Stephen William Buckner, Jr.

Stephen William Buckner, Jr. obituary, Chicago, IL

Stephen William Buckner, Jr.

Stephen Buckner, Jr. Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Aug. 4, 2025.
Stephen Buckner Jr. 57, of Chicago, IL, (formerly of Homewood) passed away suddenly on July 25, 2025. He was the cherished son of Stephen Buckner, Sr. (Sally) and Carole Buckner, and the beloved brother of the late Calvin Buckner.

Stephen is survived by his sister Lori Fordon and her husband Mark, as well as his nephews-Mark Jr., Charlie, and Jake Fordon.

Stephen had many wonderful friends through all walks of life, and notably his long-time confidante and mentor, Marcia Clark.

He leaves behind a legacy of quiet strength, kindness, and a wild sense of humor.

Stephen was an incredibly talented photographer, and most enjoyed black and white photography. He was also an avid Chicago sports fan and UGA fan (Go Dawgs) and ardent fisherman.

Stephen was known for his big smile and even bigger charm. He had a gift for making everyone he met feel special-his warmth and charisma lit up every room. Straight out of high school, he enlisted in the Army where he received numerous excellence awards for his skills as a TOW gunner. Determined to shape his future, Stephen put himself through University of Georgia on the GI Bill, earning a master's degree with high honors and the prestigious President's Award.

His passion for teaching and mentorship took root at McIntosh School, where he taught English and coached the Lady Chiefs soccer team to an unforgettable undefeated season and State Championship in 2003. He received numerous awards for Excellence in Soccer Coaching. He later taught Drama, touching the lives of countless students who still fondly remember him, even two decades later. Stephen's creative talents found a new outlet when he joined the IATSE (#476) Union, using his carpentry skills to help build sets for television and film.

Those who knew Stephen will remember his generous heart, quick wit, and the positive impact he had on so many. His presence will be deeply missed, but his spirit lives on in the stories and memories shared by family, friends, and students.

Private services will be held by the family. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Stephen's memory to a charity of choice that reflects his compassionate spirit.

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Dana Aronson

Earlier today

I was in Steve´s class at H-F. I remember him as friendly and funny. I don´t have any stories to share - none that I can remember anyway. I just wanted to share my condolences with his family and friends.

Tammy Lynn Doyle

Earlier today

RIP dear friend you are sorely missed. Keep on shining that beautiful smile from the heavens

Laura Dawson Ullrich

Earlier today

Stephen was one of my very first soccer coaches in Athens, GA. I have such great memories of him in his Nisssan Z, managing to put up with a (very) rowdy group of teenage Athens girls. I was so sorry to hear of his passing, and I pray for peace and strength for those who love him.

Stephanie Enyart

Earlier today

I had the privilege of being one of Mr. Buckner´s drama students at McEachern, and his influence has stayed with me ever since. He encouraged each of us to take on roles that pushed our boundaries and helped us grow as individuals and performers. He gave every student his full attention, leading with grace, patience, and genuine care.

His humor was contagious, and his smile lit up any room he entered. He created a space where we felt safe to express ourselves, take creative risks, and build confidence both on and off the stage. It´s difficult to put into words the depth of loss felt by those of us who were shaped by his kindness and talent. A life and spirit like his is impossible to forget. He will always be remembered - not just for what he taught, but for how he made each of us feel seen, valued, and inspired.

It was a pleasure to have known such an outstanding soul. God bless his family and friends during this difficult time, and may he rest in eternal peace.

Carl Yukawa

Earlier today

You were a great friend, we often had each other´s back. You will be missed brother.

Daniel Fernandez

Earlier today

Fun guy always smiling even in bad nights, has been trying to sell me his comics for the longest as they were dropped to him. Our conversations were always comics because he didn´t know much of them and I would share the delights of what he had no expensive or special just reading them was my adventure and he chuckled it as I told the story of them.

That is what I known him more beside hanging out at four treys were neighbors.

Me just trying to chill, while Godzilla is rampaging through a city.

Sifu Techs, Sifu Dan

Franklin Green

Earlier today

I´m stunned at Coach Buckner´s loss at such an early age. As the choral director at McIntosh while Steven was teaching drama, we worked on musicals together and he was brilliant at leading teenagers. I particularly remember his productions of Godspell and Nunsense. Every young woman in Nunsense went on to get a professional degree in music or became a professional actress or performer. We tried to keep each other out of trouble, but both of us failed at that. I was amazed by his girl´s soccer teams, which were near the state championship every year. I attended many games and watched his students fly about the field taking apart other team´s defenses. I seem to hear his voice just now saying, "I´ll see you later, Doc," and it comforts me. - Franklin Green

Elisa N

Earlier today

Your smile and kindness left an imprint on so many. Grateful we were friends from so many years ago. I am so sorry you left us - May love and peace surround you in the comfort of knowing you are forever in many hearts. Until we meet again my friend. Rest easy.

Sandra White

Yesterday

Thoughts and prayers for you all!!

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