Stephen Deutsch

Stephen Deutsch

Stephen Deutsch Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Apr. 28, 2023.
Stephen Rudolph Deutsch, 81, of La Mesa, passed away on March 17, 2023. Born and raised in Miami, Florida, Stephen was preceded in death by his beloved wife, Vivienne Diane Deutsch. Stephen is survived by his sister, Dorothy, her husband, William Reulein, their son William and his wife, Mary Ellen, and their children; by his daughter Christine, her children and her husband, Damien Gerard, and by his daughter Judith and her husband, Jeffrey Coleman.
Stephen graduated from the University of Miami and became a high school teacher. He attended a math institute at SDSU where he met the love of his life, Vivienne. He soon moved to San Diego, where he and Vivienne married, lovingly raised two daughters, and built their life together.
Stephen retired as an adult school administrator. He loved spending his free time at dog beach, Padres games, and playing practical jokes on his family and friends. He was the source of great laughter. He was known throughout his life as kind, generous, funny, and most of all, loving.
A service will be held on May 6, 11:00 am, at Holy Cross Catholic Cemetery in San Diego. In lieu of flowers, please consider donating to an animal shelter of your choice.

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Roxy Marck

May 2, 2023

Here's a funny short story. Steve and I and our dogs and about twenty other people with their dogs would meet-up at Dog's Beach every morning. Don't know for how many years. But we did...usually dressed in sloppy old clothes. One day I walk into the Brig in La Mesa with a group of my work friends. Steve is there with his. And he looks sharp! He's dressed in expensive looking casual wear. I'm in a business suit. Not thinking I greet him with, "Hey Steve! So that's how you look with real clothes on." Steve doesn't miss a beat with his, "You too!" response. The patio area went silent for a moment as jaws hit the table. We all had a good, long laugh. And so I will always remember Steve with a laugh.

Gilberto Carrillo

April 29, 2023

Stephen Deutsch was my math teacher at Valhalla High School during my freshman year with a good sense of humor in which I'll never forget those days. I enjoyed chatting with him even when he's not teaching. I send my hearts and prayers to his family and friends who will miss him very much. Thanks for everything.

Marley Kay Maddock

April 29, 2023

Steve was like a father to me. He is very missed in my everyday life.
I know Steve & Viv are looking down and watching over me

Craig Myrom

April 28, 2023

Judi, I am so sorry to read of your Dad's passing!

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