Stephen Kulik

1950 - 2022

Stephen Kulik obituary, 1950-2022, Worthington, MA

Stephen Kulik

1950 - 2022

BORN

1950

DIED

2022

Stephen Kulik Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Dec. 22, 2022.
STEPHEN KULIK

Worthington, MA - Stephen "Steve" Kulik, 72, died at home on December 18th, surrounded by his family. The cause was colon cancer, first diagnosed in 2019.

A long-time State Representative who brought a broad rural perspective to the Massachusetts Legislature, Steve was known as a strong advocate for the 27 small towns he represented in the First Franklin District.

"I guess how I would like most to be remembered is that I brought a sense of how the political structure in the state didn't necessarily have to ignore our part of the state-that if we had legislators working together as a coalition that we could get a lot of stuff done," Steve said in a Nov. 17 interview at his home. "And being a part of that coalition was really important to me because I think the best results are collaborative. And they result in such long-lasting benefits for people."

Steve was born Aug. 3, 1950 in Boston to Phyllis (McFarland) Kulik and the late Stanley Kulik and grew up in Newton.

He and his wife Suzanne Thaxter (Brown) Kulik, who celebrated their 50 th anniversary July 1, met while marching from Cambridge to Boston to protest the Vietnam War as part of the October Moratorium in 1969. Steve said it wasn't out of the question he could meet a like- minded person in that crowd. The same went for Suzy, who noticed Steve's long blond hair, corduroy jacket and red beard. "And I went, oh, I'll march alongside him," she said.

Their family today includes a son, Samuel Kulik (Emily Giglierano) and daughter, Elizabeth Watson (Matthew Watson); grandchildren, June and Aeolia; brother, David Kulik (Monica Kulik) and mother, Phyllis Kulik.

He graduated from Newton High School before attending community college and, much later, University of Massachusetts Amherst through its University Without Walls.

Steve and Suzy moved to Worthington in 1976, where they found lifelong friends among the locals and fellow transplants. Their intent was to build their own house using Steve's rudimentary knowledge of carpentry and books Suzy had read on the topic. With the advice and help of hilltown contractors, they completed the house in 5 months (or 45 years, depending on one's definition of "completed").

His inspiration to get involved in local politics began when he attended the Annual Town Meeting the spring they moved to Worthington and was "totally blown away that people could actually participate in town government openly." Though a newcomer, he was elected to the Planning Board in 1979 and Select board four years later, serving until 1993.

"I guess it goes back to my roots on how Suzy and I met, and seeing at the national level you could have large demonstrations and so forth, and did it really make a difference with anything? Not really," Steve said. "But you could do something in a place like Worthington on issues that mattered to people like their schools and their roads, the buildings, their budgets, that sort of thing."

Steve's time on the selectboard brought him up close with impactful small-town issues such as school budgeting and water contamination from the use of the pesticide Temik. While attending meetings in other towns, Steve recognized they, too, were stretched thin dealing with the same issues and lack of money. "We really needed to act regionally as much as possible and begin to work as a collaborative of towns," he said.

The year 1993 was a significant one for Steve, when he won re-election as selectman, was named president of the Massachusetts Municipal Association, and decided to run for First Franklin District State Representative after Jay Healy's departure to be State Agriculture Commissioner. After a 58-vote victory in the Democratic primary, Steve went on to win in the October special election, serving until his retirement in January 2019.

"I saw an opportunity to bring attention to everything I'd seen since moving to Worthington in terms of school needs, funding, roads-a lot of things that were neglected by state programs," he said. "We were taxpayers out here too but we hadn't gotten our fair share. Why was that?"

Throughout his career, Steve found success through collaboration and fostering strong relationships with his constituents and colleagues alike, regularly driving 25,000 miles in a year while visiting the towns in his district and commuting to the State House. He endlessly enjoyed the character and scenic beauty of the region on those trips, and appreciated the support of his family when he would spend nights in Boston.

"It has been a joy to live with someone who was in the place he was meant to be and had the job he was meant to do," Suzy Kulik said.

He recalled the long sessions during budget week. "I learned so much about how you can sit down at a negotiation table and get it done," he said. "I also learned how important it was to work with a variety of governors whether Republican or Democrat. We've had some good ones. I don't begrudge their party titles at all."

In the House, he rose to Vice Chair of Ways and Means Committee and started the Legislative Rural Caucus. Broadening his influence beyond Mass., he served on the Council of State Governments Executive Committee (Eastern region) and SARL, an American-Canadian organization of state and rural agricultural leaders.

Over the years, Steve's tenure in government was marked by a particular concern and effectiveness with constituent services, spending many hours on the phone and in person helping solve citizens' problems, large and small. Among the notable policies he sponsored were expanding broadband internet access for rural areas, co-creating the Food Policy Council, and establishing the land conservation tax credit. He was proud to support landmark state bills for universal health care and the legalization of same-sex marriage.

Following his retirement from public office, Steve served on the boards of CISA, Double Edge Theatre, Cooley-Dickinson Hospital and Massachusetts Chapter of The Nature Conservancy.

He was a Justice of the Peace from 1993 to 2021, and took great pleasure in facilitating 25 local weddings, including those of his children.

Steve had a natural ability to balance family life with a complex work schedule.

His greatest pleasure was seeing his children thrive in the environment he and Suzy had created. The addition to the family of their spouses and then the arrival of grandchildren was deeply satisfying. Annual family trips to Bethany Beach, Del. with Suzy's family and frequent vacations on the coast of Maine complemented Steve's love of his favorite place, Worthington. He found inspiration and comfort in nature, authoring two Audubon Society field guides: Natural Places of the Northeast ,Coastal and Inland.

It's appropriate that a concert-1975's outdoor benefit for the local health center featuring Arlo Guthrie-was the reason for Steve's first visit to the town he would call home for the next 45 years. He attended more than 1,000 concerts in his lifetime and could recall the details of all of them, whether historic (the Beatles, Woodstock, Miles Davis, Bob Dylan, and the Rolling Stones) or at local venues (UMass, Tanglewood, and the Dream Away Lodge). He shared his love and knowledge of music with his brother and son, both professional musicians who Steve got to hear often.

A lifelong Red Sox fan, Steve attended the 1967 World Series and joyfully chaperoned the 2004 World Series trophy on its tour through the towns in his district. For over 40 years he would read the daily box scores to track the players on his fantasy baseball team. His club, the Danzig Bears, were 6-time champions of the "League of Nations," which was chartered way back in 1985.

A memorial service will be held in the spring, Steve's favorite season. Memorial donations may be made in his name to the Worthington Historical Society [worthingtonhistoricalsociety.org, PO Box 12, Worthington, MA, 01098); the Hilltown Land Trust [hilltownlandtrust.org, 332 Bullitt Rd, Ashfield, MA 01330); or Pioneer Valley Jazz Shares (jazzshares.org).]. Please go to Czelusniakfuneralhome.com for online condolences and tribute book.

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January 5, 2023

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Amy Ruth Murphy (formerly Pedersen)

January 5, 2023

How saddened I am to learn of Steve's passing. During my twenty-two years as a Worthington resident, he was of much help to me -- as he was to so many -- in several issues concerning our small town's overall welfare. The Yankee Rowe hearing, when the NRC's deigned to let the public have its say, stretched to a two-night affair, due to so many citizens anxious to speak. I recall how reassured I was, in knowing that Steve understood the seriousness of the situation. My sincerest sympathy to Steve's family; hopefully there is comfort in knowing that he was so much in the right place, at the right time, when a small town benefitted greatly from his dedication and insight. We are all in his debt.

Marc Draisen

January 3, 2023

I was deeply saddened to learn of Steve's passing. I am honored to have served with Steve in the Massachusetts House during the 1990s, and to have advocated with him on many important causes -- especially land use and food equity -- in the decades since then. Some may have equaled Steve's generous nature and earnest commitment to the public good, but I have never met anyone who surpassed him in these qualities -- and I expect I never will.

Len Lubinsky

January 2, 2023

Steve was a thoughtful and helpful connection between Boston and the people and institutions of Western Massachusetts.

I miss Western Massachusetts. Part of that loss now is missing Steve Kulik.

With the greatest admiration and respect

Julie W. Webster

January 1, 2023

Western MA lost an important voice. Steve was an advocate for education and stopped by Deerfield Elementary not only a representative but as a friend. He knew everyones name, greeted us all with a smile and was a good listener. Thank you Steve for making Western MA a safer place for us all..You will be greatly missed.....you were the people's politician!

Bob Durand

December 31, 2022

Suzy, Sorry to hear about Steve! Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your Family.I had the honor of serving with Steve in the legislature and there was no finer example of a Great Public Servant. A real gentleman that was grounded in truth and knew where he came from. What a loss to us all. Love and Sympathy, Bob Durand

Group of 10 Memorial Trees

Joe & Vicki Kulik

Planted Trees

Jessica N

December 24, 2022

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David Cummings

December 24, 2022

I met Steve many times as we attended
town meetings. I lived in Russell from 2001
to 2016. This was my first introduction, meeting other town officials. I was on Russell Town Finance Board.
I Hope the remaining family members gather to "HONOR" Steve's - great achievements over his career.
.
At some point in our lives, we fulfill out
our dreams - Steve did more than most.
.
Dave Cummings
Formerly of Russell, MA
Retired to Laurel, DE

Carole Moore

December 23, 2022

Suzy: I am so, so sorry to hear of Steve´s death. What an amazing guy, and what a loss for your family. I am so glad I saw the two of you briefly last summer at Bethany. Sending blessings for the time ahead without him.
Carole Moore

Florence and Bobby Dodge

December 23, 2022

Suzy, Sam and family, It was a pleasure to work with Steve, be it plowing his driveway and he would come out just to say Hi. Or his additional help in pushing a bill through at the State level for one of our causes with the Snowmobile Assoc. He was our choice, Hands down for Grand Marshall in Worthington's 250 Parade and was excited to do so. Well done my friend

Pete & Lene McLean

December 23, 2022

Dear Suzy & Family,
We are thinking of you at this most difficult time.
We hope that your wonderful memories help you to deal with your loss. What a wonderful Legacy!

Alice Robbins

December 23, 2022

Dear Suzy,
I am so saddened to hear of your great loss. I've always felt a connection because of our youth orchestra history together, and I've rejoiced in all the professional news about Steve. I was also touched the time you came to our benefit concert in Shutesbury .

I'd love to write a paper card, but the PO is so automatic these days, I don't trust it to be delivered without an exact address.
Much love,
Alice Robbins

Shirley Kimball New bern, NC

December 22, 2022

Susan, so sorry to hear about your husband.

Ann Hamilton

December 22, 2022

Steve was a good friend to Franklin County and me. I have always enjoyed his commitment to his constituents and his community. My condolences to Suzy and the family. He will be missed.

Gerry & Char Bartlett

December 22, 2022

Susy and family, Gerry & I were so saddened to hear of Steve"s passing! Our heartfelt sympathy to you & your family! We will always cherish the friendship we had with you & Steve! You are all in our thoughts & prayers! Gerry & Char Bartlett !

Shauneen O´Donnell Kocot

December 22, 2022

You will be missed my friend. Thank you for everything! Your support these past five years was appreciated more than you know. Give the big guy a hug for me.

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