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Stacy Lynn McClellan
1973 - 2014
Stacy Lynn McClellan
1973 - 2014
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BORN
1973
DIED
2014
Stacy McClellan Obituary
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Libby Roos
August 30, 2014
Dear family and friends of Stacey McClellan,
I remember waking up the morning of my daughter's memorial service a little over 13 years ago… it was one more traumatic experience following her sudden death. I'm thinking of you all this morning, as surely as your day has begun with the same sorts of thoughts and feelings as I had that morning.
Stacey was my neighbor on Arthur Court for many years and I was shocked to read of her passing in the local paper. I have intended, for some time now, on writing to Stacey and Sue; to let them know I've missed them next door, that I had come to really appreciate them as neighbors. Sadly, as so often is the case, we don't realize what people mean to us until they are out of our lives. I felt an unexpected loss when they moved away; I had come to look for them day-to-day in my normal flow of life's processes. I realized their presence was important to me - good, friendly neighbors that added to my sense of safety and wellbeing in my home.
We became friends over the fence; with dogs barking wildly, I knew I liked Stacey from the first moment - anyone who would add one Jack Russell Terrier after another to their family surely had to have a BIG heart! The truth was the dogs were ever intensely carrying on at the backyard fence because they had a neighbor, me, with four dogs of my own, and my little female Yorkie had the disturbing habit (every time she was let out to ‘take care of business') of trotting out to the side fence, letting out one bark and waiting… Rarely was she ever let down because within a split second, one then another of the Jack Russell neighbors in rapid succession would shoot out through their dog door, barking wildly in response!!!
The familiar process had started - into the tracks up and down the fence line, as my four dogs stood at the fence and watched the amazing energy explosion!!! Although I know the barking and general pandemonium that unleashed regularly bothered Stacy (I think she was always concerned it upset me) but it was funny really! Not a single time when our dog was let out did she not go to the fence and send out that one bark to her buddies next door! In those minutes I knew that the person(s) that owned those dogs was a kindred spirit; I felt an instant friendship.
It took literally months after Stacey and Sue moved away for my little Yorkie to stop going to the fence, calling out to her neighbors for a visit. I've seen each of them return to the fence, look all around for their friends and then turn and walk away; the memory of the Jack Russell family has lasted long and still, on occasion, my two little Yorkies will return alone to the fence to look for their friends - I'm certain they are looking for them as well as the place they spent so often with my two Golden Retrievers - they have passed away.
The quiet speaks to my memory, bringing to mind the neighbors I have been grateful to have.
Every spring I was happy to greet Stacey and Sue out with the dogs and wanted to know how they'd fared the winter; often I'd meet a new family member that had joined Brutus, Dale and the rest! I came to understand that at least some of the six or seven dogs that became permanent members were rescues initially; this said a lot to me about my neighbors - people I was always thankful to have next door.
Commonly, neighbors living even in as close proximity as we did, rarely get to know each other at all; we're all so consumed with work and the normal worries of life. I thank God that was not the case for me this time and I'm grateful that I knew Stacey. Some may say I didn't know her well (and I'd be tempted to agree) but when I think about it a bit, I wonder if I may not have actually known her very well. I caught a daily glimpse of her character, her heart; a giving, loving soul.
I know you all will miss her way more than me, but I had to let you know that I too will miss her and that she meant something to me. I pray God will bring you comfort through your memories of Stacey in time.
In Sympathy,
Libby Roos
Ed, Lori, and Kendra Shillair
August 29, 2014
We can't believe your gone. Going to a Pop Evil concert will never be the same without you.. You were one heck of a great person and friend. Thanks for the memories you will be missed. Much love to your family..
Henry & Jim Morrison
August 29, 2014
Stacy, your loss will leave a large void in all our lives. It was so good just knowing you and having you as a friend.
Amber Pelton
August 24, 2014
I will always remember Stacy as a generous and happy person. I am grateful that I worked for her for so many years at the bear factory. My thoughts are with Pat and David during this tough time
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Dennis Mengerink
August 24, 2014
" It was a real honor knowing my sister 'n law Stacy, going to really miss having the greatest sports dictionary I've known at my side. Thank you for all the great memories and great times we had together, you are truly going to be missed. From football on wayne street to season openers with the BlueJackets, it's been fun.Love you sis."
Brenda Mengerink
August 24, 2014
"To my "Lil Sis", who left us so suddenly, I Love You so much. It is going to leave such a void in my life without you here, but I know you are with us in spirit. I couldn't have asked for a better person to be my sister and know that one day we will be reunited, Love you lil sis, Love big sis(Brenda). To my mother and brother, beautiful video and know that our hearts will be connected Saturday. Stay strong and know I love you guys, and always remember, it's only see you later never goodbye.
Stacy this is the picture I will keep in my mind of you and Heather. Those were the best days. We will miss you and pray you RIP.
Rhonda Taylor
August 22, 2014
Kristy Trago
August 21, 2014
Stacy, I am not sure I can find the words to describe how much you have touched my life and those all you have been apart of. I have witnessed your passion for others and the love of life. I'm so blessed to have had you in my life if even for a brief time. Happy to have been able to call you friend. Love you and will miss you.
Kristy
Rachael StJohn
August 21, 2014
It was a blessing and a pleasure to work for such a caring and selfless family. One of my favorite memories was from Halloween at the store a few years ago. Pat never liked Halloween much, so I gladly volunteered to dress up (I'm sure the mall is still finding glitter from those fairy wings!) and pass out the candy. Stacy was there and we managed to make it through the night with her help, she could always brighten up the room.
You are so missed, and I am grateful for the memories I have with you and and your wonderful family.
Rhonda Taylor
August 21, 2014
Stacy I am so sad that you had to leave us so soon. You were another one of my daughter. You are a very special person. I will always remember the times when you and your mom and Heather and I lived together. Rest in peace sweet girl.
Trisha Akerman Font
August 21, 2014
I am so sorry to hear about the passing of Stacy. She and I grew up in the same neighborhood. I still remember her house on Wayne Street and all of Pat's Elvis decor. Stacy and I were always outside playing Dukes of Hazard, getting dirty, or playing ball. We were the "tomboys" of the neighborhood. I have so many great memories of her from my childhood. It seems like just yesterday. I reconnected with her on facebook and was glad to see she still played softball, as I still did. My thoughts and prayer are with Pat and the family. I am so sorry for what you are going through. RIP Stacy and I'm sure we will meet again some day.
Nancy Eberle
August 21, 2014
I remember Stacy as always being a "Tom Boy". I remember on picture day in elementary school her mom maid her wear a dress. She was NOT happy. I also remember she was a big KISS fan. You will be missed. Thoughts and prayers to the family.
Gary McClellan
August 21, 2014
Stace, Give your Dad a "Dutch Rub" for me. Miss Ya.
Paula Johnson
August 20, 2014
It's hard to believe that you're gone. My fondest memory of high school are numerous; cruising around Van Wert in the winter in your truck, winning powder puff football two years in a row!! (that's a record), sharing Ralphy our "pet" mouse (no one else would have agreed but you!). Every time I think of high school, you and the "gang" make me smile! We will all miss you, Stacy! Even though we know you are in a better place right now!
Tina Davis-Kaiser
August 20, 2014
So sorry your journey on this earth ended too soon. I'll always remember our concert adventures and our trip to Cedar Point senior year!
Darcy Kohler
August 20, 2014
I remember riding in the back of your truck after we stomped the seniors in the powder puff game our junior year. I remember staying up all night at your house cramming for exams. I remember staying in a tent out at your Dad's place drinking wine coolers shortly before I moved to Florida after graduation. Now I just have to say that I have a TERRIBLE memory...but these things stand out. You were a genuinely good person and your passing is leaving grieving hearts far and wide. All of my love to your family and your partner and close friends during this very difficult time. May they find their peace. Love you Stacy.
Nancy Bannatyne
August 20, 2014
So many great memories; I don't know where to start. Because of you, I got to see my beloved Lady Vols three times! Because of you, I ended my softball career with a State Championship. Because of you, I have a lifetime of memories from our times in Tawas. Because of you, I learned that life is too short to waste. Because of you, Stacy......
Cynthia Woodard O'Neill
August 20, 2014
Hey Sis. You will truly be missed. You were such a big part of my life growing up. I admired you so much. We had so much fun together. I wish we would have been able to reconnect the past few years in person. I was so excited when I found you and David on FaceBook. We had a lot of great conversations catching up. Please tell Dad hi and I miss him. I love you always. Till we meet again you will always be in my thoughts. ((((HUGS))))
Pat & Patty Johnson
August 20, 2014
Stacy: You sure rocked left field! PJ misses listening to your booming car stereo :) I'll see you later, on the best kept ballfield we'll ever play on.
Love you girl, Patty & Peej
Chuck Martin
August 20, 2014
Stacy, I will never forget all the softball, and just friend memories we have! I will miss you more than words can say, some day we will pass the yucka jar around again, thx for all the great times with team last call, you will be missed, this is not goodbye but see ya later, love ya, chuck Martin AKA RICO #69
Aaron Antonello
August 20, 2014
My Thought and prayers are with the McClellan family at a time of terrible loss.
Jessi Jones
August 20, 2014
I will forever remember your kindness, selflessness, love for animals and sports, your full heart, and the way you looked out for others. May you be in peace and forever in our hearts.
Naomi Dillingham
August 20, 2014
My dearest Stacy, I will miss you more than you will ever know, I wish I could squeeze you one more time, tell you I love you and say goodbye.....you brought a family of girls together that will be family forever I can't thank you enough for that, you will always live on in our memories, I love you Beatrice! I will see you again some sunny day!!!!
Michele Paulic
August 20, 2014
Thoughts and prayers to the Mcclallen family I have heard many wonderful things about stacey from her brother David he adored her . God bless your family
Tracy Lindstrom
August 20, 2014
My first memory of Stacy was on the ball field. Her and her family had recently moved to Michigan, and she was looking for a team to join. She instantly became part of my family. Our first game in Honor, she quickly got ejected for throwing her bat and swearing. Throughout the next fifteen years, we graciously changed roles from me being to the coach, to her excelling at being my coach, to her personal development of creating a MASA Champion team. I have countless more Sisters because of her. I know also have an extended family with the McClellan's. She was there for me at my lowest as I was for her. I am so grateful to have been able to call her my best friends and for my girls to have the best "Uncle Stacy" in the world. She touched me like no other, and I will miss her every day until we meet again on another ball field. I love you Pookie! Crack one over the fence for me!
Carolyn Taylor
August 20, 2014
Stacy was the bond that brought many of us together. She loved life and was good to so many people. The CSWs were and always will be a part of my life and I will never forget you. Actually you are tattooed on my back so I really won't but that's how important we all were!! I miss you greatly and am glad you are now in heaven watching out for us.
Ashley Ayers
August 20, 2014
There are no words to console a broken heart. Stacy was one of the kindest, most selfless, loving people I have ever met in my life. I knew the moment she walked into my life that we would have a bond that could not be broken. I am thankful for the memories we made, I am thankful for the time we got to share our lives with one another. You were a wonderful friend & I could not have asked for more. Anyone who had the pleasure of meeting you, will never forget you. You touched the lives of many, Stacy. I'll never stop missing you & you'll ALWAYS be my "Michigan Love Bug". Spread your wings.
Rest easy, my friend.
I love you.
-Your Shore Girl
Marlene Hill
August 20, 2014
You are...and will be missed.
Mallory Craft
August 20, 2014
My dearest Stacy-
I miss you so much, as you were taken way too soon. You were a great friend to me and I will never forget the memories we've had together. I cherish our time spent together and am extremely happy you were a part of my life. Rest in Paradise.
With love.
April McCollum
August 20, 2014
I am sad to even have to write this. Stacy and I went through many things together living in Van Wert, the better part is that we both overcame the adversity. Stacy and I played softball together since we were probably 8 or 9 yrs old all through high school. We got back in touch over fb as many did. We talked several times about life, love and well life lol. She was a very outgoing and lovable woman and even with all her heath issues she stayed her positive self. She had made plans a few times to come to see me in Miami and relax and jus rejuvenate.. Sadly that never happened, BUT this Saturday at sunset I will be at the beach letting a lantern go in her honor. Keep that diamond clean girl I heard they play ball 24/7 and we are going to get dirty all day... May you rest in paradise Stacy.. May God keep his loving arms around your family.... Love ya Stacy...
Rachel Fehrenbach
August 20, 2014
Pat and David,
There are no words that could take away the pain of a loved one leaving us too soon. I love you two so much. I loved Stacy as a "cousin" and have great memories being part of your family. We will remember all the good times and learn of how many peoples lives she has touched. She was a giver and loved to make people smile. She will always be loved my many, many people. Love always??
Pamela Breithaupt
August 20, 2014
My condolences to the McCellan family and their pets. I am always touched by how close you all are. As a big sister myself, I always admired how well Stacy filled that role and took such good care of my friend David
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My thoughts and prayers are with you,
Pam Breithaupt
Jodi Humphries
August 20, 2014
I will always remember you Stacy. And I will be there for Pat and David for anything that they need. You are in good hands now, and I know that someday soon, we will meet again. Love and miss you lots....
Vicki McClellan
August 20, 2014
I still can't believe she is gone. keeping all of you in my prayers! we love you!
Carol Ann Long
August 19, 2014
Pat, David, and family of Stacy.
I am so deeply saddened and sorry on the loss of Stacy, I know how much your daughter, and sister meant the world to you both, and I know she will always remain in your heart and your thoughts as she will live on in all our hearts that she touched.
I will always remember her beautiful , genuine, caring smile.
God Bless,
Carol Ann
Bobbi Jo Babik
August 19, 2014
Prayers go out to Stacy's family, Sue and many many friends. I will miss you Stacy on the field, in the bowling alley, life in general. I will be throwing your bowling ball with pride this year. Rest in peace my friend. love you, Bobbi Jo Babik
Terri Goodwin
August 18, 2014
Keeping Sue and your family in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time! Desperados & OWTH teams all great memories and a "State Champion" you will always be girl! Team Ohio it is.... just for you! RIP Stacy
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