Sophie Ann Misshula

1996 - 2017

Sophie Ann Misshula obituary, 1996-2017, Raleigh, NC

Sophie Ann Misshula

1996 - 2017

Sophie Misshula Obituary

Published by The News and Observer on Oct. 1, 2017.
Sophie Ann Misshula

Raleigh

It is with the deepest sadness that the family of Sophie Ann Misshula announces her peaceful passing on Sunday, September 24, 2017.

Beloved by all who met her, Sophie lived to be a person for others. She brought love, joy, and happiness to her family and friends from the day she was born in New York, New York on April 19, 1996. Since then, Sophie relayed magic, strength, possibility, and love to those around her. She was funny and sweet and clever and hard-working and wise beyond her years and, above all, a loving and devoted daughter to her parents, Nancy Errichetti and Evan Misshula, and a most loving sister to her brothers, Aidan and Griffin.

In her twenty-one years, Sophie lived. She lived in New York City; Greenwich, Connecticut; Menlo Park, California; Raleigh and Wilmington, North Carolina; and Ubeda, Spain. She travelled to other diverse parts of the world. She pushed the height of her brilliant athletic ability in several sports. She brought grace to many mountains as a most beautiful skier. She cooked a mean egg Gemelli pasta and wrote passionately about her beloved eggs when not cooking or eating them. To be sure, Sophie lived a life well-lived.

Sophie's tenacity and grit were inspiring. She graduated from Millbrook High School, where she excelled in the classroom, in the community, on the stage of the Women's Chamber Choir, and on the lacrosse playing field and golf course. At University of North Carolina-Wilmington, Sophie thrived as a Communications major and Professional Writing Certificate candidate.

Sophie gave many gifts to the world. One of her biggest gifts was her resolve and commitment to integrate people of diverse cultures, recognizing that we are more alike in our differences. True to her enterprising spirit and love of the embracing-Latino culture, Sophie helped launch Alpha Psi Lambda – a co-ed Latino fraternity for which she served as its Community Service Chair with a focus on helping children reach their potential in school. Alpha Psi Lambda was her family-away-from-home.

And, at home, Sophie loved her close-knit family with ferosity. She was predeceased by her adoring Grammy – her grandmother, Ann "Bobbi" Errichetti, from whom she learned her culinary gifts. Along with her beloved parents and brothers, Sophie leaves her grandparents – Vivien and Abraham Misshula; her aunts and uncles – Maryann (Dr. Glenn) Davis, Meg (Dennis) Helms, Michael (Beba) Errichetti, and Steven (Estelle) Misshula; her cousins – Dr. Christopher Davis, Julia and Alexander Helms, Luisa, Michael, Mark and Thomas Errichetti, and Zahava Misshula; her furry-pal, Maverick, and so many anecdotes that will be told for years and years to come.

Sophie set an example of how to love and live with abandon and thoughtfulness and be a kind and luminous person. Sophie was, and will always be, the light and love of our lives. To celebrate her, there will be a memorial service held on Sunday, October 8, 2017, beginning at 4:30pm and concluding at 6:30pm at North Ridge Country Club, 6612 Falls of Neuse Road, Raleigh, North Carolina 27615, telephone: 919-846-9667. In lieu of flowers, the family respectfully requests that you consider memorial donations to The Mosaic Project, 478 Santa Clara Avenue, Suite 200, Oakland, California 94610, telephone: 510-452-3377; email: [email protected]

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October 19, 2017

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October 14, 2017

Marianella Jara posted to the memorial.

October 14, 2017

Marianella Jara posted to the memorial.

October 19, 2017

Dear Sophie's family. Sophie and I weren't close but I had some classes with her in High School. We never really talked but I remember that she was always really nice to everyone. She was very smart and excelled in our classes together. She is loved by many

Spain study abroad group in Cazorla, Spain

Marianella Jara

October 14, 2017

Spain study abroad group in Cazorla, Spain

Marianella Jara

October 14, 2017

Spain Study abroad group in Cazorla, Spain

Marianella Jara

October 14, 2017

Spain Study Abroad Group Summer 2016

Marianella Jara

October 14, 2017

I am deeply sorry for your loss and I send my deepest sympathy and prayers. Sophie was my student at UNCW. She studied abroad in Spain with me last summer. It was a real pleasure knowing her and having her as a student. She was very smart and such a highly motivated student. I truly enjoyed having her in class and seeing her on campus. I will miss her beautiful smile. May her rest in peace.

Marianella Jara

October 14, 2017

May your family find strengh and rejoice in the beautiful memories. May Sophie rest in peace and be happy in heaven.

Ubeda, Spain Group 2016

Marianella Jara

October 14, 2017

Lori Massad

October 12, 2017

Nancy, there are no words to describe how sorry I am for the loss of your dear daughter. I have wonderful memories of her on the soccer field with you cheering her on. You are a fiercely devoted and loving mother and I know what a deep and special bond you had with your daughter. You were her cheerleader and role model and fueled her passion to live life to the fullest. My prayers will be with you and your family each and everyday, and I will be sending you healing energy from afar. With deepest sympathy and sorrow, Lori

Tammy Squires

October 11, 2017

Dearest Nancy,
My heartfelt thoughts and prayers are with you and the boys. I am so sorry to hear of Sophie's passing. I hope each of you can find comfort in warm memories of special times together.

Toby Ozure

October 9, 2017

Dear family, My children and I are so sad that Sophie has passed away. I remember her as such a sweet young girl and she and my grandson Andrew would play together here on Long Island. I'm so very much in pain over this and thinking of all of you. I'm sorry. Warmly cousin Toby and, Julie

The Compassionate Friends of Wake County

October 9, 2017

Dear Ms. Errichetti and Mr. Misshula,
It is with a heavy heart that we send this message to you. Sadly, we have learned about the passing of your beloved daughter Sophie. There are simply no words that can adequately express what it is to suffer the loss of a beloved child. We are parents who have also experienced this same devastating loss and we want to reach out to you in behalf of our group: The Compassionate Friends of Wake County. We are a non-profit and non-denominational support group that consists solely of parents who have lost children of all ages and all causes. We are part of the worldwide organization The Compassionate Friends which can be accessed at www.compassionatefriends.org. Our group meets twice a month at 7:30 PM every 2nd and 4th Tuesday at Hayes Barton Baptist Church, 1800 Glenwood Ave., Raleigh. If you have any questions, please call our message line 919-833-4022. There is always a bereaved parent on call who will get back to you in three days. We are so sorry for your loss and please know that you and your precious child are in our thoughts and prayers.
With caring and concern,
The Compassionate Friends of Wake County

I am so sorry for the loss of your daughter. My heart goes out to you and your family as you go through this very difficult and painful time. Sophie sounds like she was an amazing young woman who will be missed so very much.
Sincerely, Mara Lewis (Mom of Kenny who passed away at the age of 15)
I reach out to newly bereaved parents in behalf of The Compassionate Friends of Wake County

Karen Holman

October 8, 2017

Dear Nancy, Sophie was a wonderful teammate to my daughter while playing on the Millbrook Women's Golf Team. I'll always remember how Sophie lit up the room when she entered. My heart is broken for you and the boys. In prayer today I asked God to comfort you. Please reach out if there is anything we can do. The Holman Family: Reggie, Karen, Kristen and Elyssa

Nancy Arehart

October 8, 2017

Nancy, words cannot express how profoundly sorry I am for your loss. I cannot imagine your pain, though I know it runs deep. May your memories of Sophie stay with you always. Love you.

October 8, 2017

To Sophie's family,

We are praying for your family, and we're sending our love your way.

The Davis Family
Brian, Amy, and Elizabeth

Tina

October 4, 2017

So sorry for your loss

V Meeks

October 4, 2017

My heartfelt sympathies to family and friends during this difficult time...May your fondest memories bring you joy and may prayers to the God of all comfort strengthen you. He promises, "I have heard your prayer. I have seen your tears. I am healing you."(2 Kings 20:5)

Dominique Mouthon

October 3, 2017

Dear Nancy, I am so sorry for your loss and send you and your family my deepest condolences. My heart aches and I am at a loss for words. I just cannot imagine your pain. I am sending you and yours my love and thoughts of comfort at this tragic time.

October 3, 2017

To Sophie's family, our deepest condolences and heart go out to you, we cannot fathom what it is to lose a child as they first begin to spread their wings to soar. Sophie was a beautiful soul and tenacious spirit, we were blessed to get to know her during her high school years and will treasure those moments. This world has lost a rare gem but has now gained an angel. May your memories help to ease the pain and the passing of time allow healing and hope. Hugs and prayers,
The Hunter Family (Beth, Brandon, Meghan and Jack)

October 3, 2017

I remember Sophie as a vibrant, kind, witty, and diligent, student whom I had the pleasure of teaching in a class. Even though the enrollment was close to 200 students, Sophie stood out because she would ask questions during class, and outside of class during office visits. My sorrows are real and profound, and I hope that Sophie's family's process for healing revolves around celebration of her wonderful presence among us all. Stay strong.

Tim Reuther

October 3, 2017

Nancy, to you and your family I give my deepest condolence. Words can get lost at times like this but the love that is sent to you and your family will never be misplaced, never be lost, and never less pure than the moment it was sent. As a parent and as a friend, I send you and your family my love that it may help in some way to to fill the empty place.

October 2, 2017

To Sophie's family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Sophie was always an amazing person to be around, she always gave me such joy no matter how hard my day was. Her sense of humor could get me through almost any tough situation and she is an absolute inspiration. My heart breaks for your loss, and I can't find the words to say. My greatest wish is that you know that Sophie inspires me still, her acts of service and selflessness will never be forgotten and she will always be admired. Your daughter and sister was an amazing girl, please know that she will always be loved. She was taken too soon, but she still made a positive impact on all the lives around her.

October 2, 2017

Nancy,
My sweet colleague and friend, there are no words right now, but sending you all the love and sympathy. Sophie was a shining light and love. Will be here for you in the days, months and years ahead.
With love and many prayers,
Doreen Kelly

October 2, 2017

My deepest condolences to the entire family over the sudden lost of such a beautiful and loved individual. May the warm and powerful memories of Sophie sustain you as you make your way forward. In my thoughts - Michelle Morrison

Rand and Kathy Phares

October 2, 2017

Nancy and family, our wish for you is peace and strength during this most difficult time. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Christy Fleming

October 2, 2017

When Sophie and her brothers visited us on Bald Head Island this summer, she instantly brought smiles to all of the Flemings and the many cousins who were with us. Our trip was filled with teenagers who have known each other all their lives. Yet when Sophie, Aidan and Griffen arrived, the jumped right into the action and befriended everyone. Sophie even stated in touch with a couple of cousins, following up to ask about their jobs and internships. She was inquisitive, on the ball, and looking ahead to her future. She was a delight and a living testament to her parents, who have raised three incredible children. She will be sorely missed by us all. Out heart breaks.

October 2, 2017

Nancy, I am so sorry to hear of your devastating loss. What a beautiful girl gone way too soon. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Lorri D'Angelo

Kim Lennon-Raimondi

October 2, 2017

So sorry to hear this news. Sending many hugs, much love and many prayers.

Kim Dillon

October 1, 2017

Nancy,
I am deeply saddened to hear of your loss. My prayers are with you and your family during this time of sorrow.

Kelly Finn

October 1, 2017

Sorry for your loss, prayers for you and the family

Michelle Maday (National President)

October 1, 2017

On behalf of Alpha Psi Lambda National, Inc., we offer our condolences and deepest sympathy for the family and friends of Sophie. Our brothers and sisters miss her deeply and feel a great loss. Her beautiful spirit will live on in our hearts and our memories. She leaves behind a legacy of kindness, laughter and love. May she be at peace.

October 1, 2017

I am so sorry Nancy. You and your family are in my prayers.
John Casey

Carolyn Zahnow

October 1, 2017

Its always sad to lose a young person so full of life and potential. The Shore Grief Center is here to help those grieving Sophies death.

Jorey Stanley

October 1, 2017

I am in disbelief at such a loss of light from this world. Though Sophie and I were not close, it was easy to see the goodness within her, the love for others she made apparent in her actions and words, and a soft kindness not many people possess. In beautiful contrast she was a fire, headstrong and built tough. On the field she didn't back down from a challenge and in her academics it was no different. May those who she blessed with her presence here find peace and strength to mourn and heal.

Ivan GONZALEZ

October 1, 2017

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