
Elizabeth A Friscoe
February 4, 2022
Dear Jamie and Jocelyn, 
Your Mother will be so missed by so many. My prayers are with you. 
I will not forget all the times we spent together as a family at the cabin in Canada that your Dad and Jay built. 
Nor will i forget the wonderful visits together in her beautiful home. Great Aunt Shirley was a true delight to be with, laughing, looking through old photographs, and discussing literature. She has inspired me in so many ways. 
Our Thanksgiving at Gammy's (Aunt Sylvia's) house will always be yet another fond memory, as Great Uncle Joe, Uncle Jay and Aunt Sherry, the Speers, were all in attendance. We were such young children then. 
My empathy with you is deep and true. I am here for you when you need me. I have always loved Great Aunt Shirley very much and felt such a strong bond with her. I am so sorry. With love, Liz
Elizabeth A Friscoe
February 4, 2022
Jamie, Jocelyn, and the family - 
The loss of your Mother wrenches the heart of my very being. 
I continue to pray for all of you . .   especially during this tumultuous time in your lives. 
Great Aunt Shirley was, and continues to be, an inspiration to so very many people. She will be sorely missed. 
My empathy is deep and true. I am here for you when you need me. All my love and support, Liz
Peter Broeksmit
February 2, 2022
Shirley was simply a positive force.
Byron (Steve) Dunham and Dick Hanna
January 28, 2022
Dear Jocelyn and Jaime, We are the "snowbird" neighbors, next door to Shirley on the 11th floor, only in the summer. Shirley was a great "plant sitter" while we were away at our winter place in Savannah GA and we have traded many a martini with her and will miss her very much.
Winifred canneiia
January 26, 2022
I met SHIRLEY about 14 years ago at water aerobics she always seem to love the water so much her story inspires me
Linda Finley Belan
January 26, 2022
I have so many fond memories of Shirley. She was an inspiration for every woman who had the honor of knowing her. Hope to catch her "next time around."
John O'Connor
January 25, 2022
I met Shirley about a dozen years ago at a house party in her Sheraton Avenue home. What a delightful evening I had.
  I thought she might have been the role model Rosalind Russell had for the movie Auntie Mame, and this must be what it was like at Gertrude Stein's place in Paris before my time, and and and . . .
  The years from then until now I would see her every few months at the monthly Friday night jazz sessions at Chicago's Union League. When Shirley was there, at the front table, the vibe in the room was better!
  My condolences to her family. Shirley will be missed by friends far and near.
Carleen Lorys
January 25, 2022
Shirley was an avid supporter of the Chicago Art Deco Society (CADS)and attended many of its events. She will be fondly missed.Please let me know via email when the celebration of life is planned so CADS members may be informed. Thank you!
Hazy and Tom Bauer
January 24, 2022
We are much saddened but also having many fond memories of Shirley, our former 11th floor neighbor at 340 W Diversey. Shirley and Hazy, 2 months separated in age, rode many a bus together to the 4th Presbyterian for senior classes and programs. They were in many ways sisters in spirit, including the sharing of an occasional martini. Shirley's life accomplishments and spirit will continue to shine in her legacy, as will her memory in our hearts. Love from both of us, Tom and Hazy
Linda Miller
January 24, 2022
Dear Jocelyn, Jaime and family,
It was a privilege to get to know Shirley through Memoir classes at CLL. Her stories were funny, entertaining, and always interesting. She inspired me and many others with all that she accomplished. Love that word "moxie"--it fits her so well. Sincere condolences to you.
Jenny Hamilton
January 23, 2022
I am a relative of Shirley´s Irish side of the family.  My mum Cis Weir nee Lowry is a full cousin. I last saw Shirley on a visit to Chicago 2013 and spent precious time with her.  She adored talking and showing photographs of her ancestors.  Had a very sociable evening at her home on Diversey with martinis and beautiful chocolate cake for our wedding anniversary that day.  My mum is distraught as very fond of Shirley they had kept in touch with occasional letters and Xmas cards. Mum is 6 months younger than Shirley.  There are two other surviving female cousins here in NI Sally and Enie. 
Shirley RIP you left your mark
Beverly Friend
January 23, 2022
What a loss this is. Shirly was very close with my sister-in-law the late Selma Friend Hayman, and after her death with the rest of the family. Jim and I were not only friends but colleagues as we worked together with the Friends of Literature for many years. She will be sorely missed.
William J Lowry
January 23, 2022
A great woman and a library of 
Information lost.  We all loved her!! God Bless you cousin!
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