Shirley Kubat

Shirley Kubat obituary, Uncasville, CT

Shirley Kubat

Shirley Kubat Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Sep. 28, 2025.
Shirley Ann Kubat, 85, passed away peacefully at home with her daughter Pamela by her side on September 7, 2025, in Uncasville, Connecticut. Born on March 27, 1940, in Norwich, Connecticut, to parents Anthony and Josephine Kubat. Her parents and sister Antoinette Couture predeceased her as well as her ex-husband William Johndrow.

A graduate of Norwich Free Academy, Shirley worked as an administrative assistant at both Norwich State Hospital and later at Connecticut Valley Hospital. She retired from Connecticut Valley Hospital.

Shirley was a beloved mother and grandmother whose presence brought warmth and strength to her family. She is lovingly remembered and greatly missed by her daughter Pamela Gural; her son William Johndrow and his wife Bethany; grandchildren Jack Gural, Jessie Gural, Rachel Wilson and her husband Jack, and Preston Johndrow; and great-grandchildren Lucille and Muriel Wilson. She also leaves behind her beloved niece Deanna Brucoli and her husband Marcus, along with their children Mikayla and Rocco.

A celebration of Shirley's life will be held on October 18 from 12:00 p.m. to 2:00 p.m. at the Preston VFW. All who knew Shirley are welcome.

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