STEPHEN BLAUNER

1953 - 2020

STEPHEN BLAUNER obituary, 1953-2020, New York, NY

STEPHEN BLAUNER

1953 - 2020

BORN

1953

DIED

2020

STEPHEN BLAUNER Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jan. 26, 2020.
BLAUNER--Stephen J. Of New York City, Pine Plains, NY and Cuernavaca, Morelos, Mexico, died unexpectedly on January 16, 2020, in Cuernavaca. He was 66 years old. Born on March 5, 1953, in New York City to Allan S. Blauner and Betty Berman Blauner, Stephen was a lifelong New Yorker. Outspoken, brilliant and fearless at work or play, Stephen lived life with great zest. Stephen received his JD from Georgetown University Law Center in 1978. He began his law practice at Milbank, Tweed, Hadley & McCloy in New York City, rising to partner in the Firm's Financial Restructuring Group. For Stephen, no issue was too complex; no problem too challenging. He was strong and aggressive with an agile legal mind and boundless energy. Stephen's depth of experience and knowledge in bankruptcy, financial restructuring and legal ethics made him a unique resource for clients and colleagues alike. He also served as Ethics counsel to the Firm and chaired the New York State Bar Association's Committee on Ethics and Professional Responsibility. Stephen served as outside counsel to the Loan Syndications & Trading Association, an organization created to expand the liquidity of the leveraged loan market. He developed the trading forms and procedures used for trading distressed loan assets in the secondary market. Stephen left Milbank for the hedge fund world in 2005. At the time of his death, he was Managing Director and Restructuring Specialist at Solus Alternative Asset Management LP doing what he loved. An avid equestrian, Stephen rode with the Millbrook Hunt and competed at local show jumping competitions. Later, he was introduced to "eventing," the demanding test of horse and rider in the combined disciplines of dressage, cross country and stadium jumping. Eventing became his focus. Stephen organized ownership syndicates to purchase and provide top horses for U.S. Eventing High Performance athletes on the U.S. Equestrian Team. Two of these horses competed with their riders in the London and Rio de Janeiro Olympics. But Stephen recognized that talented young eventing riders must be identified and supported. He was instrumental in the formation of the MARS Bromant Rising Program to assist with coaching, training, education and support for up-and-coming riders under the age of 25. These future champions will be Stephen's legacy. He is survived by his partner of 40 years, Kenneth G. Shelley; his brother, Peter (Mary) of Coatsville, PA; his sister, Patsy Fox (George) and children of Fairfield, CT, and stepmothers Joanna H. Blauner and Loretta S. Blauner, as well as countless friends and colleagues. A celebration of Stephen's life will be held in the Spring. Donations may be made in Stephen's memory: United States Eventing Association Foundation, 525 Old Waterford Road NW, Leesburg, VA 20176. Please designate "Steve Blauner/MBRP" on the check.

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January 28, 2020

Drusilla Malavase posted to the memorial.

January 27, 2020

Ed Moran posted to the memorial.

January 27, 2020

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Drusilla Malavase

January 28, 2020

Peter,

Thanks to your whole family for sharing your wonderful brother with the equestrian worlds of Eventing and Foxhunting. One of his fans and former Millbank lawyer is a longtime classmate of mine (both boarding school and college) sent me this link feeling sure I knew him. I wasn't that lucky but I certainly knew about his generosity to USEA and about his connection to you. Truly a life well lived.

Ed Moran

January 27, 2020

Steve and I did a lot of good work together when we were both in Oklahoma City in the mid-eighties. I have spoken to him for advice and laughs occasionally since then. I have many fine memories of Steve and many smiles. I find it difficult to believe he's left us to fight the battles without him. You fought the hard fight well, my friend.

Patti Ryan- Andersen

January 27, 2020

Hold on to your memories.

Joe Inman

January 27, 2020

Ken. Lots of hugs. No words can make this easier. Joe inman

Franca Mannino

January 27, 2020

My friend and colleague. Also my dancing partner at parties!! Always a smile and always a gentlemen. You will be sorely missed.

January 26, 2020

Heartfelt condolences to the family. May God give your heart peace and comfort.

Denise Gargano

January 26, 2020

Dear Ken,

Please accept my sincerest sympathy on Stephen's passing. May the memories of him you hold so dear, help lessen the pain as time passes by. I always loved working for Steve and had the utmost respect for him. You are in my thoughts and prayers!
With Love, Denise Gargano

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