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Stephen Mapes Obituary
March 10, 1953 - December 11, 2024
Stephen Daryl Mapes, 71, passed away peacefully on December 11, 2024, surrounded by his loving family. Born on March 10, 1953, Stephen was a devoted son, brother, father, uncle, grandfather, and father-in-law, whose kindness and warmth touched everyone he met.
Stephen was the cherished son of Barbara Mapes and the late Daryl Mapes. Recently predeceased by his brother Kenneth Mapes, he is survived by his brothers Randall and David Mapes.
Stephen's greatest joy in life was his family. He was a dedicated and loving father to Amanda Mapes, Patrick Mapes, and Stephanie Arnold. His heart was full when spending time with his grandchildren, Laila and Kaiden, who brought him endless happiness. He warmly welcomed Katie Quam and Kevin Arnold into the family as treasured in-laws, embracing them with the same love and care. Stephen also maintained a lifelong bond with his former wife, Maureen Mapes, the mother of two of his children.
Professionally, Stephen built a distinguished career at Fidelity National Financial, where he worked since 1988. He took great satisfaction in his work and deeply valued the meaningful relationships he fostered with colleagues, who became a second family to him.
Stephen's passions extended well beyond his career. He found immense joy in golfing, boating, playing co-ed softball, and following professional sports. Some of his happiest moments were shared with his brothers, attending racing events and building cherished memories together.
In recent years, Stephen demonstrated remarkable courage in the face of a rare form of eye cancer. His participation in a groundbreaking clinical trial in Philadelphia exemplified his resilience and desire to make a difference for others battling similar challenges.
Stephen's strength, devotion to family, and enthusiasm for life will forever be remembered by those who had the privilege of knowing him. May his memory be a source of comfort and inspiration to all who loved him.
Please join us for his Memorial Service and Celebration of Life on January 11, 2025 from 11am - 2pm (food and beverages will be served).
East Lawn Memorial Park
5757 Greenback Lane
Sacramento, CA 95841
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Deidra Thomas
January 11, 2025
Steve has always been about family, my first memory of him was how he took care of his family and how he was very present in every milestone of his family's lives. You will be extremely missed. Love DeeDee, Cornel, Christian and Jaidyn
Tracy Ferguson
January 11, 2025
One of my favorite memories was watching Steve as a father. He would beam with pride when we would be altogether with his family celebrating many occasions. He was a good role model to them regarding supporting the family and making sure to create memories with them. He especially enjoyed taking everyone, including the dogs, in his boat to enjoy time together.
Jeannie Alvarado
January 11, 2025
Art and I were so sorry to hear of his passing. The Mapes´ family are all a very kind and loving family. Prayers to the family and hope you all find peace.
Norma Jean Vargas/Fidelity Title/San Antonio, Texas
January 9, 2025
God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
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Dave Mapes
January 7, 2025
Steve was a Strong presence in his family's lives and his friends and co-workers. He would help anyone who asked him. He loved sports board games boating skiing and traveling just to name a few. He was a great brother to Densie and I and a wonderful Uncle to our children. He was a generous and giving person he will be missed by all who knew him. God Bless you brother I miss you so much.
Maureen Mapes
January 2, 2025
We have a lifetime of love and memories together. Even divorce couldn´t keep us apart. I don´t know how to do this life without you, but it looks like I´m going to have to. Until we meet again. Love you always and forever. Love, Mo
Katie Quam
December 30, 2024
I´ll never forget the first comment you ever made to me Love you and miss you more than I can explain.
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