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Sonny James Elliott Gaetano
1945 - 2020
Sonny James Elliott Gaetano
1945 - 2020
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1945
DIED
2020
Sonny Gaetano Obituary
James Elliott "Sonny" Gaetano, 75, of Charleston, SC, formerly of Charlotte, NC, died on Sunday, December 13, 2020.
The relatives and friends of James E. Gaetano are invited to attend his Funeral Service at 1:00 PM Thursday, December 17, 2020, at the James A. McAlister Chapel, 1620 Savannah Hwy. The burial will take place at 1:00 PM, Friday, December 18, 2020, at Pleasant Grove United Methodist Church Cemetery, Pleasant Grove Road in Charlotte, NC. Jennifer McDonald will officiate.
Sonny was born in Mecklenburg County on January 16, 1945, a son of the late Prosper James Gaetano and Annie Mae Elliott Gaetano. He graduated from West Mecklenburg High School and was a retired Sales Manager for Auto Supply and Equipment, NAPA. Sonny loved football, baseball, golf and NASCAR. He was quite skilled in the art of building things.
Survivors left to cherish Sonny’s memory include his children: Krystal Ann Gaetano, Laura Kimberly Gaetano and James Michael Gaetano all of Charleston; Diane Carol Henry of Chattanooga,TN, Deborah Ann Gaetano of London, England and Jennifer Lynn Zey of Houston, TX. ; his former wife, Donna Jane Gaetano, his brother, Barry Gaetano and wife, Jane of Charlotte. He was predeceased by his daughter, Darleene and a brother, Kevan.
His grandchildren include Lilly Chapman, Ashley O’Neal, Ryleigh Moran, Brantley Gaetano, Zachary Gaetano, Heather Gaetano, Nicolas Zey, Mikie Dennis, Matthew McDonald and Charles Garner.
23 Entries
Ryleigh Moran
November 21, 2024
Hi papa I love you
David Rogers
January 15, 2021
Sympathy Gift courtesy of David Rogers. Group of 10 Memorial Trees Planted In Loving Memory of Sonny James Elliott Gaetano.
Donna Gaetano
December 22, 2020
Sonny, You will be missed by all of us. We love you dearly. I will take care of our girls and grandchildren. I enjoyed the time we spent together as husband and wife as well as our friendship. Goodbye my love.
Ann-Murray Whyte
December 18, 2020
Sending much love and hug out to you Krystal....I pray for your peace and comfort during this difficult time
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Danielle Bradford
December 17, 2020
My heart goes out to you Krystal let me know if you need anything love you
Sympathy Gift courtesy of Deborah Ann Gaetano. Group of 10 Memorial Trees Planted In Loving Memory of Sonny James Elliott Gaetano.
Deborah Ann Gaetano
December 17, 2020
Robert Elliott, Sr.
December 17, 2020
I regret the passing of my cousin. I pray that his loved ones have peace beyond all understanding!
Cheryl Daugherty Faust
December 16, 2020
Lots of wonderful memories growing up as cousins. He will be missed!
Laura Gaetano
December 16, 2020
The best father we could've asked for
Linda Heimer
December 16, 2020
we worked together in Napa Miami I fell in Love and still am in love. May he rest in peace, I will forever love you.
Jeffrey Daugherty
December 16, 2020
What a great guy, best cousin!
Ben Ogden
December 16, 2020
Krystal, we are praying for strength, peace and comfort for you and your family now and in the days ahead...
Paul and Inez McCrimmon
December 16, 2020
We are sorry for your loss. May peace be with you . Sincerely, Paul and Inez McCrimmon
Jennifer, Debbie, and Laura the three little girls
Deborah Ann Gaetano
December 16, 2020
Baby Krystal, Debbie, Jennifer, and Laura look out world!
Deborah Ann Gaetano
December 16, 2020
Debbie the model, Jennifer the matriarch, Laura the graduate, and Baby Krystal the Caring loving soul. Just like her Dad.
Deborah Ann Gaetano
December 16, 2020
Deborah Ann Gaetano
December 16, 2020
What a man to take on three little girls and a broken mother whom had just lost a child. We put Sonny through a lot but he was always there to provide and guide us to the best of his ability. When I personally remember Sonny I am reminded of the stability he provided us and the gorgeous baby sister he and mom gave us. ‘The Gaetano Girls’ needed a strong, gentle soul to encourage and correct us. He allowed us to be the best women we could ever dream to be. Thank you Sonny for being a truly awesome Spirit, it was a pleasure to be a part of your life!
Richard Towne
December 16, 2020
Sonny will be remembered as a mentor, builder and leader in the Automotive industry. The Auto Supply family will always be grateful for his dedication and friendship. Our thoughts and prayers go out to the Gaetano family. God Bless.
Michael Riley
December 16, 2020
Prayers for the Gaetano family, I was honored to have met Sonny! Peace be with you! ❤
LaShon Classen
December 15, 2020
Praying for you and your family during this time of loss.
Latrice Moultrie
December 15, 2020
To Krystal and the Gaetano family my thoughts and prayers are with you during this time, Krystal if you need anything please let me know.
Angel Verdejo
December 15, 2020
I am so sorry for your loss. We love very much. God bless you and your family Krystal
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